1. See him on camera. Speak constantly, be available. 2. You re exclusive to each. 3. Make effort to see each other. 4. Relocation 5. Look job for other person. 6. It's there a proposal? It's there a commitment. 7. How does he interact? 8. Be open to each other. Trust! 9. If you met online, exit it. 10. Go on vacation together.

@FumiDesaluVold

Жыл бұрын

Thank you my love 💕

@jennyk1509

Жыл бұрын

@@FumiDesaluVold Thank you Love, great content!💕 I'm always looking forward to learn from you.

@misskittykat3091

Жыл бұрын

#9 ??????????? Please explain

@billionairejumzietopbabe3304

Жыл бұрын

@@misskittykat3091 she explained it. It means if you met on a dating site, you shouldn't remain there or any other dating sites if you're now exclusive. ❤️

@akosuaboakye6712

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ma🎉🎉🎉🎉

Its as if you were talking to me Sis Fumi. My honey is coming to see me for the first in 3 weeks time. I am 47 never married but i have a good feeling he might be the one. Pray for me!

@interpretingtravel

Жыл бұрын

Good luck ❤️

@deboraharyeetey7785

Жыл бұрын

I will🙏

@franmdleleni6520

Жыл бұрын

Wishing you all the best. You deserve to be happy dear

@evee7382

Жыл бұрын

Hope it went better than well! 🙏💗

@lovenesschirango7064

Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

"I read in the comments that it is a little bit old-fashioned, it's dated, that guys don't really ask you to be exclusive, BUT THIS IS WHY YOU ARE SINGLE!" 🤣🤣🤣

Great advice as always. My husband and I were also distance relation and I’m so glad I took the chance. I’m in a very loving and healthy relationship. Ladies don’t be scared to date long distance. Good luck every one .

@2Ryled

Жыл бұрын

I knew a guy and he was seeing 3 other women online and still looking. The whole time spent hours with me

@aishasulait8158

Жыл бұрын

Did you meet online?

@jasminebaby3375

Жыл бұрын

@@aishasulait8158 Yes we met online, he flew me to his city in a week of meeting him. I had a good friend who lives in his city. I wasn’t new to his city and had my own money should things didn’t go as planned. He booked and pay 3 nights hotel in my name. He was totally a gentleman and didn’t even try to kiss me. We only spend a day together for our dates and the rest was for my girlfriend and I. There are a lot of true traditional gentleman out there. Good luck

@francesakazogie7247

Жыл бұрын

Indeed, I appreciate you Aunt Funmi for these tips, I intend to use them moving forward in a relationship, thank you😘❤️

@nanaesi4235

Жыл бұрын

I am oo 😂my boyfriend and I always fight Am in Ghana and he’s in the UK He’ll just ask whom are you talking to Even if am not on call 😂

That's my Aunty Fumi. The old-fashioned rules work!! Women are TOO SCARED to make demands of their suitors, (or intending suitors) FIDELITY. You can't be saving the cookies for someone is dishing out his juices. EVERY RELATIONSHIP MUST HAVE A DIRECTION. I truly learned a lot for my younger girls at church. God bless you. You need to air on TV talk shows. That last one Uncle Ole dropped, 👊👊💪 real punch! 😳😳 Ladies, take away, YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF THE RELATIONSHIP

Good one. We need another one about married couples in a distance relationship

All that sounds great , but the funny thing is I did it all and my sister found him on a dating app and guess what he was calling her the next minute on the app and telling her he is serious, he said he closed his dating sites but obviously he didn’t , but thanks god I already told my family about him and they all know how he looks like , he was using his full name and his real pictures , when I confronted him he was like it meant nothing he was only having fun , it was a big red flag and I kicked him out of my potential husband to be pocket. The funnier thing is that he paid for my tkt all the way from the states to London , he paid for my hotel , he paid for my transportation and food , and he was super happy and excited about the whole thing , we were in a LDR since 2019 till Jan 2022 the thing is I did everything that Fumi said , but some ppl are unpredictable right !! No matter how much they show you they want you they still wana play around till the last minute, I guess I was lucky right? For him to find my sister on that app among millions of girls on dating apps he just hit on my sister ! I thanked god and realized that he wants me to be in a better place with a better man.

chile i needed this advice a decade ago! Lol. Well some lady is winning hearing this!

This video was so eye-opening! Wow! I have written off long distance dating because I thought more so about the barriers n thought 'nah, it is too easy to be given the run around'. The tips you shared really make sense and I think they are really good indicators for seeing if a LDR is progressing and worth your time and energy. Excellent video!! Thank you Fumi!

I love the relationship advice you give. There are still scamps even when you have investigated. So be very cautious!

The hair is giving life, you look so good

Oh! This is my favorite of all your beautiful hairstyles, Fumi!

such sound advice Fumi! and the walking lady just makes me smile every time 🥰

THANK YOU AUNTY FUMI, I JUST STARTED LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS GERMANY AND MIDDLE EAST, THANK YOU FOR THIS ADVICE LOVE YOU MUMMY.

Gorgeous Aunt Fumi - hair, makeup and outfit!!

Spot-on Lady Fumi!👏👏👏 I checked off every point of yours as well on my North-America to Europe journey to marriage a few years ago! ‘Ol school rules and happy married life!!🥰🥰

Fumi, how I wish I had you to give me this advice ten years ago... you are absolutely the best when it comes to this kind of content. I live and I love, please make more videos like this! ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖

Very sound advice as always❤️

Looking super fabulous.The hair, make-up, just on point. Love big sis

Another great video. A lot of people are talking to people and still remain on dating sites until they are taken. Video calls is good but I find it a little hard constantly communicating video call especially during the early stages. I wish people still meet in real life, online dating has more people but can be long and draining. Hard for a lot of men to live/travel together without been sexual and as a Christian can be risky.

I am currently in a LDR with my boyfriend and it's funny how I applied all of this and now see a future with him, before even knowing these tips. Thanks for the confirmation aunty fumi!!

I always "like" before I listen so there may be another post. I'm excited to listen in to this yummy subject. I know you will bring it Fumi...

Great advice as always. I am on a long Distance relationship and my Boyfriend asked me to be exclusif after 2 weeks of dating. And I am the one that will be relocating as I can work remotely.

Keep teaching all ladies you are fantastic

I'm loving you "10 Questions " videos, and you look absolutely gorgeous!

Dearest Fumi, we are a little too close in age for me to feel appropriate calling you Aunty. But you are the FABulous Big Sister I wish I'd had growing up. May G-d continue to bless you and WERK through you!💚💚💚

Actually the best advice I was ever given is at the start of the relationship to tell a guy about what I want. So if I want to get married I tell my bf if we don’t married by year 3 I will end the relationship. This is the best advice I got to prevent a guy dragging you forever

@5:00 PREACH!! My 1st and only LDR, married for 8 years this October with 2 beautiful boys. When you know you know!

@patriciaevans6126

7 ай бұрын

Congratulations 🎉Who agreed to relocate you or your husband?

Oh Fumi bravo 👏🏿 👏🏿👏🏿 You did it again. Great list a lot of these I did. Video chats have to happen anytime! When you are serious and looking for commitment. Even if you know each other is busy just call to say a quick “hey I know your at work thanks for answering, you chit chat for a minute you see where each other is at in terms of surroundings wrap it kiss 💋 bye talk to you later. You have to see in person if where they live matches what you see on camera. It can absolutely work if both people want it to work and are honest and trust worthy.

Always look forward to your different looks 🥰❤️. Love the content..📝

Thank you for the tips Fumi. We are so lucky to have a sister like you. May God bless you and your family.

YES YES YEsssss, Sister Fumi you are AMAZING!!! Again you have given us ABSOLUTELY AMAZING advice about dating. And how to found and secure our God sent husbands!!! Thank You for sharing your world of God sent wisdom and knowledge.

Online dating and FBI, CIA, MI6 storytime😁 : I started online dating not long ago. One of the profiles was a nice man my age 52ish. In his description it was stated that he was bald, but on the profile picture the guy had hair. So I asked : "Hi, did you put up a picture of someone else not to be recognized ?" The guy took 4 days to answer my question. The answer was yes. He did that because he was "trapped" in a relationship. Yes, yes, yes .... Bye bye mister and I reported him as a false profile to the website to protect my fellow sisters looking for genuine love. No need for extra drama in my life. Life tends to serve drama already without us inviting more of it. These videos of Fumi are GOLD. Love from your sister in Belgium.

EXCELLENT FUMI!!! Get down to the marrow...to the nitty gritty...YAAAAAASSSSS!!!

This look is everything wow!!! 😍🔥🔥🔥 thanks auntie Fumi!!!

Words of a wise woman. Love you Fumi!

loved your energy and all, you are truly blessed☺

Hey sis there are beautiful layers of you unfolding all the time . I live o love your hair. Love peace and blessings to you.

FUMI!!!!! Everything you said was the GOD'S honest truth!!!! OMG! We adore you!!! u need your own talk show love ya to pieces👄

I’m 52 divorced many yrs. And when I’m dating, he will ask me to be exclusive. Young ladies it is not dated. 💃🏻👍🏼❤️⭐️🥰✨

My favourite top on you so far !!💖

Hair ,makeup and talk on point...love ya 😍😘

Was really expecting this👏👏👏👏

Thanks sister to sister for your wonderful advice you will hear of the success of my relationship soon.

First?!?! And you brought the lady walking gif back!!!

@miriamkedi0411

Жыл бұрын

My son imitates the walk and facial expression 😂

I love your hair to the moon and back...gorgeous hair😍😘

As always great advice. ❣️

This was eye-opening and I enjoyed the episode.

Thanks aunt ❤ for such an amazing talk it's like you have healed me completely thanks and may God bless you

Looking beautiful as always 😍

Great video/ advice. Fumi you look amazing, make up so suits your fabulous outfit! Thanks for Olas input too.

As I thought well worth the "like" before I listened and gathered a few golden nuggets. ✨️ thanks Fumi ❤️

Thank you soo much I really love listening to you😊💕

You are doing a great job here and I love it, I love I live. It's Fumination all the way

I’m in love with your laughter 😃

I enjoyed the vlog it was educating and informative at the same time. Thanks for the content.

You are reading my mind with this series

Auntie Fumi I should have listened to this before I got myself in one tight spot that i DMed you about. Long distance dating trusting everything that the person is telling you on the phone and video chats was my downfall. The moment I got to spend time with him in person I realized he wasn't the one.

Some of us never thought about all this information concerning Long Distance Relationship. Thank You.

Love you Aunty Fumi. If I knew this info sooner I would of ended my LDR much sooner.

You look beautiful as always ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I appreciate you and your outlook!

am living for the hair look, giving life...

Work MaMA! I love your look! Aunty , you have me wanting to do a makeover on myself!

Ahhh... Sister Fumi, You are a G. All of what you said especially point 2. Chaiii!

You are really a good teacher

Great advice indeed.will put the tips into practice.

I loooove this sister Funmiiii

Thank you for the tips aunty fumz. I am officially Woke🤗🤗🤗❤️

Thank you very much for this beautiful teaching

Thank you mama Fumi As I watch your videos I am getting more confident and placing more value my life and time

Love the hair 😍

Woman of wisdom love you ❤️

Hey Mama Fumi!! I’m a new subscriber 🎉Ali absolutely adore your content 🥰 Ciuld you PLEASE speak on what you should not pay for in a long distance relationship. Travel etc!

Thank you Fumi, I will never make these type of mistakes again.🙏

Thanks so much sister Fumi for great wonderful educational advice of a life time . 🙏💞😘

Love your doo!💃🏻

Thank you so much dear 💯💯💯🙏🙏💕💕

Wow great advise.. So true and informative. Thanks

That number 2,is very very important

You look fabulous as always 💕🔥💕

@doreenonekalit9888

Жыл бұрын

Extremely Fabulous 👌🏾

Very informative

Fantastic as always Sis. Many thanks.

I wish I know this 9 years ago, I wish I couldn't wasted 5 years in long destination relationship, but I learned hard way excuse after one.

@franmdleleni6520

Жыл бұрын

You mean you were in LDR for five years?

@didokinney9173

Жыл бұрын

@@franmdleleni6520 That's to long

Ma thanks very much I love your teaching,you makes me to know some things I was aware of

Congratulations to 413k 💐🎈💕💕💕

I just love, love, love you! ❤️❤️🥰

Those colors face and outfit look great on you.

That make up Fumi 😯💕

I choose to follow you dear you have such a wonderful knowledge

Thanks for this hints

Thank u Good video Merci , J'ai vraiment aimé😇😇🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

wow great nuggets of wisdom

Very interesting topic. You have given some really helpful tips that I did not think of at all. But I'd like to know what happens if it's the guy who's relocating from his country to yours. You speak mostly from a point of view where she relocates to him. But what if it's the other way around?

Hair, makeup and top 11 on 10💋

Good information you are Sharing.

Yyyyyyyeeees. Thnx for the wonderful video

First time this early ,I'm here for it ❤️

Hey Fumi looking fabulous. You look like Cicely Tyson, thanks for the tips mama

Yes am asking a lot of questions about about him and family and children Yes..questions as woman you can meet frist..