On the first point - my mom told me that when we were growing up she would always try to compliment our creative projects by saying "Wow, you worked so hard on that!" instead of "Wow, you're so talented!" to reinforce the idea that she was complimenting our effort and dedication rather than some magical quality we just 'had'. Thank you for sharing!

@BlairLSK

14 күн бұрын

Studies have backed this up. It's called the 'Locus of Control'. A bunch of kids were given problems to solve. They all solved them because they weren't all that hard. Half the group were told they solved them because they were talented. The other half because they had worked hard. They gave all the kids a new set of problems to solve, this time a bit harder. The kids who believed they were talented underperformed. They basically didn't know how to raise their game other than by trusting in their talent. The 'you're a hard worker' group just knew they had to try harder. My experience growing up is kind of the opposite to yours. I was the talented musician in my family ('in my family' being the important relative term here) so I never really got that far with music. Now, I'm a passionate writer who was never given any potentially harmful encouragement. As a result, I write all the time and discover cool channels like these because I don't believe I'm 'better' than anyone, just 'unique' and dedicated to improving.

Reading bad books it what's made me want to write... Only one small note: don't write for your professors and other writers, but don't write for your readers - write for yourself, write the book you want to read, and think how to find your audience after...

@ottz2506

21 күн бұрын

but what is a “bad book”? I’ve seen people refer to some great writers as bad writers who wrote/write bad books.

@the_medievalchick

21 күн бұрын

@@ottz2506 Writing is an art and a craft. The craft has rules. The art is knowing when to apply them. You can love and enjoy a bad book, and still know you are not reading a masterpiece. If you read without thinking about the craft, a bad book is when you find it boring, or characters unlikable, or it doesn't really make sense and gets confusing or irritating... If you read that book with an editorial eye, you'll see why that is... oh, they didn't set this up... oh, that's headhopping... omg, stick to a tense! oh, they said the character is smart, but so far they were not able to follow simple instructions - show, don't tell! oh, they didn't think through the implementation of xyz...

May I add an 11th point? 11. Thinking you're stupid. In my case, I often feel that I'm not good enough to be part of a writing community or that mentors would be wasting their time on me. Low confidence can kill your incentive to work hard and learn or accept criticism just as much as thinking you're the smartest person in the room.

As a British person I cannot understand the concept of "not" repressing emotions. You sound insane to me.

@BenavolutionArt

20 күн бұрын

😂😂 Scottish too.

I don't have any writing friends 🚩

@RoseBooksAndLearning

5 күн бұрын

Same here! So hard to find. Let’s buddy up

Thanks so much for mentioning the 5 vs 10 year plan. I've had a huge struggle with impatience as the years keep ticking by, but I'm glad to hear that 10 years is a reasonable expectation...!!

@hardnewstakenharder

10 күн бұрын

I wrote a short story in the Fall of 2015. The novel length version is expected to be published in Fall 2025 😏 it can be done, just do it right!

Be smart enough to realize you don't know everything, and act accordingly.

@TheDevinMT

20 күн бұрын

"The only true wisdom comes in knowing that you know nothing, So Crates" "Dude... that's us!"

@5Gburn

19 күн бұрын

@@TheDevinMT Party time! Excellent!

@BigMcLargeHuge125

15 күн бұрын

@@TheDevinMThad I a senior quote in high school, this would’ve been it.

Reading/writing romance will help me the most since that is my weakness. As an asexual I lack the attraction that normally compels people to act romantically and brings them together, that's why it is so hard. It is like trying to write about an emotion you do not have, nor are able to experience.

Related to thinking you're smart: Don't assume you can only learn from writers who are as good or better than you. Chances are, you will always find some benefit in sharing your work with reasonably like-minded readers who will catch stylistic flops, structural issues, and other key problems in a manuscript. Unless you're far into a career, with published works at your back, even beginner-to-intermediate writers can find issues you will miss.

@Bookfox

21 күн бұрын

Great point. Because people are always better readers than they are writers, so you can always learn from an outside perspective.

I'm lacking the community and mentorship, that's why I'm here watching your video! =) I started writing ~5 years ago and am polishing up my first novel--took a long time to learn how to actually tell a story. I'm almost 40 yo and understand the long game: I write almost every day and need to set those 5-year etc. plans to be sure I come out of it with something to be proud of--but something at all, like a book(s) people can read!!

Do you count as a writing friend? Are you our mentor? 😂

Excellent advice, and your delivery is stellar and engaging. Mistakes? I think I've made all of them. Patience? I'm 75, and don't have time for patience!

This was aces. Pleeeease make a video on creating a 5-year writing plan? 🙏

@5Gburn

21 күн бұрын

I second that. Also how to add 5 hours to my workdays. 😂

@kraigmeatbicycle1636

19 күн бұрын

Yeah this would be amazing! What does a 5 year plan look like? A 10 year plan?

Excellent advice. Thank you.

One piece of advice my father had told me (and it does apply to most things in life, but he told me it specifically in relation to writing) was: "If you find yourself wanting to just finish your book, then you must stop writing because as soon as you stop enjoying the process, you begin to put in less and less effort and ultimately you lose the passion you once had." As someone who can get impatient very quickly and is easily stressed, it definitely stuck with me and made me more conscious of how I view my work.

John, I've recently started watching your KZread videos, and I am soooo much enjoying them! Your content is excellent, your passion engaging, and your authenticity refreshing... Keep going! You're an inspiration!!! :)

Loved this! For #4, would you consider making a video explaining further the difference between how feedback from other writers is different from feedback from readers?

You are such a wonderful mentor ❤❤

...I need a writing group! And to read a bad book!

@lindacline3122

21 күн бұрын

Me too

You are so right about reading bad books! I love reading local amateur writers who self publish. It’s so much fun finding all 10 of the “10 most common mistakes new authors make” one single book! 😂 having said that you can sometimes find an amazing story hidden in there amongst all the clunkiness.

I am glad I learned to take good constructive criticism when I was younger because when I was in my early twenties, my assistant manager where I worked took me aside and pointed out where I needed to improve. It wasn't until a few months after when I had implemented the changes that he came back and told me I was like a different person in the role and that I was close to being fired for not doing my job properly. If I'd dismissed him and not taken anything he said on board, it would have been a completely different ending for me.

I don't have five friends, much less five writing friends. I sort of have an online mentor. But she's busy writing a five volume series we're waiting for her to finish. And I've been writing since I was 12. At this point, I'm not entirely sure I want more than a handful of readers. But I have two nice reviews on the six volumes that sold ...

I am not going to follow a lot of your very good advice. Everyone else can do that. And like you say, there are millions of them. I’m going to write what I want and if someone else happens to like my writing then great and if not, everyone else’s loss. But I still found your enthusiasm and encouragement really helpful.

good tips I have a few to work on but I never thought of myself as smart emotions are one of the things i write well internal conflict brought on my life going wrong is at the heart of my middle grade novel

plan ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ : Year 0 ( 2024) ; finish planning + Character developing / arch stuff, ✅start work on the first draft ((doing now)) Year 1 + 2(first ish half) (2025 +2026); finish writing the first draft of my comic script Year 2 (latter half) + 3 (2027 + 2028); Refine the first draft of my comic script and start work on character designs, Hopefully finish the comic script Year 4 + 5 (2029 + 2030) ; Finish character designs, start work on the comic, hopefully finish the first third Year 6 + 7 (2031 + 2032); finish the second third of the comic Year 8 + 9 (2033 + 2034); Finish the full comic. Year 10 (2035); Try to get this abomination published; after come up with a new brainfart of a story, then rinse n repeat !!!

The bad book point always stumped me though since every book is going to be someone’s “bad book”. What a bad book is seems to be subjective so I wouldn’t even know what to do with “read bad books” advice. And if the advice giver gives me some suggestions, all they’re giving me is what they think are bad books. Then there are going to be hundreds of people who would disagree and even more who say that the suggested “good books” by the advice giver are actually the bad books.

@5Gburn

21 күн бұрын

You might try books that average 3 stars. There's bound to be some "bad book"-ism in there somewhere.

@ottz2506

21 күн бұрын

@@5Gburn but someone might say 'well this book isn't a bad book to me and doesn't deserve 3 stars' though. I'm trying to see how advice can actually be applied when what is deemed to be a bad book changes depending on the person.

@nathanisaksson

21 күн бұрын

@@ottz2506If you read a ton of books-which you absolutely should do-your instincts about what works and what doesn’t will kick in.

@ottz2506

21 күн бұрын

@@nathanisaksson I've read tons of books. Books that have been praised as classics or given prominent awards, which still people have said are "bad books" and some who will say they're good. Books that people claim pushes misinformation and others claim it presents accurate information. It's sometimes amusing when writers themselves give this advice because, to me, it comes across as if they're saying 'read bad books because if you do, then you'll be as good as me, a writer of objectively true "good books"'.

@nathanisaksson

21 күн бұрын

@@ottz2506 All I can say to that is figure out which books you think are bad, then write a good one.

Who the hell has writing friends?

@Bookfox

21 күн бұрын

*raises hand*

@RayDrawzDragonz

8 күн бұрын

who the hell has friends?

@idunnoalaska5071

4 күн бұрын

Writers

What does a 5 year plan or 10 year plan look like? I'm sure it's not just a list of stuff to write? Like what does it actually contain?

haha i have no friends so i have no writer friends......i will work on that lol

1. lol'! Smart? I have a lot to learn and I need all the help I can get. 2. I've cried, laughed, became angry invested in my story. Wait? What am I doing? This is fiction? Right? 3. Writing a book isn't going to make me millions. I'd be happy with dental implants and Lasic eye surgery. 4. I write for everybody and anybody who wants to read. 5. Read bad books? OK, I know not to do that. Still, respect, we're all learning here. 6. Want to be my friend? 7. Thank you for your video mentorship much respect. Want to be? Ah, never mind. 8. I've been called "tenacious". 9. Slow and steady wins the race. 10. Same genre? That's my mistake. 😮 ooops! Thank you for your video. Your name is Brian Fox? I really like your channel! 👍💥

Paul Auster died recently. So sad. But which book were you talking about? I really liked 4321.

So I'm fucked because I don't personally know a bunch of people who who also write? That's sad. I was hoping all the online information out there would suffice. I prefer to write in English, but I can't go to conventions in Britain or the US, because I live and work in Norway, and my time is limited.

"these 10 mistakes will destroy your writing career." As a writer, I like big words too but to use them in a sentence you should probably know what they mean first. This is probably just your business school showing, because in that field you are doing everything right. point #1 while I do see how knowing that I am smart has made me not work hard in the past, I still know I am and I have found somewhat of a balance between self-love and working hard to achieve my goals that has left me feeling more fulfilled. hindering my ability to take criticism: I do acknowledge that taking criticism is hard, the key is to see the person who is giving it to you as a person (even if they seem less smart than yourself.) And if you need to, step away and come back to the criticism later when you've cooled down and can actually see it for what it is. hindering my drive to read: this plays into the next one so I'll be brief, while I don't read as much as I'd like to the reason isn't because I think I'm too good for it. hindering my ability to learn from others: Part of being a smart person is continuing to learn, there's a really good saying I learned from my dad. "The more you know, the more you know you don't know." There are so many things in the world and you can't be an expert in all of them, but there are experts in even the smallest of sub-genres (to use a writing term) and you can learn from those people. Not to say you can only learn from experts, idiots are some of the best teachers to learn how NOT to do stuff from. With the added bonus of having to figure out how you can do it better, oh look at that very similar to your 5th point. Sorry if this came off as condescending, that might actually be a valid flaw of mine.

Any suggestions on bad books to read?

@evansclan4eva49

21 күн бұрын

Guy N Smith!

What is the worst Paul Auster book you can recommend?

@Bookfox

21 күн бұрын

I really liked the New York Trilogy, but really disliked Sunset Park.

True thing: readers are smart.

1. I am smart, not going to listen further

Anyone wanna be my writing friend? 👀

@bookfox put mistakes list in your video so I can skip to parts of video I find interesting. Not going through 7 minutes. Like your content otherwise.

You talk too fast.

@ogelsmogel

21 күн бұрын

Compared to many other KZreadrs he's a real slow talker.

@Fyrsiel

21 күн бұрын

If you click the Settings on the video, you can slow the playback speed down...!

@anglomik

21 күн бұрын

@@Fyrsiel Thanks!

I love your videos, they are so helpful. Great work