I'm so scared I'm going to mess things up cuz I have BPD...

Female "bare minimum" qualifications to be considered for marriage: 1: Virgin 2: Doesn't post thirst trap pics/videos on social media, and wants to delete her social media once engaged 3: Not looking for "a partnership", and wants a man to lead and is happy to follow his lead, what he says goes no matter what. 4: Believes in traditional gender roles and loves to cook, clean, and take care of children 5: Thinks feminism is repulsive, and would never call herself a strong independent woman 6: Believes having guy friends is against relationship rules 7: No bad influence friends, all her good friends should be in happy relationships/marriages 8: No debt 9: Comes from a strong happy family who are still married 10: Ideally non-college educated