10 Signs You Might Be A Simp And How You Can Fix It

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In this video, Jeff from The Style O.G. talks about the 10 signs that might indicate a man is a simp. He talks about what men can do to not be simps.
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  • @wspivey4443
    @wspivey44434 жыл бұрын

    Dude we all got played at one point... We all had a little sump in us... These days, I think a man makes his move, tell her what's on his mind and fall back. I let her show her worth. Guys fall back...And there's a whole world out there. Always the most high over the woman.

  • @kevinthomas2906

    @kevinthomas2906

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts brother. Some get understanding early on some get it later in life some may never get it.

  • @d0cn0tes

    @d0cn0tes

    3 жыл бұрын

    so true...you got to get burnt or simped once to learn a lesson.

  • @kevinlove5418

    @kevinlove5418

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks W Spivey thought I was the only one too admit it on here but i learned, some bothers go they whole lives being Simps

  • @danebeexher4399

    @danebeexher4399

    3 жыл бұрын

    very true

  • @EFLO3D

    @EFLO3D

    2 жыл бұрын

    Speak for yourself

  • @ANDYDAVIRGO
    @ANDYDAVIRGO4 жыл бұрын

    Great advice. I'm no simp. Just a good guy with manners and respect. Been through enough to realize that even the most beautiful women can be simply not worth it, if their personalities don't match my qualifications.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate the input!

  • @superbo9y36

    @superbo9y36

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep it 1000

  • @gregorytrombley2903

    @gregorytrombley2903

    2 жыл бұрын

    Beauty fades but good morals and loyalty don’t.

  • @Extinguish_

    @Extinguish_

    2 жыл бұрын

    Apparently I’m a simp wit masculine energy😭😭😭

  • @mateaukalua4426

    @mateaukalua4426

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Extinguish_You're an alpha Simp.

  • @jamelcroley4562
    @jamelcroley45624 жыл бұрын

    The worst Simp is a man giving up his freedom over a woman

  • @_Iamdmoney

    @_Iamdmoney

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @matthewdancz9152

    @matthewdancz9152

    3 жыл бұрын

    So marriage?

  • @themilkyourdadgotfromthegr3591

    @themilkyourdadgotfromthegr3591

    3 жыл бұрын

    He worships woman

  • @RudolphManor

    @RudolphManor

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@matthewdancz9152 Marriage is a lazy woman's hustle and a poor man's game. Don't get married. 💯

  • @watervisuals8727

    @watervisuals8727

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@RudolphManor Bachelor🤔

  • @tswspeaks
    @tswspeaks2 жыл бұрын

    Ain't gonna lie, those 80s, and 90s R&B songs and being raised by women gave me all the simp training I needed to successfully play myself. Now, I'm born again!

  • @tajdyer2803

    @tajdyer2803

    7 ай бұрын

    Man, you and another youtuber who commented this same exact comment has this brotha thinking deep!

  • @slimm_q2348
    @slimm_q23483 жыл бұрын

    I just simped so bad today .... learn from your mistakes brethren’s . I texted a girl paragraphs, that’s a big no no lol. Things will get better for you

  • @johnatta6984

    @johnatta6984

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Sigurdbjornsen

    @Sigurdbjornsen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its okay if you are just getting straight to the point which is why you should be texting her anyways. No point in texting her every opportunity, unless you are trying to be her emotional tampon. Now thats just straight up simping!

  • @streetsiswatching9660

    @streetsiswatching9660

    3 жыл бұрын

    Go watch some AMS brother

  • @devpatel7154

    @devpatel7154

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Sigurdbjornsen agree 💯 ya a girl I talk to sometimes we hit the usual paragraph If it’s like a story or something long we saying. 1-2 times convo went deep

  • @Gundice_the_cryomancer

    @Gundice_the_cryomancer

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was once a SIMPle man

  • @marvinbienaime2012
    @marvinbienaime20123 жыл бұрын

    I used to be that guy that, put women on a pedestal without allowing her to earn that spot. Thus, heartbreaks and headaches followed. Then went through a stage where I stopped being that nice and became the guy who had "all the hoes" and was sleeping around. Then became the guy that valued himself and others, and gave respect to others when it is earned.

  • @Dimz30

    @Dimz30

    3 жыл бұрын

    It happens bro.

  • @sifisoivorkoza1742

    @sifisoivorkoza1742

    3 жыл бұрын

    And change is good. I'm glad you got to share your experience.

  • @hobbytoby8887

    @hobbytoby8887

    2 жыл бұрын

    isnt that right

  • @torreywalker8607

    @torreywalker8607

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's awesome G. Being a simp doesn't work well for us in anything. But neither does sleeping with a bunch of women. It's the same insucurties being played out in a different way.

  • @unlimitedsociety6421

    @unlimitedsociety6421

    2 жыл бұрын

    Didn't even read the message, just saw your profile Tee 🙌 "Lets GO Canes"

  • @irwincrook567
    @irwincrook5672 жыл бұрын

    1. Submissive position 2. Overvalueing a woman before they earn it 3. "Nice guy" using niceness to manipulate 4. Not accepting Friendzone 5. Defends women No Matter 6. Spending too much on women's approval 7. Giving giving and giving 8. Let's woman walk all over you 9. Prioritise others desire before yours 10. Constantly spending money on woman

  • @helloly

    @helloly

    Жыл бұрын

    You're only a simp if you cater to a BITCH who doesn't deserve it or didn't earn it

  • @mr.bitches313

    @mr.bitches313

    Жыл бұрын

    Can you add catching feelings for a chick you only met for a week like how the fuck that even happened

  • @nicoleharrington9086

    @nicoleharrington9086

    Жыл бұрын

    Please explain number 5

  • @tajdyer2803

    @tajdyer2803

    Жыл бұрын

    Man, all these was me back in the day. As I got older, I realized my fatal mating mistake. Never again!!

  • @evanthomas4468

    @evanthomas4468

    Жыл бұрын

    Numbers 4,5 &7 are big signs of a simp.

  • @shantanu3231
    @shantanu32313 жыл бұрын

    The day you will start believing in yourself , you will love everything about yourself , be it good or bad . just accept yourself , and respect your uniqueness , because you are amazing and there are 7 billion people in the world and no one's like you and i think that's a great reason to feel confident.

  • @TheoJay615
    @TheoJay6154 жыл бұрын

    Oh man. The when OG lectures you about not being a simp, you better listen!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Listen up !

  • @chibuzonwankwo1793

    @chibuzonwankwo1793

    4 жыл бұрын

    You bet.

  • @Sammie551

    @Sammie551

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheStyleOG Well dressed

  • @ralpheyboyboxing

    @ralpheyboyboxing

    3 жыл бұрын

    a true player a mack daddy 80s era

  • @chattaboxxx2332

    @chattaboxxx2332

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@speedytypermananswers5551 amen bro

  • @lildudefromacrossdastreet7038
    @lildudefromacrossdastreet70384 жыл бұрын

    Video title is Hil-Arious but much needed. It's a simp Pandemic going on right now lmao.. Salute Jeff

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pandemic! Lol

  • @blackAP671

    @blackAP671

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lil Dude From Across da Street what you said!!

  • @michaelhooper7687

    @michaelhooper7687

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lil Dude from across da street.. Give me dolla lol

  • @Tripledtx214oct

    @Tripledtx214oct

    4 жыл бұрын

    EPIDEMIC 😷

  • @Real2k25

    @Real2k25

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @geneinnewade1278
    @geneinnewade12784 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for explaining what a simp isn’t. Being a decent human being and a gentleman to everyone doesn’t make you a simp for sure. Thumbs up as always Style OG. 🥰🤗

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Doll !

  • @Rachmanfan4life

    @Rachmanfan4life

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely wrong… Women need to earn your respect… Going into the game and putting them on a pedestal and giving them respect and being chivalrous towards them means you are a Simp… You’re the little bitch and trust me women realize that a mile away… This guy has it all wrong because he wants you to feel good about being an idiot

  • @mateaukalua4426

    @mateaukalua4426

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Rachmanfan4life No bro it's not that extreme I am a decent human being. Do I pay for dinner dates or text or have many friends that I orbit? Of course not being balanced is a part of life.

  • @marklance4022
    @marklance40224 жыл бұрын

    If a man is still a simp once he hits a certain age group there's probably no changing him ! 🤜🏾🤛🏾

  • @ohiorichkidbeats

    @ohiorichkidbeats

    4 жыл бұрын

    Probably right but I always had faith that guys could change if they really wanted to. But sometimes it feel like you're 100% right

  • @thegreatxander7

    @thegreatxander7

    3 жыл бұрын

    Usually I won't answer, but no cap if you acknowledge that you are a simp then that's the beginning of change. People can change if they CHOOSE to.

  • @jjmc8205

    @jjmc8205

    3 жыл бұрын

    You aren't gonna change cause you choose not too

  • @Aggie4life77
    @Aggie4life774 жыл бұрын

    These fools on the internet will call you a SIMP just for being interested in a girl🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    They sure will ! Lol

  • @mahorn83

    @mahorn83

    4 жыл бұрын

    AGGIE, FAX, BRUH, FAX! FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT!

  • @kc270352

    @kc270352

    4 жыл бұрын

    even just for looking at a girl lmao 🤣 🙄

  • @Run2Salvation

    @Run2Salvation

    4 жыл бұрын

    There is a difference between thirsty and interested comments. It's a doggy dog world.

  • @victormeza8279

    @victormeza8279

    4 жыл бұрын

    They call you a simp just for going on a date with a girl lol

  • @Blackrain7920
    @Blackrain79204 жыл бұрын

    Don't forget u social media guys when u r constantly leaving thirsty comments and compliments at women on IG and Facebook simps

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well..

  • @walterlee4796

    @walterlee4796

    4 жыл бұрын

    Captain save a ‘ho meets Major Sucker, I’m with ya Bro

  • @Run2Salvation

    @Run2Salvation

    4 жыл бұрын

    Worst part is they will leave those thirsty comments and a very good majority of the time those IG women dont respond back and they know what men like just to get men to "Like" their posts. It's a business.

  • @lanniedulin1075

    @lanniedulin1075

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TheStyleOG Good question...what if you got your regular IG rotation? Got to keep checking in on that hotness, lol. (But yeah, thirsty comments are pointless, she don't care.)

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    I browse all the time. But I don’t comment. Just window shopping

  • @verb0ze
    @verb0ze4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for commenting on this disturbing trend of labeling everything simping. I especially appreciate that you've commented on what is being a simp is NOT. Respect yourself, respect those who deserve it, and be the genuine you (i.e., don't become an a-hole to avoid becoming a simp)

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    You got it Kwami!

  • @twinningtwins4721

    @twinningtwins4721

    3 жыл бұрын

    You sound like a REAL man Kwami.

  • @Rachmanfan4life

    @Rachmanfan4life

    2 жыл бұрын

    His definition of a Simp is wrong… Putting women on pedestals and being chivalrous towards them is a Simp…. A lot of men want to hear that it’s OK to be chivalrous towards women and respect them and kiss their ass and put them on pedestals and give them more value than they deserve… In other words a lot of men like being Simps

  • @Thomas_Curiel09
    @Thomas_Curiel093 жыл бұрын

    Two things: #1: Don’t treat her like a queen while remaining as a peasant. She’s not entitled to be a Queen, she has to earn it. Takes a strong King to lead things to set the tone. #2: If you treat her like a celebrity, she’ll treat you like a fan.

  • @AbdulKareem-uy6hk

    @AbdulKareem-uy6hk

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bingo! 👌🏿🤣

  • @redhotteagle777harris4

    @redhotteagle777harris4

    3 жыл бұрын

    👑

  • @ericbrown8763

    @ericbrown8763

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @TronHutson

    @TronHutson

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @TronHutson

    @TronHutson

    3 жыл бұрын

    When I was young I was a one because I didn't know better. Now IDK love me or leave me

  • @lindellstandlee3658
    @lindellstandlee36584 жыл бұрын

    Jacket and shirt on point💯, real talk!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Lindell !

  • @garysmith1477

    @garysmith1477

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’d only have thought that a blue shirt like that could only be worn to the office. How wrong I was. I’ll have to try it casually 👍🏾

  • @jasontutorials4809
    @jasontutorials48094 жыл бұрын

    Most young men like myself unfortunately don’t have father figures to teach them this kind of game, #salute OG

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Jason !

  • @Tripledtx214oct

    @Tripledtx214oct

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rule #1 M.O.B she don’t wanna be saved young grasshopper🙏🏾

  • @rayjameson937

    @rayjameson937

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rule 2#if it dont make dollars, it dont make sence.

  • @Dimz30

    @Dimz30

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even if guys had a dad around doesn't mean he will not be a simp.

  • @Sammie551

    @Sammie551

    3 жыл бұрын

    I watched my parents relationship, I could definitely tell my dad is an alpha

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es4 жыл бұрын

    One simple definition of a SIMP (I was one myself) "Giving people regardless of gender validation and expecting favors in return." You may consider yourself being kind and nice, but it only puts you as a push-over. Learning the principle of doing things for yourself and not allow others with great assertion, people will respect you more.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Great input Larry !

  • @robertoamarillas
    @robertoamarillas3 жыл бұрын

    Lowkey this guy is saving some dudes lives

  • @WesternXC

    @WesternXC

    3 жыл бұрын

    Highkey

  • @kevinlove5418

    @kevinlove5418

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol i use to be a simp, i was a simp for one week a then my homie schooled me on women who come out to a bar or club and will sit and wait on a simp to buy them a drink and believe me their are a whole lot of them!

  • @dirtreynolds989

    @dirtreynolds989

    3 жыл бұрын

    Low key this dude is a simp

  • @aaronmoore6275

    @aaronmoore6275

    2 жыл бұрын

    Saving these dudes some money, anyway.

  • @Frosth15
    @Frosth154 жыл бұрын

    You tell em OG. Sad to see the younger generations being Simps! Focus on finance, physical and mental health the way to go.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate the feedback!

  • @CyborgNS6NL

    @CyborgNS6NL

    4 жыл бұрын

    Simps have been around since the dawn of time. With social media you can see it, that’s the only difference between then and now.

  • @neworleanseveryday8450

    @neworleanseveryday8450

    3 жыл бұрын

    CyborgNS6NL 🔥🔥💯

  • @jamesshepard1822

    @jamesshepard1822

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol ! He is too cool!💯💯

  • @MrAuxximenes

    @MrAuxximenes

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yuss

  • @migodabbing6951
    @migodabbing69513 жыл бұрын

    This is why am Single it’s hard to find someone that won’t actually uses you

  • @ericbrown8763

    @ericbrown8763

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are so correct. So blessed to hv the wife I have.

  • @mateaukalua4426

    @mateaukalua4426

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree anyone will do it just give them one fxcking opportunity!

  • @kennethjackson9928
    @kennethjackson99284 жыл бұрын

    As always OG that was on point. I have seen so many guys make those mistakes.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Kenneth !

  • @08Coolster
    @08Coolster4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I've definitely been simping... I'm just gonna chill out for a while and be single

  • @ohiorichkidbeats

    @ohiorichkidbeats

    4 жыл бұрын

    you can always change at least you're honest.. just work on the things that make you look better and stuff like that and also be more confident then eventually they'll chase you. Trust me...respect. 'Ohiorichkid insta'

  • @crispylineslim5041

    @crispylineslim5041

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, that's that on that

  • @Nutty151

    @Nutty151

    3 жыл бұрын

    Better stay single until the right woman comes along than be a simp.

  • @user-rw9ed6nc1s

    @user-rw9ed6nc1s

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah same

  • @devonmartinski6596

    @devonmartinski6596

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think most guys’ve been there.... I did a girls project once.,.... smdh

  • @cliftonsledge962
    @cliftonsledge9624 жыл бұрын

    For the guys out there don’t be confused as being a simp if you’re married. Haha 🤣 it’s give and take give and take. Over all, great points O.G. And salute 😉

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Clifton ! The wife more than likely earned the pedestal

  • @allanclaridge6279

    @allanclaridge6279

    4 жыл бұрын

    Her place is beside me on the staircase.

  • @CyborgNS6NL

    @CyborgNS6NL

    4 жыл бұрын

    Allan Claridge lol...

  • @ohiorichkidbeats

    @ohiorichkidbeats

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right Im married and I understand what you said.I had to change some of the things about myself because it's a relationship and some things are supposed to be done by both sides totally understand what you mean

  • @bluepandaman
    @bluepandaman4 жыл бұрын

    This should be on trending. These Gen Z kids are clueless.

  • @raspberrypi4970

    @raspberrypi4970

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because most parents are clueless..

  • @yandhi_6382

    @yandhi_6382

    4 жыл бұрын

    Where do you think we got it from OG

  • @lordmow7572

    @lordmow7572

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fam on this day and age a gentleman is a simp. Why? The social standards for women and women have changed. Why ? Because of feminism.

  • @spiko-ou3bp

    @spiko-ou3bp

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am a Gen Z kid 😂

  • @hebigherc

    @hebigherc

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Eugene Kendrick Simp was used before 1973.

  • @facundocorradini
    @facundocorradini4 жыл бұрын

    damn bro, that jacket looks amazing!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @rgv23

    @rgv23

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @abhinavgupta455

    @abhinavgupta455

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes that's a Style OG jacket. No Simp would ever rock that...

  • @BranHoward12
    @BranHoward124 жыл бұрын

    I’m late for class but the “Teacha” is still teaching.. Salute 👊🏽

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute CJ!

  • @jackbush4528
    @jackbush45284 жыл бұрын

    Solid advice brother! I am guilty of some Simping 🤬 I need to rewatch and rethink and relearn! Salute

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Jack !

  • @carlitoroman2034
    @carlitoroman20343 жыл бұрын

    Finally someone speaks knowledge & truth!!!

  • @praise3700
    @praise37004 жыл бұрын

    I really commend you Jeff. I love the way you think, your mannerisms and the way you carry yourself in general. Keep up the good work.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Lady !

  • @merrionjackson6870
    @merrionjackson68703 жыл бұрын

    So glad you brought this out, it is the motivation not just the actions which make you simp material.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed!

  • @Epsilon85
    @Epsilon854 жыл бұрын

    Dropping jewels, educating the masses, salute OG!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute!

  • @dannareese4574
    @dannareese45744 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jeff!! SIMPIN' IS PIMPIN' Appreciate the definition and clarification! Never heard of that terminology but certainly got schooled 2day!! SALUTE!!🤗🤗

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Danna !

  • @priceconsult5880
    @priceconsult58802 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this talk; the simple clarifying of what manhood should look and feel like is something I learned early on in my teens. I think 'sucka' is the word that I recall clearly; I never ever saw that as an advantage or strength. I still walk away at the first sign of disrespect, and never look back; knowing my value and self worth always created far more opps than losses. There's a movie here Jeff; love the channel, continue to stand strong my brother. Salute!!

  • @Kbo513
    @Kbo5134 жыл бұрын

    Solid advice and your delivery of “you’re simping my brother” just leaves me laughing haha

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ha !

  • @ah5721
    @ah57214 жыл бұрын

    You are spot on and keeping it real! I had a friend who was a kind of a simp.. I didn't know that type of man had a name I just didn't like them. He would ask me a few times after a while if I wanted to date. I always said no but he would be there for me when I broke up with a guy to be like a stand in. I feel bad but he let me do it. He didn't really say no. I did grow up and apologized and we went our separate ways

  • @MrSuperken1
    @MrSuperken13 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for clearing this up for me. I've been a simp for a very very long time and never even knew it!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Happy to help!

  • @daniellelauture-conner3318
    @daniellelauture-conner33183 жыл бұрын

    🌹hard video, but so very true. I paid attention to: not putting others before yourself, draw boundaries/set limits, be (kind, compassionate, and generous) not a push-over. I hear that. Good video.

  • @DS___
    @DS___2 жыл бұрын

    I love this.. im a barber and menswear stylist and I meet a lot of wonderful men that get pushed over and played by women that don't mean them any good. It's sad to see the good guys (and girls) get messed over in this life. I try to the best of my abilities to provide some guidance on the matter to some of the guys but i can only provide a (good) woman's prospective and what you said is true- lead with personality- a good woman wants you and loves when you show up as the best version of yourself... it is not required that you show up as the richest version or the flashiest version... if you have those things (riches and flashiness) cool but that's just icing, it's not the cake. It's nice to find a well balanced, non misogynistic space to direct the guys to for the (good) man's perspective. Unfortunately, everyone doesn't have a space like this in their life to receive that guidance-so this is a great resource. Thank you for being present. Respect 🙏🏾 💕✨️

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    2 жыл бұрын

    Respect!

  • @nathanieldavis5231

    @nathanieldavis5231

    Жыл бұрын

    You sound like a good soul

  • @DS___

    @DS___

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nathanieldavis5231 thank you! Enjoy your day

  • @ForTheLoveOfSuits
    @ForTheLoveOfSuits4 жыл бұрын

    When I was younger I was definitely guilty of a few of thee mistakes. I think this and your recent ‘kind not nice’ related videos are great but miss an important detail. A huge lack of confidence which is often based on a rough childhood leads to low self esteem. This underlies their behaviour (not including the manipulative ‘kind’ guy, he’s just an asshole). These guys need help to realise their self worth and to stop behaving in a self detrimental way. Keep up the great work. And that jacket is fantastic.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate it Michael !

  • @mostmost1

    @mostmost1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Many men learn how to date. And not be a simpleton.

  • @benzemamumba

    @benzemamumba

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mostmost1 Simp is NOT short for Simpleton.

  • @mostmost1

    @mostmost1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@benzemamumba it is where im from. jst slang for a dummy. not that complex.

  • @charlesficheriii1478
    @charlesficheriii14784 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the content The Style O.G. and I look forward to more quality production. What I have taken from this video is to not be a victim of "Quid Pro Quo". The reason I ask a woman what she thinks of her fitness level is because, right off the bat- she's telling me whether or not our next date will be somewhere fun or somewhere informational-ie: "the hospital, to find whether her high blood pressure will make me go next" as I am also a fitness trainer in training. Have a wonderful day guys and remember, Diamond is the #1 Lifestyle in the World!

  • @ameenmorris8315
    @ameenmorris83154 жыл бұрын

    Wise words from the og always dropping gems. And got my cologne game up. Salute

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Ameen !

  • @quiescent1530
    @quiescent15304 жыл бұрын

    Sign #11 you're a simp: calling styles OG a simp

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ha !

  • @vj9988

    @vj9988

    3 жыл бұрын

    Simp

  • @shecandoit4801
    @shecandoit48014 жыл бұрын

    As a woman, I agree with everything said. Women can also apply much of what's been said here.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate the feedback!

  • @user-dh3qc3pq3g
    @user-dh3qc3pq3g3 жыл бұрын

    This is the game an ol’head laid on me when I was in middle school in the 80’s, and the same I’m passing to my sons. Good stuff, SOG!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Salute!

  • @ill-nois2282
    @ill-nois22824 жыл бұрын

    Great Tips OG. A great takeaway taking care of yourself first. One of the major flaws of a guy who simp is that he’ll try and try to please women and will never fully experience feeling confident with themselves. Confidence is key, women will appreciate a guy who has their stuff together, is able to express their thoughts and ideas, and is not trying to seek approval.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Oscar!

  • @kestoner9868
    @kestoner98684 жыл бұрын

    It’s a lot of simps on social media most of them haven’t grown up cause they have always been simps and will stay that way keep giving them the knowledge salute 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @nahseemx7527
    @nahseemx75274 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jeff Dog!!!! You always come with the 🔥🔥🔥

  • @shawnwallop9974
    @shawnwallop99743 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes people call a person a simp when you let her go especially when she's a gold digger!!!Thank OG

  • @isaiahjackson4530
    @isaiahjackson45303 жыл бұрын

    I love your perspective on this topic OG! You’re right the term simp has been around for a while. Recently there’s been too many angry hurt brothers sitting behind their keyboards that label being respectful to women as being a simp when in fact you’re not putting them on a pedestal when you first meet them, which is what they do and get hurt. Being a gentleman and being a simp are two different things in my opinion. Thanks for the video! Salute!!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Salute Isaiah !

  • @aaronflowers8881
    @aaronflowers88812 жыл бұрын

    O.G. my guy! I've been following your channel for a few years. Great content. I love how you broke this down. Many people don't know what a simp actually is and it's highly overused these days. I hate to hear a dude being called a simp just for being a gentleman. This is the most mature and reasonable breakdown. Good stuff.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    2 жыл бұрын

    Salute Aaron!

  • @staceycollins4366

    @staceycollins4366

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely! I agree. I like the way this was said as well. There’s nothing wrong with protecting yourself emotionally and still being respectful. Glad he broke it down the way he did.

  • @jonathanrobinson9208
    @jonathanrobinson92084 жыл бұрын

    Yes my brother ! We used to call them "tricks " 👌❤

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ha !

  • @curtisstapleton7167

    @curtisstapleton7167

    4 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @CyborgNS6NL

    @CyborgNS6NL

    4 жыл бұрын

    That too, lol...

  • @wc3362

    @wc3362

    4 жыл бұрын

    Still do!

  • @ohiorichkidbeats

    @ohiorichkidbeats

    4 жыл бұрын

    We still do in Cleveland and I'm 40 years old

  • @faizalhakim3772
    @faizalhakim37723 жыл бұрын

    Keeping it real Style OG. Respect ✊🏿

  • @lincolnfromct34
    @lincolnfromct344 жыл бұрын

    Great retort to being called a simp Style O.G. You make too much sense for today’s crazy world. Love your videos. Stay safe my friend. You are the best.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Lincoln!

  • @d.h.j.2108
    @d.h.j.21083 жыл бұрын

    Good Talk, OG.

  • @gymeni
    @gymeni4 жыл бұрын

    I literally hollered when I saw the title, OG! Great topic! You know, this might have gone to a completely different level had it had some female input! A collab of some kind, maybe? 🤔

  • @iamergoproxy3476
    @iamergoproxy34763 жыл бұрын

    Sad to say I was the kind of guy who constantly found himself in relationships where I wasnt getting what I was giving and there were women around me who would use what extra I had because I gave them access. This video was a bitter pill to swallow but I needed to watch it.

  • @teamchang4894

    @teamchang4894

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope you’ve woken up king!

  • @progressivelife841

    @progressivelife841

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@teamchang4894 sounds like has.

  • @katrinasmith1464

    @katrinasmith1464

    2 жыл бұрын

    Awesome! Let her prove her worth consistently that’s in words, actions body language and her heart. This paints a complete picture

  • @nathanieldavis5231

    @nathanieldavis5231

    Жыл бұрын

    Strength and Honor, Courage and Virtue brother. Study Bushido.

  • @iamergoproxy3476

    @iamergoproxy3476

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nathanieldavis5231 funny you mention that cause I was thinking of buying a book to read about that

  • @tobiaslewis8285
    @tobiaslewis82852 жыл бұрын

    THANKYOU...VERY well Explained!

  • @jmorgan0829
    @jmorgan08294 жыл бұрын

    WOW..haven't ever heard of this word. Thanks for the definition and clarification!! Great content. I guess i can actually say I've came across some Simps in my time!! Humm the friend zone!! Thanks for sharing bro❤💯

  • @ryancascardo66
    @ryancascardo664 жыл бұрын

    Love that shirt and jacket combo - very summery!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Ryan !

  • @geechie-don7157
    @geechie-don71574 жыл бұрын

    FACTS OG! All ya gotta do is be the best YOU and the women will come effortlessly. Also, don’t fall victim to the recategorizing of Alpha man to “cave man”! Take charge dammitt

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    For real !

  • @Sammie551

    @Sammie551

    3 жыл бұрын

    Alpha means dominance, women love that There's a difference between dominance and being an a**hole One is leadership and masculinity, the other is being a bad boy

  • @diamondcook9334
    @diamondcook93343 жыл бұрын

    This video was very educational.1:44-1:51 i needed to hear that.A very wise man, respectable and well spoken.Looking forward to watching your other videos.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Monique!

  • @paulsalmon4771
    @paulsalmon47713 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the words of recognition and realization my brother. Blessings

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Any time!

  • @pauljaikaran9790
    @pauljaikaran97904 жыл бұрын

    Preach it brother Jeff. Great words of wisdom. " You can be my Wingman anytime " 😎👍🙏👌

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Paul !

  • @TheBeastKane
    @TheBeastKane4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha i seen this title and i had to click. I laughed my ass off soon as i read it. By the way that suit fire! Salute brother!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Steven !

  • @Sammie551

    @Sammie551

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just wish he added a tie lol

  • @earltennysonjr6387
    @earltennysonjr63873 жыл бұрын

    This was helpful my brother. I've been so blessed to have someone in my life that patiently allowed me to learn this.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad it was helpful!

  • @oldmanluffy309
    @oldmanluffy3094 жыл бұрын

    WoW the hits keep coming!!!!

  • @chibuzonwankwo1793
    @chibuzonwankwo17934 жыл бұрын

    Good video. I was raised wrong influenced by my narcissist mom and got into simping without knowing it. I'm glad I'm breaking that personality and changing my character right. I'm like 9/10 non simp now! Lol... Thanks, Man. Things have changed for me since I decided I ain't gonna be that sucker no more. Hell yeah, it made me a whole lot more attractive.

  • @garyjohnson691
    @garyjohnson6914 жыл бұрын

    Insightful analogy my brother, when Jeff start doing a show on simping that means you really a simp.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Gary !

  • @willisbrown1391
    @willisbrown13914 жыл бұрын

    Brotha YOU hit the nail on the head!!!! I know a lot of cats that smoke cigars wit and when women come around, DA SIMP'S come out these cats and I find myself blazing out. I'm glad I had OG's that taught me how to recognize SIMPs and stay away from them. SIMP's can be bad for ya health❤🖤💚.100%

  • @brianbabayans2481
    @brianbabayans24813 жыл бұрын

    Great video breaking it all down n many examples.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate that!

  • @WhoLouie
    @WhoLouie4 жыл бұрын

    A real old school gem this younger generation needs to hear. Simpin also leads to fighting over women which there is more of going on than ever. Plenty to go around...no need for static.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate the input Marcus !

  • @xavcuttinoakatheinspiratio4353
    @xavcuttinoakatheinspiratio43534 жыл бұрын

    Ain’t NO fixing a Simp Jeff. They gonna have to watch ALL of your videos!!😂

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    No problem with that ! Anyone can evolve..

  • @zengreen7

    @zengreen7

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wrong, simps always get a wakeup call, but usually after being burned one time too many.

  • @mahorn83

    @mahorn83

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@zengreen7 , 🤣 YEAH, AND THEN THEY BECOME MGTOW, AND CALL OTHER GUYS SIMPS FOR CHECKING OUT WOMEN!

  • @zengreen7

    @zengreen7

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mahorn83 That is a choice too, there are always options.

  • @timothybright7064

    @timothybright7064

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@zengreen7 They graduate from Simp to Beta-Male.

  • @CCobraProductions
    @CCobraProductions3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the advice Bro.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    3 жыл бұрын

    No problem!

  • @randystreetman3282
    @randystreetman32822 жыл бұрын

    You nailed it!

  • @allanclaridge6279
    @allanclaridge62794 жыл бұрын

    That's real talk. Value yourself above all then you can consider someone else.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Allan !

  • @zurplerain
    @zurplerain4 жыл бұрын

    Great video OG this was one of the best videos you have done. Jam packed with some true game!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Mali !

  • @i.b.i.c.s7778
    @i.b.i.c.s77784 жыл бұрын

    O.G another AWESOME episode, I bow down my O.G no simping for me. From London SALUTE 👍🇬🇧🇳🇬😎

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute!

  • @abathens
    @abathens Жыл бұрын

    Great advice, thanks my man!

  • @gideonamare160
    @gideonamare1604 жыл бұрын

    What if simpin is in my dna? My daddy & grandaddy were simps, Am i doomed to a life of helping girls I barley know move furniture on my days off and giving their cars a jump?

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hilarious!

  • @KautiousNupe

    @KautiousNupe

    4 жыл бұрын

    LMAO. LMAO. I don’t know if there’s been any peer reviewed research on sipping as an hereditary condition instead of a mere evolutionary psychological phenomenon. It might me time to change the paradigm and use a different scholarly framework to fully understand simping. 🧐🤔...

  • @Sammie551

    @Sammie551

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're only a simp if you're doing something to expect something in return when it comes to girls you desire They'll walk all over you if they sense they have the power to push you over, be careful out there

  • @mateaukalua4426

    @mateaukalua4426

    2 жыл бұрын

    My maternal grandpa and 2 of my uncles were simps. Almost no simps on my dad's side except maybe 1 of his uncles. Simping might be genetic but it's rare in my dad side of the family they're more pimping 😆

  • @undertaker11ism
    @undertaker11ism3 жыл бұрын

    When your kind, people think your trying to be nice so you might as well be cold hearted

  • @barneymccoy5778
    @barneymccoy57784 жыл бұрын

    This needed to be said!

  • @riptide76
    @riptide762 жыл бұрын

    Excellent advice. A real eye opener.

  • @champ5662
    @champ56624 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You’re the brother I never had 🙏 losin that simp game and gaining that pimp game.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    No problem!

  • @alexjohnson4134
    @alexjohnson41344 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah just the vid for my friends

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ha !

  • @haslock6699
    @haslock66993 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mr. O.G This is the Best KZread Video available! I use this to

  • @23isbackcl
    @23isbackcl3 жыл бұрын

    You right bro you hit some good points

  • @morrissey07
    @morrissey074 жыл бұрын

    I'm in my mid 30's and I've never heard the term "simp" until very recently. Though I must say I constantly heard "p***y whipped" growing up.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ha !

  • @chavat9251

    @chavat9251

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm in my mid 30's too and I've been hearing it a lot lately but I first heard "Simp" on the song, Sippin' on some syrup when Pimp C rapped it. You gotta remember him rapping that! Lol

  • @morrissey07

    @morrissey07

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@chavat9251 alright so I just listened to that song for the first time and he mentions 'simp' on 0:43. This isn't my kind of music so that's why I haven't heard it but respect to you.

  • @mostmost1

    @mostmost1

    4 жыл бұрын

    A guy who pussy whipped atleast getting some. The simp is the one calling him that because he in the friend zone.

  • @mateaukalua4426

    @mateaukalua4426

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mostmost1 Not quite how that works but ok.

  • @JetBlakNinja
    @JetBlakNinja4 жыл бұрын

    I'm an old guy who defines a "simp" as a woman in a man's body.

  • @druiz127

    @druiz127

    4 жыл бұрын

    That’s a transtestical😂

  • @bossdogg4767
    @bossdogg47673 жыл бұрын

    All facts. We learn from experience. Great contact

  • @Chris-hz3bt
    @Chris-hz3bt4 жыл бұрын

    Great Video! Speaking facts!!

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Chris !

  • @stephena.bankssr.7636
    @stephena.bankssr.76364 жыл бұрын

    Sweet blazer Jeff...TIGHT!! My grandmother always said, "Close your mouth, you look simple!" 😂 😂😂

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Stephen!

  • @thediabolicalempath7246

    @thediabolicalempath7246

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @abbasalkawiz2228
    @abbasalkawiz22284 жыл бұрын

    Great content as always thanks🌷👍. It's so simple just don't let the woman take advantage of you. Then the focus should be on developing yourself, not to impress women.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Abbas !

  • @JustT0m752
    @JustT0m7522 жыл бұрын

    This is Important knowledge!

  • @blancorjp
    @blancorjp4 жыл бұрын

    You hit all these principles on point. Everyone should apply this To every day life. At work dealing with employees, bosses, and coworkers. Family members. Networking.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute!

  • @BUCK9110
    @BUCK91103 жыл бұрын

    Dam my brother i salute because I was damn near a simp. I can change who I am because if I change I will continue to meet the wrong woman but what I will do stop being nice they continue to be kind

  • @claypearson8380
    @claypearson83804 жыл бұрын

    This is a much needed video. Some of these cats on KZread act like if you have any damn compassion for the female gender makes you a simp!! SMH

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    They have the game twisted !

  • @perseveremediaproductions4950
    @perseveremediaproductions49502 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video. This is a really nice suit by the way sir.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you too!

  • @freshprince7999
    @freshprince79994 жыл бұрын

    Man keep kickin’ that ish. I appreciate your perspective homie. You kinda spittin’ some ism for’em. Hope they get it.

  • @TheStyleOG

    @TheStyleOG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Salute Sheen !

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