12 Things Finnish Guys Want in Their Dream Woman - Unexpected Results!

Today we will talk about Dating in Finland and how Finnish men see their dream woman. I used the survey created by Ilta Sanomat to figure out what kind of woman is the dream wife for Finnish men.
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  • @MWOODYARD
    @MWOODYARD3 жыл бұрын

    Love this video! Especially since a move to Helsinki is in my future. (side note- it's good to know that Finnish guys are naughty once you get to know them. This seems like vital info for my future lol)

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true!

  • @mariac6280
    @mariac62802 жыл бұрын

    Speaking from my own experience I believe that we're all born as individuals and unique. Preferences are personal, so we shouldn't generalise. Chemistry, sense of humour and communication are some of the keys.

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wise words!

  • @PuolikuuIrene

    @PuolikuuIrene

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes thanks - these videos actually make me anxious. Like, how to feel inadequate

  • @mariac6280

    @mariac6280

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@PuolikuuIrene I know right?

  • @PuolikuuIrene

    @PuolikuuIrene

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mariac6280 Yes - And it would be a bit better if they would at least show the % for all answers instead of the majority only. Also because that majority could literally just be the 30% of the people

  • @PuolikuuIrene

    @PuolikuuIrene

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mariac6280 I am so sad cause I have been dating this Finnish guy (I live in Finland) for the last three weeks and we already spent so much time together and bonded a lot - and today he said he forgot to say he doesn't want kids, I would want one and I hadn't asked earlier... And now we are both in shock cause we were so happy about how things were going... I know it's only three weeks, but it's not so easy to find someone you genuinely feel at home with... 😮‍💨

  • @maishamaliha1850
    @maishamaliha18503 жыл бұрын

    Loved it!! Really interesting content. Thanks aleksi ❤️

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @stepha20178
    @stepha201783 жыл бұрын

    LOL “everyday” Aleksiiiii! Naughty! 😂 I like that you really thought about the spontaneous/conservative option.

  • @lydia5820
    @lydia58203 жыл бұрын

    Great video as always 👍

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks again!

  • @coffeewithdee
    @coffeewithdee3 жыл бұрын

    super interesting video!! I find it really entertaining to see what Finnish guys generally think of an ideal girl, I would say the popular choices are all pretty reasonable!

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing!!

  • @NaimaMB
    @NaimaMB3 жыл бұрын

    This has been quite helpful 🤔

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff!

  • @michellelarraga3032
    @michellelarraga30323 жыл бұрын

    The results are very interesting! I like a lot finns' mentality regarding their dream woman; I almost achieve all the requirements 😂😂😂 just not some regarding the physical appeareance cause I'm a brunette and my height is 1.64 (Im short for the finns) nevertheless to see how much you are into family and invest time with your couple is beautiful.

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    The height isn't that important. My previous girlfriends have all been below 170cm and brunettes. :)

  • @Hukkahanska

    @Hukkahanska

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am Finnish guy and 175 cm. I like when woman is about 160-170 cm. I have had 3 girlfriends and they were 165 cm, 168 cm and 159 cm. One was blonde and two other brunettes :)

  • @CocoinFinland
    @CocoinFinland3 жыл бұрын

    My husband is 183cm and I am 150, he said I have a perfect height 😅 And yes, I sometimes drink whiskey or cognac with him and he is very happy about it 😂

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's great!

  • @narcabusevictimgermany9687

    @narcabusevictimgermany9687

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tall men are for tall women!

  • @hangosnovellak7032
    @hangosnovellak70325 ай бұрын

    so I'm 160, curvy, brunette. I'm dating a finnish guy for 3 weeks now and I'm still a little bit affraid that he doesn't consider us serious. also I'm hungarian and I'm learning finnish. I'm very different from finnish women bc I don't have social anxiety, I'm confident, can walk to any person if needed. I'm very warm hearted, cheerful, a little bit like a sunshine in a bottle. NO OFFENSE I don't really see these traits in finnish women. I hope that's what he is into bc really like hiiiiimmm😭😭

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    5 ай бұрын

    Three weeks is quite a short time to be honest. In that time, it's difficult to form an impression if you want to fully commit or not. You're still getting to know each other.

  • @hangosnovellak7032

    @hangosnovellak7032

    5 ай бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself okay no it's clear that he is obsessed with me 😄☺️☺️

  • @cynthiaquintana9660
    @cynthiaquintana96603 жыл бұрын

    Interesting facts Aleksis. 🤔 way different from the American way, I'm interested in your videos because I'm learning and it will useful in my vacation trip for a month this June July trip... interested in Juhannus up north .. any videos about that?

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have made at least one juhannus video at my friend's cottage.

  • @huugosorsselsson4122
    @huugosorsselsson41223 жыл бұрын

    Interesting to see the average answers. Here are some of my ideal criteria (as a Finnish guy); I’m not looking for anyone, this list is just for fun and for anyone curious. Each bonus adds a point (so the max is 14). --- 1. height from 5’4 to 6 ft 2. non-smoker (drinking doesn’t matter either way) 3. any hair color (but black hair is a bonus) 4. loves animals 5. strong artistic interests and/or pursuits 6. either highly introspective or very passionate (bonus if both - which is rather rare) 7. compassionate, caring 8. knows how to have a laugh (a mischievous, teasing side is definitely a bonus) 9. stays in decent shape (jogging/running or other light exercise is enough) 10. nice style (predominantly black is a bonus, as are earthy colors like dark green, brown, etc)

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Solid list!

  • @MissSylvia67

    @MissSylvia67

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm from Sweden and I'm wondering if you measure height in cm or feet? We use cm in Sweden.

  • @leticiaaraujo2476

    @leticiaaraujo2476

    Жыл бұрын

    OMG! I only have 3 points LOL

  • @huugosorsselsson4122

    @huugosorsselsson4122

    Жыл бұрын

    @@leticiaaraujo2476 Haha, no worries

  • @noreen7691
    @noreen76913 жыл бұрын

    Yeah Finnish dudes are the best. I find them very sweet, delightful, unique, and full of beauty. ☺️

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good luck!

  • @holoholopainen1627

    @holoholopainen1627

    2 жыл бұрын

    Where Are You from ? How tall ? Do You Have any WORK SKILLS ? Are You More Family or any Other Type ?

  • @GiaGRitter
    @GiaGRitter2 жыл бұрын

    You're too cheeky! I love it haha.

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know ;)

  • @Nicolas-kf6kt
    @Nicolas-kf6kt3 жыл бұрын

    great video

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @georginabrigs1891
    @georginabrigs18913 жыл бұрын

    After 3mos of dating with a finn, he ended it because he cant do long distance. My heart was broken. Be careful with men who are very sweet at the start.

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. That can happen to anyone. Long-distance isn't easy.

  • @georginabrigs1891

    @georginabrigs1891

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself but we ended so calmly and i respected his decision. And i do understand him. Maybe he was sad when he came back in Fin after he visited me in my country just last month. Because he said he felt empty. Or maybe he's depressed.

  • @TheUltharcats

    @TheUltharcats

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear, how long was your relationship?

  • @luminauraa
    @luminauraa3 жыл бұрын

    I am an Argentinian learning Finnish and I feel that I am in love with the language and the culture. The Finns seem almost the opposite of people here in my country. I think thanks to this video and other videos of yours, I want to date a Finn, but I'm in Argentina and I'm 5'4 or 5'5, lul. I really like your videos! They are very interesting.

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff! Don't worry about your height. Finns will still like you.

  • @CellGames2006

    @CellGames2006

    2 жыл бұрын

    I like short girls myself. You're also very attractive.

  • @turuus5215

    @turuus5215

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m Asian and 188cm male here.

  • @jaferaslanhafez5008
    @jaferaslanhafez50083 жыл бұрын

    Yes Do The Husband One Please.

  • @maijamargaret
    @maijamargaret3 жыл бұрын

    lol this was hilarious! Such a good video idea

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you liked it!!

  • @nataliaKills440
    @nataliaKills4402 жыл бұрын

    I wonder if Finnish men are open to date outside their race. Nonetheless, this is quite an interesting video! 😊 with love from Tanzania 🇹🇿

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes they are. There are many international couples in Finland.

  • @karlalopez1065
    @karlalopez10653 жыл бұрын

    I'm talking to a Finn and I been watching your videos and I'm conflicted , I thought he was going to be very quiet and serious tbh I didn't think a Finn could be attracted to me because I am Mexican so not at all like your typical looking finnish girl but I don't know if this long distance relationship will work guess we will see 🤷🏻‍♀️ , I really like your videos 😊, watching you from Dallas Texas!!

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think Finns like Mexicans cos they are so different from Finns.

  • @karlalopez1065

    @karlalopez1065

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself I really hope so ❤️

  • @CellGames2006

    @CellGames2006

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mexicans are so open and outgoing, and touchy. Very different from finnish girls. That's why they are attractive.

  • @holoholopainen1627

    @holoholopainen1627

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@karlalopez1065 We Are Looking For PEOPLE - WHO knows Finnish Baseball ! Learn to play and The Language - in One Year ! Look at American KZread Video - Where The Game Explained ! This IS a way EASIER - than Wife CARRYING !

  • @nanfertiti

    @nanfertiti

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m Mexican, currently dating a finish guy. They definitely like Mexicans, his Finnish friends who are here love meeting Mexican girls too lol.

  • @ThePitGoJoe
    @ThePitGoJoe3 жыл бұрын

    Hyvää kamaa!

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kiitti!

  • @Agriking
    @Agriking3 жыл бұрын

    If I was a woman this information would come in very handy.

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad to hear that!

  • @sicobain
    @sicobain2 жыл бұрын

    First of all I'm from Brazil so I'm sorry about my English mistakes but I would like a reply of a finnish please. I met a finnish guy in person 2 years ago and since that we are dating but my doubts are: 1) he almost never says that he loves me , I like that because I prefer the guy shows more than talks but sometimes he says when he is drunk. 2) we only saw each other by camera once and I miss that eye contact, but he always are uncomfortable in front of camera or say thag his place is a mess. 3) he is unemployed for years and when i said that i would like to visit Lapland , he sounded so like well it is expensive I can't afford....so for an introvert finnish, the actions are serious like that? kiitos paljon!

  • @leticiaaraujo2476

    @leticiaaraujo2476

    Жыл бұрын

    Olha, colega, isso parece cilada! Não quer ter ver, não fala contigo, não diz que te ama, com certeza tem algo errado aí. Seria bom bater de frente com ele, e ter uma conversa mais sincera pra saber realmente o q tá acontecendo, mesmo pra um Finlandês, isso não é normal.

  • @poppywidiastuti6178
    @poppywidiastuti6178 Жыл бұрын

    Interesting. Makes me cant waitt to moved to finland

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    Жыл бұрын

    Good stuff! 😃🙌

  • @sherozemukadam156
    @sherozemukadam1563 жыл бұрын

    just asking, do you have any idea how VFX industry is in Finland?

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry but I don't.

  • @sherozemukadam156

    @sherozemukadam156

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself no worry , thanks for replying 💙

  • @sherozemukadam156

    @sherozemukadam156

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself can u help me with it? Cuz the site says they wanna hire 2-3 people but it's from like very old like 2017 so idk 😐, also idk how to text someone on KZread but can u Help me with something related to VFX industry in finalnd?

  • @mskath7914

    @mskath7914

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sherozemukadam156 you can check their page via FB and maybe do some inquiry: facebook.com/TrollVfx/

  • @sherozemukadam156

    @sherozemukadam156

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mskath7914 okay thanks a lot 🥰💙

  • @jazzbeau507
    @jazzbeau5073 жыл бұрын

    I watched the first four questions and those are rather superficial issues and Finnish men have more substance than that. Finnish women are already the best, so be happy if you have one. I don't however would like to return to Finland someday and try and find one.

  • @nephewlantto8961
    @nephewlantto89613 жыл бұрын

    How common is th name last name Lantto in Finland

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very rare

  • @travel_with_judith3
    @travel_with_judith33 жыл бұрын

    But is hard finish guy to approach good job

  • @ExploreYourShadow
    @ExploreYourShadow Жыл бұрын

    Coming from Irish/British background, was never checked out by guys more than in Finland 😂 they did try to be discreet, but it was obvious 😂

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    Жыл бұрын

    WTF = Welcome to Finland 😂

  • @ExploreYourShadow

    @ExploreYourShadow

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself I really loved it, you have a great country and people are super nice!

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ExploreYourShadow that's great to hear! 🙌😎

  • @AleksiHimself
    @AleksiHimself3 жыл бұрын

    What do Finns about dating foreigners? kzread.info/dash/bejne/e6yJm8qbaM3QodY.html

  • @tinaluoma-welcome9607
    @tinaluoma-welcome96073 жыл бұрын

    Nice video from a very narrow test.

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you liked it!

  • @narcabusevictimgermany9687
    @narcabusevictimgermany96873 жыл бұрын

    Omg:off to Finland.....-----

  • @JovyWanderer
    @JovyWanderer Жыл бұрын

    Everyday please 😁😊🙏

  • @Mogamishu
    @Mogamishu3 жыл бұрын

    My dream woman: *Loves cats. *Tall, between 170 and 180 cm. *Brown eyes. *Plays tennis or wants to learn. *Is passionate about music. *Fun and easy-going. Laughs a lot. *Never wears high heels. *More tomboy than girly girl. *Does not have any tattoos. *Is not German.

  • @milenisch

    @milenisch

    3 жыл бұрын

    7/10 😂

  • @Maho351

    @Maho351

    3 жыл бұрын

    What's wrong with Germans? xD

  • @alessbritish228

    @alessbritish228

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why not German?

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the comment Someone Else!

  • @Mogamishu

    @Mogamishu

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Maho351 everything.

  • @kunalsaiyan2126
    @kunalsaiyan21263 жыл бұрын

    Bro Iam 182 cm am I too small in Finland??

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not at all

  • @jessadelarmente4890
    @jessadelarmente48903 жыл бұрын

    I have Finnish penpals, let's say keyboard-pals is more accurate.when he know my height and it's just 5'4 ft he just said it's cute hehe..but I don't think so, if he is very shy person because when we talk on vedio he is very talkative.haha.lets see when we meet if he's shy😁 #your new subscribe r from the Philippines 🤗

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing! Height isn't super in the end. :)

  • @jessadelarmente4890

    @jessadelarmente4890

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself your right :-)

  • @georginabrigs1891

    @georginabrigs1891

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mine didnt work, although we live in Europe. He cant do long distance. Hope yours will work

  • @inesreisx

    @inesreisx

    2 жыл бұрын

    hi Jessa, having Finnish penpals sounds really cool! i never tried it, do you recommend any website/app?

  • @Prunehildawful
    @Prunehildawful3 жыл бұрын

    Aleksi IS naughty...

  • @tamaraelinaartist
    @tamaraelinaartist3 жыл бұрын

    I’m definitely not what most men think of Suomalainen women lol I’m half Finnish, Black, Romany Canadian so I’m definitely listening up here lol 🤗💙🇫🇮⚔️🇨🇦 I love that you say you’re a Nasty Mutha👏🏽👏🏽ka lol 😋

  • @crystalbrashears760
    @crystalbrashears7603 жыл бұрын

    I’m short lol! I’m only 5’6”

  • @NaimaMB

    @NaimaMB

    3 жыл бұрын

    My doctor can’t tell if I’m 5’6 or 5’7 😅

  • @xeniaaa3745

    @xeniaaa3745

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well what I'm I then? A minion? Cuz I'm 5"2

  • @alessbritish228

    @alessbritish228

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@NaimaMB Meters and centimeters are more precise than foot and inches when you measure the height of a person .

  • @NaimaMB

    @NaimaMB

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alessbritish228 Thank you. So I was definitely correct about me being 5’6.

  • @alessbritish228

    @alessbritish228

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@NaimaMB Nice. Out of curiosity, what height would you prefer in a partner?

  • @ChrisJClark-ih2oo
    @ChrisJClark-ih2oo2 жыл бұрын

    Idk why Oriental Roasted you... I was genuinely appauled by it

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @ChrisJClark-ih2oo

    @ChrisJClark-ih2oo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AleksiHimself you're welcome... I at first, had respect for Anmimg until she pulled that video.. about you and another youtuber called wouter

  • @Anonymous-fd1vu
    @Anonymous-fd1vu2 жыл бұрын

    I came to youtube to see about masters degree admission and stuff as foreign student in Finland and here i am seeing this 😆

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    2 жыл бұрын

    😆😆

  • @tonibufu6103
    @tonibufu61032 жыл бұрын

    Asiahan on niin, että tämän testin vihreet vastaukset, eivät todista kaikkien Suomalaisten unelmanaista, saatika kerro edes että, minkälaisen unelmanaisen suurinosa Suomalaista haluaisi, koska tähän kyselyyn, ei kuitenkaan kaikki Suomalaiset ole vastanneet. Ja teidän, että Suomessa on myös heitä, joita parisuhde saatika seksi, ei kiinnosta tippaakaan. Joten tämän testin tulokseen, ei kannata luottaa 100%

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    2 жыл бұрын

    Joo täysin totta.

  • @KermaPippuri

    @KermaPippuri

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tuli vähän parempi mieli koska lähes mikään noista kohdista ei osunu itteen.

  • @martinamarble6116
    @martinamarble611610 ай бұрын

    @AleksiHimself Next year im going to be 31. Am i too old for Finnish dating market? Do u think still some sexy Finnish guys are there old like me ?😂

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    10 ай бұрын

    No worries. You're not old at all and I'm sure many Finnish guys will be interested. ;)

  • @68sunshine
    @68sunshine3 жыл бұрын

    I hate that fake, cartoon character red hair, but then again, I am not a guy. lol

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see!

  • @kalevala29
    @kalevala299 ай бұрын

    sex every day? kiimaiset! kuin hullu puurosta 😉 Hyvä sinulle! 🤘

  • @nancypants1
    @nancypants12 жыл бұрын

    Fins are naughty😉🤭

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep!

  • @Mogamishu
    @Mogamishu3 жыл бұрын

    Are there natural redhead girls in Finland? 🤔

  • @suaptoest

    @suaptoest

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes we have.

  • @buckwheatINtheCity
    @buckwheatINtheCity3 жыл бұрын

    Aleksi, get a grip!

  • @AleksiHimself

    @AleksiHimself

    3 жыл бұрын

    :DD

  • @shalommalca2125
    @shalommalca21253 жыл бұрын

    You don't need to find out anything Finland is going to be underwater in 2 years so solve all your problems

  • @tappajaav

    @tappajaav

    11 ай бұрын

    Seems that your prediction went underwater, try again?