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00:00 Intro
00:43 Ignore Everyone Else
2:07 Wants vs. Needs
5:05 Keep Savings Separate
5:51 Avoid your temptations
7:12 Automate your life
8:24 Earn more $$$
10:10 Avoid lifestyle creep
10:50 Allowance
12:28 but WHY?
13:35 You can have anything!
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  • @karinatalamantes8142
    @karinatalamantes81422 жыл бұрын

    One thing ive learned as ive gotten older is that not everyone's priorities/life goals are the same.

  • @brandicollins658

    @brandicollins658

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely…including the Covid vaccine,.

  • @jonisnyder6011
    @jonisnyder60112 жыл бұрын

    "You can have anything you want, but you can't have everything you want" -FFM Great quote!

  • @caitlinkill4816
    @caitlinkill48162 жыл бұрын

    These tips were such great reminders! My husband has some good friends who are way “ahead” of us. They own two cars, have bought a very nice, large house and only purchase foods at Whole Foods. However, their life circumstances are way different. Both come from very wealthy families and did not have to pay for any college. They were given new cars as a graduation gift from college. Both my husband and I grew up in poor conditions. We have both put ourselves through college, and now paying off some loans. We have had health challenges that required many surgeries and we have those high bills. We were blessed with twins after our first child and we weren’t expecting those costs. Including a new car because three car seats wouldn’t fit in our old one. And a new car meant getting rid of my husbands and becoming a one car family. We have a lovely life and we love it, but to not look and compare is hard. My husband has taken a part time second job delivering pizzas. It’s amazing what a little boost in income a couple nights a week can do! We have bills going down so fast! We have a couple more years of paying things off, but the end is in sight!

  • @debbiemoore9069

    @debbiemoore9069

    2 жыл бұрын

    Please stop looking at what you're friends have. It sounds like ya'll have been bless also. You both have gone to college. Ya'll have 3 beautiful kids. Ya'll have nice home. Yes your husband has gotten a second job but that has allowed ya'll to pay things off sooner and it might let ya'll save some money for a vacation or a second car later after ya'll paid off some bills. And it sounds like it's made ya'll stronger too. And only have one car just means ya'll get to spend more time together. And am sorry to hear ya'll have had some health problems. But now you said you're worry about how ya'll are going to pay them. So I take it your either better or might have to keep seeing a doctor. Then I hope God keeps blessing ya'll. Yes they might be small blessings and they might be slow in coming. But if ya'll stay strong and have faith and work together. Alot of things can happen.

  • @BeautifulEarthJa

    @BeautifulEarthJa

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's hard not to compare no.matter how you KNOW you shouldn't. Keep strong luv, I know the feeling.

  • @kimmartin2522

    @kimmartin2522

    2 жыл бұрын

    You go girl, you guys are doing great!!!!

  • @toniburdine1393

    @toniburdine1393

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's hard not comparing but you have to think " how much are they paying"? While it may be tight for you; your bills are low.

  • @sarahaziz6963

    @sarahaziz6963

    2 жыл бұрын

    A new car is always a bad idea, even when your rich

  • @deborahcuenca5282
    @deborahcuenca52822 жыл бұрын

    Can I just say I absolutely LOVE this woman?! 🥰😅 She is just so non-pretentious, so genuine, so real… I also love how she doesn’t waste our time with fluff, is very pleasant, doesn’t have an annoying voice and of course gives us spectacular tips and ideas. Her energy and positivity are very uplifting also. 😆 She’s very practical and impresses me with her frugality. I’m absolutely hooked and can’t wait to see more of her videos. I’ve seen about 20 so far in about 1-2 weeks. 😅

  • @dianegarrett7187

    @dianegarrett7187

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for telling me about: HARRY'S products.🙌🎊

  • @carmarasmussen8118
    @carmarasmussen81182 жыл бұрын

    Of course you would want us to be successful. Successful, kind, generous people generally want others to be successful as well. 😇

  • @kellyb1419

    @kellyb1419

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said! 😁

  • @floridanativelh568

    @floridanativelh568

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love her. She is so real😀

  • @kellbing
    @kellbing2 жыл бұрын

    I am an excellent saver. My biggest obstacle is having a husband who isn't. It is extremely frustrating.

  • @antoniakohler9117

    @antoniakohler9117

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same for me! I'm rubbing off on him 😜 the trick is to not push and to lead by example. He's starting to realise just how much food he wastes or doesn't eat just down to poor planning and I now batch cook him a bunch of freezer meals so he doesn't buy takeaway all the time. It gets easier!

  • @Lesh004

    @Lesh004

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same! I can do without dvds, rentals, eating out, and projects. I’m very good at putting my wants aside. I even convince myself my needs are wants. He’s starting to come around though. And has stopped a lot of his spending to force me to buy things like much needed shoes and new vacuum. 😂

  • @lady_stog

    @lady_stog

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here... It's driving me crazy 🙈

  • @sharonberg4817

    @sharonberg4817

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have to say I was proud of myself for starting at his birth, an auto deposit of $100 a month for his college fund. It was fun when the interest was $33 a month, so every 3 months it was like saving an extra $100. Sadly that bank was bought and the savings program ended. I realized $100 wasn't a lot of money, but it amounted to enough to pay for 2 years of community college & 2 years at a state university. BUT (as an ODD child/adult), to thwart me (?), he joined the military at 18.

  • @hannahgleason9885

    @hannahgleason9885

    2 жыл бұрын

    Separate accounts help us a lot. We have an emergency savings account, an account just for bills, a joint spending account, and then we each have a personal spending account. We only keep debit cards for our personal and joint spending accounts so that we (mostly he 😁) aren't tempted to touch our savings or bills money.

  • @sharondvorak6914
    @sharondvorak69142 жыл бұрын

    We had to file Chapter 13 bankruptcy in the early 90's. We had to turn all of our earnings each month to a trustee. This was such a traumatic and heart-wrenching experience that to this day, we use cash, and no credit cards. We are doing so much better now.

  • @melissai4798

    @melissai4798

    2 жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear, Recently been in a similar story x

  • @heatherjohnson2511
    @heatherjohnson25112 жыл бұрын

    As far as having the same car as the neighbors, we don't, we have a Mustang, it's older, but beautiful blue, our house is yellow, and everyone else has grey, brown or white, we didn't plant trees we have a huge rock garden with bird feeders and small flowering plants, and our yard isn't even grass cause it grows to fast and requires too much water, we have white clover, it's softer, repels ticks and feeds the bees. We are trail blazers. The neighbors can follow each other, we do what we like. 😁😁😁❤

  • @Tesabr1

    @Tesabr1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love the clover idea.

  • @kimwarner1681

    @kimwarner1681

    2 жыл бұрын

    It sounds pretty to me.

  • @criticRN

    @criticRN

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yay clover 🍀!! 👍🏽

  • @MS-iz7if
    @MS-iz7if2 жыл бұрын

    Automating my savings is hands down the best thing that I have ever done in regards to my personal finances. 🙌 I have mine set up so that as soon as my paycheque is deposited, $150 automatically goes into a separate savings account. That means that $300 a month automatically gets put away - I don't see it, I don't miss it. I will still throw any extra money at the end of my pay period (even if its $10) into my savings, but its comforting to know that I am for sure saving each and every month.

  • @Happy_life117

    @Happy_life117

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great tip! once my car was paid off, I automated that same payment to come out of the account on the same day and directed it to my savings account...was used to paying it so kept up with that payment only now it’s to me and my retirement fund!

  • @renee6524

    @renee6524

    2 жыл бұрын

    I do the same!!! Its helping me pay for school!

  • @nancyfarkas3592

    @nancyfarkas3592

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s great if you aren’t on a fixed income

  • @sct4040

    @sct4040

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do the same with Mutual Funds and retirement accounts.

  • @nana820able

    @nana820able

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@joaquimrodriguez8961 Where do you put it?

  • @abimol3802
    @abimol38022 жыл бұрын

    The first tip is so true. You never know if "The Jones' " are in debt to have the nice things. Decide for yourself what you want and need- no adult peer pressure. Great video Christine!

  • @littlesongbird1

    @littlesongbird1

    2 жыл бұрын

    100% agree. I used to feel little perplexed or even ashamed when I would see people my age who seemed to be able to afford things I wished I could (newer cars, trips, trips to salons, etc.) but then I learned that they were bad with budgeting and in debt or still living off of parents. Now I just focus on me.

  • @CarFreeKC

    @CarFreeKC

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree -- I didn't have furniture for years because I couldn't afford what I wanted. I didn't feel a need to have furniture just because everyone else does. I ended up landing the sofa I loved on clearance marked down from $3000 to $900 by doing this. I snagged it instantly because I'd been saving. No regrets! I used the leftover to buy some nicer kitchen tools that would last for the long haul. As a result, I almost never eat out. I just spent $200 at TJ Maxx to replace my skillets, a few pots, and a couple knives after 15 years of heavy use. I will happily do that over eating out.

  • @jillgott6567

    @jillgott6567

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@CarFreeKC Years ago a coworker stopped by my new home unannounced and during our visit commented I did not have a dining table and chairs yet she had one. I didn't say it but this coworker whose mom and dad let her live rent free for years to save a down payment, who gave her additional money to buy the mobile home, gave her the land free. Put in a driveway, septic, water, electric poles etc WAS not welcome in my home ever again. 40 years later I remember it it didn't hurt my feelings but showed me the kind of person she was.

  • @CarFreeKC

    @CarFreeKC

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jillgott6567 Absolutely! I always just told people I hadn't found the perfect one yet and I was still looking. I did cave and buy a TV not because I wanted one but because people kept commenting on it. I waited until I found a good clearance sale and got one. I don't use it very often but sometimes it's nice to have. It's just a small 32", which at the time was a decent size (ha). I'd never get anything bigger and if/when this one dies, I won't replace it. Now, neighbors come over sometimes and usually mention how MUCH furniture I have. My living room is pretty huge at 400 square feet, probably about 38% of my apartment space. I probably really only have furniture in half of it. I'm fine with this. Small sofa, a few bookshelves tucked away against one wall, and a lot of empty space. I don't care. ha! One thing that WAS really important for me was a dining table. I don't use it often but I love having a space to share a meal with a friend.

  • @Loly920

    @Loly920

    2 жыл бұрын

    People don't know if The Jones owe up to their wazoo.

  • @susiesearight5740
    @susiesearight57402 жыл бұрын

    These are my favorite videos! This month marks off my full year of Snowball. I am unbelievably happy to say I paid off over $150K in debt in one year. I still don’t know how - but the numbers do not lie! I stick to my budget and I am INTENT with my money. Having a needs vs wants list is powerful. I now have a post it with the question WHY? on my laptop. Thank you!

  • @FrugalFitMom

    @FrugalFitMom

    2 жыл бұрын

    WOW!!! Amazing job

  • @leighannaustin1934
    @leighannaustin19342 жыл бұрын

    You are such an inspiration to watch. You remind me why my husband and I chose not to keep up with all of our friends. We have been budgeting, paying off debt and cooking from scratch for the last two years and we are almost debt free including the house. Just about the time I'm ready to throw in the towel and spend that money you post a video like this. Thank you

  • @frochoffthebranch

    @frochoffthebranch

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keep up the good work Leigh Ann that’s really exciting!!

  • @ourgreatlittlelife-alexand7993
    @ourgreatlittlelife-alexand79932 жыл бұрын

    I’m trying to recover my finances from my ex-husband kind of keeping me constantly in a hole of debt. I worked and had practically no access to my own earnings. I’m 25 and in a much healthier relationship now just trying to get back up :) I love your channel, Christine!

  • @AerinAtTheDisco

    @AerinAtTheDisco

    2 жыл бұрын

    It gets better! It's a hard period now but you will get out of this bad situation and you will feel so proud of yourself when you're done!

  • @ghostwriter8247

    @ghostwriter8247

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good for you! Keep chipping away at the debt. You are going to feel amazing when your paycheck becomes YOUR paycheck, and then you slowly see the money piling up in savings. It’s such a sense of freedom.

  • @barbarabowman9238

    @barbarabowman9238

    2 жыл бұрын

    Never give anyone control of your earned income.

  • @lisacarson6223

    @lisacarson6223

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm 55 and starting over after being in this same situation. I'm having trouble seeing the way but doing my best. I'm glad you were able to get into a better life so much sooner than I was.

  • @ryanbarbeau7426
    @ryanbarbeau74262 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had you in my late teens and early 20’s. Now I’m in my mid 30’s trying to break all of these bad habits you’ve listed! I appreciate all of your knowledge!

  • @FrugalFitMom

    @FrugalFitMom

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can do it!

  • @tenthousanddaysofgratitude

    @tenthousanddaysofgratitude

    2 жыл бұрын

    You will get there! Remember your priorities and celebrate the successes in your financial plans! You can do it!

  • @laurahall7823

    @laurahall7823

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true…. I’m sharing this video with my college age daughter 🙂

  • @dianasimplifies

    @dianasimplifies

    2 жыл бұрын

    Never too late to start!

  • @SayaCeline
    @SayaCeline2 жыл бұрын

    Switching to a (mostly) all cash budget has helped me so far. I'm using the envelope system and so far it's really helped me with all of the impulse shopping that comes with ADD. Especially in the grocery store! Having cash made me focus on how much I'm spending, which made me realize just how expensive those "cheap and easy" pasta dinners were!

  • @bluefamily3937

    @bluefamily3937

    2 жыл бұрын

    The Dave Ramsey system works! Since my neighborhood influences the vehicle I drive (#1)...I'm right on target driving my clunker!...I mean my paid off truck that needs some work done. :)

  • @shahilanathan8067

    @shahilanathan8067

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi. Do u have any suggestions for how much cash to keep? thanks

  • @melissahuntsman1799
    @melissahuntsman17992 жыл бұрын

    A great idea to me was to have your emergency fund account at a completely different bank!! It’s way too easy to transfer when it’s at your primary bank

  • @kimwoodard9788

    @kimwoodard9788

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have mine in a HYA at an online bank that is attached to a completely separate account at a different physical bank in my area. I made it extra hard. 😁

  • @lydiabuck8332

    @lydiabuck8332

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is actually a really good idea!!!

  • @CC-kr3mr
    @CC-kr3mr2 жыл бұрын

    When you said “make every penny scream” “rice and beans and ramen” I laughed so hard because I have been there! Thank you for sharing these tips. Ignore what everyone else is doing really spoke to me. Most North Americans (I am Canadian but the same rings true to Americans too) carry debt and statistically cannot come up with $5,000 in case of an emergency. Yet we look around and think we want the things/lifestyle that our neighbours and colleagues have. Peace of mind and financial freedom are so much more important to me than things, trips, fancy cars, etc and I truly think financial well-being is a mindset and lifestyle 🙏🏽

  • @lovebyrdsseasonings
    @lovebyrdsseasonings2 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I follow most of these tips too. Love it!!! We became debt free end of 2021 except for our home 🔥 Hard work, but so worth it

  • @theblessedbudgetingflorist
    @theblessedbudgetingflorist2 жыл бұрын

    Getting your groceries brought to your car REALLY helps with the "temptation " spending!!

  • @janedoe9421
    @janedoe94212 жыл бұрын

    Need/want. A new couch. For the first time in my life I've got a new couch. It was a want by me and a need by my husband. He has RA and our old hand-me-down couch became too soft for him. Just delivered this morning 😉

  • @jodischoolcraft9188
    @jodischoolcraft91882 жыл бұрын

    Life hack… Anything you have left over in checking $$ the day before you get paid transfer it to savings… And do not go food shopping the day you think you need to go… Wait at least one or two more days and be creative

  • @nancyfrazier2648
    @nancyfrazier26482 жыл бұрын

    Yes to an "allowance" When My husband was in Med School, we had about 0 extra dollars per week but we each squeezed in something special - a 6 -pack of beer for hubs and a magazine for me. Made all the difference in our attitudes for the week!

  • @margal3120
    @margal31202 жыл бұрын

    Really enjoyed this one!! I’d also suggest ASKING FOR A RAISE. Women are woefully underpaid “glass ceiling” and those of us who are super dedicated to our craft should be paid for it! No time for a side hustle - that IS my side hustle lol

  • @janaeanne2653

    @janaeanne2653

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a woman with Master’s degree I’ve been underpaid for all of my career. I blame this on being in a women’s field, Social Work, and not getting respect for the work. Now I am retired and am still feeling effects so very little retirement income including low social security payment. It’s very difficult but I know the reason why.

  • @addie2754
    @addie27542 жыл бұрын

    Just wanted you to know you’ve been such a force of good in my young adult life. I’m early 20s, living on my own, in school, and you’ve helped me in so many spheres: kitchen, money, fitness. You’re the best Christine. If you ever do a meet up in UT this girl will be there!

  • @tacos_are_life
    @tacos_are_life2 жыл бұрын

    For me, number 1 speaks volumes! Comparing ourselves to others, and feeling like we aren’t good enough because we are measuring ourselves to people we come in contact with is definitely something that our society would benefit from working on. 🙏🏼

  • @maeganricks1906
    @maeganricks19062 жыл бұрын

    I love your tip of knowing your triggers. I love a deal and it’s hard to put something down when it’s a deal but NOT in the budget.

  • @samiderossi7060
    @samiderossi70602 жыл бұрын

    the “what do men do?” took me out 😅 but yes golf is very accurate!

  • @thebadgerette69

    @thebadgerette69

    2 жыл бұрын

    Got no credit we don't care, can't pay your bills, you bet we care! 😆

  • @redandpink219
    @redandpink2192 жыл бұрын

    Love these videos christine. I am so proud of your deyermination to stick to your goal. Hearing you share your story has encouraged me on my own journey!

  • @ericasutton4981
    @ericasutton49812 жыл бұрын

    Thank you christine! You always make things simple and understandable. I like the tip for questioning what you purchase and why you're purchasing it. I have been doing that a lot lately and it has really cut down on my budget. Thanks again

  • @audraleeferris
    @audraleeferris2 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh! I just absolutely love and agree with all the tips!…girl wish someone would have said these things to me in my 20’s! Had to learn it the hard way. Thank God I got awareness before my mid 30’s. Keeping up with the Jones and having self awareness of my “spending soft spots” absolutely hard for me at 25. Now 40 I don’t give a rats bottom about what anyone else has or does and look at my purchases as “does this add value to my life and goals?” Great advice! Keep it up!!!!

  • @LauraN-do2of
    @LauraN-do2of2 жыл бұрын

    So true! My parents and sibling go to expensive restaurants very regularly. Fortunately we live in a rural area now and aren’t so tempted. We go out to eat almost never. Especially compared to many others we know. Food is one budget area that can be the hardest to get under control. We’ve been able to halve our grocery budget and we work hard using your tips to keep it low but also eat good meals at home. I’ve even trained my husband to shop from the freezer and pantry first and figure out meals with what we have in the house. Lots of good tips!

  • @catherinecook9260
    @catherinecook92602 жыл бұрын

    Girl! I love, love your videos. Food, money saving ideas….all are great!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I’m trying to get my adult children to watch these now as they start their families to avoid mistakes made early in life. Keeping up w the Jones’, new cars, houseful of unnecessary kids toys.

  • @michellejaggard9657
    @michellejaggard96572 жыл бұрын

    My first time here, I also did the debt free journey, I and my husband are debt free, Feels great. Especally at our age, 68 and 74. We also prepare for hard times to feel secure and spend most of our time at home because of covid, We have no problem with this. we have always been homebodies, We read, we each have 3 or 4 lap tops, I have lots of material and love to sew and garden, take walks every day. I'm going to hang around and go back and watch your other videos, Thank you so much, I hope a lot of your viewers listen to your messages, Hard times are coming.

  • @desireea1407
    @desireea14072 жыл бұрын

    On the topic of being frugal: Invest in a safety razor instead of a shaving subscription. If you take care of it and buy a large value pack of razors it will save you so much money.

  • @nichole4055
    @nichole40552 жыл бұрын

    I’ve learned I have to avoid browsing Amazon lightening deals. Too easy to buy without much planning or thought other than “ it’s a great deal”. I liked your tip to set aside money every month for extras or fun things.

  • @snemetz6008
    @snemetz60082 жыл бұрын

    Great video! Great reminders for those of us that have been doing these same things for years. I have also had some kind of side hustle to use toward vacations or kids youth trips etc. I set a goal and work on that side hustle. It keeps me on my toes and keeps me personally more focused. I currently work for myself and if I want to make more $. I look at what do I need to change up to make this happen. Since I left my full-time teaching position I haven’t looked back and hope I can continue to keep working on paying off our house. We are not rich by no means but work hard to live within our means and live on only one of our income to meet our financial goals. Work hard and play hard is our family motto! We all chip in to reach the family goals. If anything I hope my teenagers leave the house going ok I know what to do and can make it happen.

  • @jens8279
    @jens82792 жыл бұрын

    Your separate savings account tip is priceless! I started a separate savings account with my company’s employee credit union 20 years ago when I started working for them. It’s about a 45 minute drive for me, so I can’t just get to it immediately if I have a burning desire to go blow some cash! Lol My deposit comes out of my paycheck every week, I never see it, so I don’t think about it. Over the years it was there to pay a large physical therapy bill after knee surgery, to put a new roof on my house, to put in a new drain field for my house, and will now soon be putting all new central heat and air in my house! It’s been the best safety net I’ve had financially for my whole life. And it’s out of sight, out of mind! Love your videos! You’re the best!

  • @pookie2223
    @pookie22232 жыл бұрын

    I love your content. I always wait and see what you come up with in your next video. I appreciate how honest and true to yourself you are. All the tips you talked about in this video I apply in my every day life (for a while now) and it's nice to know someone that is similar minded. I hope "not caring what others think of you or you not comparing yourself to others" is a tip your viewers will really apply in their life. Thank you for all your great content and I enjoy all your videos. :)

  • @FrugalFitMom

    @FrugalFitMom

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 🤗

  • @millieh.-nyc6537
    @millieh.-nyc65372 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful tips. Growing up, I remember my mom (single parent) incorporated most, if not all, in her lifestyle habits. I saw the success of her being able to save for that special occasion or gift that I did it as well. I had started babysitting & saved some of my money in my rainy day coffee can. Of course, I've continued the practice (from coffee can to bank & investments). There's nothing more critical than being free from debt. It's freedom! Be well.

  • @dinrufarore
    @dinrufarore2 жыл бұрын

    I am already doing most of the things on this list, but remembering 'you can have anything you want, but you can't have everything you want' really stuck out to me as something so obvious and wise that hadn't quite clicked for me yet. Thank you!!

  • @marywatkins6798
    @marywatkins67982 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video, Christine. For me the best and most critical tip is Wants vs: Needs. SO important, and not so easy to do. It takes a lot of soul searching. I have done the tips on this list for years and can attest: they work!

  • @robino941
    @robino9412 жыл бұрын

    I love all your tips! Automating your savings is probably my favorite tip. Clearing up our brains is important!

  • @FrugalFitMom

    @FrugalFitMom

    2 жыл бұрын

    It really is!

  • @kellyb1419
    @kellyb14192 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou Christine, for not just letting us enjoy you and your personality (and your family's too 😉)... but also your content... being everything... saving, how to's, cooking, shopping, family... everything!! 😘

  • @cherieh007
    @cherieh0072 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing and such a huge blessing to all of us out here. Thank you for all that you do and share with us!

  • @annecurtin336
    @annecurtin3362 жыл бұрын

    My favorite tip is to stay out of stores that tempt me - I never go into Dollar Tree alone - or bookstores either. It is just too risky - as is retail therapy, an old favorite.

  • @klouise2800
    @klouise28002 жыл бұрын

    #1 - We all need to look more inward at our own lives and what makes us happy rather than looking outward at everyone else. Great video!

  • @dianekreuzer3854
    @dianekreuzer38542 жыл бұрын

    You hit the nail on the head on so many of these. We choose to include an allowance in our monthly budget. My spouse & I are way different when it comes to money. He is a spender & I’m a saver. This has caused a lot of issues early in our debt payoff. So by giving us each a set of money(allowance) I could care less what he does with his & vise versa. I also believe having sinking funds to save for certain purchases has been key in helping us build our savings as well as not worrying if I’ll have money for the yearly insurance, taxes or vacation. Having it set up on auto draft where it’s like a bill is essential for us.

  • @cherylland8110
    @cherylland81102 жыл бұрын

    For us it was shocking to add u what we spent on the weekends for “entertainment” which was basically eating out. I still work a full time job and my husband wanted me to have an easier weekend so we got into the habit of eating out. When I was forced to work from home March 2020 and restaurants were closing and we decided to eat at home, holy smokes did we save a ton of money!

  • @staceelees2211
    @staceelees22112 жыл бұрын

    Love the tips "Don't compare yourself", savings in another bank and identify your habits. LOVED THEM ALL but these were the ones that hit home with me. Thank you so much for all of your videos. LOVE TO WATCH THEM ALL THE TIME.

  • @Nwakaego_
    @Nwakaego_2 жыл бұрын

    I love these tips, especially the first one! As someone in their late 20s, I learned this early and I’m super happy I did. Great video!

  • @rebeccaschwochert6389
    @rebeccaschwochert63892 жыл бұрын

    You're amazing. All this is right along the lines of my thought process, but hearing it from you really gets through to me.!!

  • @CB-wt6uv
    @CB-wt6uv2 жыл бұрын

    Awesome! I liked the statement print out with highlighter. So true on the Jones. People need to do what is best for their own family. Don’t forget to stock up on food when you can.

  • @laurahall7823
    @laurahall78232 жыл бұрын

    Great video! After keeping our spending controlled and eyes on long term goals it really is coming together as we approach early retirement (in our 50’s). It’s really all about the “marshmallow test” and balance. 🙂

  • @sandynoonan3355
    @sandynoonan33552 жыл бұрын

    Easy and practical tips that make sense. I'm going to show this to my soon to be college age granddaughter. You are so fun to watch. Thank you!

  • @spareroomcreations4560
    @spareroomcreations45602 жыл бұрын

    When I heard "God Blessed Texas" by Little Texas this morning, I thought of you! I am almost a new mom.and my years of access to disposable income are coming to an end. I've been watching and learning from your and your cHannel. There is a possibility that my daughter may have special needs and I hope to make a channel to help and connect with other mothers. Thanks for everything!

  • @suzy1676
    @suzy16762 жыл бұрын

    Your quote about anything but not everything is SO freeing! It helps me to feel a sense of control over my life 🙃

  • @renakosmidou6578
    @renakosmidou65782 жыл бұрын

    Ever since I found your channel l 've been binge watching. I really enjoy all the haulls because we don't have anything like that here in Greece and by that I mean the prices don't drop to 50 or 75 %.. Can't wait for your next video. 💕

  • @sheenabobo5400
    @sheenabobo54002 жыл бұрын

    Tip #10 is my absolute favorite! It's uplifting yet realistic. Thanks for sharing!

  • @leiannalogan4197
    @leiannalogan41972 жыл бұрын

    Love the comment about dollars, called "doll hairs". I've said that my whole life!!! Great video, I'm going to apply some of these tips.

  • @macysmith32
    @macysmith322 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Christine! This is something I struggle with, and videos like this help so much!

  • @craigclarkin5462
    @craigclarkin54622 жыл бұрын

    For once nor in tears after listening to someone discuss financial check list reviews 😌. Thanks...love your channel, Craig's wife.

  • @LifeOrdinary87
    @LifeOrdinary872 жыл бұрын

    Hands down my favorite video. 🙌. I enjoyed the self reflection before purchasing. I definitely do this now and have saved myself tons.

  • @lilbfly02
    @lilbfly022 жыл бұрын

    All the tips were wonderful! I’m new as of last week and have been binging!! Such a huge fan of your channel!!

  • @tenthousanddaysofgratitude
    @tenthousanddaysofgratitude2 жыл бұрын

    Your hair looks great. These are great tips. One way I manage to separate wants and needs in the grocery store or Walmart is to make a list walk around with anything not on that list for a half an hour and then ask myself if it’s a want or need. That does away with the impulse buy. Also - save for the wants. It feels so satisfying to put away 10 dollars for 6 weeks to buy that $60 dollar thing you want rather than to buy it now and have to pay it off over time. Saving for it feels like a reward for an accomplishment. I’m so glad you said earn more money. So many frugal videos forget this but it’s 50 percent of the budgeting equation!!!

  • @kathyd2370
    @kathyd23702 жыл бұрын

    I found your channel a while back and just love watching your videos, they never disappoint! Thanks for all the great content Christine 😁

  • @growingmyveggies
    @growingmyveggies2 жыл бұрын

    Hi I recently discover your channel and the word "frugal" I love and hate some of your tips but lest be real this are great tips. I learned that the more you accept that everybody its in a different place in life and you are OK with that you live happy, save money and concentrate in your own journey. You have inspired me to open my own channel, not sure what would be about yet but I am headding there. Thank you for being HONEST and not sugarcoatting it.

  • @Babba08
    @Babba082 жыл бұрын

    Yes, evaluating why you're so anxious to buy something is really smart. Also, even for things that it seems we really need, we sit on it for a couple of weeks and if at the end of that time we still really need it, then we'll purchase it.

  • @jillcaplan5954
    @jillcaplan59542 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on the booming channel! I’ve been watching since you had 9k subscribers and it’s been exciting watching it go bananas. Some of my fav videos are: hoppin john and red beans & rice tutorials. Keep up the amazing videos and best of luck!

  • @FrugalFitMom

    @FrugalFitMom

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much!!

  • @charlenecalvin9066
    @charlenecalvin90662 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. Simply asking why I want something makes very good sense. This is my new goal

  • @busley9837
    @busley98372 жыл бұрын

    These are the types of videos that got me watching you. Very good and helpful tips for people trying to save or just be more mindful. At the end of the day you spend on what you prioritize. That can be both frivolous or non frivolous bot you need to be mindful of what your goals are and how you achieve them. It comes down To balance .

  • @tulincreech1524
    @tulincreech15242 жыл бұрын

    Such great tips! What i do is plan out each paycheck down to the dollar. I'll write down what bill gets paid with each check, my grocery bill, and then I'll know what wants I can afford. If i dont do that I will overspend for sure on my wants.

  • @brentderksen
    @brentderksen2 жыл бұрын

    Ignore everyone!!! We lived in a holiday trailer for two years so we could build our home ourselves, in Canada... The general public were under the impression they must be desperate and hate life. We did fine.

  • @FrugalFitMom

    @FrugalFitMom

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love that!

  • @helen4997
    @helen4997 Жыл бұрын

    Loved it all! Thank you for sharing!!

  • @meganvalek2690
    @meganvalek26902 жыл бұрын

    Favourite tip: automation! I did that a while back, it took a whole lot of thought while I was doing it to make sure I didn't mess anything up, but it has made my life so much simpler. Now I know that whatever money is left in my checking out after the autotransfers on payday is mine to spend on whatever I need/want. It's not usually much, but everything else is taken care of by that point, so that's okay.

  • @dianejones8606
    @dianejones86062 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had made wise money decisions like you and Dave have. What a gift that you were both on the same page at such a young age. Your kids are going to benefit, and be blessed, by your wisdom and example. 👏👏👏 Christine....I LOVE your hair this way! So flattering!!

  • @amy2284
    @amy22842 жыл бұрын

    I love your list and particularly asking in self reflection why we want to buy something. I have heard a youtuber once say something similar yet a little different (slice of light) she said that ask yourself to reflect the decision on the financial or personal most important goals that give your life the meaning you crave and ask deep questions like am I escaping or is it a status purchase, etc…

  • @jennifershort714
    @jennifershort7142 жыл бұрын

    I loved all of your tips. Every single one. Healthy money management is a hard one to learn. Thank you for talking about it.

  • @julieseifert8533
    @julieseifert85332 жыл бұрын

    I use Mint to track my spending, and made budgets for different categories. I review it often to see if I am track. I’m used to spending whatever I want when I want, but as I got older priorities change. I am still identifying my trigger buys, but I’m also trying to save up for the things I want. Definitely a mind set change.

  • @debradavid929
    @debradavid9292 жыл бұрын

    Loved the quote! Well done at getting others to “look” and reevaluate

  • @jennifergleckler9569
    @jennifergleckler95692 жыл бұрын

    I put our savings in a separate bank as well. We use to buy brand new vehicles, but learned buying used is much nicer and saves thousands. I buy carpeting when necessary at rock bottom prices. I coupon no mater how much money we have. 😉 I buy a bed every 10 years. I bought freezers, yes freezers 3 to save more money. 😊 I use to buy shoes every month 17 pair a year. NO MORE! Wow! Wasted so much money for 4 years. Frugal Mom and just became a happy mom with money in savings. 😊😊👍🏻Your tips are spot on. Thank you for your awesome videos. I watch them all the time. 😊💕

  • @michellegibbs2065
    @michellegibbs20652 жыл бұрын

    This was amazing, especially right now as my life is changing. Starting a new life in a new city, moving close to my daughter and her family and my parents. So this was something I needed right now. Thank you

  • @FrugalFitMom

    @FrugalFitMom

    2 жыл бұрын

    You got this!

  • @rhondapelletier3036
    @rhondapelletier30362 жыл бұрын

    This was an excellent pep talk with the fuel prices are going to be high this year it is never too late to take some of your advise. Thank you. BTW giving plasma , you gave everything you had to get thru the tough time. Blood sweat and tears.

  • @reneerabinowitz9369
    @reneerabinowitz93692 жыл бұрын

    Love your Channel thanks for these financial tips!

  • @maryrochon9083
    @maryrochon90832 жыл бұрын

    My mom said you can have everything you want in life...just not all at the same time. Thank you for these videos. I am on a low budget journey!!

  • @elinamor4638
    @elinamor4638 Жыл бұрын

    This is SOOOO good!! We are on our financial freedom journey and these help so much!!

  • @ptagwc2866
    @ptagwc28662 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!!!!!! Making the list & categorizing purchases is a HUGE eye opener. I was surprised what all of my small non necessary purchases equaled each month. Thank you.

  • @stephaniepakosta
    @stephaniepakosta2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the great ideas!! I always go on a spending spree when I’m feeling a little down so I really need to get in the habit of asking myself why I want to buy certain things.

  • @corinnestauffiger5693
    @corinnestauffiger56932 жыл бұрын

    First thing when I moved in with my husband (then boyfried): we made a budget, set up different bank accounts and automated payments. Also ajust your budget from time to time, review the spendings. Great help if it comes to life changes as becoming parents, changing job or buying a house. My cookies are craft supplies: my hobby room is full and still I would like to buy more… but I got better a lot. Do not allow myself to buy more until I used at least some of the stuff I already have.

  • @nerdymichelle
    @nerdymichelle2 жыл бұрын

    I love the idea is setting an allowance to buy the extras every month. And the reminder that you can have just about anything, but not everything. I used to be good with these two, but over the years I have made a bad habit of giving into my kids little requests. They add up and somewhere along the way, we have gotten used to eating out 2+ times a week and picking up a treat every time we go to the store. … Once upon a time our big splurges consisted of letting her pick one piece of fruit every Friday and putting $5 in a jar for birthdays, holidays, and when the carnival came to town.

  • @lynncaldwell8345

    @lynncaldwell8345

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope your child got more than l piece of fruit a week.

  • @nerdymichelle

    @nerdymichelle

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lynncaldwell8345 Of course :-) But money was tight so I often grabbed the cheaper fruits and vegetables. Sometimes it was as simple as red apples were on sale but she wanted green, so we ended up with a bag of red apples and one green.

  • @ericahempenstall7405
    @ericahempenstall7405 Жыл бұрын

    You are spot on, if your not buying the product, you are the product, adore you channel x

  • @Jean2235177
    @Jean22351772 жыл бұрын

    1 and 10. Loved those two tips. So true!

  • @karenhowe1510
    @karenhowe15102 жыл бұрын

    Great ideas! I love your hair!!

  • @ChiTownLove24
    @ChiTownLove242 жыл бұрын

    Staying away from tempting places is exactly the reason why I utilize pickup options wherever I can. Target? Drive up is my favorite. If I go inside I WILL see (more than 1) something I don’t need that will somehow end up in my cart. Same with groceries. I make a list but without fail every time I physically go into the store I spend way more than what I budgeted. It’s SO much easier to just down a list and add the things I need to the cart with very little temptation to add things I don’t need. PLUS I can place the order and pick it up in my PJs because I don’t have to physically go inside 😅

  • @kristyh982
    @kristyh9822 жыл бұрын

    Automate everything you can! Not just bills and savings but having cat food/littler, chronic meds, basically anything you always normally buy on a schedule. It is so helpful w the brain space!

  • @toniburdine1393
    @toniburdine13932 жыл бұрын

    I've never tried to keep up with others but my husband did teach me not to buy unless you can pay cash. Being raised poor and seeing my mom's shop Aarons so much I thought that was the way to go. My husband taught me different and I'm so glad. Now we work together and make it happen. Are we rich? Nope not at all but thank God we aren't materialistic and manage. Plus no debt.

  • @AerinAtTheDisco
    @AerinAtTheDisco2 жыл бұрын

    I always did my best with money but I didn't have any help. I took the cheapest apartment and no utilities (no cell phone, no tv, no internet) to pay my student loan as fast as possible. I managed to pay it almost completely in a year but I did NOTHING else. My significant other came along during that time and lent me the money to make me 100% debt free! Now we live well within our means. We keep our lifestyle low cost, we buy used, we don't have payments on our cars, we save before buying anything (furniture, appliances, vacations, etc.), and we focused the first few years on paying back the house ASAP so now we have no payments except utilities! It was definitely hard and still is because sometimes we just want to buy the things, but seeing everyone our age struggle to make ends meet helps us remember why we do it!

  • @alexandrabirch9365
    @alexandrabirch93652 жыл бұрын

    Nice video like always. I think with aspirational others, picking people who have the aspirational future you want rather than aspirational items you want is helpful. I don't watch KZread of hauls of things I don't need, I watch things like this which is comforting that other people also food budget and work hard for nice things for their family

  • @CoryciaStanley
    @CoryciaStanley2 жыл бұрын

    Love the advice as always!

  • @patriciaburr4826
    @patriciaburr48262 жыл бұрын

    Automate. Different bank for savings. Priceless gems for me. I have a lot if stuff automated and sure does help. My mom unexpectedly went from rehab into long term care and I now have rent to cover and I was not prepared for it as I had been out of work for 2 months with no income. I have a friend who is really good with money has worked up a budget for me. It's going to be tough but I will do what I have to to keep my home. This video came at the perfect time for me to help me get started on automating what I can that I haven't done already like the savings.

  • @margiesvanmori
    @margiesvanmori2 жыл бұрын

    Love these tips! I am moving into my van this year to travel the world and I love the ideas and tips! Thank you for a great video!