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@RichardWhyte

4 жыл бұрын

Hey 👋🏾

@ibraheemelajlouny5119

4 жыл бұрын

First

@anamikagovindrao6473

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@ruppysuppy3565

4 жыл бұрын

Win. Actually realized i sometimes end up doing pt 8

@TayshimaDABs

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, i agreed with this video on being a hater because I was raised around hate, in my family that’s not around me now. I’ve been isolated for years, I was just diagnosed sane, but I have STPD, etc ptsd stress mental illnesses I cannot control, plus health issues I’m focusing on to fix to get healthier and wealthier in my long term lifestyle changes goal I have.✌🏿🙃

I was subconsciously becoming a hater without even realizing it. I'm glad i clicked in this video

@rebelcipher

4 жыл бұрын

Twan Jones Same here. This video really made me think about who I was becoming.

@BishopEddie5443

4 жыл бұрын

WOW! I never thought about how white people see their victims of oppression. Thanks Alux!

@rebelcipher

4 жыл бұрын

Bishop Eddie Why’d you have to make it a race thing 🙄

@Mikemestergaming

4 жыл бұрын

Thats why I came

@PrincessQ-fj9ly

Жыл бұрын

Me too. I actually relate to 1 or 2 of these. Not the nasty ones of course but the ones I never noticed.

"Haters gonna hate,players gonna play,stay focused on your game."

@marksilla8276

4 жыл бұрын

For a minute there I thought you were going to comment the whole "Shake it off" chorus

@j.i.s.l178

4 жыл бұрын

😹😹😹😹.... 😉 Peace and Love

@j.i.s.l178

4 жыл бұрын

... 🍿... It reminds me of when we were in elementary school .... "it's not me, it's you ... tralalalere, mirror effect ...." But it reminds me of a scene from the mentalist too ...

You guys really called me out on some negative things I never noticed having. I'll watch this once a month to keep myself in check

So Alux has enhanced my new year by informing me that I’m a hater that’s married to a gold digger. Niceeee

@richguest

4 жыл бұрын

D Mo a hater because you’re married to a gold digger, perhaps! 😃

@marcogiorgini8566

4 жыл бұрын

How's that for a valuable New year present??

@BishopEddie5443

4 жыл бұрын

WOW! I never thought about how white people see their victims of oppression. Thanks Alux!

@dmo4835

4 жыл бұрын

Rich Guest hahah, exactly

These are actually signs of losing out in life.

@jaxxie

4 жыл бұрын

Does that make one a hater?

@Yaz-pn9py

4 жыл бұрын

And signs of a loser.

@Manuel-gu9ls

4 жыл бұрын

Kenneth Benning ouch 😖😖

@Manuel-gu9ls

4 жыл бұрын

Daniel Teichler I think you need it more than I do

@Manuel-gu9ls

4 жыл бұрын

Don't believe that loser and hater are different but either of the two are better than what traits that made us based on struggles

Alux hitting the brick right in the face. As usual.🤣

@RichardWhyte

4 жыл бұрын

If you ever want a confirmation you’re a loser, come here😂

@TheBeautifultaurus

4 жыл бұрын

I love it!

@6lemans10

4 жыл бұрын

I can't take anymore bricks in the face.😄 I only have 32 teeth.

16 is a lesson I just learned towards the end of 2019 when I moved from Houston TX to Duluth MN. I realized in Houston but as in depth. Sometimes we attract what we're used to and necessarily what we want in life. It took a lot of self reflection that if you've been following the channel for a while is never ending. Right now I'm doing 1000x better than I was doing in Houston. I'm in much better place spirituality and socially. My life is aligning more and more with my goals everyday. Eventually I will be able to more and more people achieve their goals as well and the cycle will continue. WIN!!!! LOL ✨💩✨🍄

Everyone gets these points in their mind at some point of time but I am glad I fought these thoughts with one mantra "if I can't think good about someone let's not think bad about them"

@teddyburberry

4 жыл бұрын

🧡💥

Thank you Alux 👏🏾👏🏾💯 that’s why I love your channel you keep it real and straight to the point. They don’t put in the work for themselves They never happy for another persons success They’ll try to sabotage someone else’s success to make them feel good about themselves They’ll call someone else a hater but they try to hide it. Successful people don’t have to brag or show off their goals they just do it and put in the work. Insecurities are loud

The best revenge is massive success show your success to your haters

@koshalpandey5898

4 жыл бұрын

Sir, I would politely disagree with that mindset because... If the driving force of your success is 'revenge' then 2 things will happen: 1. There are very high chances that the person won't succeed in the first place because success requires positivity & will power from within (here the person themselves are the source) these things make sure that a person learns from their failure, revenge is a negative force (here the hater & it's hate is the source) which would worsen your mood, even if you fail once. 2. Let's say that the person somehow makes it & succeeded. What are the chances that the hater will stop hating? There is a cliche that goes like this, "Haters Gonna Hate", it's a cliche because it's true. Even if you succeed, the haters will keep hating because that's what they do. In fact, successful people are often the most trolled & hated people, (alux gave examples as well). But here's the true problem with this mindset... Once you realize that your quest for revenge was futile, you would get upset even though you have become "successful". This happened because you lost the true essence & motive of success that is "to grow & be better for your own well being" it happened due to your quest to get revenge from those haters. I hope sir that you have understood by now, why this mindset is not good for somebody who wants to succeed. Name a successful person who succeeds because they wanted revenge & prove the haters wrong. You might not be able to come up with a name because every successful person has had a bigger purpose to succeed. Bill Gates & Steve Jobs wanted to change the way we consume media. Elon Musk changed the way we bought things & our outlook toward electric cars. Jeff Bezos wanted to have a store that sold anything & everything. There are countless other examples as well. Conclusion: Haters Gonna Hate, so there is no use of using revenge as fuel to get success. Instead spend time to introspect yourself & understand what things will truly satisfy you, Revenge? Or The Pursuit to grow & be better every day. There's a great book on this, it's name is "The Rudest Book Ever". You should read it, sir. Have a nice day sir :).

@koshalpandey5898

4 жыл бұрын

@@yunlongji8879 Yeah buddy! :) That's exactly what I meant through my comment (I know it was a bit over elaborative as a comment so, sorry for that).

@yunlongji8879

4 жыл бұрын

@@koshalpandey5898 OMG, I was about to reply that guy, let me re-post it. anyway I kind inspired by your comment

@yunlongji8879

4 жыл бұрын

if the revenge is your motivation to success, you will fail more dramatically than your haters

@SanjayTripathiGlobalSpeaker

4 жыл бұрын

@@koshalpandey5898 take this Revenge positively. you can not satisfy everyone so satisfy yourself first because you are the person who can change your life and nobody else.

Thank you Alux for helping me realize that comparing yourself to others shows a sign of having a hater characteristic.

These signs I wouldn't consider being a "hater" but more of someone that is "stuck" in life. We are influenced by others. The people we associate with is a reflection of our character. The right words can be spoken but without proper leading to the correct path. These "haters" will continue to have the same out look on life. To win at life don't focus on others but take all your focus and build your life. You will receive the most precious and priceless reward at the end. Always show gratitude!

I didn’t know I was a hater until this. And I’ve decided for this to stop. Thanks, Alux! #win

@yannik8271

4 жыл бұрын

Great character!

@THEDONSTR8Fightah76

4 жыл бұрын

You suck, man. smh

@saifalam2030

4 жыл бұрын

@@THEDONSTR8Fightah76 you are also a hater

Win. I can identify with a number of the behaviours you presented in the video. I think back to my 20s and 30s, and actually remember specific events where I displayed some "Hater behaviour". It took many years to learn how to break those attitudes. It took the loss of a great job and a number of good friends, for me to wake-up and see the "I" was the problem. I am now in my 50's (okay X'er) and I continue to work every day to improve and bring value to my life. Cheers Phil

I read a book yesterday which said in order to change your life you have to change your thoughts. 1) I hate/I love 2)I can't/I can 3)Someday I'll/I will do this 4)I wish/ I will do this

I love how how savagely honest these videos are.

2/16 from 2013 1-because I had been trapped by a toxic family for many year, I had a hard time escaping them 16-I was shouting for help because of my reason for #1 not because I'm not a good person. I got married and moved to a different location with a good husband who had experienced the same horrible past as I did, now I'm 0/16 💃🏻 I hope those who had experienced the same hardship as I did are or would be able to escape and find happiness like I did 🦅 FLY HIGH WHILE SPREADING LOVE AND POSITIVITY!

I have my bs like everyone else. I identify with 1, 3, 4, 9, 10, 14, and 15. Being aware of those tendencies will help me improve. Thanks Alux!

*always said that being a hater and being inspired by somebody comes from the same place, but one is coal the other is diamond* 💪☻

@blandinospeaks1100

4 жыл бұрын

Black Vito - Moneyology Some people never understand that hating can either help someone or hurt someone

@BishopEddie5443

4 жыл бұрын

WOW! I never thought about how white people see their victims of oppression. Thanks Alux!

@sacrificedogculture

2 жыл бұрын

Nope doesn't come from the same place completely different phenomenon

That last point hit me hard. Never really thought about how unproductive hating a hater is and how it holds me back. Definitely something I need to change. Win

“Win” I’m mediocre and I hate myself for that. How does one deal with self hate?

@Ashbringer36

4 жыл бұрын

I know it’s easier said then done but ultimately unless we’re talking about a clinical depression of the very real variety. Then the only way to stop hating oneself for mediocrity is to either accept it or use that hate as fuel to push forward. A positive social circle also helps for sure.

I think so, part of my personality is a hatter and the other part is a hard worker, but I think isn't enough...

Point #1 is subjective because there is not a single person who was born that never felt that way at one point of their lives. Disappointment or regret, maybe. Hate? Not so much. The folks who are living their best lives have felt this. I think that what they realized is that whatever bad or disappointing thing that happened in the past does not have to define their present or future. Why? Because they chose to make sure that their present and future is something that they can be proud of. Who doesn’t want that? As with the other points? They are spot on.

I need to pass this video to some haters I know. Smh...😂

I'm glad to say that I am not and have never "Hated" on anybody. I've been around people I dont care for... but never hated... I want erybody to shine!

15 books on economics

Damn! Point one was like you were looking straight in my soul. Nevermind. Most points were. Except of 7, 8, 9, 10, 12, 13, 14 and 6. I always support others in hope at least they will make something out of their life. You can profit a lot from successful friends or family members if you think about it. They never did get there tho, but ar least I try to support them as much as possible. I know loooads of people to wich these points would apply, tho.

Title got me weak lmao this channel different 🔥

Win! Its human nature to hate a little bit. The goal is to stop yourself before it becomes out of hand, and transfer that hate into motivation. Thanks Alux!

Never healthy to hate!

@alux

4 жыл бұрын

It never is!

@bugeye8749

4 жыл бұрын

Hatred is the one thing that’s kept me going. It’s just as much a part of the human spectrum as love. Y’all choose love. Some of us choose hate. That’s life.

@chellebb1311

4 жыл бұрын

Bug Eye how did hatred keep you going? I’m just curious because it seems being a hater would be a miserable feeling. Always envious and negative. Doesn’t seem very progressive.

@bugeye8749

4 жыл бұрын

ChelleB B hatred strengthened my resolve to fight as an alternative to suicide in my late teens. It is the only reason I’m still here. I refuse to give up because of all the hatred I hold. Hate is the one thing that has *always* propelled me into action and keeps my confidence levels stable. I am not exaggerating. Unfortunately (but understandably so) Hate is not favoured in this mollycoddled weak snowflake society. It works for me. Maybe I’ve channeled it in a productive way.

@stuarthirsch

4 жыл бұрын

Hatred produces most of humanity's problems. Wish we could find a cure for the disease.

Because I’ve been Aluxer for a long time, and have been improving every year, I’m glad to see that I stayed on the course of a winner. However, I identified a customer of mine and I was always curious why he put down his wife, look for negative potential in others’ work, and yet he always tell me his big ideas that never seem to manifest. Now, I have a clearer understanding. Thank you.

These folks are hypmatized wit hatred..Never focus on haters, focus on yourselves...WIN...-Trusno🖤

Thanks ,, that is helpful in observing myself, I had some of it in the past but I feel better now since get over these some of these trials

"Haters are out for blood" lol so true. I love this channel ❤

I admit the last thing is kinda true for me, getting so caught up in my beliefs that I tend to think those who don’t agree, don’t know what they’re talking about. I’m teaching myself it’s not about being right all the time , agree to disagree and lose no energy over it .

The first one is my problem. I actually felt like that even as a kid. I plan on working harder on my goals to "win" in life. I don't know all the steps, but you gotta start somewhere.

I recently took some advice from Jeffree Star who said" CHECK ON YOURSELF " and I always remember that. I want to people to know their worth, the fact you can do better than you would it thought and that everything is possible, ALL IS WITHIN YOU!❤️

Comparing my self to others helped me get over my insecurities... You just have to look at both sides of things... There will always be those with more and less...

16. Don't keep hating anyone for a long time,Just try to forgive them in your heart... I think many usually do that

They mouth off and bully from a distance but they're quiet when you pass them...

I associated with 14 Clipping people's wings in a sense I love calling people out on their shit and giving them logical road blocks to support my callout. Not on achievements more so on excuses Appreciate you guys!

Wow Alux! For those who missed Mass your Sunday sermons are pretty efficient confrontations with our weaknesses, too! The first point you made really hit home, even though I keep my hateful thoughts to myself. Thank you for your great work!

Facts,I see alot of people actually acting like that too,talking about others behind there back,and I'm listening like dont you have a life to live why are you so worried about there,so I came to the conclusion that haters dont mind there business,because a true,because a true business man such as myself is to busy to be thinking about what somebody else is doing,so the best advice I can give any is live your life,and be around those who bring you up not down baby,because haters dont like to see you win,thanks alux,your videos are truly awakening,inspiring,and Humble.❤

Number 15 is the one I connected with the most especially when you bring up the point about school. I really feel that is the reason why I hate school and never plan on going back !!!

I'm 28 and I needed to hear this ...#2020Goals on the Way Up, but still Humble myself Amongst my Peers

Thank you Alice. A great video. I saw myself in some of Haters. Now I know what to work on. Have a blessed day.

There's a typo in number 14... But i like it... You've uploaded thousands of video's with good grammer, so what if one stands out...

@azhaganvivekanandhan2089

4 жыл бұрын

Only one to point out.

@EzequielMartin55vf

4 жыл бұрын

lol learn English

Some of these points got me to stop and think. It’s very possible I have some hater tendencies. In general I believe the people who know me wouldn’t think of me as a hater. However, what I will do is take these points and reflect on my own actions and see where I can improve in my life. #Win#

#1 I do I wish I would stay in school or persuit my dreams. Now at this point I am working to pursuit some of my dreams. Hey I'm a dreamer. But when you mentioned about talking about others and put them down, It hurt me because I've been through it matter the fact, someone start it gossip about me and everyone at the job look at me in a mean way. I used to be the best one, everyone look for me for help, and the gossip end it up by no one wanted to speak to me. Talking about others on their back just to put them down is wrong.

Thanks to Alux for bringing this piece of content!! 💙 On Alux's Channel, watching every single video is a #Win in itself!!

WIN.... My problem is number 16, and this is something that am working on... No need to hate back on your haters. It also makes you a hater..

Win! # 10 - you obsess to much on other people that you forget to obsess over yourself so true.

I quit worrying about haters when I realized that other people's opinions of me are none of my business.

Alux ... thank you guys with this one , I can say I see some signs of myself through some of these and I need to rid myself of some of these in order to succeed how I want in life

I can relate to number 10. You secretly want something they have. I will try to fix it by just living my life and not worrying about others. WIN

Never been so fast in this channel.

I love this channel because it does gives reality check thank you so much. Love your videos. I'm going through hard time right now and this helps my self esteem. I truly thank you

Thank you Alux. You guys got me thinking about myself. I can relate to this.

1 is definitely me all the way you got me. I didn’t even know that was a hater move.

#1 I wish I had done more with life. I plan to be thankful and focus my energy on what I can do now to move forward to counter this.

When I look for just signs, I believe they would help me to live without hating on anything.

I think " You secretly wish you did more with your life by this point" I think I need to stop being so lazy and get to work. WIN.

I feel like this is almost everyone after watching this video.

I honestly didn't identify myself in any of these signs but I am aware of persons in my social group with majority of these sign.

WIN! I knew I wasn't a hater, but wanted to watch this video anyway. I was the operations manager of a small company and realized the job of a manager was to build a good, confident team. I enjoyed that. Encouraging people to be their best is fun. And the results of that were amazing. When our office was rockin', it was beauty to behold.

Summary -You secretly wish you did more with your life. -You want other people to fail because you feel they don't deserve success. -You make excuses why things didn't work out for you. -You think other people got it easy or got lucky. -You think I could do that but you never do. -you're advising people not to try at all because they might fail. -You want your opinion to matter but deep down you know it doesn't. -You're doing slightly better than your friends and you let them know it. -You follow people you pretend not to like just to keep tabs on their life. -You secretly want something they have. -You believe you are entitled to other people's time or attention. -You say things online that you would never say face to face. -You gossip and love to stir up drama. -Putting others down makes you feel strong important and alive. -You believe your perspective is the only valid one. -People who complain about haters are generally not nice people.

Love your content! Keep up the great work as always💋

Thank you Alux, keep it real I'm loving it👌

Thank god I’m not a hater & I hope the people who have seen this video aren’t one of them either

I love my Sunday motivational video early 😃. Thanks Alux

I'm proud of ppl realizing they was hating on something. It's all about growth. I too was hating

Im sharing this and hopefully the haters don't hate it :) Great video!

A very eye opening video, tnx alux

Very interesting & smart video Alux :) I am even more fascinated by your few haters that are so serious they even downvote this very video!

I always love the book suggestion.😘

Thanks fr this vedio.. Some of the points i acn related to myslf n time to not be that😊

this is like Helga's shrine of Arnold in her closet

Thank you so much Alux for such a valuable video.

Just the smack upside the head I needed in reminding me the person I need to work at not being.

This channel has taught me a lot in the last 2 years and is very factual about the information 👍🏻 keep it up and keep making such videos❤️

Thanks... For this video... Yeah I have some of this qualities... And thanks for saying it so straight on face...i Really appreciate it

WIN!! Being a hater takes too much time. I prefer to spend that time on growth.

Almost all of it... TQ for the reminder. Will be better than yesterday.

This video could be life changing for some of us. Right on time, Alux, right on time!

This is one of your most valuable videos in my opinion! Thankyou Alux

IM DEF NOT LIKE THIS BUT I SHOULD SEND THIS TO LIKE 20 PEOPLE!!! LMAOOOO GREAT VIDEO!!!

Number 14. The word strong is misspeld. Great video ladies. Keep up the work.

Very accurate 💯💯 Typing this from South Africa around 14:31 you? 🤔

@JullianLue

4 жыл бұрын

Jamaica 10:10am

Damn this hit home so hard. I’ve definitely learnt from it and will continuously watch it to make sure the lessons I’ve learnt stick so that I can make meaningful change! Thank you Alux!

I Identified myself in some of them but I do not hate on people I hate on myself for not achieving the things that wanted to achieve.

@theintrovertedaspie9095

Жыл бұрын

Im guilty for the first, second, and fourth signs of haters. To be honest I didn't feel offended or anything. It was kind of liberating.

Saving this video for sure!!! To remind myself to not be an hater... Knowingly o unknowingly 🤕

Win!! Great video! It made me think and check on things in my life; because I don’t want to be a hater!

I am very grateful towards you alux. It was as clear as it had to be for us to understand.

6:56 Jocko!!!!

This just made my day. I absolutely don't identify with any of these. I did at points in my life and I'm not bragging but I really think keeping up with Alux over the past couple year has change my outlook, and input on life. Implicitly this point was driven though out most of the videos. Don't hate. Be Great FromTheTopRopes

At number 14 (16:20) Your hater mind, triggered 🤣 You know when Alux is putting us to test. Haha

Too many haters in my life

Honestly the last one number 15 is basically something I have done lately through I noticed how forcing my agenda on others people came across as unhelpful as ever. I realized what I trully feels that it suits me dosent for others. So I took the decision to stop. It is going well. #WON

@mzeye

Жыл бұрын

Yes omg. As I grow I learned hey wait a min why am I triggered then I realized am I a hater or was hating

WIN! Being a hater takes waaay too much time and energy. I rather use that time make more money.