Confrontation is essential in any relationship, otherwise you’re not having an honest conversation.

I’m not a rule person so your channel balances me out and gives me a kick when I need it.

@rananian

Жыл бұрын

I’m here for the very same reason

@walklikeanegyptian5228

Жыл бұрын

@@rananian Things I have never considered before are on here, I’m proud to be changing daily.

Laura is a doll! I'm glad you and your wife chose LIFE!

Experience is really our number one teacher!

It's cool you didn't just repeat the 12 rules, instead you picked out highlights from your own perspective. Some that I had forgotten about. Thanks!

I needed this. Thank you! ❤

Need to read this immediately!

Hello, My name is Jonah I'm 24 and I'm about to buy my first rental property, here in Louisiana I am soo nervous but also excited I've been living frugal for around 4 - 5 years I'm 100% dept free and cant't wait to become a Real estate invester. You, (Gabe Bult) have helped me out a ton along the lines of Graham Staphan, and Dave Ramsey.

@GabeBult

Жыл бұрын

That’s awesome to hear! Good luck man

@blakew5672

Жыл бұрын

You’re killing it for a 24 year old! Best of luck to you, keep that momentum going

You have one great video after another! Thanks.

Some great points. Would also be interesting to see a video of you critiquing elements of the book that you think are excessive or ill-founded

One of my all-time favourite books,

this video might be the single most useful video i have come across so far, highly recommend it. it really opens your eyes and makes you a more self aware person

@GabeBult

11 ай бұрын

Thanks 🙏 glad you enjoyed it

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences in these videos. I found your channel back in December and it has motivated me to make changes in my life. I haven't read this book but it is going onto the list.

I love that you talk about learning from people, even if you don't agree with the all the time or even most of the time. When we shut down to other opinions and views our entire society loses out. We need healthy debate and information exchange to learn and grow! Love your channel.

@ForestBeans

11 ай бұрын

I feel hesitant to even watch this video because of some of the hateful things Peterson has said, but your comment is changing my mind a bit.

I read this book several years ago so it’s great to be reminded of these rules 🙌🏽

Thank you Gabe...😁

Another great and insightful video. I love what you're doing and the wisdom you spread. Thanks for doing this.

I love your tips on generating passive income - they're so simple yet effective!

Watch who your influence is all the way up, and bear under the trials is the best way to live.

I'm reading 12 Rules For Life every time I do laundry, so once every week, and I'm learning so much! I finished the first chapter on standing up straight with your shoulders back. It was good! I'm really enjoying and learning a lot on your videos. You got a new subscriber! Cheers from Miami, FL.

Would like to see the vdo about how you started your house hack. How do you pick ? Something like that foe the units.

Great video Gabe, this man really gets you thinking in a better mindset.

I'm actually reading it right now and it's an amazing book

Awesome material to educate yourself!

Hi Gabe - I'd love to know more about how you responded to the Monkey analogy. What was it that you were holding on to and needed to let go to find freedom?

Great video- just the inspiration I needed this morning ❤

Great points! Interested in reading this book now. 🙂

Not a terrible analogy about sweeping things uder the rug. Perfect actually and this is why my ex-wife and I are no longer together. Thank you for your channel, a lot of inspiration in most of your videos. Good video here about tolerance and living life.

These 12 rules are really mostly great. JP is not the first to say these, but he may be one of the more incendiary. IMHO. Others have said these words with less controversy.

@ManiacMeats

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@heather8903

Жыл бұрын

Tempted to Unfollow - because I do not support JP - as you say, he is incendiary, and that is scary in this world.

I love that book. ❤❤

Oh Ny word, I think you’ve been following me my entire life. You seriously calling me out on this video. I agree with so much you have presented here in this short video. I wish I knew these things when I was young, it might would have saved my marriage, or convinced me to see we were totally incompatible. I resented my ex so much, and I never wanted to rock the boat and if I tried he would belittle me and try to make me see myself as uneducated, unlike him. I just wish I stood my ground in the beginning. Also everything else was spot on in my life. As I’ve gotten older I have realized my part in so many failures, not just the marriage, child rearing, jobs, real estate, anxiety, depression, other health issues, found out later in life, procrastination, you name it, I have plenty of room to grow. The difference now is I realize I am the problem or the solution, but fear wins out majority of the time. Now that I am approaching 50 soon, I look back and realize most things did not turn out as bad as I thought or expected, it was my imagination and fear holding me back, it’s actually pretty debilitating at times. I wish I had started these good habits sooner, and applied them to my child’s life. Now I am trying to change the way I look at like and hopefully end up having some retirement money in the bank. I did the Dave Ramsey thing, but honestly I should have bought back then and not listened to him. My bro said he was wrong on that as well, I just didn’t grasp the loan prices and such back them and how that wasn’t as debt. Ofc my ex husband never paid the mortgage or any bill on time, and my name was still on the deed so no house for me, even when I was ready. Thanks for this video!

You do a great job doing your vids! Just some constructive critic to make your vids more enjoyable. That black part with red text on, the red text is a little hard to read with black bacground. And suddenly there was a white screen with black text on. The white was very strong between comfortable colourscale. Keep on, go strong!

Gabe, It says the free course is closed at this time. I want to watch the video if you’re able to email it, I did register with my info. Thanks!

I agree with almost everything except for the quote by the person who said there is no right or wrong in this world(?) there is right and wrong and people sometimes speak right or wrong about things. Regardless of that our response should not be with anger and reaction, just because we disagree. Thanks for the motivational subject. I like rules as well and realize how helpful it is to have good habits.

@jennifern9373

Жыл бұрын

@@wintersolstice4793 yes, certain things are subjective and may not fall in the definite category. Is it right to steal? No it is wrong. A simple example. Time does not change the basic premise of what is right and wrong, just because some do not want to acknowledge it.

@walklikeanegyptian5228

Жыл бұрын

@@wintersolstice4793 Well it’s always wrong to steal but context matters. If someone was starving they do need to pay that back. If someone gives you permission let’s say in a business to help yourself, it’s not stealing.

This video is pure wisdom... I will rewatch it, také notes and také tíme to think about these ideas

I am a big fan of Jordan Peterson.

A candidate for book of the decade. I read it a few years ago and am constantly referencing it and recommending it.

Love your book recommendations! I just finished reading The One Thing, and Rich Dad, Poor Dad. They were helpful! Thanks!

Lots of positive ideas here!

I wish I had known the “rules” this book brought to me when I was in my 20’s. My life has improved ten fold, I still regret all the wasted time in my youth. Thanks for the refresher!

Wish more people had your attitude. We can agree with people about some things and not others. This is the mark of an intelligent society. Just subscribed. 👏🏻

Brilliant as always 🤟

Thank you. Someone I respect highly gave me a copy of this book, but I haven't read it yet.

I am trying to apply for your free course but it's not getting sign up

How much stock footage have you filmed?????

I truly wish I could have gotten my brother to read this book before he took his own life last year. Jordon speaks so much life into others. Thanks for sharing your perspective on this great work.

@CAGChannel1

Жыл бұрын

Hugs from someone who also lost a brother, my omly sibling, to suicide decades ago. One foot in front of the other. No, it NEVER gets easier, but understanding and fitting in the construct of living with what happened does get better. Hugs and eventually, maybe, some peace

@veronicagilmore9654

Жыл бұрын

@@CAGChannel1 *hugs* I’m sorry you are in this club too. I appreciate your kind words and insight.

@LadiesofPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

So sorry for loss of your brother😢. I lost my brother to suicide in 2019. One of the hardest things ever but so thankful God got me through it. Still hard and I so would love for our siblings to have had another chance at life. I remember my brothers words to me a few weeks before that he wanted me to keep speaking up & being an awesome encourager 😭😭. Kinda weird bc I feel like I failed him but I think he was thinking through what he was about to do and wanted to encourage me. Not an easy road but I know we have the opportunity to live our life to the fullest and as Gabe said don’t waste the years being afraid of what we could’ve done.

@veronicagilmore9654

Жыл бұрын

@@LadiesofPurposeTV I am so sorry for your loss as well. It is the hardest loss I’ve had and unfortunately have had many. God is good. We just have to keep walking with Him. *hugs*

@veronicagilmore9654

Жыл бұрын

@@LadiesofPurposeTV I am so sorry for your loss as well. It is the hardest loss I’ve had and unfortunately have had many. God is good. We just have to keep walking with Him. *hugs*

This was a great video and it makes me want to read the book. I find Jordan Peterson very interesting.

This book is one I'm taking my time on, listening and re-listening to the chapters.

Hey 👋 so glad to be here early today

I respect Jordan weather I agree with him or not. He has a backbone!

Excellent! Going to share with my husband and sons...

I’m adding this to my reading list for 2023

Smashed a like even before watching! Glad to jump in this video so early!

What would my life look like if I take care of myself properly? That’s my word

great book, i'm now on chapter 9 and its safe to say this is one of my favorite book i've ever read

11:55

Im watching this 3 mos after it came out, but yet its the perfect time for me. Anxiety was coming to a head because I did use compassion as a vice and to hear it put in words helped me to recognize that. Im challenging myself to be slightly better than yesterday- that will be my success today. Thank you, Gabe.

Ah your baby is super duper cute 😍😍😍

Very classy move to publicly share how Mr. Peterson's work has had a positive effect on your life. He needs all the support he can get right now. Cheers!

@GilliMarieMoody

Жыл бұрын

Back in the beginning, JP had a good reputation. Now, he needs to help himself because most of us who have left will never, ever, EVER return.

This is the type of content for which I pay my internet bills 👌 👏👏

Good pick on this book with the author

The book is talking about improving your life. No need for people to get huffy.

@ManiacMeats

Жыл бұрын

It's the messenger, not the message. I remember his one gem about women wearing makeup... No good.

@hisinheritance4048

Жыл бұрын

@@ManiacMeats But what does that have to do with Gabe? He’s sharing a book he gleaned some good insights from.

@ManiacMeats

Жыл бұрын

@@hisinheritance4048 nothing. If folks want to unsub, go for it. I'm staying here because I'm positive he's a chill guy that wants to stay well outside of stuff like this. If I see otherwise, I'll unsub and move along. C'est la vie.

@hisinheritance4048

Жыл бұрын

@@ManiacMeats I agreee. His overall vibe is trustworthy. Commited to this channel through the ups and downs. Like the stock market.

@ManiacMeats

Жыл бұрын

@@hisinheritance4048 agreed!

Living in present/......

I really like your content and your relaxed view on life - you seem clever, friendly, funny and like a very open-minded and sensitive person. Please do me just one favor: shoot more material you can use & stop using the same old sequences (you staring in the sky, you staring at the snow flakes falling down, you putting on one of those expensive Cuts hoodies,...) over and over and over again :-D

I'm a woman in my 40s and I'm so glad I read this book. The rules are plain common sense but not all of us absorbed these things when we were in our 20s. Then again my 20-30s self would have mightily resisted. I also really like all the references to evolutionary psychology, Archetypes, Religion and Mythology, Feminine and Masculine throughout the book. It might turn some people off but as a Tarot reader and spiritual witchy sort, those subjects really vibe for me. Might be a bit "out there" for some though.

I love Jordan Peterson and his philosophy but in all honesty I found most of his book a better confusing and hard to comprehend (which is most probably my own problem and nothing to do with the book. I only go 3/4 of the way through before stopping as i just couldn’t analyse enough of what he was saying. This video really broke down his rules a-little easier though.

@shesisloved9992

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t say harsh, he does put on airs sometimes like most men who think they are something hot.

Freedom of Speech 100%!

Plz do the book by charles duhigg “ the power of habit “

It’s a good book. Like with everything else in life we need to filter, some of Peterson’s thoughts sound a little strange to me. But that’s his opinion, I don’t have to agree.

Where can i order this book?

I am not sure you are even totally sold yourself on the 'there are no views you should be intolerant of' rule Gabe. To fail to heed the lessons of history & be intolerent of certain extreme views is itself dangerous.

Jordan Peterson is awesome man. I love it.

Order? What’s this “order” that you speak of?🤷🏼‍♀️

The Monster …. Yep … that monster grows and explodes one day.

Great synopsis. I initially liked Jordan Peterson and my appreciation and respect for him grows more every time I watch him or read his writings. He is super smart, super sincere, and super caring.

Great video as always but ....Monkey and Strength are spelt wrong in some of your visuals ruins the polish on your footage.

@kateb6893

Жыл бұрын

Gabe we love your videos but seriously run your text through spellcheck. It really affects your brand negatively. All this work to create beautiful, well-edited videos on topics that are important to you, and you aren't correcting your spelling with the basic AI tools that have existed for 20 years? I don't get it.

Knowlegede?

Can anyone tell me about why there's some sort of hatred towards Jordan Peterson?? Have he done something inappropriate?? Please tell me with actual facts Rather than your own personal opinion.

@michael_harren

Жыл бұрын

You can find out a bunch by googling his name along with transphobia and Elliot Page.

@RhymesWithSpark

Жыл бұрын

@@michael_harren He also told a guy to remove himself from human existence (paraphrased) on Twitter when he disagreed with JP, which is why JP is having his license as as a therapist reviewed.

@ManiacMeats

Жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/da6OpsedZMqreMY.html - a decent interview where you'll hear a few of his questionable quotes.

@heather8903

Жыл бұрын

Look up Forced Monogamy and JP. He is quite dangerous in his speech at the moment.

@AudioPlaysGames

Жыл бұрын

Transphobia has been the big one, but it goes back to him just being very closed minded and using his reach to promote some very negative views that people often classify as intolerant or unfounded. He's also spoke about women wearing makeup is a sign of sexual promiscuity, how women and men can't/shouldn't be allowed to work together, entirely misrepresenting political bills to try to get things blocked he doesn't like. It's all a matter of opinion so do your own research but be warned. He's a smooth talker, but if you really break down what he's saying it's not pretty.

💖 💖 💖

Newbie.

You talk about bad things happening. And you can’t blame anyone. My soulmate whom I had been married to for 24 years suddenly died. 12 years ago. Nope. No one to blame. But I keep on keeping on taking a cookie from my cookie jar. And I keep on going on because of my sons. Don’t know why but I do.

Enrique Iglesias!!!

🤍

Are you a Christian?

Seems the people who need the message the most are having the most issue with this. Those who love to be “victims” hate personal responsibility and live to silence anyone who suggests their problems in life are their fault.

@Gumby1978

8 ай бұрын

Great observation

Nope.

Yeah I'm out

@hollywoodbb

Жыл бұрын

Why?

@freetshirt_250

Жыл бұрын

Hi🎉

@capriciousblessings1223

Жыл бұрын

Not A Smart Move, But Hey Glad Your Back 🤣🤣😂😂

You don’t seem to be the type of person to bottle things up and get down?

Awesome to see someone not afraid to read a great book by a great author, despite the media trying to paint him as a Nazi. Good on you for not bending to what’s woke!

@JamFlexx

Жыл бұрын

just got a used copy from a local bookstore last week.

I watched JP in a couple of Videos but he always appeared very unhappy and harsh at times, so it was hard for me to take advice from someone who seems to lack enjoyment in his life.

@heather8903

Жыл бұрын

I said above in a comment, that I was tempted to unfollow Gabe because of the promotion of the book (not that there aren't some good points in the book - but because of what JP is doing now in this world is very dangerous.) (still undecided on the unfollow thing, because Gabe's content is great)

@Lausvir

Жыл бұрын

@@heather8903 I'm genuinely curious what you believe Jordan Peterson is doing that is dangerous. Can you elaborate?

@AudioPlaysGames

Жыл бұрын

He promotes some extremely narrow minded view points on what he seems to think of as people being too politicaly correct. Transphobic, misogynistic, take your pick. Everyone is entitled to thier opinions, but he honestly scares me. I'm in the same boat on the unfollow. Seeing a creator I respect promote someone like this even with the call out to be open minded left a really bad taste in my mouth. I cannot in good conscience support someone as closed minded as Jordan Peterson. And someone who does really makes me second guess my opinion of them.

@Lausvir

Жыл бұрын

@@AudioPlaysGames I understand some of where you're coming from. I have listened to a decent number of interviews and podcasts with Jordan Peterson and the majority of what he says/promotes I agree with. In terms of misogyny, I believe that he promotes most of his points through studies or reports on actual statistics. I can understand if you don't prefer his portrayal or his message but I do think that he usually gives good points and good advice. Maybe this reply will help you to delve deeper into it. Either way, it's only our opinions 🙃. Have a good one

@johnstiner6360

Жыл бұрын

The entirety of every comment is what’s wrong with this country. You’re blinded by the woke agenda and the narrative that has ransacked our lives we once knew. There’s a reason why Peterson is so very popular; there’s a reason why Peterson gets under your skin … because you are making excuses for your own actions and outcomes, not living outside of the matrix that you have chosen to stay within.

3:54 Proverbs 27:17 proclaims: “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another”

Had to unsubscribe, you’re basically rehashing the same videos over and over.

@SaraB2017

Жыл бұрын

Yep this was the last straw for me too.

Ohhh these again. Same old stuff just from a new book What a waste Anyone recording this stuff and watching all the repeats?

Bye girl. Bye.

Wow! Now I must to unsubscribe, so even KZread algorithm I wasn't associated with the morron that Jordan Peterson is. I'm so sad right now, I loved your channel, and your content, and you as a role model

Oof careful Gabe, you're wandering into strange territory when you cover stuff like this. The book is fine, but his latest actions and the people that gravitate to him are worrisome. Maybe was time to unsub anyways, always found it weird you talk about minimalism but are clearly obsessed with maximizing your income.

@gerardoesquivel9919

Жыл бұрын

Rules for thee but not for me

@sprint7412

Жыл бұрын

Minimalism isn't about having little money, though. If anything, it's the opposite since you're saving a lot of money in the process of getting rid of things you don't need and avoiding buying new things.

Tell me you don’t care about your LGBTQ viewers without saying you don’t care about your LGBTQ viewers. What a disappointment to see this video.

@effectiveresults7963

Жыл бұрын

LBGT is a choice like any other choice in life.God has given us our identity rather than feeling we have to make our own identity.

@RhymesWithSpark

Жыл бұрын

Yep. So disappointed.

@ManiacMeats

Жыл бұрын

Disagree. I think he wanted to show the merits of a book without the pretext of the author BUT I'll agree that it *can* be a slippery slope normalizing the author and inadvertently pushing people into JP's and having them fall into his more radical views. I get it and I love the general gist of the book but can't find myself reading it because I can't really excuse the author. Anyway, I'm still subbed UNLESS I saw otherwise with future videos.

@fiercearmadillo6850

Жыл бұрын

I'm a woman, left leaning and DEFINITELY not heterosexual. :) Nothing in the book offended me and I respect the author on the topic of self-help, because that's his area of expertise. On other topics, such as history, etc, he's an interested non-expert, just like me.

Urgg no

You talk about cutting ties with friends that make the world a worse place, but promote a man who tells people to kill themselves? Not sure this was the wisest book to point people towards. You have some really great points in here just wrapped in some poor packaging. I will try to keep and open mind here but this video really worries me. I'm surprised to hear you talk about being open minded while promoting such a closed minded person. It's good to at least listen to different opinions but there is a line between listening and promoting to thousands of viewers.

I can’t believe you are promoting Jordan B. Peterson! He is horrible! You just lost a subscriber