Your story about feeling guilty that your sister helped take care of your dog reminded me of something my husband said to me years ago. I was a volunteer coordinator for a school and made it my job to help others every day. One day I forgot to bring my lunch. One of the volunteers gave me half of her sandwich. I knew this woman had very little income. I mentioned to my husband that I wanted to reimburse this friendly volunteer for the sandwich. My husband ask me if I enjoyed helping others. I said Of Course! Then he said, Don't take away the pleasure others receive from helping you. I have a very wise husband.🧡

@BellaBear96

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Wow!! Very well said!! ❤

Your time spent in the PhD program is not at all wasted...you are sharing it here!

"Toxic positivity." I have never heard that, but it's so true. Sometimes I feel like my mood is not good enough to be around other people, when the truth is that we all have bad moments, days, or seasons, although the entertainment programming has indeed programmed people into believing that happy should be most of the time.

I especially love and relate to the part about how perfectionism feeds procrastination 🧡

@Phoebe455

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Frozen meals from time to time is a must for me. Sometimes I make my own from leftovers or I stock a few items I’ve found to be on the healthier side. It is a major life saver during crunch times. 👍🏻

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I love how you get straight to the point and your voice is so calming. Thank you for the life hacks! 💗

Perfectionism is also a barrier to asking others. If we ask others to do something, we have to accept that they won't do it the same way we would.

@Phoebe455

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Can confirm that Merit is incredible 🥰

The satisfaction of completing something you want to procrastinate is a good reframing too. The less you want to do it the more satisfying it will be to be done. Letting go of perfectionism is a game changer. The laundry still gets done but I’m not a slave to it. And no one has noticed.

@Phoebe455

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Love ourselves. That's the point. Thank you for sharing the tips.

@Phoebe455

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I sometimes listen to your videos while hemming or filing , the small chores are finished while I focus on your thoughts and your calm presentation.

@Phoebe455

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I went back to short hair. It takes me 3 minutes to do my hair. I really can't get over how much easier it is for me to have short hair.

@Phoebe455

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Great list. Thank you

Loved your video ❣️

Wow. This came at such a perfect time. I appreciate everything you have said and realized that I suffer from perfectionism feeding procrastination in a huge way. Thank you for your calm delivery - it really is helpful.

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

thank you for this kind comment! :)

I love your videos. You have a lovely calming voice, perfect for these types of videos. Thank you.

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

💛 Always so helpful. Thank you for such beautiful videos.

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

Cool to watch your channel grow! Wishing you the best ❤

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This is a wonderful, wonderful video!! I needed to hear this as a perfectionist. Thank you!😁

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Thanks for sharing these helpful tips Aline 👍😊

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Great tips as always, Elin!

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Great advice and so easy to implement on the whole. I totally agree task combining and bundling less enjoyable tasks with ones you enjoy more are genuine time saver hacks. I am sometimes guilty of being far too perfectionist which I agree is a waste of time, there is no such thing as true perfection it is merely an unreachable myth. I really do enjoy watching your videos, Elin they are so calming to watch and your delivery is beautiful. Wishing you a peaceful week. 🌞🌼

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

Thanks - same to you!

Thank you for a great video. I love your voice, very relaxing.

11th point is great. thank you

Great video!❤

Great video 👏🏼 It gave me good perspective, about how to make my tasks easier, and improve my perfectionist. Thanks 😊

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

Aw, thanks! :)

Brillant hacks ! Thanks so much!❤

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I love the Story from you and your sister 😊🧡

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Beautiful video

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Another great video, thank you! Quick question, where did you get that large blue mug? I am looking for the perfect mug. And that one looks great. Thanks 😊

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

They were a gift from my mom, so I’m not entirely sure… some kind of handmade shop from Maine I think! Sorry to not be of more help :/ but I feel like there are a lot of great handmade mug options on Etsy!

Automate not automatize

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The 12th one is the one I need to work on more. Hope you also have a wonderful day. 🙂

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Just subscribe and respect your vlog just support your channel

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

i used your link and was excited to discover more about Merit, i wanted to purchase but was so disappointed at check out to find out they only ship to US and Canada 😢

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What is the app you use that saves or invests your money that you mentioned? These were all great, helpful tips! Thank you so much fir sharing!

@Phoebe455

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Hello, Can you please share the company that withdraws fork from your account and invests it for you? Love following you! Thank you Cathy

@ElinLesser

Жыл бұрын

I currently use digit! :)

I would not advise allowing corporations/businesses the ability to withdraw money from your checking account automatically. It takes just a few minutes to address an envelope, write a check and drop it in the mail. And you get to keep total control over your checking account. These businesses store your financial information and are constantly being hacked, compromising consumer's financial information. It's a huge hassle when there is a dispute with a company that has the ability to take money from your account; even if they agree to reimburse you, they take their sweet time about it.

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Music is distracting

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Im sick if seeing so many youtubers carying a coffee cup. The videos may be good but I don't understand the coffee cup.