Excellent! I had never expected, or suspected the things that have happened... My eyes are open now, and it will never happen again!

@iamlesleycain

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Narcissists suffer a huge ego blow when you figure out their immature behavioral pattern, the games that they're playing with you, and then you discard them first. They think they're slick, and they get a false sense of superiority from using, abusing, and dumping you first. Once your eyes are opened, you can't un-see this behavior. Do your due diligence, especially with new relationships. Thanks for watching and commenting!

Scary! But, the Blood of Jesus protects me!✨🤍🕊🙏🏿

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

Yes! And a person reaps what they sow. Thanks for watching and commenting!

@JacK-qn4zh

Жыл бұрын

I so agree!

@dorisbove2210

Жыл бұрын

So true Amen 🙏❤️📿✝️

@dorisbove2210

Жыл бұрын

@@iamlesleycain thank you for this beautiful video God bless you 🙏❤️🙏

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

@@dorisbove2210 You're welcome!

Everyone dealing with this needs to hear this. You are Fantastic! Thank you! You helped me and you do make a difference.

@iamlesleycain

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for watching, and for the encouragement!

I got busy with work and my covert friend actions made me discard . They went crazy 20 missed calls , so many Instagram messages , commenting on old post , passive agressive why your phone on DND … oh no this giving lifetime Imma head out 👀✌🏾. Then after randomly messages victim stories , claimed someone died , posting at new events with new “friends” like crazzzyy

This was spot on! Thank you

@iamlesleycain

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your feedback. Thanks for watching and commenting!

My narcissistic biological mother became more and more addicted to gambling. Literally became fatigued when I started grey rocking consistently. When I went no contact, (I disappeared without anyone knowing) my biological family tried so hard to get in contact with me using flying monkeys. I am keeping my no contact and I am being extra careful with what I post on social media. And kept my Instagram very private. It's a hard way of living but very necessary.

@iamlesleycain

2 жыл бұрын

Way to maintain. Thanks for watching and commenting!

@williamsaloka9043

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes it's the only way you can live! Me also.

@Chiyloko

11 ай бұрын

Same girl same. I Hope your doing well and I hope your still no contact ❤

Well the narcissists I knew literally did stalk me. We were only platonic friends for a little over a year and she literally tried to erase me and become me. She applied at my job and got hired then once in she started smearing my name to my coworkers, she lives a couple of blocks away from me so when I went no contact she began driving up and down the street i live on. She would call from different phone numbers and leave messages and she'd tell coworkers that she doesn't know why I stopped talking to her ( she told coworkers all my personal business that's why). I eventually stopped working there but saw her more on the street I live on then when we were actually friends. No contact made her my stalker to the point people thought we were lover's.

@iamlesleycain

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry you had to deal with this deeply wounded, insecure woman. So sick and sad. Sounds like you succeeded in cutting her off and keeping your distance. The stalking, smearing, and set-ups are real! Thanks for watching and commenting!

They NO likey.

Good job! Thank you!

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome. Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching!

Very accurate explanation & fortifie for healing proces.

@iamlesleycain

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and commenting!

Great info

@iamlesleycain

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Spot on video

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and commenting!

They do it all its kinda sad🎯

@iamlesleycain

5 ай бұрын

Very sad. That's no way to live. Thanks for watching and sharing!

Thank you

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome. Thanks for watching!

I even know the dark possibilities of the narcissistic neighbor situation I’m dealing with. This hasn’t happened so far and, in actuality, perhaps the incoming of winter will curtail it, because people are out less. But, I’d mentioned, in another comment, about my narcissistic neighbor who became angry, because I didn’t want to become her free caregiver. She’s not the first. I discarded her. But, recently, I also needed to discard another neighbor, who I was becoming friends with, because she’d had some really poor behavior one day and was treating me poorly. I’m aware that my downstairs neighbor, in being idle, may have caught onto the fact that the other neighbor and I are no longer seen together. It’s possible that she might want to befriend her, now that we’re not hanging out together. Then, I’d have 2 narcissists against me and a possible enabler living just doors away, who told me he’d go crazy if he saw me kissing another guy, as if we were in a relationship. Plus, there’s the couple that lives 1 apartment over and down, that made it clear that black people were an issue for them. Plus, the guy who moved in with his wife a few months ago, who she walked out on, who seems to be looking at my dating profile. I share a wall with him. He’s remained friendly, although I’ve not said anything about the online dating thing. But, I don’t know if he’s just being nice and will become frustrated, because things may not ultimately work out with his wife. I’m not going to label him a “narcissist”. I’m just going to say that my feeling is that there may be a small, but growing group of neighbors, who seem to want something from me, that I may literally have to step over, for entry and egress. So, when I hear people say what you should be doing for your neighbors, my guess is that that is fine, as long as you don’t mind being run out of your own life. There will be more of this to come, with the Aging of America and the possible economics to come. I enjoy my reclusiveness...

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

Whew...Sounds like these folks need hobbies other than you. From what you've described, I can almost visualize them coming together to form one toxic "superhuman" that tries to come after you like a heat-seeking missile. You make some great points about the state of our nation, and what's to come economically. Enjoy your alone time; and keep your head on a swivel. Thanks for watching and sharing!

@privateprivate8366

Жыл бұрын

@@iamlesleycain yes and, now that my downstairs neighbor has recently had a knee replacement and is using a walker - she’s adopted a dog. Great if the doctor recommended it and it helps her to heal. But, when she adopted a puppy a year ago, I believe she might’ve gotten rid of it, weeks later, because she couldn’t get another neighbor to convince me to care for the dog for her. Oh, well, Round 2.🥊

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

@@privateprivate8366 Oh boy...Prayers and positive thoughts for that pooch!

They’re crazier than three June bugs

@iamlesleycain

3 ай бұрын

Hi! Sounds like you've survived some wild times with narcissistic and toxic individuals that you've cut off. Hope you're prioritizing self-care. Thanks for watching and commenting!

Wow that was me because I didn’t want her to leave because I loved her. And I wanted to show her I’ve changed. I messed up I was selfish she showed me the mirror. I am now sober and I think of her a lot and I try not to think about it but I hope that when/if she comes back I will be healthy enough to be a good friend. And I’m grateful for her but I’m so sorry to her for the pain. I don’t know how else to make up for it when I know she is repulsed by me. I’m sorry I’m doing better now. And unlearning toxic behavior and I realize nothing is about me but about others. I’ve been so selfish but I love so hard. I hope she forgives me.

@iamlesleycain

10 ай бұрын

Congratulations on your sobriety! Sounds like you're learning [and unlearning] a lot. Thanks for watching and sharing!

Mine pays everyone . They are evil and scary to me the more I understand the way they operate now ...

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you know who and what you're dealing with. Live your truth and go in the strength you have. Thanks for watching and sharing!

I know this is in my future when I eventually pluck up the courage to leave

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you're getting a vision of your life after leaving the narcissist. Thanks for watching and sharing!

I caught him on the dating app and discarded.bim. I told.him not to.return my things to my house as it was replaceble. I changed my number on him. I woke up the next morning to find my things in a bag on my car. Then he made posts on fb and smeared me..twisting the story making ME look like the bad guy. Wven though HE cheated I'm feeling like I'm at fault now. Help!

@iamlesleycain

4 ай бұрын

Sounds like you removed yourself from a toxic situation, cut your losses, and set some boundaries. Narcissists hate losing control of other people and situations. So, they'll try to control the narrative and others' perceptions of you, through smear campaigns, lies, deflection, shaming, and blame shifting. They all do it. You're not alone or crazy. You're the prize. Don't take the bait! Enjoy your freedom and take care of yourself. Thanks for watching and sharing!

Does anyone really go back to someone who discard them? Why? Does anyone NOT panic when discarded ?

@iamlesleycain

9 ай бұрын

People may not realize who and what they're dealing with, or they're in a relationship that they can't easily get away from (family, co-worker, etc.). A narcissist who has secured a new, better source of supply may not panic when discarded. And an abused target who is looking for a way out of a narcissistic relationship may not panic. Great questions. Thanks for watching and commenting!

Sa kabila ng lahat, d ko kayang iwanan asawa ko, mahal kong tunay hubby ko. Sia lng talaga nagpapaikot sa mundo ko. Mamamatay yata ako talaga kung mawawala sia sa akin. Later i realized how much i loved him. Sorry sa mga nagawa ko sa iu naging immatured ako at parang bata.

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Thank you

@iamlesleycain

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!