"I'm sorry I care" I felt that

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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@jamestateIII

2 жыл бұрын

Yes....I loved it. She is very self accountable and aware.

I've only recently gotten used to wearing more revealing styles on top instead of baggy sweaters everyday... Probably still insecure because of all the people who used to comment on my broad shoulders... In school it would upset me but make me feel confident at gymnastics practice, it's crazy how much your environment can affect your thoughts and feelings

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t agree more! Rock those broad shoulders! I’m sure they’re stunning ♥️

@LumerianWhispersASMR

4 жыл бұрын

Girl I feel you! I have very broad shoulders as well and often times I'm broader than most guys! But for me, lifting weights, surfing and anything athletic is easier for me because it adds to your strength ! Just like your gymnastics.... definitely don't feel insecure because it's a badass quality and we don't have to work as hard to have that smaller looking waist and we can excel in our sports/hobbies... which a lot of those people that tease you, I bet can't do anything in gymnastics with their weak build haha !

@user-od2jj4zd5k

4 жыл бұрын

Go on giiiirl 💖💖

@Losshe

4 жыл бұрын

Just a personal observation, I find off the shoulder tops suit girls with wide shoulders more than tops that cover them. When you cover them people can still see how wide your shoulders are, but when you're showing your skin, it makes you look more feminine and the silhouette of the neck and the shoulders create such an elegant shape that people forget how wide your shoulders are. Also having smooth and glowy skin helps distract people

@theamethyst93

4 жыл бұрын

SarahClark I have broad shoulders too and if you wear bulky oversized items to try to hide them it will just make them look bigger. You need to wear fitted clothes on top. V necks are your friend. No boat necks or crew necks, especially if you have also big boobs. I’m 27 and it’s taken this long for me to understand this. I used to wear oversized items thinking it was helping me but it made me look worse.

"Somewhere between inverted triangle and hourglass". This is exactly me. My shoulders shout for attention, my waist is not narrow enough to qualify as the "hourglass", my hips are not wide enough to complete the hourglass figure and each of these areas have significantly different proportions that the "rectangle" physique doesn't apply either. I have tried styles for "the inverted triangle" shape and they didn't look OK. "Hour glass styles" were somehow off too. I have just gone with turtle necks tops and A-line bottoms to make everything above look smaller than everything below (doesn't work all the time though). Thanks to this channel I have gotten a sense of what I need to do to make clothes flatter my physique. Keep up the good work!

@amy_vioc

2 жыл бұрын

I felt this on my soul. I've wide shoulders too, and sometimes I don't qualify as an inverted triangle or the rectangle shape either, and it's so frustrating cause if I follow one it will make me look more like a triangle and if I follow the other I look way to wide, but something that kinda saved me was the Kibbe body types it's has so many body shapes, that I can actually fit in one and follow the advice it

TIMESTAMPS: 0:11 Intro 0:37- DISCLAIMER (whatever your body-type is, it rocks!) 1:44- Highlight & Contour 3:07- Size Matters.. Sometimes 4:36- The Rise & The Fit 6:30- The Illusion of Wider Hips 7:23- Wrap it up 8:09- Tuck it in 8:45- Use Cut outs To your advantage 10:48- Shape-Wear 11:36- Proper Posture 13:13- Posing in pictures

thank you for making the disclaimer at the beginning! it's so refreshing to find content creators who realize the effect they can have! 💖

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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@captainman2clever351

3 жыл бұрын

She plays lip service though, she obviously thinks it's better to have smaller waist as this is what she tries to achieve.

@mariannek6735

3 жыл бұрын

@@captainman2clever351 Not necessarily. Some people look better with a slim waist and others don't. Also, there is a beauty standard that says a smaller waist is the best, and a lot of people want to fit that (so this video caters to them), but subjectively a lot of people might not like that. There is both societal opinions and personal opinions to keep in mind.

her accent makes her sound so elegant for some reason

@fayadpalos2420

3 жыл бұрын

Is she Cuban?

@mariadiaz9616

3 жыл бұрын

That is the Miami accent...

The trousers that balloon out are my favorite “trick”

I wish I could give you one hundred thumbs up. This is my first time commenting even though I’ve been watching your videos religiously for over a year. I’ve been unconsciously exploring this idea of accentuating my waist for a long time, and I’ve just realized that a lot of the tips and tricks you have mentioned were things I have considered/done without even realizing the effect that they have. Other things were brand new to me and just completely blew my mind. Needless to say, thank you so much for taking the time to do this video. It is absolutely everything.

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for commenting!! It truly means a lot 😩 so glad you find these videos helpful and YESS! Show that waist off girl! ♥️

So grateful for your disclaimers about the value of certain body types! Being plus-size, highlighting “smaller” parts of my body is nearly impossible, so I really appreciate that you make it known that this isn’t the ultimate standard of beauty!

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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I actually think it's God sent that you put in your disclaimers. It's good you care.

I am SO GLAD that you spoke up and said "the power of having any kind of platform ", and you also said impressionable...in my opinion many celebrities and social media personalities don't even realize the IMPACT they have on people's minds and how folk tend to gobble up what is said. I love it.....applause!!! I'm a fashion designer and I googled illusion of smaller waist. So YES...that's for the beginning disclaimer....more should step up and be self accountable for what they display to the world.

Ugh, forever wishing I was born with an hourglass/pear shaped body lol. I hold a lot of my weight around the tummy. It's the one thing that led to my eating disorder and kept me from full recovery for 9 years. Every time I would reach my healthy weight range I would freak out and relapse. I'm currently trying to restore my hormones after years of not having a period, but man it's hard. The one thing I do feel has helped give the look of a smaller waist though is lifting weights and growing my lats:) Not sure why I felt the need to share my story here, but maybe someone out there can relate. You can't choose where you genetically hold fat, unfortunately, but it doesn't make you less fit or less of a person

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️♥️ Couldn’t agree more, I wish I could make videos for every body type but I’m only familiar with dressing my own. I assume and hope that those who watch my videos understand that it’s ok to have a different body type but that’s not always the case. It’s very difficult not to compare or to think that something is wrong with us because we don’t look like what we see on the internet. Specially, for my younger audience, I don’t ever want to make them feel that way. I went through it when I was younger, trying to achieve a specific body.. and I’m still paying for the consequences. Also, yes!! weight training and having a proper caloric intake for my height has definitely changed my body ALOT. I barely had hips or much of a waist before (even when I started youtube) I was much thinner, I’ve gained like 20lb since starting youtube almost 4 years ago and I’ve never felt more womanly or more confident even though my body fat is higher and this is a weight that I was afraid to be at before. ♥️♥️♥️

@angelinalovesbeauty

4 жыл бұрын

The fact that you took the time to write this kind of reply just shows what amazing, caring human you are!! I agree 100% with everything you just said. And yes, it's amazingg what a proper calorie intake combined with weight lifting can do! It has made me feel a lot more confident and womanly too!! xx

@surbhii.k

2 жыл бұрын

I'm short waisted but i hold a lot of fat in my tummy area whenever i gain fat it's always stored in my tummy , i hate it i gain fat so easily.

I subscribed the exact moment you finished your disclaimer and spoke about the responsibility of having a platform.

Having bad posture as a grown woman can make me kind of embarrassed but it's something that developed in my teen years that I didn't realize. I'm definitely lifting to strengthen my muscles to improve my posture! 2020 is the year of working on our posture!

I feel like my shoulders are just hella to broad to wear shirts off the shoulder I feel like it makes my shoulders look even bigger .

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Girl I’m literally almost a line backer!! lol I have very broad shoulders too but sometimes I use it to my advantage and it doesn’t look bad, maybe try a sweetheart neckline instead of a straight across top. You can also try offsetting it with a dainty pendant necklace that hits around the middle of your sternum. ♥️

@livguttesen6178

4 жыл бұрын

Girl I have broad shoulders too. I’ve come to the conclusion that off the shoulder tops look hella good on me, bettet than they would if I had sloped or small shoulders

@lornamuller9493

4 жыл бұрын

I guess I just gotta embrace it haha :)

@abercomistergrl

4 жыл бұрын

Broad shoulders are beautiful (and your handbag doesn’t constantly slide off)!!! 👍🏻

@Gina-Montana

4 жыл бұрын

Lorna Muller I have really broad shoulders as well and like Gemary, have referred to myself as a linebacker LOL. Just know that when done right, off shoulder, boatneck, wide scoopneck or a sweetheart is what is going to lend to the illusion of a much smaller waist. Take advantage of what you’ve got. Sometimes I’m feeling extra crazy and will go with a puff shoulder sweetheart top with a belted pencil skirt. I get so many compliments on my figure everytime I wear that combo, which you wouldn’t guess a puff shoulder would do.

Girl, it took me like a damn hour just to watch this video all the way thru. Damn children kept busting thru the door interrupting me 😩 I bought the shape wear in both colors! Helped me a lot with the dimps lol

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Yay!! So glad they worked out ♥️ thanks for watching, despite the obstacles!! 😂😂 I really appreciate it!!

Your camera quality is amazing! You always have beautiful backgrounds as well

I normally don't care about clothes as long as I'm comfy but your video made me realize that styling makes such a huge difference. Need to up my game lol

I love how she ALWAYS keeps it real & honest. It's so relatable & nice!!

Great tips! Pictures speak volumes and I definitely saw the huge difference. Thanks for sharing!

The disclaimer and caring about younger people just melted my heart. Amazing 💜

This video and your shoulders video have literally completely changed the way I think about clothes. You break it down so simply but in such great detail. Thank you!! ❤️

I care that you care 😘❤️

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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You’re so sensitive and i really love and appreciate this, keep going queen

I absolutely love your disclaimers, your message truly resonates with me, I used to be that younger girl that thought that I had to look a certain way and hated that I didn’t. Thank you for using your platform to inform and encourage it’s much appreciated ❤️

Yes, you deserve 100 likes here. It is so refreshing to see a similar shape and style that caters to me. Thank you!

3 minutes in and I'm already glad I clicked on this video! Thank you for the helpful CONTENT!

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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I subbed just because of you giving your answer to the “disclaimer” question! I vibed with that. ✨ thank you for caring.

oh my God I found myself in you.... I am so so happy! These past few days I really didn't know what to wear anymore, but now that I got you, I am having so many Ideas. I was actually surprised coz we have the same clothing style, and found out that I was wearing those clothes because that's what really fits my body type. Before, I wasn't really aware that we need to know about our body type becfore we can wear clothes perfectly. I love you girl.

The only channel that really worth spending time on KZread :) Thank you for the positive and genuine energy :) Kiss from France !

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much for watching!! ☺️♥️

my favourite youtube channel at the moment! thank you girl!

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Aww tysm!!! Truly means a lot ♥️♥️

Girl, I needed those tips 🙌🏼❤️❤️

This was an amazingly informative video, your styling videos are some of my favourites because I have a very similar body type and they help me pin point why certain clothes don't look right on me and how I can fix it. The moment I saw the clips with you in tights I checked out the other video and I've been trying to find leggings that work for me for so long!! The only ones that I've found are comfortable and don't make me look like an overstuffed sausage are the lulu lemon wunder under full on luon tights, but they're so expensive. If you ever want to make a video about athleisure and cute gym clothing, I would love to watch it!!!

Babe that cutout dress looks fantastic on you!!! Makes me want to get one like that

The "wrap it up" tip blew my mind! Great video :)

I used to be more insecure and impressionable so I really appreciate your disclaimer ❤️

🧡YOU’RE GOLDEN🧡 everyone should be like you! I feel you and I’m so pleased to hear you give your disclaimer

Here I thought I read most tricks out there and I learned so much in your video! Officially subscribed :)

I loved this video! Thank you for your knowledge, very helpful!

Just came across your channel and am OBSESSED!!! I LOVE your content... thank you for all the tips! You now have a new subbie! xo

Amazing optical illusions! Thank you!!

New fav KZreadr your body shape is so similar to mine!! Love these tips and clothing options!

Great tips !! Will definitely take the recommendation

All the tips are amazing. I have been watching your videos and really improved my looks. Thankyou.

love the aesthetic calmy vibe

Loved the disclaimer, that's so considerate from you ❤️

Thanks for sharing this! You look absolutely stunning!

Love your style! Thank you for mentioning posture. Good posture is the ultimate “shape wear” trick💜

Damn, didnt know about the « crossing your shirts » tip and just donated one I never wore cause I didnt know how to make it work. 😞 Great tips!👌🏻👍🏼

I'm so glad I found your channel, girl. Your tips and hacks are game changing

@Gemaryermus

3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you!! Welcome to the fam!

Ughhh just love your videos 🙇🏽‍♀️❤️👌🏽

Great views,,thank you for being “real” and straightforward

Watching every single of your tips videos so I can play around with my work outfits, finally something to look forward to when I’m stressed, working💕

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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Hi Gemary! I loved this video and will try to apply some of your tips :) I was wondering, would it be possible to ever do a video on how to make your hips look wider? My shoulders are a little bit wider than my hips and it bothers me a little bit and haven't figured out how to work with it :(

You are helping me retransform my style and etiquette 💛🌙

*love* the tucking button ups like a wrap top tip

Your videos are excellent 👌🏽 I appreciate the care you take with your audience and in editing and organizing the information that you provide.

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! ♥️

so happy i found your channel !! great tips thanks so much

I really love the small, clever tips that transform the looks! Recently I'm loving your style. Of course, we care about the looks and the influences we have!! You are my fave recently! I'm going to your Insta (i don't do this often!) now ;)

Very informative. Thanks for the tips. 💕👍

Love your videos!! So informative, thanks Xxx

I really loved this video❤ the things you said about having a good posture, can you make a video about this specific topic? Thank you ❤❤

Something about you and your vids bring me so much comfort. Idk what it is but I feel hopeful and peaceful when I watch you. And now I’m tearing up...I can’t explain it 🤷🏻‍♀️ 💕 thank you

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much for watching!!! Truly means a lot 😩♥️

Thank you so much for the tips! I really like your style, so elegant and dainty. Just one more thing, how do you wrap your shirts? I'm not sure how to do it in a way that stay still throughout the day. Thank you in advance :)

@vickyasdf3381

4 жыл бұрын

I think that she had a video about styling shirts like that 🧡

This is SOOO GOOOOD! You totally get it! New sub! 🤩

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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I'm so glad I found this! Good information!

Please make more videos related to this topic. This was a golden video. Thank you so much!!!!!❤❤❤❤

I cant tell you how much that button up hack is going to save me! YES

thank you! this is such a loving and constructive video!

So true about the posture! I also feel overall more confident when I have good posture :)

You're saving lives.Thank you ❤

bc u care! I love it! thank u for respecting that we r ALL differnt.... still loving ur tips... keep em coming plse

Very kind Gemary, thank you ❤️

You are just the sweetest and adorable utuber ever!!!! and not to forget considerate and thoughtful tuber! As you are right social influencers do make an impact on the young and impressionable!

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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13:48 This black dress is gorgeous! So flattering!

This was very usefull, i have a similar bodytipe to you and i sill be tryng some. Thanks a lo from Chile

Love that intro disclaimer! 👏🏼👌🏼

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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I subbed in the first minute. Love you already 😍

@Gemaryermus

3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you love! Welcome to the fam 🤍

Amazing video! 🤩 so clever 😊 Can you do a video on styling your waist for a really cold climate? I feel all I wear is an oversized polo jumper and jeans! It’s so boring ! 😴 x

What bras do you wear with the off the shoulder tops? I've tried strapless bras but it always looks off with my off the shoulder shirts.

@vanessangunjiri9119

2 жыл бұрын

Have you tried boob tape?

Thank you for the wonderful video. You are so beautiful and the top your wearing looks very nice on you. I love the look and would wear it myself but I prefer to wear things without having to readjust through the day. Would sleeveless or tank tops work aswell?

You look amazing in those Levi's Ribcage jeans! They truly flatter your body!

You look fabulous in the cut out dress!!!! Don’t just not hate it. Girl you should love it🥰 . You look great in it !!!

Thanks Gemary!

Thanks for the tips!!

Fantastic video - you can tell you put a lot of effort into it and I appreciate that. Thanks for the tips :D

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! ♥️♥️

Much needed video😍😍😍😍

Thank you for all weise tips!

Love all your tips, i will apply it :)

Awesome tips girl!!

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks love ♥️♥️

Great tips!

2yrs later, I have just found your clips & helpful tips & I am looking forward to checking out your latest clips to see how your posture is now :)

Love your videos Gemary 🤗🤗🤗 can you please explain how you secure the shirt when you wrap it as I would be anxious of the wrapping unfolding and then my bra showing 🙈🙈 if you have already done this can you please link the video so I can watch it? Thank you so much....love your style and your tips 💗💗💗💗 you look beautiful 🙌🏼😊😊

Thank you for the tips... your vids are all so informative... keep it up... 😘😘😘

What a world we live in that you have to reason a disclaimer! Great video and I love your style ☺️

Your black cut out dress looks sensational!!!

Love these tips!

it's an amazingly helpful video!! very well explained, thank you!!

I’m so glad you care!

@Gemaryermus

4 жыл бұрын

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Thanks for the tips gal! Do you have any tips for making shoulders appear less broad? My hips aren't wide/have no shape so it makes it even more disproportionate... I definitely need to work on my posture too