10 Simple Tricks to Manipulate People's Mind

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The development of psychology allowed scientists to study the biological processes in the human brain, emotions, behavior, and reactions. This information gives us an understanding of our own actions. It also makes it easier for people to control others.
Do you ever wish that you could make people agree with you, like you, or remember you with a snap of your fingers? Believe it or not, it's actually possible - you just have to know a couple of tricks. They work on a subconscious level and help you win another person’s trust or get somebody’s approval. Bright Side will share 10 tips that work every time and can be useful in any situation.
TIMESTAMPS:
Mirror your opponent's body language to make them trust you 0:37
Use the word “because” to have it your way 1:27
Pause to give your words a bigger effect 2:45
Stay silent to find out more 4:02
Be the first or last one to make them remember you 4:40
Sit next to your opponent to receive less criticism 5:18
Ask someone for a favor to change their perception of you 5:57
Use contrasts to get what you want 6:57
Nod slightly to make someone agree with you 7:34
Draw a triangle with your eyes to stop the conversation 8:11
#psychologicaltricks #psychologicaltips
Music by Epidemic Sound www.epidemicsound.com/
SUMMARY:
- If you want someone to like and trust you, mirror their body language - especially their poses and gestures. The most important thing is to be smooth about it.
- During a heated discussion, every opinion has to be heard, but only one will be chosen as the final one. If you want it to be yours, simply use the word “because” with your reasoning!
- If you want them to remember what you said and really think about it, add a pause after the statement. This simple trick will help you put all the right emphases in your speech.
- If you want to get everything out of another person, you shouldn't insist or be too demanding about it. Simply stay silent, and they'll tell you everything!
- If you're doing an important interview, try to arrange things so that you’ll be the first or last person seen.
- Let's say you know that your colleague or boss plans to lash out about your work skills at an upcoming meeting. How can you prevent a total disaster? Sit right next to them!
- Ask someone for a favor to change their perception of you. This psychological trick is also known as the Benjamin Franklin effect.
- One of the most popular psychological manipulation techniques is to ask for something way bigger than what you actually want.
- To get the positive response you need, nod slightly while asking the question. Remember to maintain eye contact with your opponent!
- Look your opponent in one eye, then in the other one, and then at their forehead. Keep “drawing” this triangle shape for the rest of the convo. They'll soon get the message on the subconscious level and say their goodbyes.
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  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL5 жыл бұрын

    When do you think it's ok to manipulate? 🤔 Btw, here's how advertisers manipulate you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/YpOX1seDldy8c5s.html

  • @h4zrd96

    @h4zrd96

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dalin Zwart I like your thinking

  • @ingenious5480

    @ingenious5480

    5 жыл бұрын

    It’s not really wrong. It’s not like you’re being dishonest. You’re just doing what you know to do to be viewed better.

  • @sarojinipillay5440

    @sarojinipillay5440

    5 жыл бұрын

    When your life is at stake

  • @shastrinisargi6683

    @shastrinisargi6683

    5 жыл бұрын

    BRIGHT SIDE Thanks Alot this Psychological Facts is Helpful in Long Term Make it More and More like this Keep it Up😇👯

  • @potatowarrior747

    @potatowarrior747

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Craig121000 cool!

  • @MrCred_
    @MrCred_5 жыл бұрын

    Bright side: "share this with your friends"🤭😊 Me: "then who am I gonna manipulate?"🙄🤷‍♂️

  • @holipog1538

    @holipog1538

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol 😂 same

  • @bettertube

    @bettertube

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂 that's a good one😉

  • @roldybangzz2228

    @roldybangzz2228

    5 жыл бұрын

    Your enemies! 💪🏼

  • @blue_cameron

    @blue_cameron

    5 жыл бұрын

    strangers

  • @alberteinstein3031

    @alberteinstein3031

    4 жыл бұрын

    😀😂😂 so true.

  • @Tappollos
    @Tappollos5 жыл бұрын

    I’ve mastered all of this and now I’m a psychopath

  • @inzaafz9612

    @inzaafz9612

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @CougheePls

    @CougheePls

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey sir can I get straight A's? *nods unnaturally*

  • @Perthect

    @Perthect

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @Build4u1

    @Build4u1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Neither psycho nor socio can destroy real genuis (^o^)/

  • @jesuscarranza3145

    @jesuscarranza3145

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good for you, I’m proud

  • @kennethjose7159
    @kennethjose71594 жыл бұрын

    5. Be the first or last one to make them remember you. As a middle child, now I know why my parents often forget me at the mall 😭

  • @user-vl7qh4ne5i

    @user-vl7qh4ne5i

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @meghana1113

    @meghana1113

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @koffiecake

    @koffiecake

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jc.nidzzzz

    @jc.nidzzzz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ouch, relatable! 😶😂

  • @sakinahirani8398

    @sakinahirani8398

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even I'm the middle one .... I know the feeling bro

  • @chickentenders116
    @chickentenders1165 жыл бұрын

    Nobody: Mom: *BeCaUsE I sAId sO*

  • @foreveryoung5277

    @foreveryoung5277

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @darwinnarciso6920

    @darwinnarciso6920

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. Just

  • @glendinamingram

    @glendinamingram

    5 жыл бұрын

    What??

  • @gG-ej5kj

    @gG-ej5kj

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @crbarnes001

    @crbarnes001

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ha ha tried this on my 11 year old, she said "mam because is not a good enough reason" oh well guess it doesn't work on all,

  • @hosnyshakur8464
    @hosnyshakur84645 жыл бұрын

    Another trick to win over your opponent is to say everything you think he will say against you . This is Eminem's tactic in rap battles .

  • @habildesilva8864

    @habildesilva8864

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@user-fb1mw2nl3i so that's mean you said to your dad that's his dad or your Grandpa left him

  • @lastweek3606

    @lastweek3606

    5 жыл бұрын

    The bridesmaid is the one who tricked me into dating him.

  • @lastweek3606

    @lastweek3606

    5 жыл бұрын

    You should have seen her face!!!

  • @thatgirljada6177

    @thatgirljada6177

    5 жыл бұрын

    Like one of the most famous examples “moms spaghetti”

  • @evanschulte6153

    @evanschulte6153

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol oh my god

  • @isaiah9486
    @isaiah94865 жыл бұрын

    How to manipulate : Say " I have many foods " and all of your friends will come to you like a zombie.

  • @lekshmikrishnan6304

    @lekshmikrishnan6304

    5 жыл бұрын

    😆😆😆😆😆😂sure😆😆😆

  • @Lopholillie

    @Lopholillie

    5 жыл бұрын

    You open your packet of kinder bueno and the entire school stares at you XD

  • @dianako3573

    @dianako3573

    5 жыл бұрын

    nice one😄

  • @jan6835

    @jan6835

    5 жыл бұрын

    hahaha

  • @stinewatson3875

    @stinewatson3875

    4 жыл бұрын

    In my school, if you have a pack of gum, everyone around you will instantly become your best friend

  • @mahnoor9971
    @mahnoor99714 жыл бұрын

    Bright Side: “how to get whatever you want” Spoiled kids: “I’m listening”

  • @lifewithcaroline8196

    @lifewithcaroline8196

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @twilightlove1555

    @twilightlove1555

    4 жыл бұрын

    and you have 36 subscribers...lol!

  • @vincint5013

    @vincint5013

    4 жыл бұрын

    Best comment ever 😂

  • @user-dn6oi6dt7k

    @user-dn6oi6dt7k

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, spoiled kids already get whatever they want...

  • @inkyluminals8487

    @inkyluminals8487

    4 жыл бұрын

    ....you caught me

  • @drunkarsonist6259
    @drunkarsonist62594 жыл бұрын

    "Tries it on my mom" Fails Retreat tactical retreat mom coming in with her deadly weapon called sandal

  • @sagarhb9704

    @sagarhb9704

    3 жыл бұрын

    How rude of everyone to not ask if you're okay?

  • @idamarbaniang4761

    @idamarbaniang4761

    3 жыл бұрын

    U okay😂😂😂?

  • @AdrianReyesMex

    @AdrianReyesMex

    3 жыл бұрын

    In spanish we call it chancla and it sounds like a monster

  • @katelyn9412

    @katelyn9412

    2 жыл бұрын

    la chancla 😍‼️

  • @aestheticrxse8644

    @aestheticrxse8644

    2 жыл бұрын

    Called NA3AL

  • @georgemichon426
    @georgemichon4265 жыл бұрын

    I remember the first and the last trick, ,the rest was blurred 🤔

  • @hectooooor

    @hectooooor

    5 жыл бұрын

    But you just lied cause you said a trick which was a middle one😂😂

  • @appiahmakuta

    @appiahmakuta

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @nosaints9083

    @nosaints9083

    5 жыл бұрын

    George Michon 😂

  • @PottzThaProducer

    @PottzThaProducer

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m also nodding my head slightly

  • @makuwaniblessing743

    @makuwaniblessing743

    4 жыл бұрын

    lolllll

  • @egoishuge3190
    @egoishuge31905 жыл бұрын

    With this knowledge I will rule THE EARTH!

  • @niyatitummala7933

    @niyatitummala7933

    5 жыл бұрын

    First decide , whether you're a human or alien ...

  • @zarnainbhatt9501

    @zarnainbhatt9501

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @satyampaswan3995

    @satyampaswan3995

    5 жыл бұрын

    no one can make eye contact with an alien they're too weird

  • @AlienChoppa

    @AlienChoppa

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@satyampaswan3995 ɪ ᴄᴀɴ... ⓑⓔⓒⓐⓤⓢⓔ ɪ ᴍɪɢʜᴛ ʙᴇ ᴏɴᴇ... sʜʜ.. ɪ ᴅɪᴅɴ'ᴛ sᴀʏ ᴀɴʏᴛʜɪɴɢ

  • @rayhanchowdhury5940

    @rayhanchowdhury5940

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wish you best of luck

  • @aali5860
    @aali58604 жыл бұрын

    Manipulators: Everyone can get manipulated by me. Introverts: *am i a joke to you?*

  • @Sunshine.Angelique

    @Sunshine.Angelique

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @Danny_Az

    @Danny_Az

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can someone explain this?? I don’t get it, I’m just very slow at understanding jokes

  • @Danny_Az

    @Danny_Az

    4 жыл бұрын

    Liam Beasley Thanks for clarifying, man!

  • @harrypotter6894

    @harrypotter6894

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Liam Beasley they may not like groups of people, but that doesn't mean they know when they are being manipulated..

  • @santiagocarreno5881

    @santiagocarreno5881

    4 жыл бұрын

    Introverts pass a lot of time inside their own heads, they reflect a lot on other peoples actions. As a result, it is easier for them to spot a manipulator. I can say that because I've been on both sides of the personality spectrum through my life: solitary introvert to extrovert leader. In any case, there's no doubt it is easier to be the leader if you are an extrovert.

  • @rikashinozaki8732
    @rikashinozaki87324 жыл бұрын

    Oh no it's been my habit of nodding at my teacher when I understand her lectures and statements, later on I gave an example of the subject she's talking about and she said I was correct. After a few hours I realized my answer was wrong and she didn't notice😂

  • @NotaPlagueDoctor300

    @NotaPlagueDoctor300

    3 жыл бұрын

    Great! You can now rule the entire world with your mind manipulating skills

  • @wisdom_ehi

    @wisdom_ehi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh my...😱

  • @youareaclown1064

    @youareaclown1064

    Жыл бұрын

    Imagine your teacher saw this- 😂😂she'd know

  • @ingenious5480
    @ingenious54805 жыл бұрын

    I talk too fast because I do have anxiety so you’re right about that

  • @rickgal9003

    @rickgal9003

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey same here

  • @AlanD20

    @AlanD20

    5 жыл бұрын

    I F *So what should we do?* _I talk fast too_ :(

  • @zarrahpearllicayo6151

    @zarrahpearllicayo6151

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @ingenious5480

    @ingenious5480

    5 жыл бұрын

    AlanD20 I dunno man. I guess knowing why and making a conscious effort to slow down is the most helpful thing to do

  • @jotarojojo7626

    @jotarojojo7626

    5 жыл бұрын

    How about Eminem😂

  • @AbigaleKirsten
    @AbigaleKirsten3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t talk too fast because it looks like you have anxiety, but like... Ben Shapiro

  • @crisu1072

    @crisu1072

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ben shapiro nasal voice

  • @arunlsk2271

    @arunlsk2271

    2 жыл бұрын

    But he's got massive amounts of information to offset any perceived tension

  • @christopherchristmas25

    @christopherchristmas25

    2 жыл бұрын

    You just lack intelligence woman.

  • @chanigoldman21

    @chanigoldman21

    2 жыл бұрын

    He’s a genius

  • @dr.bendover-md

    @dr.bendover-md

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ben Shapiro is not human.

  • @superconduct6958
    @superconduct69583 жыл бұрын

    One of the tricks I use- When you want to manipulate a person into doing something huge for you, spend more time with that person. Converse with the person more often. Through that, learn what that person wants the most, and then give them a little taste of it. That will excite them and they will do anything for you.

  • @owenzoch9863

    @owenzoch9863

    2 жыл бұрын

    biggest of brains

  • @anulowanshi1528

    @anulowanshi1528

    2 жыл бұрын

    Isn't that called "using them"

  • @dikenzxo

    @dikenzxo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@anulowanshi1528 using somebody is the epitome of manipulation

  • @handle22t

    @handle22t

    2 жыл бұрын

    My freind do it on peoples lol

  • @emberrageofficial

    @emberrageofficial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same. It is very easy to manipulate low self esteem people. As they are people pleaser, they are shy to refuse you so It is easy to get what you want from them. It almost close to "using them". But some people are aware of it and they allow that you use them. They are very submissive and they are attracted to dominant and manipulative people. I have dark side but I am not afraid to show the real me to people. I attract the exact people or target people in my life easily.

  • @smolsmile5254
    @smolsmile52543 жыл бұрын

    I actually used most of these on the first day of my new high school. I'm REALLY shy, and my new school was close to my old one. I lived in a small town and I had run ours from my old school so as you can imagine the first day I started I already heard kids whispering about me. I watched carefully to see what the most down to earth group was to hang out with. I had an abrasive appearance because I was going through my tough stage. But I had a plan. 1) The first period sit on my own, just observe everybody 2) Second-period sit next to the "leader" of the group 3) copy their body language (one arm under the chest and another arm on the table pointing up to lean on) 4) Ask them for a pen 5) See he had a Pokemon keychain and a messy book so I doodled Charizard on my paper 6) let him so the rest. It worked super well and we are actually still close friends :)

  • @phsycobillyfreakout

    @phsycobillyfreakout

    2 жыл бұрын

    bahahah loser

  • @nxbxxha_1764

    @nxbxxha_1764

    2 жыл бұрын

    WOW

  • @monikatiwari3117

    @monikatiwari3117

    Жыл бұрын

    Woww ! I'm going to try this too

  • @lindac6919

    @lindac6919

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I'm not a natural at getting to know people. So I would do this kind of thing - still do!

  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL5 жыл бұрын

    TIMESTAMPS: Mirror your opponent's body language to make them trust you 0:37 Use the word “because” to have it your way 1:27 Pause to give your words a bigger effect 2:45 Stay silent to find out more 4:02 Be the first or last one to make them remember you 4:40 Sit next to your opponent to receive less criticism 5:18 Ask someone for a favor to change their perception of you 5:57 Use contrasts to get what you want 6:57 Nod slightly to make someone agree with you 7:34 Draw a triangle with your eyes to stop the conversation 8:11

  • @jden_224

    @jden_224

    5 жыл бұрын

    You should probably pin your comment so it’s the first one people see

  • @shaileshnavale1819

    @shaileshnavale1819

    5 жыл бұрын

    You should pin this comment because everyone wants to read it.

  • @theperson7938

    @theperson7938

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey brightside, can you make another video on how can we apply all of this in to real life, because I can't imagine when to use these techniques. Thank you

  • @jeresa7968

    @jeresa7968

    5 жыл бұрын

    -_- omg bright side o. m. G.

  • @bettertube

    @bettertube

    5 жыл бұрын

    You should pin this comment on the topic

  • @MikeHunt-yl1so
    @MikeHunt-yl1so5 жыл бұрын

    Most of this will absolutely NOT work on an introvert

  • @lastweek3606

    @lastweek3606

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know we never even leave our house. We don't need anyone. We wish all others would just leave. So all of us can be happy living inside our houses.They are really annoying.

  • @c.carterazuritenation4151

    @c.carterazuritenation4151

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lastweek3606 relatable but, I might leave the house to explore, wonder, and travel like my mind

  • @j-jae5945

    @j-jae5945

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im an introvert, it will not work for me

  • @superior9744

    @superior9744

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea im an introvert and i already mastered the being silent trick

  • @CassieAfricanQueen

    @CassieAfricanQueen

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @akackon
    @akackon5 жыл бұрын

    Some people are just too stubborn. They will never stop talking no matter how many signs you give them

  • @nicolenonya5874

    @nicolenonya5874

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am one of those. I deal with life or death situations in medicine so eh ya, I kinda have to be an advocate/lobbyist in USA's disease management system.

  • @lynnsiyfayne9032

    @lynnsiyfayne9032

    2 жыл бұрын

    Then just smack 'em

  • @nxbxxha_1764

    @nxbxxha_1764

    2 жыл бұрын

    IKR

  • @kinkajou6582
    @kinkajou65824 жыл бұрын

    Me when i try to draw a triangle: Roles eyes Person: don't be so RUDE!

  • @ikeepscreamingbutgodwontan3132

    @ikeepscreamingbutgodwontan3132

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @shiki8356

    @shiki8356

    3 жыл бұрын

    oh....😂

  • @attentionwhore9522

    @attentionwhore9522

    3 жыл бұрын

    hm. . . try doing it more slowly, so they don't realize this. remember, you're looking in one eye at a time and not both of them. . .

  • @thetruth3322
    @thetruth33225 жыл бұрын

    This was like reading 10 books on self-improvement. Thank you.

  • @antoinettetheresa6430
    @antoinettetheresa64305 жыл бұрын

    The narrator here is king of dad jokes

  • @ridhamh2966

    @ridhamh2966

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @aneshka4114

    @aneshka4114

    4 жыл бұрын

    You wouldn't believe it but my dad is MAXIMUM cringe.

  • @antoinettetheresa6430

    @antoinettetheresa6430

    4 жыл бұрын

    Aneshka your dad should substitute for this guy when he’s sick then

  • @shiki8356

    @shiki8356

    3 жыл бұрын

    hahaha😂 but some of what he says actually works

  • @justintimbersaw3934
    @justintimbersaw39345 жыл бұрын

    I tried the number 8 with my dad. I asked him for a Boeing 747 and now I ended up homeless.

  • @CrimeCastInc.

    @CrimeCastInc.

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because he bought one?

  • @attentionwhore9522

    @attentionwhore9522

    3 жыл бұрын

    congrats on that, my dude.

  • @faizeefarhan2729

    @faizeefarhan2729

    2 жыл бұрын

    At least not phoneless😂

  • @tanny277
    @tanny2774 жыл бұрын

    teacher: why didn't you go to the bathroom at lunch? me: because teacher: because what? me: bright side told me to say because so I can get it my way teacher: -_- whatever just be quick

  • @kennethlake6172

    @kennethlake6172

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey! It still works

  • @tanny277

    @tanny277

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kennethlake6172 lol yea

  • @melatishafira2177

    @melatishafira2177

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol 😂

  • @Some._.Rando8327

    @Some._.Rando8327

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol good idea

  • @needsomedetoxforgate

    @needsomedetoxforgate

    4 жыл бұрын

    But why does he or she ask if you go or not it is your problem 😕😕

  • @aldrinseanpereira140
    @aldrinseanpereira1405 жыл бұрын

    Stop people from talking with just : " k "

  • @jden_224

    @jden_224

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just don’t talk at all. They won’t say “k”.

  • @aldrinseanpereira140

    @aldrinseanpereira140

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jden_224 k

  • @beybrain7896

    @beybrain7896

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aldrin Sean Pereira Oof.

  • @luciidtears8166

    @luciidtears8166

    5 жыл бұрын

    k

  • @echoorionjoy5138

    @echoorionjoy5138

    5 жыл бұрын

    K

  • @Filip-cr2ir
    @Filip-cr2ir5 жыл бұрын

    7:06 imagine asking for a lambo and getting a straight answer yes

  • @Cookingkala_

    @Cookingkala_

    4 жыл бұрын

    The best day of my life!

  • @agentperry6049

    @agentperry6049

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Cookingkala_ a toy lambo?

  • @sisisi16

    @sisisi16

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can't relate...

  • @fennecdarling980

    @fennecdarling980

    3 жыл бұрын

    Task failed successfully

  • @attentionwhore9522

    @attentionwhore9522

    3 жыл бұрын

    i see you like unrealistic situations as well.

  • @Auralivna
    @Auralivna4 жыл бұрын

    that feeling when you know you’re a good person but you just like manipulation itself and like manipulating. LOL

  • @nikereebokpuma3406

    @nikereebokpuma3406

    6 ай бұрын

    If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them. Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also! When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble! Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do! I would never argue with you! When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!

  • @Belitabelita
    @Belitabelita4 жыл бұрын

    I hate when people use pauses when speaking, just hurry up!!🤣 im so unpatient

  • @NikosPage

    @NikosPage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Impatient*

  • @nunyanunya9645

    @nunyanunya9645

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@NikosPage I was just about to say the same thing

  • @arielleandhayleysvlog7951

    @arielleandhayleysvlog7951

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same😗🖤

  • @ghamdi7077

    @ghamdi7077

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nunyanunya9645 Great minds think alike

  • @bijujoy9207

    @bijujoy9207

    3 жыл бұрын

    😃😃

  • @katev5758
    @katev57585 жыл бұрын

    Because doesn’t work if the people don’t like u 😂

  • @reynaldohawkins996

    @reynaldohawkins996

    5 жыл бұрын

    Should have mirrored third body language, 😁

  • @cl759

    @cl759

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nothing works if people don't like you

  • @reinold412

    @reinold412

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@cl759 knife works ;)

  • @molexproductions4353

    @molexproductions4353

    4 жыл бұрын

    Borrow their book first.... Silly.

  • @quentinfernandez4673

    @quentinfernandez4673

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@cl759 this mirroring trick will make people who dont like you begin to start liking uou.

  • @adwye7
    @adwye75 жыл бұрын

    Who else is binge watching psychology/manipulative techniques

  • @lydamodesto9935

    @lydamodesto9935

    3 жыл бұрын

    after quarantine ima use it

  • @thebanana1980

    @thebanana1980

    Жыл бұрын

    I do it because I have no friends. How about you?

  • @adwye7

    @adwye7

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thebanana1980 Self gain.

  • @thebanana1980

    @thebanana1980

    Жыл бұрын

    @@adwye7 I'll just reply back because I have nothing else to do.

  • @adwye7

    @adwye7

    Жыл бұрын

    You should watch a movie

  • @pickpocketer8959
    @pickpocketer89595 жыл бұрын

    Me: mom buy me a car Mom : no Me: then a phone ? Mom: no Me: a dog ? Mom: no Me: y ? Mom: BECAUSE I SAID SO !

  • @maf-mp7lf

    @maf-mp7lf

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me: that makes perfect sense mom!

  • @dontbeafool2775

    @dontbeafool2775

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@maf-mp7lf Mom: Thanks for understanding!

  • @ad3l

    @ad3l

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@dontbeafool2775 Me : Well how about all of them once?

  • @dontbeafool2775

    @dontbeafool2775

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ad3l It seems to me a vague. Can it be a bit more clear?

  • @drshamimmohammed615

    @drshamimmohammed615

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very funny. Hahaha. Bruh.

  • @robinsherrod2973
    @robinsherrod29735 жыл бұрын

    When first being introduced to someone (when a handshake is expected), extend your hand with your palm “sideways”. This way, when they respond, they will have to assume the same hand position. If you have your hand extended, palm up, and they have theirs palm down, they will assume a superior attitude. In reverse, with YOUR palm down, they will have to extend their hand palm up, that makes them feel lesser than you. Side by side hands show that you are willing to work on an even plane.

  • @scottbaker759

    @scottbaker759

    5 жыл бұрын

    You're correct and that's exactly why you should go sideways with your palm because it will make people feel equal and then they will trust you more.You could also go underneath so they feel like they're in power when really you are and you can manipulate them.I personally wouldn't go over because it gives off a tone of "I'm in control over you,"and then they'll be harder to manipulate.

  • @saltypotatochip4707

    @saltypotatochip4707

    4 жыл бұрын

    If anyone tries to shake hands with me with their palm facing downwards i`ll just do the same thing. It`ll be like a mini power struggle XD

  • @arshitalakhani9097

    @arshitalakhani9097

    4 жыл бұрын

    I literally can't understand you

  • @7rings940
    @7rings9404 жыл бұрын

    “Use the word because to get what you want” Parents: *BECAUSE* I SAID SO

  • @imnotyouraveragecutepengui6562
    @imnotyouraveragecutepengui65624 жыл бұрын

    I’m the quiet person at school. And honestly being quiet can bring you a very long way, even if it wasnt intended.

  • @jeanonyeagwara4949
    @jeanonyeagwara49492 жыл бұрын

    Using the words ' please and i thankyou' are words that open doors with ease!

  • @mothsfavlamp
    @mothsfavlamp4 жыл бұрын

    Some tricks I know to manipulate people are: 1. If someone is mad at you, stay completely calm. This will later make them feel silly that they overreacted 2. Of you want something, first ask for a bigger thing, so that what you really want won’t seem as much

  • @bitzjason1887
    @bitzjason18873 жыл бұрын

    I'm I the only one who tends to forget tends to forget this information just when I need it the most

  • @noellerebekah21
    @noellerebekah214 жыл бұрын

    When he says opponent I feel like I’m playing freaking wii tennis.

  • @skyguy696
    @skyguy6964 жыл бұрын

    I'm very good at being silent. That's why I know more than people think.

  • @sabrina1285

    @sabrina1285

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here.

  • @skyguy696

    @skyguy696

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sabrina1285 Feels nice, doesn't it? 😏

  • @sabrina1285

    @sabrina1285

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@skyguy696 Yesss ; )

  • @ChessMasteryOfficial
    @ChessMasteryOfficial5 жыл бұрын

    *Do you really want to look back on your life and see how wonderful it could have been had you not been afraid to live it? ×*

  • @niyatitummala7933

    @niyatitummala7933

    5 жыл бұрын

    What ?

  • @truenewtype2239

    @truenewtype2239

    5 жыл бұрын

    Are you talking to me cause I am still alive!

  • @IAmRebeccaPearl

    @IAmRebeccaPearl

    5 жыл бұрын

    I hate/love questions like these. They make me wanna face my fears.

  • @niyatitummala7933

    @niyatitummala7933

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well , I finally understood it now !

  • @fabisdiaz5882

    @fabisdiaz5882

    5 жыл бұрын

    Siiiiick bro!!🙏(high5)

  • @immanuelt613
    @immanuelt6135 жыл бұрын

    A variation of the contrast method. If you want to get someone to admit to something you know they did wrong. Accuse them of something far greater but in the same line of what they actually did. When they are forced to tackle that accusation, you can slowly bring it down and get to admit that they at least did the lower one which is exactly what you wanted them to admit from the start. You welcome😋

  • @ginikanwokeji476

    @ginikanwokeji476

    5 жыл бұрын

    Immanuel T true...infact I use this technique just an hour ago and it worked

  • @immanuelt613

    @immanuelt613

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ginikanwokeji476 you're welcome😂...by the way are you Nigerian?

  • @ginikanwokeji476

    @ginikanwokeji476

    5 жыл бұрын

    Immanuel T yeah...how do you know?

  • @immanuelt613

    @immanuelt613

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ginikanwokeji476 cos I'm Nigerian too...I recognize the Igbo name

  • @ginikanwokeji476

    @ginikanwokeji476

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@immanuelt613 nice meeting you here...are you by any chance, Igbo as well?

  • @MissBliss818
    @MissBliss8182 жыл бұрын

    The whole triangle thing at the end - this is how I naturally make eye contact. I’m 36 yrs old and wondered why all my life I can’t get someone to wanna keep the conversation going… if I make direct eye contact, I get very distracted and can’t fully listen to the person (I have ASD). But if I alternate between looking at their left eye, right eye, and forehead and although I do it consistently, it’s more like every 10 seconds rather than consistently drawing triangles with my eyes. People say it looks like I’m making eye contact when I do this, although I feel like I look like I have shifty eyes.. although I do notice when I’m talking to someone, when they make eye contact with me, they get distracted and almost have an expression on their face like they’re not sure what to make of me. But this was great and I really enjoyed ur tips. Saved it to my “life skills” playlist.. haha

  • @ScoobyandShaggy5554

    @ScoobyandShaggy5554

    Жыл бұрын

    Share your playlist

  • @iceicecreambae4655
    @iceicecreambae46552 жыл бұрын

    1.)Mirror their body language after 30-60 2.) use because for your reasoning 3.) pause to give your words a bigger effect. (Talk w a calm and confident tone.keep i. The middle and add pauses wisley.) 4.) stay silent to find out more(they’ll feel the need to explain themselves) AND MAINTAIN EYECONTACT 5.) be the first or last one to make one remember you. (Try to arrange you being the last or first person seen) 6.)sit next to opponent to revieve less criticism 7.) ask for a favor and be grateful when u receive it 8.) ask for sun way bigger then ask for sun smaller but still be big then slowly ask to what u want so what I want won’t still seem so big 9.) knots slightly but slikly to make someone agree w u. 10.) look at eyes then forehead to make someone leave the conversation

  • @aisuru6273
    @aisuru62734 жыл бұрын

    "and a quiet one with self conciousness" I feel attacked

  • @fhdhhfjdb5851
    @fhdhhfjdb58515 жыл бұрын

    The triangle rule if slightly varied can be used in your favor when talking to the person you like (especially if she is a woman) look at one eye, than the other, and finally at her mouth. Keep repeating the cycle in random order and don't overdo it 😄

  • @tiffanypersaud3518
    @tiffanypersaud35184 жыл бұрын

    Psychology gets a bad rap for its use in being manipulative, when it can be used to help understand each other and make stronger connections - which I think gets people to like you more. It’s not always about having your way.

  • @SamFidal
    @SamFidal4 жыл бұрын

    The most things have attracted me to this video is the infographic design with absolute great matching colors with fonts and backgrounds wow !

  • @JomarTan
    @JomarTan4 жыл бұрын

    I loved that triangle looks from right , left then to forehead it really works to many people that keep talking nonsense, but still friendly 😂😂😂

  • @Postpundits
    @Postpundits2 жыл бұрын

    I think the biggest manipulation trick is laughing even if the other person isint funny , a smile or a laugh makes them feel comfortable around you 😶✌️ has anyone ever tried it ??

  • @jilyyyyy.

    @jilyyyyy.

    Жыл бұрын

    WHAAAAAT is that why the new visitor is comfortable with me? I usually laughs and smiles at everything she says lol

  • @pritalaras
    @pritalaras5 жыл бұрын

    Was a customer service and received tons of anger.. i was basically saying like "really I am on your side, I understand, i would do the same thing if i were you" and showing my glass puppy eyes while nodding..always works really well..

  • @khutsomatome2676
    @khutsomatome26764 жыл бұрын

    Me: This is the best KZread channel “You Nods head slightly” “You Mentainan eye contact with screen” And then hit the like button, Thank you.

  • @anjelinakharshiing7753
    @anjelinakharshiing77535 жыл бұрын

    I speak softly and less confident, thanks for the tips I'll try to apply in my life...

  • @TheJonesFamily
    @TheJonesFamily5 жыл бұрын

    Always live on the bright side of life 💎

  • @almatuomaala8084

    @almatuomaala8084

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep "how to manipulate peoples "

  • @brenda-bp7gq

    @brenda-bp7gq

    5 жыл бұрын

    💎

  • @bumblebeenani6571

    @bumblebeenani6571

    5 жыл бұрын

    The Jones Family Yes because... Holy shoot!! That poped up out of no where! I put a heart and it poped up! That's spooky!

  • @tavs4106

    @tavs4106

    5 жыл бұрын

    I see you in littarly every single comment section

  • @user-asfh2ubiv5dh

    @user-asfh2ubiv5dh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Too late for that now

  • @truthseekermedia
    @truthseekermedia4 жыл бұрын

    This is pure gold for anyone who deals with people!!!

  • @almi5260
    @almi52605 жыл бұрын

    "Do you ever wish that you could make people agree with you, like you, or remember you with a snap of your fingers?" No. but youtube seems to think I should...

  • @paradoxeverafter4496
    @paradoxeverafter44965 жыл бұрын

    Well...as a matter of fact...today I just got a proof that having an eye contact with your opponent actually works... Obviously it was unplanned... What happened was that my younger brother who has an obsession for wrestling, marshal arts and other such stupidities, he uses to suddenly bend, pull his hand forward (as if he's gonna hit you) and at a second's notice...he pushes his fingers through his hair... Like it's that he bluffs that he's gonna hit you... He just did tried to do that to me again today... (I often get trapped by his trick)😁 But today I unintentionally had an eye contact with him before he just bent down...and whoa...!!😃 Suddenly he just got paused and....his trick failed hilariously....😂😂😂😂 I made it...finally...😂😂😎

  • @Junaidkhandianuj
    @Junaidkhandianuj4 жыл бұрын

    "Because i said so that's why " this line 👌👌

  • @snowflakes5556
    @snowflakes55562 жыл бұрын

    The last one would help me a lot... thank you bright side 😊

  • @shaicln6492
    @shaicln64924 жыл бұрын

    Literally no one: KZread: 10 simple tricks to manipulate people's mind

  • @mrabu1
    @mrabu15 жыл бұрын

    5th one is legit, a girl had a crush on me becox i used to come late for my class not too late but just late enough to be the last person entering the class

  • @paradoxeverafter4496
    @paradoxeverafter44965 жыл бұрын

    Number 7 is something just mind blowing....Hats off to Bright Side...😘😘😘

  • @rupsadas8673
    @rupsadas8673 Жыл бұрын

    "Stay silent and you will get to know more" Me with adhd: thinking numerous stuffs while being silent

  • @raven5017
    @raven50174 жыл бұрын

    I've used that asking for something thats more outrageous and gradually working your way down when I wanted a bag and it worked!

  • @saotomesgirlfriend5591
    @saotomesgirlfriend55914 жыл бұрын

    I basically have no friend since they always say “i hAvE nO fRiEnDs!”

  • @vedanshnahar7077
    @vedanshnahar70775 жыл бұрын

    Bright Side manipulates me like nothing else.

  • @teru9959
    @teru99594 жыл бұрын

    Lol this was in my recommended and let's just say that I didn't know that I've been manipulating people. 😂😂😂

  • @sabrina1285

    @sabrina1285

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @orion5397

    @orion5397

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same😂😂

  • @habu5915
    @habu59154 жыл бұрын

    The last one is perfect for introverts *proceeds to make a triangle with ur eyes and forehead*

  • @kaou.h

    @kaou.h

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes i can agree

  • @user-kk7og6ov8n
    @user-kk7og6ov8n5 жыл бұрын

    It’s very useful tips for me. I argued badly with my father because of family problems. So, I got too depression to do anything :( But after watching this video, I did know It’s time to go and do now ! And also change myself and apologize him what I misunderstand. I’m just one of the Korean. So I don't know if the meaning has been conveyed properly. To sum up, this video allowed me to reflect on myself and take time to reflect on myself. Thank you for making video !

  • @candya1040

    @candya1040

    5 жыл бұрын

    CGM - Crazy Glasses Man I’m sorry, hopefully as you age, you’re relationship will get better. That’s what happened with me. It’s a lot different with a parent relationship when they finally listen and see you as a person and not an extension of themselves. It’ll get easier!

  • @user-kk7og6ov8n

    @user-kk7og6ov8n

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@candya1040 Thanks for your advice ! I just apologize and we can make good relationship as before the argument ! My parents think me independent body :) and I'm 19 years old ! In Korea, It is considered as a children people before 20 years old. I think that is problems in it :( Now, I'm okay and happy ! Thank you, Candace Argo !

  • @koboz9321

    @koboz9321

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey! What happened to all your video's, why are they all on private?

  • @sheisgod
    @sheisgod Жыл бұрын

    I came to learn something new but realized I've been doing these things without even knowing I'm actually manipulating people

  • @nikereebokpuma3406

    @nikereebokpuma3406

    6 ай бұрын

    If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them. Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also! When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble! Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do! I would never argue with you! When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!

  • @academyofheroes1059
    @academyofheroes10592 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this! Really helpful

  • @oopsibrokethecow
    @oopsibrokethecow2 жыл бұрын

    That's so interesting about the word "because." Looking back on conversations I've had, it does seem to work.

  • @snoopy4715
    @snoopy47155 жыл бұрын

    I support this channel its amazing 💖💖💖💖💖 love youuu bright side❤❤❤💙💙💖💖💝💝💝

  • @ubbaish

    @ubbaish

    4 жыл бұрын

    ادتح

  • @indigohunter4500
    @indigohunter45005 жыл бұрын

    These are very interesting, I'll have to use them at some point. Also, maybe bring up the fact that if you smile when you're making friends with someone, they will have a better time around you, and will remember you way easier.

  • @aToxicFlower
    @aToxicFlower2 жыл бұрын

    Thx bright side, just what is wanted. :)

  • @job576
    @job5763 жыл бұрын

    Yes, the perfect plan to get people to like you is to not be kind or maybe share the same interests, it's to spend all of your conversations timing when to cross your arms.

  • @0minous187
    @0minous1875 жыл бұрын

    does not work on psychopaths

  • @Perthect

    @Perthect

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good to know

  • @Perthect

    @Perthect

    5 жыл бұрын

    Guess you tried

  • @0minous187

    @0minous187

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Perthect depends on the person really, and i speak from personal experience.. if you want someone to do something you have to appeal to their likes, needs and fears while adding your own lil twists to make it seem like you're the only one who will do differently than others or can do things or w.e

  • @manuj2868

    @manuj2868

    4 жыл бұрын

    Saltine American Psychopaths can be manipulated if you know exactly what they want from you. You should then pretend you’re clueless and that you’re willing to grant their wishes. These however come with hidden conditions. They think that they’re close to their goal, while they’re actually fulfilling yours. Example: a psychopath wants you to open up about said person. Pretend you’re clueless and only give them little pieces of the information they want but not everything. Meanwhile, they should do things for you in order to win your “trust”. After you’re done with them, ditch them. This is counter-manipulation. Harder to pull of with intelligent psychopaths, but still possible.

  • @jenniemanoban2750
    @jenniemanoban27504 жыл бұрын

    You can use the listening and observing trick too.. you need to listen and observe their words or feelings they're using while talking to you. So you would be able to know how you would approach that person. 😊

  • @AliRaza-bt7xj
    @AliRaza-bt7xj4 жыл бұрын

    When you scroll down the comments do you think to yourself “I wish I said that”

  • @chirililli5527
    @chirililli55274 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!❤

  • @alextrevino1067
    @alextrevino10675 жыл бұрын

    One physiological trick if u wanna look more intamdating and more scary looking is by getting more close to the person ur talking to like invading there personal space and if there looking away from your face that’s when u can tell there really are uncomfortable or scared of u but if there still looking straight into your eyes they are not scared but they themselves are trying to look more intimidating to

  • @terriblelottery

    @terriblelottery

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alex Trevino could you give more important tips

  • @bing4222
    @bing42224 жыл бұрын

    Who Did this all the time.. Without this Vid or any “manipulate Videos” Literally Everybody Was The Power To Do

  • @bhavnayenpoetry6304
    @bhavnayenpoetry6304 Жыл бұрын

    Last one is life saving.

  • @ellanimationsxx8162
    @ellanimationsxx81624 жыл бұрын

    Them: mirror your opponents body language Other channels: if they mirror your body language they like you Me: *mirrors body language* My enemie: they like me

  • @vincint5013

    @vincint5013

    4 жыл бұрын

    I heard that before and you are not wrong about that lol

  • @jasontaheeba-maghrabi1710
    @jasontaheeba-maghrabi17105 жыл бұрын

    But manipulating someone feels kinda like betraying 😦

  • @Perthect

    @Perthect

    5 жыл бұрын

    Depends what kinna person you are I just see this as social skills not taking advantage

  • @iconaastratta8202

    @iconaastratta8202

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's not because I said so.

  • @angelcake3355

    @angelcake3355

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ayy, Small world !!! (つ≧▽≦)つ

  • @jxdestxne881

    @jxdestxne881

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @jxdestxne881

    @jxdestxne881

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@iconaastratta8202 ok

  • @patrickbourne3819
    @patrickbourne38195 жыл бұрын

    To manipulate a viewer step one. Over promise on something that cant really be quantified.

  • @jamescrook8376
    @jamescrook83765 жыл бұрын

    Ive been apt to understand the sitting next to the criticizing boss, because it sorta goes with that its easier to hate someone you dont know... so get known and ask for a favor, use because, and you'll get your wish, and lo and behold, youre liked, and cant be hated.

  • @aandaalpadmavati8573
    @aandaalpadmavati85733 жыл бұрын

    Wow!! Amazing!! adiyen ramanuja dasi!!

  • @edelbilic7849
    @edelbilic78493 жыл бұрын

    Everything what u said is true, I've done it many times over the years. But the trickiest part is when she/he do something completely different from your thoughts, then u have to bettle for it. You need to change your strategy in order tho get the right answer from them. :)

  • @IskandarZulqarnain
    @IskandarZulqarnain5 жыл бұрын

    Credit/Debit Situation. Cashier: Wave or PIN? Customer: PIN! Change into... Cashier: Can I Wave it? Customer: Ummm, ok yes. Wave. Plus, with good combination of voice tone, facial expression and body gestures is important..

  • @jyotikukreja-lifeskills1105
    @jyotikukreja-lifeskills11052 жыл бұрын

    I really really appreciate the last trick. You are wonderful ☺️

  • @phuongthao6679
    @phuongthao66794 жыл бұрын

    mirroring use the word "because" pausing at the right time, after the statement, calm but confidence tone stay silent but maintain eye contact be the first or the last sit next to ask someone a favor nod slightly draw a triangle

  • @aLLuNIQUE1
    @aLLuNIQUE12 жыл бұрын

    I like to see the notifications like someone liked your comment and someone subscribed you

  • @jawz66
    @jawz664 жыл бұрын

    10 Tips to Becoming a Narcissist. Mirroring. Silent Treatment. All to manipulate and control others to get what you want. Informative nonetheless.

  • @prajwalgaikwad6048
    @prajwalgaikwad60483 жыл бұрын

    The last one is super helpful thanks

  • @angelinaclark832
    @angelinaclark8324 жыл бұрын

    This was probably one of bright sides best videos

  • @itsmrme-tl9tb
    @itsmrme-tl9tb2 жыл бұрын

    Well if you want someone to REALLY wanna talk to you try talking to them for long hours everyday and after 4-5 days of talking with them for hours simply start being distant like not talking to them for a long time or saying you're busy again and again this will make them impatient and want your attention

  • @anuadamninja9822
    @anuadamninja98225 жыл бұрын

    I think te last trick gonna save ma life as well as time .

  • @raquelmorote5543
    @raquelmorote55433 жыл бұрын

    I am running for something in school and I have to make a speech so now I will use because thank you

  • @ecnerolfvlogs2723
    @ecnerolfvlogs27234 жыл бұрын

    This is awesome! Gonna apply them later.

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