3 things in life to keep private 1.your love life 2. Your Income 3. Your next move

@charleshayden7408

10 ай бұрын

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The video starts at 2:39

@cheikhhouzi

10 ай бұрын

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10 ай бұрын

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10 ай бұрын

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10 ай бұрын

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@distantfire6143

10 ай бұрын

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Don't tell this: More than you're asked unless you want your privacy and boundaries violated such as goals, wealth, business, criticisms, friends secrets, details of a relationship, kindnesses such as donations and favors, values and beliefs, words against yourself, details about your day, your fears real or imagined, family dramas, and your unsolicited advice.

Thank you. Been following your channel for years now. Solid advices and concrete steps to put them in action

Awesome content indeed and thanks for sharing!

1. Goals plans 2. Finances money 3. Criticism advice 4. Defend friends 5. Relationship backlash 6. Kindness in silence 7. Need for validation no one should care but you! 8. 9. Don’t justify your time & how you spent it! 10. Quiet your insecurities 11. Keep it in the family (snap!) 12. Don’t give advice ❤ nobody cares!!! ❤ 13. Nobody

@monicacasillas-bd8jc

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your advice it's highly appreciated

@bethahadzizi370

9 ай бұрын

I wonder if there is a difference in lifestyle between someone who keeps secrets and someone who doesn't. 😮

@monicacasillas-bd8jc

8 ай бұрын

Basically keep everything a secret you avoid problems from people

Excellent program and very useful information!

Some of these points won't improve your relationships...sometimes it is good to disclose, otherwise you will not develop friendships. Most points I do agree except: #1 sometimes it is good to have an accountability partner #8 it is sometimes good to let people know you are vulnerable, so they can relate to you.. nobody is perfect For the rest amazing advice, keep up the good work

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Top man think Brilliant Never tell any one about what you got Never speak off any bad Never promise any one anything Never waste time Always so No Never lie say I have nothing to say instead And it goes on Thanks

Good video mate very helpful knowledge

Thank you for sharing this. It's very useful

12 things to keep private 1.Goals 2. Your wealth your business 3. Destructive construction 4. Defend your friend 5. Relationship backlash 6. Kindness needs no reward 7. Protect your image 8. 9. Never justify your time 10. Quite your insecurity 11. Family problem 12. The danger of great advice❤

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Never justify your time - Like it!!!👍

Love this, just what I needed as I have been an oversharer

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Needed to hear this

2:37 The start of the video

I disagree with the criticism part. If a friend's bad habit annoys you and you don't say anything, that person won't know you're annoyed until you finally either snap or give the ultimatum without allowing the person time to break the habit. Old habits die hard, and it can be confusing if the person had previously thought you were okay with their actions, or if they thought you liked it.

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On keeping your finances private, you might have someone marry you just to get your assets. The paradox being that if you are supposed to keep your goals secret a deceitful partner uses this to hide their plans.on doing good or being kind it's okay to be proud o this and in relationships it should be reciprocated. We need to give mass public advice with clear context because more often than not the suversive types use these concepts for manipulation

@oragamithunder5725

10 ай бұрын

That's why I hide cash

This is shit I should have learned at a younger age but am in my 40s realising how naive I have been.

@MJ-qb5ph

10 ай бұрын

Try being 60!

@notyetskeletal4809

10 ай бұрын

@@MJ-qb5ph What happened to you?

@battybethc8061

10 ай бұрын

It's never to late to learn! I'm in my 60's and still craving to learn new things! Lol! 😂

The goal thing is so true

I do tend to put out my personal thoughts and values via threads and twitter as a way to express myself but I realize how insignificant those thoughts become when they’re out there. I dunno how to feel about that and I can’t say if I care much 🤷‍♀️

You made different videos where you mentioned narcissist but I hope one day you'll make a video for "how to be protected from narcissistic people"; because we live among them. Thanks

@Erica-cf1xb

6 ай бұрын

The honest answer is there is no earthly protection against them. Most people that you will meet are riddled with envy and jealous. The best thing you can do is stay quiet as much as possible and observe. Even then, they will invade your privacy. They do not honor the word or action of No. However, the majority of them have privacy because they live secret lives and have alot of dirt on them if exposed that will ruin them. So they ruin honest people lives FIRST as a smoke screen...because they are the real life sick ones with idiot brains.

Thank you you have help someone in kenya 😊

@oneofthegoodonesok

10 ай бұрын

That's exactly right 🤣

@Game_Changer362

10 ай бұрын

True blows donuts. 🍩🙊

At 30 I've learned this the hard way for now on quietness

I can relate to the 4th point because one of my friends revealed my dark secret

Makes sense to me ❤

My experience is (#2) those who feel that they have boast about how successful they are, how much $$ they have, etc. are usually lying or at least exaggerating...

@Erica-cf1xb

6 ай бұрын

And have stole it. That should be a cause of concern because it questions what extent have they went to, to keep a lie going from being exposed.

Number 12 that’s why I always end it with idk though sadly 😅😅💯

I liked & subscribe

We need to know who's jealous of us & want us to fall. It takes more than DNA to make a fam.

Right

Three may keep a secret if two of them are dead. Ben Franklin, 1935 As I told a lady at church, privacy is like safety, fitness, and Christioanity. It is not something you achieve, it is something you practice.

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Pigeonhole means a category, typically an overly restrictive one to which someone or something is assigned.

1.) Guard You Goals: 2:38 2.) Your Wealth, Your Business: 3:20 3.) Destructive Criticism: 4:05 4.) Defend Your Friends: 4:43 5.) Relationship Backlash: 5:10 6.) Kindness Needs No Reward: 5:55 7.) The Power of Validation: 6:33 8.) Protect Your Image: 7:29 9.) Never Justify Your Time: 8:03 10.) Quiet Your Insecurities: 8:58 11.) Keep It in the Family: 9:40 12.) The Danger of Giving Advice: 10:10

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Woop

Loose lips sink ships, they say. But sometimes, we need to talk about things with those who care.

@Erica-cf1xb

6 ай бұрын

Talk to a pet and a plant. Both care WAYYYYY more than another person. A dog can actually tell you alot. It's a secret language only a few can speak.

I remember when I started being more quiet about my dating life. It felt so good. Someone I know actually posted on Facebook that her son was starting to vet erections.

Just like having this video private? 😂 You should hear the stuff offline then. It really makes you wonder about anyone these days 🤣

6:40 Can I share my core beliefs with my mother?

@rocky_wang

8 ай бұрын

Depending on whether your mom has the same "core" beliefs. If not, then the conversation may be like: You: Hey mom, I believe in XXX... Mom: Stop wasting your time, little brat. Get a life! You: Mah, but I really do! Mom: You know what? I don't care!😂😂😂

@vredewold

7 ай бұрын

Yes you can, your her property🤣

alot of these are telling us to not tell the whole truth lol so basically being a liar about how u feel is better then telling the truth :(

@Erica-cf1xb

6 ай бұрын

I would encourage honesty. It makes everyone uncomfortable because liars are more common.

I have no privacy

@oragamithunder5725

10 ай бұрын

But when you own everything about you nothing anyone says or does will tear you down

@Erica-cf1xb

6 ай бұрын

Same. We are in the same tug boat together. Midas well talk about the exploitation. They are watching anyways behind the black mirror smirking and sniggling. 😊

What was stated here doesn't apply to adopted people.

Keep sexual preference, religion, & politics private

@johnrobinson5156

8 ай бұрын

So strange none are on this list

@robertblake9892

8 ай бұрын

Sexual preference, yes, the other two, do it discretely.

Ok easier just to stick to small talk 😂😂😂

The title should be "how to gaslight yourself"

@battybethc8061

10 ай бұрын

Lololol!😂😂😅

@dominadornarag7574

9 ай бұрын

😅😂🤣😂🤣😂

@rocky_wang

8 ай бұрын

If gaslighting makes me a strong person, let it be. Like the good old "fake it until you make it"🤣🤣🤣

What percent of world population keeps privat all of these 12 things❓

There should be no sharing of details of your existence, at all. There should be no social accounts at all. This semi-anonymous KZread rant is the closest I have to a social account. It is a video sharing site where I have only shared one video since I have started the account. It is not for popularity nor hits, whatever that accomplishes. It is to merely share information. I will never have a social, media, network account. Aside from having no friends to even have a reason for having a social account, my life is extremely stagnant, uninspiring, boring, and not social. Few would wish to witness an existence like that. But then again, few want to witness 96.865% of the ridiculous things I have heard about social media.

Les gens racontent toute leurs vie sur les reseaux sociaux comme s'ils etaient Les centres de la terre alors qu'ils sont tout simplement msatekines

in other ways be pretentious learn how to be a hypocrite

I would keep the fact that I watched this video private.