Psychology tip: the words you chose can directly affect your mindset throughout the day. If you use more positive words you will notice the difference!

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

True. Be careful what you say. Sometimes silence is golden. If one has nothing positive to say , say nothing. A little bit of knowledge is a dangerous thing. It is my major in college. Never used it had to much empathy. If one get toO involved in people's problems one can't help. I do pay attention to body language and read between the lines. Changing tone of voice and eye movements.

@anitacarrier9386

2 жыл бұрын

Be careful what you say, you are listening. Self talk is usually the reason one has low or high self efficacy, if one has low self efficacy they are more likely to demonstrate the 'why try' model, which hinders successful outcomes. High self efficacy increases persistence determination and endurance, which results in successful outcomes. So speaking positively will increase levels of hope and optimism.

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

@@anitacarrier9386 The " why try method " has nothing to do with helping another. At times all a person needs is ventilate feelings and concerns " What do one says if one lost a child ore spouse to suicide "? Of course one helps with food and shelter if needed. Without bragging about it. One need to know the limitation, help or doing harm to self ore another. Yes " you listening ". Do you.?

@anitacarrier9386

2 жыл бұрын

@@annaamalia7189 at no point did I say the why try method helps another, the why try model demonstrates what happens to people who lose all hope, they give up, anyone who gives up will not succeed. And yes people do need to vent etc I know I did when my child died, see I am one of those people you speak about, but after decades of Research I have come to realise, misery attracts misery, we are the ones responsible for drawing more negativity into our lives, because we emit negativity, we project it out into the world and then it returns back to us, like a boomer rang. Religions called it karma or justice, science states all energy returns back to its original source. Either way we either learn to discipline ourselves, though positive thinking or we are the ones who don't succeed, it's that simple. I never said it was easy, I can assure you it's not, mainly because of what you yourself identified is everyone wants to vent' people have to learnt to behave in their animalistic instinctual manner, and yet they need to learn to develop self discipline, we can accept that a child when hurt or angry will behave in a unacceptable manner because they know no better so they react in an i tinctual animalistic manner, and unfortunately most adults continue their lives doing the same, but those people will bring suffering to themselves. Hense why when that adult is given the answer to change it, they can either behave egotistical and animalistic and Continue reacting or they can learn positive psychology change their behaviour and mind set, to enable them to respond rather than react.

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

@@anitacarrier9386 excellent post what I was thinking and writing may is misunderstood. The power of positive thinking is unlimited. I tried to work in the field often dealed with people who couldn't understand that living with a narcissist and finding excuses for this person's behavior brought on their problems. I stand up for injustice but can't change others behavior. I took the problem home with me and couldn't find a solution to help. That is why I left...... Like you said positive energy radiates , negative energy radiates as well. After everything is said and done we are responsible for what we say and put out into the world. Sometimes it's best to be quite just be present and actively listen. Again a little bit of knowledge is a dangerous thing. " The more I learn the more I realize how little I know ".

The channel is gold for people seeking self improvement or knowing more about themselves . Wish i found this earlier 😄

Interesting fact, if you're the reason someone is upset or angry, telling them to "calm down", will only make them angrier or upset. 😀

@godsperfectfailures796

2 жыл бұрын

Or for women, "are you on your period?" During an argument does that x10

@jacquelinelowery5589

2 жыл бұрын

@@godsperfectfailures796 that question pisses off a man too!

@zen747

2 жыл бұрын

True

@cynthiacole6140

2 жыл бұрын

@@godsperfectfailures796 who in their right mind would say that.

Even a smile while on the phone can be heard without seeing it. I used mirrors to remind telecommunications from employees to smile while taking to calls coming in. Sales soared when I smiled and felt my smile come through.

@onedayatatime8756

2 жыл бұрын

I've never once in my lifetime heard, or felt, a smile come through a phone without being able to see a persons face. (Unless it's a video chat) I can, however, tell if a person is friendly or not, in a good mood or in a bad mood, or truly interested in what i'm saying or not, just by the tone of their voice, their input, and how they speak to me.

@tayoa4260

2 жыл бұрын

@@onedayatatime8756 taking it too literal

@homoerotic85

2 жыл бұрын

Wow- that is so true!! Your idea 💡 was very cool!! While a smile can be felt during a phone call, your message tells me your a very intelligent lady! A wise woman I once knew she always was smiling, I asked her why she always smiled (because I wanted to be that happy) she said that she smiled because it makes her happy so she always smiles...I implemented her idea and wow it really worked! People called me mr. Smiley or Awesome Eric which made me even happier. But about 15 years I developed clinical depression after a big life change and the smile has left my body. I hope I can get back to being Mr. Smiley one day soon! Keep on smiling! 😀

@onedayatatime8756

2 жыл бұрын

@@tayoa4260 I took it as i understood it to be. Can you hear me smiling right now? 😁 😂👍

@ironsight1849

2 жыл бұрын

They can tell when I make nude cold calls too

I love the study of the human mind I think everyone should seek to understand to some degree on how the mind works

@djs12007

2 жыл бұрын

Sure, a whole world full of experts that can manipulate each other would certainly be unique. :-)

To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.

@somerandomfella

2 жыл бұрын

What? We're not incredible anymore? 💩💩💩

@andiwindsparrow

2 жыл бұрын

You know what? Dreams do die sometimes. And there can be life after that death.

I highly appreciate people who talk to you face to face . This is really great video .

For a constant psychology student like myself, this was pure gold! xx

@znssnbssnsjsj3335

2 жыл бұрын

Same to myself

I was a Navy Recruiter, and I concur with these facts. I'm still faking a smile 😃 😊

@grabbagmedia1031

2 жыл бұрын

Real T!

@peterfallon4018

2 жыл бұрын

No..a fake smile’s one of *worst ways to connect. Goes to subconscious & instantaneously reads ‘not to be trusted!’ to anyone who listens to it

@MCV-xg7kc

2 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha

@shaanhashmi5836

2 жыл бұрын

How many last signatures did you compile?

@tobascoheat6582

2 жыл бұрын

@ Lawrence Webster Yes, well, I wish I had known all these tricks 40+ years ago! 😉

That's so helpful... thank you so much ❤️❤️

I worked years with the public....I learned a long time ago to calm an angry customer keep your voice low and even..when they express anger .agree with them..." yes I see what you mean ".. " I'd be upset too"... they will calm down and you can reason with them. Once you become angry and raise your voice the battle is over and you've lost ...

Number 7. So that's why when I preplan my stories in my brain doing it is easier!

I find if I come down to another person’s level , remain calm and put myself in their perspective, I can actually relate well with people. I am actually really at resolving conflict. Psychology , I got half a year in high school, my dad was taught psychology for investigative tactics with his police career . So I got a lot of help .

@jamesmcnaughton5092

2 жыл бұрын

Your post is confusing, what are you trying to say?

@makeupboss3568

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesmcnaughton5092 put yourself in someone else’s shoes and stay calm … it’s so easy to resolve conflict and deal with people that way . I work with the general public… ( and my coworkers..) pretty much on a daily basis. When you work at a fast food joint , you need a skill like this .

@knocut7157

2 жыл бұрын

So you've never had to go up to someone's level

@makeupboss3568

2 жыл бұрын

@@knocut7157 going down , not up . Not meant to be condescending… it’s not hard to come down a level .

@ezekielsantos9914

Жыл бұрын

TNx for this video

great video on an outmost interesting topic, well done! 👍

im learning things from all your clips so going for job interviews now so these tips are good for my toolbox, cheers

This is fascinating, thanks for the video mate

When people tell you that you have horrible eye contact and you over correct and end up looking like a serial killer 😂

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 🤣 That Is funny but true.

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve definitely done this 🤦‍♀️

@julieblinks4778

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

This is good. I tend to chew gum and it has helped me to relax. I recently started to “journal” and it really helps to off load what is in my mind. Later I come back to read it several days later. I think wow look at what type of mood I was in! 😂

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

Journaling is a good tool to relieve anxiety. Been doing this for years. I reread what I wrote and I'm like what was I thinking.

Their were some really great tips in this video!

5:50 Great tip!

Thank you very much for all your advice. You guys are so helpful to people's world view like everyone i subscribed to here on youtube.

Thx for a couple of very helpful ideas!!💜🖖

When it comes to writing songs one of these lessons is what I needed to learn

This a cool and high yield video about psychological tricks!😀

Haters are usually people jealous of you, making them feel recognised might help.

@evelina787

2 жыл бұрын

Annet Elizabeth Nmiyingo Yes it is true i've found that when you temporrily stop worshipping these je@lous types, they turn on you bec@use they wish for continuous worshipping ✨🙏

This was amazing! Thanks!

"T'is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt" Me: What does that mean? Better say something or you'll look stupid. "Takes one to know one!" Nailed it

I always learn something new from watching your videos! ❤

Not everyone looks forward to the weekend. I work every weekend. Wednesday is sometimes my only day off!!

I always learn new things much appreciated

WOW GREAT TIPS & CONTENT Brainy Dose! WE'RE ON BOARD!

Thank you for the video

My mid-week weekend has always been Thursdays. Best party day of the week!

I find a large intact of breath with a slow exhale will help in most situations. like getting things done and to stop any anger on my part/.

Yawning at someone is the most classic turnoff.

@WhiteBirdMustFly1

2 жыл бұрын

You don't yawn At them, you look around as you yawn. You are not looking at them when you start.

The most important! If you can, get everything in WRITING! ✍️ Email and texts holds up in court.

Love the yawning trick !! Thank you !!

I love the great facial hair and great advice, thank you

This Is Beautiful Great Work 😊...

Chewing gum actually worked enough to get me through, and pass my 4th driving test.

Thanks for this

Cant believe it i do most of these things natural and everything he said its 100% truth

Thank you so much So interesting ♥️

The chewing gum trick won't work for me. Ever since I was a kid I can't/couldn't chew gum for very long before I end up swallowing it. I can't help it and it happens quickly. My grandmother used to try to scare me by telling me that my stomach was going to stick together. 😂 I never believed her though, and 56 years later it still hasn't ever stuck together on me.

It is good to explain it stops tension on what lies ahead

I've been subbed to this channel for a long time, and basically forgot that I was. This is the first time, in I don't know how long, that I'm getting a "Notification!" That is annoying, I really enjoy this channel, and wondering why I don't get the notifications? Any ideas? Thanks for the great video, and awesome content!

@conversationcorner1837

2 жыл бұрын

Make sure you hit the notification bell for all videos, if not, YT will decide which videos to send to your notifications.

Thank you for this

The yawning trick works I do it to my cat all the time when that rascal is staring at me.

@6:23 i use this a lot. when they do not let me borrow it, i take it from their hand and stab them in the eye

Staying calm to diffuse a narcissist only makes them angrier and justifies whatever they want to do to you in retaliation in the eyes of the flying monkeys. It's a good tip but be aware than narcs can and will turn everything against you.

@grabbagmedia1031

2 жыл бұрын

Great comment! All narcissists don't always yell. Many narcissists are calm and will allow you to loose your cool. Either way, like you said BEWARE. Peace.!

@grabbagmedia1031

2 жыл бұрын

Staying quiet and ignoring will upset someone, attempting to engage in meaningful conversation. Narcissists or Fart-Cissists.😁 (no disrespect my friend)! Wonderful topic and comment you made. Peace!

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

staying quiet with a narc sets them off. Get out of his/ her way.

@makeupboss3568

2 жыл бұрын

It’s like appeasing a volcano. My husband is naturally that way … tho he doesn’t notice it . He’s becoming more of a pussycat lately , the older he gets … it’s not that bad. It takes a lot to piss him off , I try to give him a wide berth when he “ explodes “ … I try to stay calm.

So, bad news about the Yawning trick. It can work on people who watch you because they like you, but there’s a downside to this if they’re a psychopath. Psychopaths lack empathy, the part of the brain that mimics yawning when a neuro-normative or those that have empathy see you yawn. Essentially, because they don’t have empathy, they will fail to show this behavior, even while staring at you.

Excellent

These are all good tips, but gum-chewing is annoying to some people, and if they get annoyed, your nerves may not be calmed 😎

@sarahblunden4372

2 жыл бұрын

I remember I was pregnant with my first child and had lots of sickness. Had to go on a drive to Watford, where my ex-in laws live and had to pull over and be sick. When I went on a journey to a relatives party a few weeks later, my mum gave me some chewing gum which helped me relax

I have one that will take over the world! When experiencing an onset of some mixed sort of emotions about someone, try fasting the very next day if not two). Insignificant crush might just turn into spasms of love. I suspect that might just be true as a broken heart knots the stomach to such an extent that sufferers are not able to eat for days.

@jpeg.600x2

2 жыл бұрын

huh

@dizzysoul6684

Ай бұрын

True

Awesome

Used to go to karaoke in a pub in town roughly 20 years ago before I settled down and had children. Always used to look forward to Wednesday nights for that reason. We did it for about 4 years till they stopped it.

I like to watch these psychology tips to that if I recognize someone else using them I can flip and use it to my advantage

Very interesting

great video

Very good :) (fake smile)

Thank you

I should have watched this 4 weeks ago but many thanks i know better now

thanks

very informative video, but the boy at minute 1:31 had me thinking about him the whole video...🥰

Every Wednesday for the past 2.5 years I have a standard accupunture appointment.

I already write down my “stressed thoughts”. Then I send EPIC texts…I need to STOP doing that!

That yawning thing is cool lol

I like these ideas, however, I would like to express my reservation about writing things down. First and foremost DON'T TELL ANYONE if you choose to do this, but should you choose to write things down, I suggest locking it up immediately after you finish. Furthermore, DON'T do it on whatever computer you use OR someone else's. Another, better (in my opinion) way to take care of what you write is to burn it or put it through A CROSS-CUT shredder. And I do suggest reading immediately after writing your feelings. That way you can be sure you said everything you wanted to vent about, and then destroy it, so that it doesn't somehow fall into the wrong hands!! I had an argument with a relative a while back. When we ended the argument, I still had PLENTY to say, so I wrote it down. Against my own advice I waited a few days before destroying it. Fortunately, my private thoughts remained private. I had cooled down by the time I destroyed it. I read it over before torching it. I was very glad that I had vented on paper and not in person, VERY glad.

The purpose of this video was to get you use to having less choices. Be self aware and pay attention to detail and to your surroundings because when the distractions are gone you will slowly start to realize you got screwed.

If some creep is staring at me in public you can BET I'm not interested in them back because I'm SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE AND I'M SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT THEY'RE AFTER

Good 👍 tips. Thanks 👍

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

Dislike the gum chewing. Gets on my nerves. Shows disrespect for others. Especially when popping . Otherwise excellent post.

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

Tip : when somebody is staring at you stare back. I bet you he will turn his gaze to a different area . Either that or he is a serial killer. 😆 😂

@annaamalia7189

2 жыл бұрын

My ex used to stare at me , gave me the creeps , but he grew on me like a wart. Now I know why he is my ex.lolz , 😆. Creepy stare haha 😆😆😂.

Too many choices…Yes! I suffer analysis paralysis frequently…e.g. takes me far too long to select a birthday card.

Now I know why doctors golf on Wednesdays. 🤣

Helpful only when you remember it. Most of us will forget after watching another video 😅. you meeting someone : "Hey hold on, im watching this again so i can apply this tricks on you" 😁😁😁.

#14… it’s better to count backwards from 5

I yawned after the yawn tip

Not everyone looks forward to the weekend because the weekend is boring.

Just by mentioning jawning, I had an urge to jawn :) I always fall for that trick..

@sarahblunden4372

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

Not me actually yawning when those people yawned from the video

Doorman chew gum to hide nerves when confronted . Tricks the brain from fight / flight mode to eating . And stops them showing to much nerves

And don't hesitate to assert yourself. This is what I always feared to do. You may get rejected (by a pretty girl)? WHO CARES! Just assert yourself, then move on. Your object is not to get a reply or response. but to just get up the courage to assert yourself. Procrastination "Keep the faculty of effort alive in you by a little gratuitous exercise every day. Do every day or two, something for no other reason than that you would rather not do it. Everybody should do at least two things each day that he hates to do, just for practice. The hell to be endured hereafter is no worse that the hell we make for ourselves in this world by habitually fashioning our characters in the wrong way.” .--"The Principles of Psychology", Chap IV Habit, William James, page 82, in “Britannica Great Books”

Any anger is a bad sign -any emotion is another bad sign ????

@dixieboy5689

2 жыл бұрын

No its not. Not at all. This is a video for teenagers.

@oliverphippen1957

2 жыл бұрын

@@dixieboy5689 Its a video for people ?????

I literally yawned watching the yawning part 😂

Yes this important

I'm also smart enough to know that they don't only look at ME when they're out there

Interesting

Last time I was this early, it was still "only two weeks to flatten muh curve"

@dakoderii4221

2 жыл бұрын

Don't know about you but these two weeks have seemed like two years to me. 🤔 I'm not an expert though so it must have been only two weeks or it's the "white supremacists" fault for it taking so long. I can't decide until TV god tells me what to think 😞

@dixieboy5689

2 жыл бұрын

@@dakoderii4221 >>> Follow the science , Brandon.

There are people who don't hold eye 👀 contact with you , that's a bit creepy or talk to you without looking at you or demand you talk to them when they are being hurtful and out to control you

I do the work in the brain before working thing

I tend to drive aggressively and chewing gum helps me to stay cool.

Gum is usually full of caffeine and not good for you at all.

Quite an American view channel. We in Europe mostly apply all these things naturally, really. Maybe that's why Americans like it here. :)

is it bad that i check the person who i think is staring at me and then stare them down until they look away

I'm way ahead of you bro.

6:36 Then later... go back and review your notes and somehow they may seem less or not important now. Many times the written observation was a totally wrong assumption.

Some one has to learn from a KZread video. are not sure What the 15 question are. Was it all for views, Maybe Comments. There the other.... Subscribers are people that choose to receive updates from a specific KZread channel. ... In fact, KZread's internal data found that: “Subscribers… tend to spend more time watching your channel than viewers who are not subscribed.” Now video is over what then Being safe see it as Entertainment..

I try to be nice to my haters with kindness

@bln4772

2 жыл бұрын

F that! I’m not nice to no hater! Kill ‘em with kindness my ash…I’ll kill ‘em with something else! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I’ve done this without knowing 🤣

You can't kill a monster without becoming one. You can't take back your words once they've been said when you get angry. You can't solve a problem with the same mind that created it. Peace

bullseye! Wednesday is the most weird day of the week for so many reasons. I don't want to make an article about it this time around, but it's just because it is a middle of the week. It's the time when people are usually very focused on their work and not too sociable.