Not having friends is not an indicator all the time that you’re a poor friend. Sometimes someone has been betrayed by most friends or had jealous friends so you ride alone and very selective of friends.

@kyndalkillebrew5139

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I have some friends but not many close friends because I've been betrayed too many times and Im scared to let new people in.

@deborahwolff5651

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I had many of them. Same experience;

@eustacianarcis9269

2 жыл бұрын

@@kyndalkillebrew5139 same😕

@misstwiththetea7970

2 жыл бұрын

What do you guys mean when you say betrayed ? Like what did they do ?

@deborahwolff5651

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! That is me

Not just your friends but YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS TOOOOOOO.

@ID2011

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@Corneliawalsh_

3 жыл бұрын

Facts💯

@araybray6657

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@jennid23

3 жыл бұрын

Big yup 👏🏽👏🏽

@NewCreationInChrist896

3 жыл бұрын

Amen continue being real like Jesus Christ and God may grant them repentance, winning souls to Christ. No one really knows what’s going on in a person’s life but God especially now. This is why it’s important to develop a real relationship with Jesus so we don’t forget that and for discernment. If we are Christ like we can help win them back from a lukewarm fellowship to Christ. They may have sin in their life and need you to help them confess it. 2 Timothy 2:24-25 Matthew 6:14-15 Romans 12:2-10

When I realized that my friends can not be happy for me, I started to not share my good news with them.

@not-even-german4892

2 жыл бұрын

Period🙏

@merodyhana5544

2 жыл бұрын

True the same to me. I can't share my news with any friend of mine. They are to jealous to me!!

@specialk8927

2 жыл бұрын

Move in silence

@glow1815

2 жыл бұрын

Better drop them all. To avoid other issues with them.

@sherryhillman9197

Жыл бұрын

They are not your friends.

Fake friends can be more dangerous than enemies, especially after you opened up to them enough and they now everything about you.

If they gossip to you then they will gossip about you.

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t like gossipers. I’ve been praying for God to check me on it too. It’s a nasty habit.

@angelsonia6310

3 жыл бұрын

You're right! I gat be careful when someone is talking about another to me

@miss.bridgetterrell3224

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

@sakitacastro7143

3 жыл бұрын

My grandmother always said that.

@user-id2lu9uz2z

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the gossip from work

Honestly i don't have alot of friends because people in these days don't hold the same values as I do .

@ratanangmokgosi7840

3 жыл бұрын

🖐🏽same here

@zoegyal1032

3 жыл бұрын

Periodttt

@AnimalLover-1111

3 жыл бұрын

Same here, very true. 👍🏻

@jamaicanjoyh6883

3 жыл бұрын

Same...I deposit love & a lil bit of joy.....n keep it movin

@inpursuitofholiness416

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

A friend that is jealous of you wants what you have.

Not only your friends there are family members who are jealous of you too!

@iamnotmyhandle

3 жыл бұрын

They be the main ones, unfortunately.

@deborahwolff5651

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. Well agreed

@wayaca47

2 жыл бұрын

Although it,s painfull, because the closest relatives you can,t delete, then ""Love them from a Distance and Keep this in Mind: Life is to short to wait on You act right: Steve Harvey Quote!

@BratzDoll03

2 жыл бұрын

YES HONEY.

@itz_peach_6712

2 жыл бұрын

Facts!!

The copycats and competitors, those friendships never end well

@thevfitlife9959

3 жыл бұрын

Amen neverrrrr!

@sammyytube5999

3 жыл бұрын

I've learned to recognize and get rid of those types quickly.

@mablem.9094

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN👏🏾.

@msfitbrown48

3 жыл бұрын

Never🤞🏿

@pennyproud8587

3 жыл бұрын

Facts!

I’m 28 and as an adult I have yet to find one female friend who values friendship like me. It’s always some underlying hate going on. I have given up on trying to make friends at this point

@deloresbreedlove8864

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 27 same here just wanna be alone

@thenightdances21

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 29 & can relate completely! 😕

@Deleted-nl9pk

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 23 and I feel the same way. I used to think that there was something wrong with me for people to treat me like that but I’ve come to learn that others behavior reflects on how they feel about themselves

@thenightdances21

3 жыл бұрын

@@Deleted-nl9pk you are so right. Im trying to learn to not beat myself over other people’s behaviors. I’m glad you said this!!

@LisaLisaCJ

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 53 and trust me it gets no easier

It took me a long time to realize other women were jealous of me. I was struggling, insecure, and not happy. I could not fathom that anyone would be jealous of me. Once I felt better about myself and started to shine, the jealousy increased. This is sad, because no matter what anyone looks like or achieves, they need friends and support. I edit these jealous people out. Sticking with my close circle of besties :-)

@lizalane16

3 жыл бұрын

A few things I’ve noticed as red flags: 1) Springboarding. This is when you take the initiative to bring something up that concerns you. Maybe you say, “hey it seems like you were a little snarky the other day, what’s happening?” They say they can’t remember or they are dismissive and gaslighty. Then they proceed to springboard off what you said to bring up something that bothers them. You say, “I’m happy to speak about that separately, but I’d like to discuss the concern that I took the initiative to bring up.” 2) Othersiding. You tell your friend about someone you’re having trouble with at work, whom your friend does not know. Your friend takes the side of the other person when they should listen and support you. 3) No Follow Up. You start a new job, you start a new hobby, you go on a vacation. They don’t call you and ask you how it’s going. You see them and you feel disappointed because they don’t say “ how’s your garden coming along?” “How’s the new job?” No follow up. Hope these help :-)

Most friends are “associates” , don’t focus too much on having friends but just improving yourself and being the best version, and learn to be happy alone , but do appreciate those that come and those that go

@sadiasharmeen942

2 жыл бұрын

Yes😊

@lynnette1969

11 ай бұрын

Love this comment!

IF THEY GOSSIP TO YOU, YOU BETTER BELIEVE YOU’RE ON THEIR HIT LIST WHEN THEY TALK TO SOMEONE ELSE

@xxxloveydovey67xxx10

3 жыл бұрын

Truth Amen!!!

@trace2116

3 жыл бұрын

My sister. I finally figured it out.

@deborahwolff5651

2 жыл бұрын

Truth, Amen!

@msrivera360

2 жыл бұрын

please explain! i think you’re right i just don’t understand 😭

@SuckerPunch92

2 жыл бұрын

That’s it

"They smile in your face, all the time they want to take your place." -The O'Jays

@anthonywestjr1063

3 жыл бұрын

"Smiling Faces" ~The Undisputed Truth~

@weireffie29

3 жыл бұрын

Good insight and let us reflect on the scriptures also Roman 14: 19 " If it is possible live peaceful with other and encourage, edify and empower one another."

@missrk6623

3 жыл бұрын

True true,i gave up on friendship yonks ago

@jayjay1443

3 жыл бұрын

That song spoke the absolute truth

@xxxloveydovey67xxx10

3 жыл бұрын

YEP BACK STABBERS

A friend who compliments you to your face but talks bad about you behind your back.

@indeara6313

3 жыл бұрын

It's so hurtful 😞

I started my graduate degree program and my best friend has been displaying huge signs of jealousy. She’s constantly making under handed comments like, oh she doesn’t want to hang out with us because we don’t have degrees. I finally called her out and she’s been distant ever since. Best friend of 8 years . SMH

@Lola_Loren

3 жыл бұрын

WOW - at the same time, I'm not really surprised. Good for you for calling her out, and continued success for you. And you going to graduate school wasn't the start of her ill feelings towards you, she could no longer keep her feelings under wraps, that's all. Hopefully, she'll wake up, address her own issues and learn to be better person. Pray for her.

@micaonyx5301

3 жыл бұрын

That's wonderful, congratulations I hope you much success. I had a so-called best friend who was also my real estate agent for almost 20 years so she pretty much knew my income. The more I invested in real estate using her the more crap I started getting from her like oh I know you don't have to look at prices like the rest of us. Or not everyone can buy xyz item without thinking about it and on and on. At first I was shocked and then hurt and I'll admit I was a little slow but I realized she was jealous of me and not really my friend.

@its.dayday__

3 жыл бұрын

I have a friend that can’t bring herself to compliment me. Ever! Then it’s my birthday, she would rather use my worst pictures. lol I’ve seen her talk all types of shit about a girl’s wedding yet posted it like she was super happy for her. So I’m pregnant now and she has beef with another one of my friends. She’s like basically they might fight there. I’m like wtf I’d kick her out cuz why the f would you come to MY BABY Shower to start drama? Then she’s like she’s only coming for food that’s it. Writing this rn I’m about to block her ass. I didn’t tell her I was pregnant because she’s a hater since hs I’d notice things but keep brushing it off. But she’s definitely jealous of me for some reason. Like she can’t even bring herself to congratulate me on anything. Definitely about to cut her off.

@iamnotmyhandle

3 жыл бұрын

@@its.dayday__ I hope you did. You deserve better. 💗

@iamnotmyhandle

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me when I enrolled in grad school. So called friend of 15+ years and I found out she wasn't truly my friend after all. Just graduated with my Masters degree last month and haven't missed the dead weight since! Accept it as a blessing 💗

If there's an awkward silence when you enter a conversation...dont ignore your instincts

@rocker76m88

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. I can feel it in my gut when I know someone was talking behind my back. I can read body language pretty well..

@ceoyellaaa3682

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@houston3rdwrdlouisiana371

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I know they talking about us sis okay

@xxxloveydovey67xxx10

3 жыл бұрын

Truth cause their talking about you

@shanelleellis2540

3 жыл бұрын

Amen🙌🙏

Whoever is reading this, may God bless you with wisdom, knowledge and understanding to discern good and evil in the name of Jesus Amen!

@stacysims3706

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@kynathomas4809

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@olaoluwaanuoluwapo8337

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@calmysohento712

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@mecheledavis1575

3 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you

Honestly some people miss out on good friendships because you pick people based on how they look vs how they are as a person.

@griswald7156

3 ай бұрын

Some people miss out because they want you for who you are not what you look like..

@overcomer1679

2 ай бұрын

This is Correct

It's scary how many people in my life (incl. family members) tick these boxes 😳. Now I see why i'm a loner. I can sense the negative energy.

@sarahreyes2558

2 жыл бұрын

So true this should include family members cus I have family members that are jealous of me

@trueeternallbeauty6220

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve come to the realization of that .. which is why I have been kind of distancing myself. That’s why I am selective on what I share learning to read my circle.

Actually people who are jealous of you admire you and hate that they're not you!

@faridahnakayemba1496

3 жыл бұрын

Period

@yvonnep.5194

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!

@elisejackson1719

3 жыл бұрын

Facts ‼️

@dionnejones7926

3 жыл бұрын

Truth be told. My mom 🤮 I don't even like saying the M word she told me she is envy of me in stead of being proud of the women I became.

@iamnotmyhandle

3 жыл бұрын

@@dionnejones7926 Sending hugs💗

What's sad!! Is that your spirit will start to tell you who is for you... But we tend to ignore it... 😞

@ceoyellaaa3682

3 жыл бұрын

🎯💯

@evacreatemillions

3 жыл бұрын

Craziest thing ever trust your instincts in the beginning especially when you since that people are not being completely honest. Otherwise don't waste anytime trying to figure people out nip things in the bud at first hand.

@Adaywith_Daphne

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@RoyalTea70

3 жыл бұрын

Real Truth!!!!

@queennikki71ify

3 жыл бұрын

learned that 2020 vision year & it sucked me dry

I don't have friends, I have associates. I've been betrayed too many times. Being more of a friend to people than they were to me. But I notice that I seem to relate to older women more because they have more going on for themselves and I can learn from them. Luckily for me I'm introverted.

@BriaBarrows

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. Because they’ve had life experiences

@RCooke357

Жыл бұрын

Not true lol. Sometimes older women be the most jealous and toxic ones.

@sweetchocolatecandy838

Жыл бұрын

I get along better with older women and men too. 😊But, I stand alone still most of the time.

@hquinn8635

Жыл бұрын

@@RCooke357 jealous and toxic people come in all ages. Maybe that's your truth but it's not mine. So to each her own.

When you are genuine its so hard to find true friends. I'm afraid of people I stop searching for them pretty much nonexistent. Just a few and very hard to find

Can we talk about how mothers are often this way with daughters?

@maryluvsmusic9298

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

@cassandra2994

3 жыл бұрын

That's crazy, I'm glad my Mother wasn't that way with me, neither will I be with my daughter!

@ladyv301

3 жыл бұрын

My mother was ugh exhausting I'm 30 an still deal with it

@lwarfield52

3 жыл бұрын

True! I agree!👍

@shine-6000

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!!!!! the whole vid I'm like this sounds like my mother

I just lost a 17 year “friendship” because of this. Soon as I got my promotion at work my “best friend” was a whole new person. She didn’t like celebrating my happiness with me. 🤦🏻‍♀️ she no longer is in my future. I feel so much better

@charnitrarogers8933

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 5 years ago. We actually got the same job smh lol

@lilly7780

3 жыл бұрын

That’s so sad, but congratulations on your success, may your career prosper further!!!🎊🎉🎈

@Fuschia816

3 жыл бұрын

I set boundaries finally on a 37 year "friendship" too. Certain things she said or way she said them began to make me question her. We live in different states right now & when Rona hit I got closer than ever to God & more in tune with my spirituality. Lost my mom 2017 & that really changed me for the better as far as dealing with others. To end connections that no longer served a purpose in my journey. My friend lost a longtime friend of over 35 years. I began to go back in time how she would spend so much time with her like holidays, etc when she knew I did not have family to be with and spent so many alone. Early on in our friendship we did hang out but I got married so that eased up. So many other things I realized that although we had very long talks on the phone but not hanging out like she did with her friend that passed. She then started saying that she & I could hang out to places she & her friend did or she would visit. She cares for her mother so I did understand why she said that. This convinced me that all of the years I shared the good & bad in my life was not what I was going to continue or needed to any longer. I changed but she did not & I actually was bored with our talks. She has been there to listen to many of my problems & circumstances I found myself in but I find myself at peace these days the less I talk about things vs her believing she knows it all. Honestly I really didn't take her advice. Lastly, whenever I talked about men she got quiet or bashed them or try to tell me what to do (she is bisexual & I'm not) & it was clear to me that she desired me as many people said that's what it was when I mentioned how she behaved when I had. Havent talked to her in 6 months & she called. Texted her back. Whenever I've talked in the past she would at times bring up bad things that happened anyway & this made me question the friendship even more. What friend brings up another friends bad times? I'm just glad God gave me the discernment of spirit about her & instructed me to let her go & with this time off during this pandemic it opened my THIRD EYE to see people as they really are.

@bettyhenderson1621

3 жыл бұрын

The folks that come into your lives are there for a season, no one will be your friend *FOREVER* they will eventually move on. forgive them and move on, life is a JOURNEY and yours will continue with or without that "friend" ☮️and❤️.

@deborahwilliamson5655

3 жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR PROMOTION!!! Blessings to you.

My older sister treats me like this, so it is not always friends. Jealousy can be in your own family which is sad.

@kevinkampe9247

2 жыл бұрын

Very sad my Dear

@brittanyedwards6530

2 жыл бұрын

10000% true!!!

@padussia

2 жыл бұрын

All three of my older sisters, my brother, and mom were jealous as hell of me growing up. I'm so glad I got away from them.

@leanboyj13

Жыл бұрын

That is the most backstabbing and disgusting being a family member could do 🤮

I've had friends that always felt the need to humble me. If a guy is attracted to me, she'll say "oh he just likes your personality (not your looks)." If I win at something, they'll say "Oh I did that years ago."

@Respectations

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha! Dam.

@01alanthony

2 жыл бұрын

The one upper.

What about the ones that only come around when your down or not doing well...but won’t celebrate you during accomplishments or doing well

@lashondarochell7584

3 жыл бұрын

That's definitely a jealous friend, only coming around when you are down and out, me personally I ended a friendship of 20+ years, she had me fooled but GOD showed me her heart I was done.. I don't want any fake person around me.

@ka8155

3 жыл бұрын

Also the ones that copy your style. Dresses like you, talks like you, and competes with you in an unhealthy way

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

Girl this is very common. We don’t have time for that. Or to worry about who is for us in our winning season. The victory belongs to God.

@lashondarochell7584

3 жыл бұрын

@Victoria Akoms Thank You for those kind sentiments GOD 🙏 Bless You

@ITSJasmineNichole

3 жыл бұрын

THIS ONE!! This is it!! Agreed!!

This is why I love being an introvert

@annedorisvital7825

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing here

@casandragiven35

3 жыл бұрын

Safe place

@annaleft1265

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@reginaberry5228

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@katrina1694

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

Don't keep friends period, only associates!!

@ijeomaikechukwu8375

3 жыл бұрын

@ MarB How do you do it , am Curious ?

@marb.2399

3 жыл бұрын

@@ijeomaikechukwu8375 How do I do what?

@melviasheppard8466

3 жыл бұрын

I stopped with "Best Friends" 18 years ago. Just to have a "associate" start talking about how I only use the good kind of toilet paper. To other members of her church that I lived across the street from. Not sure how I'm supposed to respond to that. Butt, (😆) I do know what's on most of their minds when they pull into the parking lot 😆😆😆😆😆

@marb.2399

3 жыл бұрын

@@melviasheppard8466 lol you know what they're thinking🤣🤣🤣

1.@2:09 Is never happy with you 2.@4:40 They are not a friend to anyone else 3.@6:00 A competitive friend 4.@8:22 Bashes you privately 5.@9:49 They are embarrassed of you

How to know you have a jealous friend 1. Is never happy for you: watch how they respond to your progress 2. When they aren’t loyal to others:they talk bad about others 3. Someone who want to surpass you in all standard. 4. Aligns with you in public and bash you in private. 5. Someone who aligns with you in private, but hates others to see that you both are friends 😊You welcome

@lissaslighthouse8475

3 жыл бұрын

NARCS!!!!

@kynathomas4809

3 жыл бұрын

@@lissaslighthouse8475 💣 PERIOD!

@Risha-Rene

3 жыл бұрын

I thought it was 10

@rubysparklerodriguez3647

3 жыл бұрын

Wow I can't believe thus that's crazy OK pray them they might need it in someway

@quietandmildone

3 жыл бұрын

You only named five?!!🤷🏼‍♀️

Forget the small talk .. pay attention how they treat you .. actions speak louder

@wakeupluv

Жыл бұрын

💯💯

Discernment is important and not only friends but family too should be included

@wayaca47

2 жыл бұрын

So so True !!

@lishallmichel6802

2 жыл бұрын

Just figuring out my true friends in my 50’s smh!

I always end up in competitive friendships. They’re always copying, always trying to do the same thing. It’s honestly creepy and I’m so sick of it.

I can't be friends with people who are jealous or hang out with people are jealous cuz you can feel that negative energy. Very toxic and I just can't be around it. 🤭🤔

@shanelleellis2540

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@sarahreyes2558

2 жыл бұрын

Same here and very draining being around those type of people

I had a best friend that was always proud that she was doing better than me. When I started growing in the same area she had a literal tantrum and said "I just never expected you to get where I am". And when I broke up with my boyfriend she said "how does it feel being the only single one now?". She was also nice to me in private but was so embarrassed of me in public because of my goofy personality and told people she didn't know me. I hated it. And God saved me from it. I will always be grateful to him.

@Royal_Kat

3 жыл бұрын

👀 woah I've been there. Smh

@zigggystardustt

2 жыл бұрын

How old are you?

@iys6890

2 жыл бұрын

Good riddance to that person!

@kimberlyhayward7835

2 жыл бұрын

Get rid of her quickly!!! That's definitely not a friend!!!!

@anastasiajohnson5726

2 жыл бұрын

Wow experienced this

Preach..they act like they love u & they be hating on the low ! But i see right through them with their fake love! They hating & God keep on blessing me in their face ! Thank u Lord 🙏🏽

@christinajackson646

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that! I know exactly what you mean. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@salihashahid9526

2 жыл бұрын

When they hate on you, they are actually hating on the will of God because God blesses you with his will and they don’t like that God decided to bless you so The Almighty blesses you even more right in front of their faces haha 😂

#3) One-up/competitiveness- I used to get offended/upset when friends/family copied me and bought the same thing after I bought it. To deal with it, however, I began telling myself the saying, “imitation is the highest form of flattery”, it helps me tremendously!

@MrDDUDLEY10

2 жыл бұрын

Lol, my mom would tell me this about someone who was copying me.. I still didn’t like it.. not even a little bit

@munequa81

2 жыл бұрын

This is such a thorn on my side, but they can only copy material things, they can never copy my light and my spirit. A person who competes like this is a bottomless pit. That’s how I’m reminding myself when this happens.

@Whoever68

2 жыл бұрын

Sadly someone I treasured as a dear friend is exactly like this. It has taken 15 years for me to realise what she was doing. After a comment about my late mother’s cooking, she had to up me with something else. Although we are still “friends”, I cannot divulge anything personal anymore. Many times I have wanted her input about something going on in my life but I stop myself. It was hard for about six months but now I find it easier to not say anything to her that is personal or relates to my children.

Not just friends, your parent's, bros , sis , cousins , aunt , uncle basically anyone!!!

@Leatricaw

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@imbrakingthrough2152

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏻

@zyellison5393

3 жыл бұрын

Factssss 🙌🏽

@tbabtt1855

3 жыл бұрын

@@tracyj2095 or they first to be somewhere talking about keeping it real or loyalty..

@dionnejones7926

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Truth. 👋🏽

Always happens when you step into your light. It’s important to keep good friends around you. Good believer friends.

@hopeh1095

3 жыл бұрын

Lovely comment, so true. Keep good friends around and we all need friends who gonna encourage us to become the best version God want us to be.

@monicapetty5941

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Real friends don’t change with the seasons. I value believer friendship of God. It’s truly a blessing.

@bettywilliams9877

3 жыл бұрын

How do you step into your light?

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

@@bettywilliams9877 hey queen:) it means that you submit your life to God and trust Him with the plans for your life. You work on yourself, your goals, your dreams, your self esteem. You get to a place where you finally feel good about you. Usually at this stage, you are progressing in life. But even if you aren’t there yet, you are confident. ♥️

@micahmicheals8704

3 жыл бұрын

Do u still watch jazz?dint know u r a believer

1. Can't Celebrate You, insecure friend 2. Not a friend to anyone else, gossip 3. Always trying to one up you 4. Align in public, bass u in private 5. Embarrassed of you Thank you Karolyne

I told my friend I was jealous of her engagement although I was genuinely happy for her. It’s weird you can be so excited for someone else’s happiness while mourning your own. My friend understood and has been amazing this entire time. I am trying to work through it. I do not want to be a jealous person.

@mirandaholley9797

3 жыл бұрын

Please do not ruin her moment. You would not like the same.

@Somelikeitthrift

3 жыл бұрын

@@mirandaholley9797 did you read my comment? I’m keeping my distance and doing everything possible not to ruin it for her.

@mirandaholley9797

3 жыл бұрын

@@Somelikeitthrift You did not state you were keeping your distance but I am glad you are doing so.

@KC-ni5gw

2 жыл бұрын

You are doing good and you will get through this.

@D2RLIVETV

2 жыл бұрын

here is a secret that a lot of people don't know......you are already half way there. First you admitted to yourself that you felt this way inside and that's huge! Many of us walk around here in denial lying to our self confusing ourselves more. Most likely your feelings are coming from a place of just wanting to be in a similar relationship and listen my friend, that don't make you a bad person. Take it from me I have people in my life I would do anything for or hurt anybody for her HOWEVER, one person very close to me biggest flaw has been how she always put her self down and deep down inside allowed her feelings of lack make her secretly display negative feelings to other people that she loved.... it's been extremely traumatic for me to helplessly have to watch... but as a grown man now I realize that EVERYONE has choices and must be accountable. Often we feel someone else close to us who experiences success that we may have not yet achieved is some type of knock on us but why? We don't feel that way when we some celebrity have success and maybe because we don't know them personally? But here is the secret and it really works! When you identify you are having these type thoughts about a friend or family or colleague TAKE IT TO GOD and talk to him sincerely and ask him to remove these negative thoughts and sometimes talking to GOD about whatever it may be will move you to tears, but if you are sincere and you state EXACTLY what you want and desire it can happen for you so long as you don't talk your subconscious mind out of it with our negative conditioning and programming.... envy is the FASTEST way to not get what you desire! We all have the capability to be greedy, selfish, envious, hateful, etc..... we also have the ability to be self aware and correct this type of thinking.... our biggest fight is with ourselves NO CAP! If we look too good and we got money the fight becomes against our own arrogance, if we don't have those things the fight becomes against our bitterness or ideas of lack I always prat that ALL ideas of lack (financial, mental, physical or spiritual) be removed from my spirt because it is the idea of lack that makes us feel these negative emotions..... if you REALLY LOVE YOUR FRIEND then truly be happy for her and watch how GOD will bless you.... true love is truly wanting for our brother (friends, sisters, cousins) what we want for ourselves. When we make the mistake of thinking we are better than others (arrogance) or make the mistake of being envious of others all we are doing is BLOCKING OUR OWN BLESSINGS..... start listening to Dr Joseph Murphy videos (power of the subconcious mind) and Reverend Ike videos and videos like this girl on this page (whom I stumbled upon but like) and meditate and keep your mind busy and focused and watch how you start to manifest more of what you want in your life

That's why I gravitate towards older women because women my age (20s) always make things feel competitive!

@micaonyx5301

3 жыл бұрын

If that's your profile picture you are too adorable, you remind me of my daughter. As a older woman I can honestly tell you they can be jerks too. Sad but true 😞

@pinata985

3 жыл бұрын

Older women are jealous too I am literally by myself.

@ladybugblack

3 жыл бұрын

Nope the older ones are shady too. Age means nothing trust you would be Surprised how many older women are toxic. It’s the person’s character & energy I go by

@dionnejones7926

3 жыл бұрын

Some old one's to . Trying to act young. Am like you had your day. Go retirement. 😂😂😂

@scovyaporsha

3 жыл бұрын

@@pinata985 Say that again. I cut contact with 2 older women cause the negativity was too much. They're the worst

I always come in contact with the COMPETITOR friends. It is very EXHAUSTING and PATHETIC.

@RavenMarie2001

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah me too it’s very draining and a waste of time and energy like if you feel the need to want to compete with me all the time just stay away from me

@deborahfranklin9370

3 жыл бұрын

I see it in church on the low. People ride on my infuence also.

@Manila-wo3pi

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@piinkpanther7804

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@piinkpanther7804

3 жыл бұрын

I realize i was always there while when i needed o e to be there ..there were none even for 30sec

Some of my friends say I'm too happy while they wollow in their sadness,meditation keeps me upbeat and positive.

That’s why I keep my circle small…a lot of “Fake Friends “ out there that are really more associates than true friends

Me to me: "Are YOU that jealous/fake friend"? Love you Jesus!

@AB-se2st

3 жыл бұрын

Right! I was just thinking that about myself. Need to do some self examination.

@jessicawestbrook3730

3 жыл бұрын

@@AB-se2st 💖💖💖

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

Facts. Sometimes we gotta check ourselves

@kaones5928

3 жыл бұрын

🤗🤗😄

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

It’s an important conversation to have with ourselves. We are all human

35 years I thought she was my best friend, my sister and then I found out ALL THE terrible things she’d said to various people. It was apparent that she didn’t even like me. One of the most hurtful times ever. And in listening to this, I should have known. People pretend well

@sassylipps1980

3 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry you went through that.

@fastingchic5212

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, that level of betrayal is shocking and hurtful. It’s scary how well people are able to pretend. That’s why when someone is murdered the investigation begins looking at those closest to the victim!

@barbarah.3056

3 жыл бұрын

So sorry u went so many years an did not know she was a fake friend!

@theresamccormick-dunlap8383

3 жыл бұрын

I had the same experience but when I look back I really should have seen it all along.

@tha1gurl317

3 жыл бұрын

I felt this ☝🏽

I can count so many fake and jealous friends. Especially close ones.

I had a friend like this. I celebrated her and was always supportive of her. She downplayed my accomplishments, downed my relationship acted like she was happy when I got married. She competed with me constantly and she always commented on the fact that I was not as flashy as her. Claimed I was so jealous of her and I was not. I prayed about her being removed from my life and 3 months later of avoiding her she came out the bag on me and told me every hateful thing she could. It was confirmation for me. She could never be a friend to me anymore. I looked back and realized she was toxic to anyone who she was close too. Self care is letting go of toxic friends.

I had a friend that copies everything I do, and secretly watches my every move then I will c her doing the same thing. At first I thought it was innocent but I eventually realised she is a cheat and lives off other people to live her life. I just stopped talking to her completely.

@tierrashavonn

3 жыл бұрын

Omg i literally am dealing with the same thing and I just asked one of my girlfriends for advice in this area because I didn’t know how I should approach it.

@Shay4YourMind81

3 жыл бұрын

Been there, too! I did the same thing you did, cut her off. These people are parasites, and must be cut off.

@ceecee99

3 жыл бұрын

You have to pray for God to give you discernment if this friend is truly out to get you or is having some other insecurities or brokenness and it’s playing out/showing up in your friendship. If the friendship is worth saving, talk to your friend about what you are feeling but don’t go in accusing your friend. Just be vulnerable about your feeling and how it’s affecting your friendship and you want to work on it to save the friendship. I’ve had a friend copy everything I was doing and it was not because she had it out for me it was because she was struggling with direction for her life. She found inspiration from my dream until she was able to be strong and truly follow the direction God was giving her for her gift/calling. I’m glad I didn’t just dump her and our friendship.

@breewright8702

3 жыл бұрын

I have been there..and I cut her off!

@lashondarochell7584

3 жыл бұрын

It's really good that you cut her off, My older sister while she was in college she had this best friend who wanted my sister's life she not only copied her but she will tell people who didn't know my sister that she was my sister, Thank GOD my sister ended that friendship no telling what she would have tried to do to my sister.

Some people don't know the REAL meaning of being a friend. I tend to be by myself. Less drama and BS. I LOVE peace and quiet!!!

It’s said that nearly 40 years old some of us are still experiencing elementary school behaviors From supposed to be friends

@steffysanta2729

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly I’m 49 and just cut two more people out of my life because of their fake friendship

@sweetter1983

3 жыл бұрын

Wow!!! SMH

That's why I like to be by my self Im done dealing with all this type of "friends" I get really happy for other people success but you can tell right away the ones that are not being genuine about yours. And keeping your plans to your self is the best thing to do untill the became real.

When they are not happy for you it’s because they are sad for themselves. I wouldn’t take it personally. If they make fun of you or persecute you, those are the ones to dump immediately no ifs and or buts.

@6cooch9

3 жыл бұрын

You need people in your life who are on your level. If others are sad for themselves and all that, they just heal and work on themselves instead of taking it out on you. All toxic behavior stems from ones own insecurities but we shouldn’t put up with it.

@saetae9208

3 жыл бұрын

I had a friend who laughs at me and compares me to other friends about what I don't have. She was insecure about her weight.

@shevirgo978

3 жыл бұрын

I agree! I think that for me being a good friend, if my friend has a loss or hard time, then I'm watching how I celebrate. There is a selfishness that we have to be careful of... because just because someone celebrates you without enthusiasm doesn't mean they are jealous or insecure. We have to be careful with that.

@D2RLIVETV

2 жыл бұрын

FACTS! I wrote a whole paragraph trying to say this and you said everything I was trying to say way more concise and succinctly.

I agree that these are some signs of jealous friends. But, when these signs are revealed to you, it’s best that you just block & move on. A conversation is not needed bc you’ve already realized this person doesn’t have your best interest at heart.

@ladennayoung2939

3 жыл бұрын

That can be true to me. Have a blessed day. Thanks for sharing your insight on this subject matter in Jesus name.

@Gabriela.H

3 жыл бұрын

A conversation should be attempted but it will most likely backfire. The person will just deflect and get defensive. Speaking from experience.

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

You can definitely talk about it with your friend first.

@arabianx0104

3 жыл бұрын

@@Gabriela.H facts lool

@olaoluwaanuoluwapo8337

3 жыл бұрын

Move away from them and continue praying for them. There must be a reason they came into your life in the first place.

When you do good and when you change your life so does your circle of friends. Their actions will speak louder than their words jealousy is so real.

In choosing your friends get to know about there upbringing, etc. Alot of the times they've got alot of personal issues within, low self esteem etc. So that can truly affect them being a true friend, so be wise,pray for them, and love them until change comes, or God says otherwise. So yea sometimes it's more about them and there own issues than it is you. Bless day to all

That's exactly how I handle that "friend" I just don't tell them anything even if its positive.

@mendikiige1409

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@MrDDUDLEY10

2 жыл бұрын

I had to start doing this to someone!!! Couldn’t even tell them when I was buying shoes.

Your network is your NET-WORTH! In other words there will come a time when your circle will dwindle! It's part of the aging and maturity process! Toxic friends who operate in Spirit of Jealousy aren't friends. As my mom would say, you can't call everyone your friend. These are associates and should be handled with a long handled spoon! Elevation brings separation! Don't be afraid to walk this journey with very few people!

@alisoncanty5660

3 жыл бұрын

You are right. I am down to very few friends. The path I am walking is one that most people don't understand which is fine. Elevation does indeed bring separation.

@rachelm.3173

3 жыл бұрын

💯

@deborahwolff5651

2 жыл бұрын

You are right ! You,are better off

@deborahwolff5651

2 жыл бұрын

People can really ,suck!

@sygmoore

2 жыл бұрын

Or if they are friends with you in private but when in public with you and other people are around they diss you. Not a true friendship. You can believe they are talking about you behind ur back.

This is exactly what my family did to me when I got married i have only two sisters and not one of them attended my wedding, not even bought me a congratulations card and the worst of all they completely stop speaking to me period only because I married a man of God just as I'm a woman of God they dismissed me all together but God has me and my husband covered 🙏

Whew - this was spot on! I'm definitely going through a period of sorting through and prioritizing healthy friendships. I've been feeling a lot of jealous, resentful energy from some of my friends and do not have the energy to entertain it. Thank you for outlining this so clearly! It just reinforces some things I already picked up on.

I found out that I was a fake friend. I am gonna change on that...🙂

@240283ful

3 жыл бұрын

You are a geniune person,may God strengthen ur weaknesses.

@kgomotsokeasitse7798

3 жыл бұрын

I love your honesty 😘😘😘may the good Lord strengthens you.

@goodwill3073

3 жыл бұрын

Good

@Jusguess1

3 жыл бұрын

When you know better, do better. Good for you.🎉

@sunnyday3117

2 жыл бұрын

I admire your honesty. That alone proves you’re a good person that takes accountability

I had a friend who would always make fun of me. Took me years laughing at myself before I discarded her. I came to realise that the situation itself was not funny but the implication that I was stupid was the joke. They feed an ongoing narrative that gets old. You need to have respect.

@nuunubirgitteboassen6957

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@bye4619

2 жыл бұрын

That's absolutely correct 🧡💫 I'm happy for you 🧡

Who wants to hide all the good things in your life just to protect your friend. It's not about them all the time

I agree about an envious friend is an insecure friend. The flip side of that is when you look to friendship to validate you. If you are not secure and healthy you will attract people who want someone struggling with boundaries. Worse you will be willing to keep friends who do not share your values.

I had a friend that I was constantly reaching out to first, but she never reached out to me first. I had to let that one go

@deshaabernathy482

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t get when people are like that, like seriously.

@sugahoneyicetia

3 жыл бұрын

I would say try patience, first. I have a tendency to get very distant whenever I’m going through things I feel I can’t speak about. At the same time, I was praying for godly friendships. The sisters I met from the church that God led me to join last year could have just let me be throughout this year but they loved on me instead (even as far as I had traveled away on a mission trip, I was fully supported by what seemed like no one but God, and my new sisters). That not only showed me by example what real friends are, but how to be a real one to someone else!

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

@@deshaabernathy482 yea it annoys me as well. But not everyone will be the same communicator as you. However, I believe people make time for who they deem as important. And I stand by this. Some friendships are also seasonal.

@MsT_ThatsMe

3 жыл бұрын

Is you friend in a bad relationship?

@THESOUTHERNCLAIRVOYANT

3 жыл бұрын

@@MsT_ThatsMe she lost her husband due to drug overdose, but her new relationship is going good..

Thats why i dont have any friends. I am my own best friend

@mcsoto

3 жыл бұрын

ive never called a friend “best friend “ lol i’ve had so many jealous female friends around me, very scary.

@hlacy581

3 жыл бұрын

You're crazy

@Annie-to8ef

3 жыл бұрын

@@hlacy581 why?

@hlacy581

3 жыл бұрын

@@Annie-to8ef I wasn't talking about you but your bff

@flowforever9084

3 жыл бұрын

...I thought it was just me. Always put downs, nvr tell you anything until afterwards. Nvr support you. Yet you're loyal to them. Shady

This is why I only do seasonal friendships

This is such a blessing to hear from a beautiful daughter of Zion. I am 60 years old and got saved in 1981 before social media ever existed. Having dealt with rejection, jealousy, secret haters, backbiters and fake church folks forced me to stand alone in Christ. Learning how to be happy in a spiritual confinement and remembering how much I am loved by God. I want to celebrate all those who have never had unconditional love and acceptance. I will begin to share my successes and experiences only as an encouragement as building component to someone who still struggles with acceptance. We are fearfully and wonderfully made by the Almighty God who lives and we have His DNA.

@deshaabernathy482

6 ай бұрын

❤

I'm 40+ and it seems to be hard making genuine friends. I pray to add to the core circle of my friends.

@tnt01

3 жыл бұрын

it's hard. people are insecure snakes.

@kailjones6868

3 жыл бұрын

I truly feel you!

@diplomatdiplomat2800

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, genuine friends are becoming scarce. But have you considered friendship with God? Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Please give Jesus a chance to love you unconditionally as your Lord and personal Savior ❤️

@djr3501

3 жыл бұрын

Same ✋🏾

@ladyclarkenterprise

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

Forget friends let's talk about family! I graduate college as they told me to, they get mad jealous and hateful. Won't come to the graduation or the party. I change my hair, they have something negative to say. I say anything they disagree. I cook a meal or a dessert, I get criticized saying I can't cook but the pots empty. Lol Thank God he got me out of there!

@lwarfield52

3 жыл бұрын

See! Can we say dysfunctional! I agree!👍

@babyshsrk6977

3 жыл бұрын

I feel ya!

@blgallas

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissists

@AngelaBuyck

3 жыл бұрын

Yup yup yup same here. Tore it up

@AngelaBuyck

3 жыл бұрын

Funny thing they loved grandma,s cooking grandma,s re ipes lol jokes on them

Definitely family as well. Jealousy divides. Pray against jealousy in Jesus name.

Sometimes envy comes with mental illness because the person is feeling unworthy, and have low self esteem and other things going on makes them unable to feel happy for others. Unfortunately 😞

TO BE HONEST I LOVE BEING ALONE,,, MOST OF THE TIME PEOPLE CAN BE SO DRAINING WITH JEALOUS ENERGY IF YOU'RE AROUND THEM ALL THE TIME ... THE MORE THEY ARE AROUND TO MUCH THE MORE CRAZIER THEY CAN BE. SO MOST OF THE TIME I FEEL BETTER BEING ALONE . . GOD BLESS IN CHRIST JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN

If a “friend” comes to you to tell you negative things that someone has said about you, cut that “friend” loose. Question 1: What did your “friend” say when all of that negativity was said about you? Question 2: Why was that person comfortable sharing that negativity with your “friend”?

@lashawnervin3746

3 жыл бұрын

Say it louder for the people in the back. I guess in the moment you don't think about it, I don't need Fairweather friends. I've cut them off

@lashawnervin3746

3 жыл бұрын

@@claudialu yes and no,i say that to say this because it has happened to me, you have to ask yourself why were you even brought up in the 1st place, and what did the person who brought it to you say. The only way to know is to question the 3rd party but is it even worth it.

@yvetteanderson5504

3 жыл бұрын

@@claudialu I’m saying what I said. I’ve been there, and I know what I’m talking about. Is the “someone” to which you are referring a “friend”? You need to know. Ask God for spiritual discernment as it relates to people--male or female.

@hopeh1095

3 жыл бұрын

Amen, it’s definitely some questions that should be look at if a friend only share negative info with you. Life is bigger than negativity.

@Eyerusalem_

3 жыл бұрын

Nailed it!

If I have a friend who I can’t actually rely on to celebrate me when celebration calls, then I don’t have a friend. Period. Everyone’s different, but as rule, we need to stop creating these alternative spaces in our lives for people who have proven, more or less, that they cannot offer us what we desire from friendship. ❤️

@43cassy

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯let go of ambiguous relationships! They are time wasters!

I had a friend who would always find something bad to say about everything I do. Since then, she is just my colleague , no more friendship. It's the hardest thing for me to trust people.

I have little to no friends because they all stabbed me, I'm a very loyal person

When they gossip about others, they probably are gossiping about you. LOUDER! Been there! Wish I knew this earlier 😅 it really is true

I literally had a "friend" like that. 8 years of knowing her and she always made an excuse to never come to any of my bday events and I had one every year. She was always so dang on negative and carried lied and always played the victim. I have now realized that she isn't a broken and unhealed. She always said she hated when ppl gossip, but gossip about me to other ppl. How do I know? Bc they came back and told and. Even when I confronted get about her, she tried to dismiss it. Its crazy how I allowed her in my life for so long but thank God I pushed her out at the right time.

I’m 66 and dealt with this all my life, even to this day. But reading the comments, helped me because I thought I was crazy. I learned to keep my distance and pray 🙏🏿 is the best solution.

What about a friend who just doesn't respond to ur happiness dead silence and moves the conversations on... Or they gotta call u back when ur ready to share and continue to tell ur story...

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

Hater

@mikamika2508

3 жыл бұрын

@@BriaBarrows right so true...

@mikamika2508

3 жыл бұрын

@Ihavenotime4this your so right family can be more toxic because there hate is personal... And I know people say but she is your blood you should forgive her not fuck that you have feelings too... So I fully understand it like love you sis but gotta love you from a distance because toxic is toxic family friend or foe... I am happy you realized or your younger sister loved you enough to tell you the truth and I know it stung your heart but this too shall pass you will be stronger and it sounds like you have a better relationship with your younger sis... Thank GOD

@soleilangelterry8909

3 жыл бұрын

Ooooh this that one right chere

@nannettmatthews4853

3 жыл бұрын

IKR

It's interesting that this popped while I was in the middle of evaluating one of my friendships - great advice, thank you!!

@tholoanakojana3574

3 жыл бұрын

You and me both

@Liberty-Moore

3 жыл бұрын

Signs are all over... we just have to identify and understand them

@abc-kd6pz

3 жыл бұрын

Not a coincidence

@ellaweezy0515

3 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@anatachasimeon2529

3 жыл бұрын

Sister-in-law is my issue.

Right...I started having boundaries, with a few people in the last months. What's funny is, that my boyfriend had always told me about them. But now,I feel more at peace, and no gossip has come to my ears ever since...

I've been praying to God to remove fake friends from my life. He is doing and keeps. doing a great job.

Sometimes we may have to step back from everyone to find ourselves. Me personally I stepped back from so many people. I learned that it wasn't meant to be around.

@JasminHLo

3 жыл бұрын

I can relate. Sometimes there are advantages with not having close friendships that you'll regret or resent later.

@shamiaw90

3 жыл бұрын

@@JasminHLo I have 2 good friend

@luzzylovetv2524

3 жыл бұрын

So True girl. That's me right now.

@shamiaw90

3 жыл бұрын

@@luzzylovetv2524 sometimes I even question is it meant to have those around

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

@@JasminHLo yes!

My sister is my bestie.....growing up my mom used to say if you have sisters why do you need a best friend....

@miajasmine1770

3 жыл бұрын

My sister died.

@miajasmine1770

3 жыл бұрын

At early age.

@abenabecks

3 жыл бұрын

My sister didn't really like me...we never spoke about our issues..she always gossipped about what I was doing to my grams... It's nice your sister is like your best friend

@piinkpanther7804

3 жыл бұрын

Youre too lucky...... lol but keep jer its the best instrad if dealing with fakes .... greatest blessing you have dear

@Eternity4ME

3 жыл бұрын

I think that is very limiting. And you miss out on good people when you don't allow others in.

This is so true. It’s hard to find a genuine friend like David and Johnathan.

I’ve had friends that would always always make it known that she was in competition with me. They would clearly state it. Like “ I’m graduating before me or compare finances, etc.” I was always the giver and I would never speak up on their behavior because I would be scared to hurt their feelings and talk to them about it but in a few occasions I would eventually snap after a breaking point.

It’s sad when I’m at work all eye on me They are so jealous. In I have to work with these people every day. I ask God to cover me

@micaonyx5301

3 жыл бұрын

Embrace it. I'f they're all jealous of you, then you must be fabulous and doing something right 🤔

This whole list is why I just quit having any friends period. Too much and too exhausting to have female friends. I only had male friend growing up. I have had friends come on to my husband, my son, jealous, hateful, plot against me and yes talk about me. And these were CHURCH friends. And I thought the church was different. Nope

@cece1907

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately people are people everywhere

@renreads7211

2 жыл бұрын

Baby church friends are the worst

@BriaBarrows

2 жыл бұрын

Its exhausting still 😩

Yes! I had a very upsetting experience where I was bullied for a long time at work. I had a coworker 'friend' working under me who was very nice to me privately, but whenever people were around, she would try not to talk to me. She would text me constantly at work, but when people were around, she would like shush me. No one at work knew we were friends. I can't help but think, some of the bullying would have dissipated had she just been open that we were friends.

@user-qe9il1qo1y

4 ай бұрын

Why did this happen,??

This popped up when I needed it most. It hurts so much because this happens to me a lot.

True. I have had friends who used to get jealous if something good happened to me. When I first met my boyfriend and told my friends about him and met him. My friend turned around and said I was not good enough for him. I was so shocked that it came out of her mouth. First time I saw her for what she really was

@asill.6668

3 жыл бұрын

Don't tell your friends anything about your boyfriend, especially if they don't have one! You are asking for trouble!

@sensibilityspeaks

3 жыл бұрын

@@asill.6668 FACTS!

@sacredempress4917

3 жыл бұрын

Omg. Dang 100x

@newyorkknicks2649

2 жыл бұрын

@@asill.6668 even though I agree with your answer, just tell certain people. Some people may think you might make a move on your friend's man when your really not when they themselves are probably trying to do that to Your friends man low key if that makes sense 🤔

@OceanicPearlz1

Жыл бұрын

@@asill.6668 if that is a true and genuine friend they shouldn’t be doing that and they are not genuine then. True and genuine friends will actually celebrate that

This is all so true! I've come to learn that I can NEVER be friends or associate myself with people who show any signs of extreme insecurity, and/or people who talk about other people badly to me. Like, they always end up redirecting that energy towards me. The same goes for arrogant people because to me, that's also a sign of insecurity if you have to announce how great you are all the time. Confident people don't do that. They let their inner light shine on its own.

After 26 years of friendship God literally told me to stop sharing good news with them. It makes me sad but I know God purpose is more important than a friendship.

A true friend is closer than your brother! 👆🏽🙏🏽🖐🏽🙌🏾

@i_tabi_the_writer2572

10 ай бұрын

Funny thing is that's my sister ❤❤❤