We notice when other people judge us in a negative way, even without them saying so, and we avoid them. 🧐

@anelisaqase1168

9 ай бұрын

I'm an intj and I'm also like that😂

@RobleMote

8 ай бұрын

Yea i avoid them too and then i ruined my friendship💀

@andligdoft7996

4 ай бұрын

Oh yeah in the very first second they show it. And be it a curse or blessing , we INFJ see it straight away.

@l0I0I0I0

4 ай бұрын

Yes Andi... amd they don't know we are on to them immediately. Lol

@nurainaamir4814

3 ай бұрын

oh my god! that so me! im infj and i thought its normal for introvert person to do that.

We see EVERYTHING. People really resent that. And that is precisely why no one likes us.

I am an INFJ and I have only met one other (that I know of) and oddly enough, I couldn't stand them! I felt like every single thing I did was being studied and analyzed, he gave me a lot of advice I did not ask for, and he was bewildering honest to the point where it made me uncomfortable. Then I finally realized why I don't have many friends, I do the same thing lol

@kali4013

Ай бұрын

damn

@HarryJensen-kr4qz

22 күн бұрын

Similar experience here. We both have difficulty in relationships. One day we realized nobody really likes us. We don't even like each other at times😂. At the end of the day, I tell her "be careful, I don't wanna be on this planet alone, you're the only one I got."

@deborahkemunto1433

14 күн бұрын

Now what is it interesting is, the best friend I have had is an INFJ, and I am one

@balqishaida2391

11 күн бұрын

so cutee bahahahh​@@HarryJensen-kr4qz

@itsmema5592

6 күн бұрын

I'm an INFJ, and have met 2 other INFJs in my life. They were the reason I started thinking this whole MBTI thing is just a scam. Our personalities were completely different like I can not find any similarity between the 3 of us. Plus, I couldn't handle them at all, like why in the world would a human being be so manipulative like they both were. Or they would go on trying to know me in a deeper level, but sister who are you fooling, I know what you're trying to do 😭😂. I hated both and I'm not friends with them anymore, our personalities just didn't match, I just hated someone else trying to get to know me on a deeper level like I wanna do that but don't want that to be done with me. So Ironic.

I’m an INFJ and I feel like a lone wolf the fact is lone wolf dies and pack survives. It’s a curse and blessing at the same time to be an INFJ, it’s so stressful because when you know the whole game but you cannot play, stressful.

@wisdomseeker3132

Жыл бұрын

It's not "cannot" i think it's "You think you know the game... But in reality You don't." That is one of the reasons You don't play it. 😅

@grovermartin6874

Жыл бұрын

VishnuTeja, I can speak only for myself, but it seems to me that, as life goes on and you learn what you are best at, who you are comfortable with, where you fit best and who welcomes your way of being, life gets easier. This may be true for everyone, but it seems more true for INFJs because we are coming from farther away from the norm.

@grovermartin6874

Жыл бұрын

​@@wisdomseeker3132Maybe that is to say, they have different values, and cannot play the game without sacrificing core values, which is unacceptable. Better not to breathe at all, then.

@avoiceinthewilderness9864

Жыл бұрын

So true.

@aishadiwan3519

Жыл бұрын

Same feeling here 🥺

I like real people. Genuine

@floreentan8020

13 күн бұрын

To the point that the real one is only "me"

I hate being lonely and alone. But when i see the cruel surrounding, then oh~ how nice it is to not be absorbed in them

@Vili9562

6 ай бұрын

What! I've been thinking the same😮😅

@VioletRayZ

6 ай бұрын

​@@Vili9562It's cool to have the same mind. Btw, are you tribal?(⁠✯⁠ᴗ⁠✯⁠)

@teenager9103

4 ай бұрын

Oh myyyyy😢😢😢 my problem is same as urs bcs i feel like right now super lonely at the fricking university i attend but i have no friends there bcs i was too cold to them. I dont know they were annoying to me but i feel lonely being alone all the time. When someone comes to me and tryna interact w me, i push them away. Idk really why but my limit time is an hour thirty. When it is 2 hours i feel super annoyed and think i will never be w them again 😭 but i ammm super lonely, and dont know what should i do

@VioletRayZ

4 ай бұрын

​@@teenager9103woah! Exactly me months ago. I made an extreme change after that. Although our personality comes in play, it's doing better for me. How about you? Hmm..i know how to know this. Wanna exchange igs? (Dw:)

@VioletRayZ

3 ай бұрын

@@teenager9103 I'm so sorry for you 🫂 and goshh so relatable cuz that's soo me with the people in my hometown. Maybe it depends on the people and the setting? Because as i stay with new classmates in a new school, my cheeks are rosy with happiness everyday I'm so different from my hometown. I didn't knew i could make such nice friends either. My cheeks would hurt from smiling too much. What do you think?

Can we please start an INFJ networking kinda thing, sorta like MENSA? But…none of us would show up 😂🙃

@ccpr15

Жыл бұрын

Yes exactly 😂

@Zoeygrl768

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@seer._.

Жыл бұрын

HAHA

@ngeee10

Жыл бұрын

😂

@intelligence6743

Жыл бұрын

yeah i am sure that would be fill from more real intelligent peoples than mensa

Alone but not lonely. INFJ to the core

I do need my solitude. I've been treated my whole life like that was wrong, but it's not. People who are very talkative are very draining. So leave us be. It'll make for a better day

@orangelady416

Жыл бұрын

I'm an infj but I talk a lot😢

@bruceolga3644

Жыл бұрын

The following yakkers are fake faux real fr; programmed backwards NPCs 👁️

@aditi3749

5 ай бұрын

And the "Why do you talk so less" and "why are you so quiet" ahhh like- WHY DO YOU TALK SO MUCHH 💀

They can feel the emotions and intentions of everyone around us. It’s a survival adaptation and is exhausting to be in crowds.

I am in the 2% yay.. I love being infj.. No friends no problem.. Better alone than be in a drama soup..

As an INFJ ,I always create a personality to make that person comfortable. I don't even know myself

@idklol6518

Жыл бұрын

Real

@dilannohi5675

Жыл бұрын

I think you should spend some time alone and ask yourself questions but don't spent all time alone, from what I know INFJ need time to reconnect with themselves. Also INFJ need socialize, they like to spend time with the ones that get them. Art help expressing yourself, you can write, dance, sing, paint, draw or even listening to something. You can get any kind of hobby that isn't harmful.

@sabrinahope1171

11 ай бұрын

I do the same thing and I’m still trying to figure out who I am

@m.fire0898

10 ай бұрын

A high five from me 😂🖐🏻 I feel you! Identity crisis at its best 😂

@booking_booksruiz

10 ай бұрын

Same

As an INFJ this is absolutely true, and nice to know there is a reason why I don't have many friends and that I can strangely read people extremely well....

It feels good to see an INFJ community in this comment section. Finally we are getting our similar types and got to share what always goes inside our minds..❣️

@goteamslugs

Жыл бұрын

Yes! It's a great feeling isn't it buddy? =)

@inquisitive.2510

Жыл бұрын

@@goteamslugs indeed

@goteamslugs

Жыл бұрын

@@inquisitive.2510 Yup . . I wish we could all meet up somewhere in a giant building or secret facility of sorts. =]

@inquisitive.2510

Жыл бұрын

@@goteamslugs it's kinda day dream

@goteamslugs

Жыл бұрын

@@inquisitive.2510 . . I know. :]

🎯 I'm a private person. When I let you into my world it's because I have allowed it; if they don't want to get to know me it'll be your loss. INFJ Doorslam I wouldn't wish it on anyone not even myself.

@mindyc6239

5 ай бұрын

I like that... INFJ DOORSLAM😂

I will sending this video to anyone asking me why I don't go out or around people like do you see what kind of society we live in, no thank you love my house and alone time

@goteamslugs

Жыл бұрын

Yes. Seriously! :)

I found out I’m a infj a few days ago. It’s just makes so much sense now

@amandak7302

Жыл бұрын

It’s such an epiphany when you find out your type! 👍

@sbirkkk

9 ай бұрын

I just found out too.

@angelotrinidad6888

8 ай бұрын

Just found out today

@angelotrinidad6888

8 ай бұрын

@@Huntingalien take an MBTI-test

@lingobingo7299

6 ай бұрын

I'm an INFJ gamer girl too. After finding out I'm an infj recently, i felt comforted to know there are actually others out there who are a lot like me

Well I'm an INFJ but I trust people easily. I just notice their flaws very quickly and end up staying away from them. I don't necessarily stay away because of their flaws but I just looove solitude😂 but yeah, I can't help but notice the flaws

@jenn2226

Жыл бұрын

What is INFJ?

@orangelady416

Жыл бұрын

@@jenn2226Introverted INtuitive Feeling and Judging

@jenn2226

Жыл бұрын

@@orangelady416 thank you

@tabs8457

Жыл бұрын

Same As an INFJ, I trust people easily and then regret it. But all these videos made me think that INFJ don't trust easily but here i am.

@gnosis8142

Ай бұрын

There's a table with points in my mind for everyone, which turn into a general rank.

As an lnfp I relate to all 11 of these reasons

@afaz4070

Жыл бұрын

Lmao same

@lauralampi563

Жыл бұрын

INFP here and I kind of relate, too. But INFJs are something else. 😂 They’re hardcore, man. And they take independence and solitude to a whole other level.

@pepethefrog8759

Жыл бұрын

Me too 🤣

@muhammadakna8397

Жыл бұрын

cause that just Stereotype and BASED ON Behaviour. learn your dom Cognitive function to see are you INFP for real ?

@winniediallo4118

Жыл бұрын

@@muhammadakna8397 I took the mbti test multiple times and got infp 97% of the time.

I am an INFJ type and proud to be most rare one

@sirscharlatan8537

Жыл бұрын

entj is the most rare since a year

@nino702

Жыл бұрын

​@@sirscharlatan8537 don't think so

@mrunmayiranade251

Жыл бұрын

Honestly I don't believe in this statistical data because they consider a certain number of population in a particular region and then apply it to the whole world, which is quite unfair and irrelevant

@shonulalak6820

Жыл бұрын

you will now but there will be times you wished you weren't an infj as people rarely know you,i too used to be proud but now it's just ok now

@mrunmayiranade251

Жыл бұрын

@@shonulalak6820 Yes that's so true😭

I began to understand myself, my personality INFJ

@wisdomseeker3132

Жыл бұрын

It's a Theory. Why so Serious 😅

@wisdomseeker3132

Жыл бұрын

Not a 100%, It's just a theory. Why so serious. 😅

@patienceobongo

Жыл бұрын

​@@wisdomseeker3132 its a conspiracy theory

@gnosis8142

Ай бұрын

@@wisdomseeker3132 - it's 100% correct.

Underlying most of the listed traits is a great sensitivity to others' needs and feelings in addition to one's own. From that sensitivity springs vulnerability, a capacity to feel emotional pain, ergo withdrawal from judgment of those comparatively insensitive to pain. Those insensitive ones feel emotionally dull witted, uncaring, and hurtful, even to the point of seeming like wild ravening beasts. Who wouldn't recoil from that? So how many people can be trusted with one's heart and spirit? It takes time to let them show themselves. Once trust is established, the floodgates of friendship can open, cautiously at first, always watching for the signs of resistance, resentment, or envy. Plus, the superficial ha-has of acquaintanceship aren't worth the investment of energy and time compared to real Friendship. Life is too short to blow it away on triviality.

@goteamslugs

Жыл бұрын

Well said my friend! ^u^

Being an older infj I recognize that early life experiences cement the genetic tendencies.

@emilyAmelie

Жыл бұрын

what does it mean ? 😀

@humongswlth9964

Жыл бұрын

@@emilyAmelie Darling, how old are you? 🙂 It means, that general experiences in life support that persons genetic predisposition/ predispositions. I'm not sure, if it helped in any way... . I tried, thou.. . Good luck to you. 🤨🙂

@emilyAmelie

Жыл бұрын

@@humongswlth9964 Thank you so much~ i still don’t really get it , sorry. 😆

@gnosis8142

Ай бұрын

@@emilyAmelie - INFJ Vague Mysterious statements.

The trust part is 100% true for me. While I made two friends in my college, they had already called me their bestfriend while I was thinking of deleting their contact when college is over. It took me a year to become bestfriends with them. Now I can't live without them

I’m an INJF-T and I related to every video about this personality type-.

Just leave me ALONE.

@princecharlesrusseldonayre

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I just can't say that to my friend in the school. I don't want to make them feel bad, but my acts say it all. She's full of drama, talks nonsense most of the time (e.g. backstabbing someone, mocking their looks, etc.) However, on April 15, I finally cut her off. I told her about all the things I can't bear with and that all I want is solitude and peace. I think, she's now paying respect to me. We still do talk on the things that are with value and worthwhile to talk.

Yup and minding my own business 😌 👌🏽

This is why I dont have a relatioship

I don't think I'm intense...hmm...The rest 100% though! I tried to take a nap earlier but started thinking about a new schedule I wanted to implement and then couldn't sleep because I was looking forward to putting it together... I may in fact be too weird for even an INFJ...

“infi-juhs” 💀

@leighuh

Жыл бұрын

💀👍

@goteamslugs

Жыл бұрын

What's a "juh"? =)

@leighuh

Жыл бұрын

@@goteamslugs they are talking about how the video said “indi-juhs” instead of infjs.

@goteamslugs

Жыл бұрын

@@leighuh Oh! Haha! XD Thank you for explaining. =)

@leighuh

Жыл бұрын

@@goteamslugs ofc

Being not alone is terrible

Stop reveling us bruh 😂

I enjoy my solitude, but I can't understand respect why people like to be together. No judgment from me and I have so great friends who don't need my attention daily. I'm grateful

yep...WE are INTENSE😝been told I am intense by a few ppl..🤣

I don't like a fake environment. I require authenticity and I love peace and quiet. Yes I've been accused of being too intense! I love real conversations, deep conversations. I'm not here on this planet to talk about paint drying.

We do see everything. And, what we see, we keep to ourselves.

I approve of all of these except the last one, and I think that's because I don't understand why I'm too intense for most people...I've never heard that

@floreentan8020

13 күн бұрын

It is related with how our ability to read people and some of them dislikes the idea. And also of our tendency of being perfectionist.

I’m currently dating an INFJ, and I feel like every single one of these points are accurate except for the one about being sensitive, but that could be me not knowing him on a deep enough level

This is so accurate and concise

No one's way too intense for me -INTP

I'm an INFJ too, finally I found about my personality ❤❤

Wow this is actually spot on!!

This is 100 % me. People ask me why it's so hard for me to trust people, and I ask them why is it so hard for them to keep a promise or be someone who wont use me for their own benefit. My silence can be both a shield and a weapon, protecting me from further hurt or inflicting a lasting blow. I push people away because I’m afraid I might not heal again if I get hurt. I push them away and paint my walls so good they can’t recognize me anymore. I don’t give people a chance. I can't let myself get hurt again. My heart can't take it. My advice as an INFJ....is If you want to be strong, learn to fight alone. You can't trust anyone but yourself.

INFJ here, yes all of these.

Number 9 is one of the driving factors for me in this matter. Nowadays, it seems people are all about drama. I’ve door slammed quite a few people out of my life for that very reason, and sometimes I just want to slam my door on the entire world. I just want peace and harmony in my life now. People have drained me.

We hate snakes. And by snakes, we mean people with forked tongues, those who say and act differently when they’re in front and behind our back. The irony of it is, I love the animal snakes. 😂

As an INFJ I confirm that it’s hard to make a lot of friends

@arthurmoreira49

Ай бұрын

Do you even want a lot of friends tho, that'd be more trouble than it's worth it

Funny part of being like this is that I'm always nervous and worry thinking about what my wedding day would looks like, who's gonna be my bridesmaid and who's gonna receive my invitation and fill the chair even tho I'm so single and not even have the urge to marry anyone in near time 😂

It's first time when I agree on all things someone says about my personality...

Being an INFJ as well, I understand this all too well

As an INFJ, I agree with all facts.

An interesting take on this INFJ type! Thanks for sharing. Randomly discovered your channel through the KZread algorithm! 🤟🤟🤟

I want to be one so bad. I'm lucky if I feel an emotion every ten days.

I personnaly hate when a psychological analysis describe me perfectly. It took me 30 years to realized and accept that I am different and dificult. Dogs are my best companion and confident as I trust nobody!!😮

i have really felt like people have a hard time understanding me. and from learning that i’m a infj. AFTER learning they are so rare is really cool

But we have deeper friendships. My friendships go back to age 2, age 3 .. and I continue to add deep lifelong friends through the years into my 60s now. My friends say they don’t have another friend like me, they don’t have the conversations with others that we have, they call me their best friend, their truest friend. Bc I love them, I care about them, I’m interested in them - who they really are - even though i don’t fully agree with any of them, share their politics or religion or whatever, I create space for them to be exactly who they really are. My friends mean the world to me. I don’t have any family - that is, no siblings and my cousins are older and live in other countries so I can’t talk with them and haven’t seen most of them for decades. Even my friends - we can be apart 10 years - coming together it’s like we were never apart. What I can’t get comfortable with is shallow relationships, shallow conversations, conformity, group think… 1000 empty faces on social media. Doesn’t mean I don’t have friends. It means that if I threw a big wedding for myself, I wouldn’t have a matching crew of women to pose for the photo.

Funny. But it's so true to me. 😁

@wisdomseeker3132

Жыл бұрын

Not a 100%. It's a theory. Why so serious. 😅

@gnosis8142

Ай бұрын

@@wisdomseeker3132 - are you an INTJ?

I'm infj and this whole thing is me😄

Wow! The accuracy. Lol

My partner and I are both infj’s. I’m a infj-A and he’s an infj-T . This video leans more towards my bf. We like being alone… together on our free time. Doing our own things. 😂 this is relatable.. I don’t have much close friends that really knows me but I’m an open book to most things. It’s too overwhelming sometimes.

@arthurmoreira49

Ай бұрын

That's awesome, how did you encounter another INFJ, or did you start your relationship and only later came to realize you both were it

As an INFJ, 8th and 9th is very true.

I'd have a really hard time ranking all 11 by accuracy. A really hard time.

I can relate to this 100%. I'm an INFJ type

Wow, this rlly describes my life, now I'm finally rlly sure I'm INFJ

As an INFJ, I basically have a personality for every person I meet to the point that I know almost nothing about myself. I will be a "Gossip Girl" around some people, or clumsy around people who need a laugh. It sucks.

We have to operate outside the matrix to influence it.

Checked for all items!

As an INFJ it took some time before I understood the nature… as to how different I really am… but then the “why” also came later: before a grievous breakdown, I noticed that I was sensitive to sound and movement… after a breakdown I became acutely aware of my surroundings as well. But then a study I had entered into, I began to see the “horizon” in a whole different context. And as an artist I began to see the “BIG PICTURE” from a very different perspective as well.

And we can discern robots. Dont want em around

@gnosis8142

Ай бұрын

You mean like the narrator?

enfp using shadow functions I relate

The reading people thing is rlly one of my instincts....I can easily read people's moves from the way I see them in my point of view...I easily know when someone feels embarrassed or what there feeling but the dnwfall is u know when someone is avoiding u just from one eye contact...It's easy for us to read people we know for a long time

This is me to a T. These videos are so validating.

I'm an INFJ

That's me.

Hey, don't think you are INFJ 'cause you relate, causeINFP do the same thing. You must learn cognitive function to know are you relate to INFJ or not

Nailed it. 💅

True! This is totally bang on!

INFJs dislike conflict and have little patience for drama, but all you INFJs know that the way you are actually causes conflict and drama and you love it!

@1594simonsays

Жыл бұрын

no

@humongswlth9964

Жыл бұрын

Nope. Don't love it. At all. Private. Don't love, don't like drama.

@amandak7302

Жыл бұрын

Nope

Honestly, I think introverts in general can relate to these reasons. The less specific the harder it pertains to a specific individual. Therefore, creating the mass relatability most people feel from this post, thus gaining publicity. I genuinely believe these reasons aren't just for infjs yet claim as if they are to appeal to a community of people who feel as if "they're not like the rest". Remember not one person is like "the rest" because everyone is unique and even if they are like the rest, what's so bad about that? Don't you want to have people mutually understand you as you understand them?

I shift between infj and intj, but i still have a good amount of close friends for an introvert. But mostly use them as my personal benefits lol, sorry guys.

@humongswlth9964

Жыл бұрын

So you are, most likely, INTJ.

@amandak7302

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like INTJ.

I distanced, before it was a thing😂❤grateful for these videos that give me insight into, myself

These 11 are just some of the reasons lol Trust me . And yes I’ve been told I’m super intense and those that can’t handle it walk away . Suits me fine now .

Actually the rarest personality type in population is ENTJ.

Wow these people described me exactly!

Well, you got all that right!

I’m so grateful that the MBTI types were invented because these kinds of videos make me feel better understood

I'm an INFJ female 💗

it's so difficult living as infj😢

Omg are you stalking me?!?

don't come to conclusions about your personality,,,just give a individual test with 60 questions,,,after I gave a mbti test ,then I got infj-a type,,,and above all 11 things fits me perfectly.

Sensitive and reading people go hand and hand

This is golden so spot on

This is so true...

I'm extroverted,well mannered and have a lot of friends tho but yes true

Oh god this is sooo accurate

Sadly, all true

Infj here.. Yes.. I admit that was true.. 😊

You know....I'm sitting here listening to these 11 reasons....and I'm checking off like 9 things that apply to me. Cool, I guess

This just describe the whole me 😂😂

Holy shit. I feel like I just got put on blast. This is my personality type.