10 Essential Pageant Questions And Sample Answers

These are samples of how to handle the 10 essential questions you need to know how to answer. The chances of you being asked at least one of these questions in your pageant interview are high.
Obviously don't feel like you need to use my answers - yours are going to come across much more natural when you speak from your own direct experience and truth. This video is meant to show you how they could be answered and to get you thinking about how you to prepare for your own interview.

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  • @Chelseattv
    @Chelseattv4 жыл бұрын

    this was honestly incredible.. she spoke so fluently and the answers were spot on!

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’re so sweet - it’s a lot easier to answer when it’s not a real panel of judges 😅 but every person has her own style and way of speaking that the judges want to see... let them fall in love with *you*

  • @johnq4520
    @johnq4520 Жыл бұрын

    This woman isn't just easy on the eyes, she's also talk like a woman who is smart, down to earth and good positive energy. Good video.

  • @Diya-yv1ze
    @Diya-yv1ze3 ай бұрын

    In my school an event was held today and I took help of your video, and I won 🎉🎉

  • @nhatvyvo93
    @nhatvyvo934 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your videos! I love them!! And yes, please do more current event videos!

  • @bmpiersant
    @bmpiersant4 жыл бұрын

    Thank You SO Very much for creating this video! 🙌😁 I have been looking for a video like this on what a sample pageant interview looks like and how to answer questions during interview.

  • @jjmattson
    @jjmattson4 жыл бұрын

    This was so fast! Thank you so much!!

  • @arushithakur7119
    @arushithakur71194 жыл бұрын

    This was truly very helpful!!🌼 Yes, I'm interested in the current events questionnaire. It'll be very helpful if you can make a video on it😄😄❤️

  • @482chandranibasu6
    @482chandranibasu64 жыл бұрын

    This is the video I was looking for . Thank you so much for sharing ♥️

  • @chideramiriamethel5569
    @chideramiriamethel55692 жыл бұрын

    Honestly I wanted to copy exactly what you said😋 you asked us to perish that idea ........and here I am sounding confident and unique in my own words....thank you

  • @richamanandhar1981
    @richamanandhar19814 жыл бұрын

    Loved the content, looking forward to current affair questions.

  • @mousumikuila6621
    @mousumikuila66212 жыл бұрын

    Loved all the answers. I'm so grateful 🙏

  • @cecilliorelucio6695
    @cecilliorelucio66953 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for those amazing answers and ideas. I love your straight to the point and on point messages. Thank you and take care. 😃

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate the nice words, Cecillio! Also I like your name a lot 🥰

  • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
    @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja3 жыл бұрын

    First of all, let me congratulate you on your many achievements. Miss California and Miss America runner-up are majestic achievements. I recently stumbled upon your channel.I love it. However, I believe that many people love your channel for the tips and tricks you share. Not only women but men as well. I myself am a former title-holder of Mister Youth World Indonesia 2018. Perhaps, specialized episode for male pageants would be awesome. Not many channels do that! Regards!

  • @ciattylovesperoni
    @ciattylovesperoni4 жыл бұрын

    What a fun take ahaha! Nice to see how you would respond to questions, it's quite hard to toe the line between personable and professional. Definitely something to practice. Ooh current event questions would definitely love to see that!

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true! And the truth is, I'm a few years out of not having competed in awhile and it's always "easier said than done." The pressure of having real judges would make it v different ofc :)

  • @clarklangilao4814
    @clarklangilao48144 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Crystal. That's why I always watched your video because I want to build beauty camp someday

  • @AkshaySinha29
    @AkshaySinha294 жыл бұрын

    It was really awesome.Your answers were like dynamic approach to the judges.I hope it would help me achieve my dream.🤗🤗

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Anupam thanks for your kind words. It’s a lot easier to answer these without actual judges there and the conditions of a real interview though 😅 For you, as long as you take a deep breath, speak from the heart, and let your natural beauty and charm flow.. you’ll get there

  • @iamestar_
    @iamestar_9 ай бұрын

    you’re a God sent🥺 thank you so much

  • @lgizzy6335
    @lgizzy6335 Жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you, I'm getting ready for Mr South Africa finals and these are helping me a lot.

  • @iiii12345
    @iiii12345 Жыл бұрын

    thank you so much! i’ve always wanted to do pageants, it was the hugest dream of mine that i never tried bc i thought it was impossible. and i still kind of think that, my mom has 7 kids and barley any money 💀 my parents have so much to pay for. we are also moving soon, (in nov) and the pageant i want to sign up for nationals are in summer 2023, which means that not a lot of time to prepare. i also know nothing about pageants, well i do know a lot from social media but no real experience. plus i think my parents would laugh if i told them i wanted to do pageants, they just wouldn’t expect it. i have all my dream pageant dresses, hairstyles, heels, and hairstyles reedy. i’ve been trying to work on my conversation skills. i’ve been working on my walk. i now brush and floss my teeth 4+ times a day, i’ve been learning dance and flexibility. so yes i am trying, but that’s not going to get me nowhere tbh. the only way i can actually make my dream come true is lotsss of money, and even then idk if it would work out, but money is my biggest hope. if anyone wants to help you can donate at least $1,

  • @OMAsvoiceover123
    @OMAsvoiceover123 Жыл бұрын

    Hi, a pleasure to see you and hear from you because I am your fan. This was a nice video that was very helpful. I'm very much interested in the new pageants for 2023. please, I would like you to put me true into a world wide or nation wide pageants. Thanks, Your fan😊😊

  • @katilynbell5979
    @katilynbell59794 жыл бұрын

    How do you handle a judges question that is controversial to your past. Say it is something frowned upon that you regret you did. Especially if it is something that could come back on you as a title holder?

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good question. It depends on how public it is and how much it could be a liability to the image of the organization as a whole. If it’s something you have to get out ahead of, I’d say you stick to your story (honest or otherwise is besides the points. Facts matter less than perception. You want to formulate a consistent story and stay with it.) Is there a particular issue in your past that you’re speaking of? (You can be asking for a friend 😉) I can elaborate more depending on how controversial the topic is.

  • @vanessachenique35
    @vanessachenique354 жыл бұрын

    Love it, I will definitely be interested in current events questions!

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    Noted Vanessa 🙂🙂

  • @kevinnurrizky3225
    @kevinnurrizky3225 Жыл бұрын

    this is what i need to face my next competition. thank you so much

  • @celestialbunny
    @celestialbunny2 ай бұрын

    my pageant is a month away! i am so excited but nervous. i have my gown and everything. i am ready 💓

  • @jeralynjoylumawag4086

    @jeralynjoylumawag4086

    2 ай бұрын

    goodluck, my pageant is on Saturday huhu yet I'm not still ready huhu

  • @hannahmontanerisdrunk2588
    @hannahmontanerisdrunk25882 жыл бұрын

    This video was so helpful! Thanks for this! :D

  • @jessicajeffers6156
    @jessicajeffers61563 жыл бұрын

    Great tips. I would love to hear current events responses as well.

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Noted Jessica! I need to get back into the swing of things - it’s been a whole new world just in the last six months. Are you competing? What system/title?

  • @pythontortilla
    @pythontortilla Жыл бұрын

    Yes current events...but communication superwoman💚

  • @dianascorpionist
    @dianascorpionist4 ай бұрын

    You make it look so easy! I love how you deliver the words so elegantly and confidently 🤍

  • @TamilaSparrow
    @TamilaSparrow3 жыл бұрын

    I love you voice and smile while you're delivering your ideas and messages. It's so smooth I easily fall in love with you, haha. Thank you for sharing tour experience

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aw thank you Tamila! You are gorgeous btw 😍 love your profile pic!!

  • @TamilaSparrow

    @TamilaSparrow

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CrystalClues oh, thank you, sister! So nice to receive it from you

  • @Jasmineeex_
    @Jasmineeex_ Жыл бұрын

    To be honest I'm watching your this video on end time !!!! .... This video helped me alot .... ( How to answer joyfully) and also I'll comment again if any of this question being asked !!! ....

  • @manwangkonyak5439
    @manwangkonyak54394 жыл бұрын

    This is so fascinating 😍😍 I love it😊this is what I was looking for😘 Thank you

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! Thanks for watching :)

  • @Sensiblewellbeing
    @Sensiblewellbeing4 жыл бұрын

    This is a cool idea! I think you should do this or something like it but in asmr style. Like soft voice. Just an idea, but I understand you were giving good, practical advice to real candidates. I like your answers and your thoughts at the end.

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the idea! I need a really high quality mic and a quiet house for that...a girl can dream :P

  • @danithepinkdaisy
    @danithepinkdaisy3 жыл бұрын

    You are so beautiful 💗 just watching the way you smile when you speak brightens my mood.✨✨🤗

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aw shucks Dani, you made my day! Thank you for your positivity and kindness 🥰

  • @generalroy8406
    @generalroy84063 жыл бұрын

    That was awesome, thanks for that. Waiting for more videos 🙏🙏

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks General Roy :) I went through a mad sprint uploading a lot during the pandemic and now that I'm back to work I miss these days...thank you for your support

  • @kimberlyantoine1965
    @kimberlyantoine1965 Жыл бұрын

    Great tips thanks 💕

  • @icysweetsy
    @icysweetsy Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful video.

  • @jsoliven1155
    @jsoliven11554 жыл бұрын

    I really love your inputs thanks so much

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    4 жыл бұрын

    So glad J Soliven

  • @vonnstracy
    @vonnstracy3 жыл бұрын

    Auditioning in less than 11hours. Thanks for this

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    How did it go Vikki?

  • @ishinlanabelle1829
    @ishinlanabelle18293 жыл бұрын

    This will probably help me. Thanks!

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re so welcome Ishin

  • @ayuseryani2900
    @ayuseryani29004 ай бұрын

    Thank you❤

  • @kmelnikovaofficial
    @kmelnikovaofficial2 жыл бұрын

    awsome manner how she is responding

  • @mw2391
    @mw23912 жыл бұрын

    Thank you damn!!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @darkhorse7460
    @darkhorse74602 ай бұрын

    My name really is Crystal, too, so it's funny to hear you say it.

  • @SamanthaBrodrick-bf3ym
    @SamanthaBrodrick-bf3ym Жыл бұрын

    I loveu , thank u so much❤

  • @nnolujekwuchinyere5760
    @nnolujekwuchinyere57604 жыл бұрын

    This is nice 💪🏽✅

  • @gabbieisler5318
    @gabbieisler531810 ай бұрын

    Sometimes, the most AUTHENTIC answer can make u win.

  • @delements19
    @delements193 жыл бұрын

    Yes plz a current events video

  • @betternjoku1607
    @betternjoku16073 жыл бұрын

    Good and I will need to know more. Thanks

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Njoku! It’s on my list to release some about more updated current events :)

  • @poojaspills
    @poojaspills2 жыл бұрын

    Please make a video on how beginners can practice speaking fluently.

  • @steveoffei8208
    @steveoffei8208 Жыл бұрын

    Helpful 💯👏

  • @cherryannebusico7401
    @cherryannebusico74013 жыл бұрын

    I really like the way u spoke confidently. what will be you're answer if you are ask, how can you promote a sustainable tourism despite of this New normal?

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’d personally answer that question in a way that hinges on scientific data to back up lower transmission rates with increased mask-wearing. I’d also talk about how a vaccine and here immunity will help us come back to a new normal. But I was a biology major in college so that’s my gut instinct - to go back to the facts and data :)

  • @sarahjimison6200
    @sarahjimison62006 ай бұрын

    I confess that Jesus is the Son of God.

  • @lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64

    @lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64

    4 ай бұрын

    Amen.

  • @KimAra-fn1vq

    @KimAra-fn1vq

    3 ай бұрын

    Amen💗

  • @Grace_1523

    @Grace_1523

    3 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @rizzaschulze5398
    @rizzaschulze53983 жыл бұрын

    Hi Crystal I'm interested in current events issue, just to make it sure that I have idea on how to do it.

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Rizza, noted! Current events are always changing and I would love to get some sort of newsletter going… but I am based here in the states and what is happening here is not always relevant to other countries. You definitely want to stay on top of what’s happening in your locale. Where are you based?

  • @lnieves8125
    @lnieves81252 жыл бұрын

    H, I am going to compete for Miss Teen Florida USA. I am very shy and my voice is soft, any suggestions? Thanks!

  • @hukaniyepthoyeptho585
    @hukaniyepthoyeptho5852 жыл бұрын

    Yes I am interested

  • @ninzomambi
    @ninzomambi9 ай бұрын

    Am with you

  • @bhavikajiwnani419
    @bhavikajiwnani4192 жыл бұрын

    Thank u ❤️

  • @lekshmimohan70
    @lekshmimohan703 жыл бұрын

    Interested in current events question from you ma'am 😍

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your feedback Lekshmi - I'm overdue for one of these :) It's on my list!

  • @krishnakaur4295
    @krishnakaur42953 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I will love to participate in question and answer event ☺️

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    2 жыл бұрын

    Noted Khrishna! Thanks for the feedback. The world is such a crazy place these days there’s just so much to cover 🥺

  • @kehepeukeyho6321
    @kehepeukeyho63213 жыл бұрын

    Wow very impressive.... 🙂🙂

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you darling! I appreciate the kind comment 🥰

  • @meyloy3358
    @meyloy33583 жыл бұрын

    You are so confident and inspiring to younger generation like me. Thank you so much for sharing 🤍✨

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mey Loy! You’re so welcome, keep up the self improvement and great work!

  • @cynthiachikwasha9426
    @cynthiachikwasha94262 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️wow

  • @TOZYAFIONASMICHELLEASMEYMAY
    @TOZYAFIONASMICHELLEASMEYMAY6 ай бұрын

    i suggestestwhat is leadership and productivity??

  • @cecilliorelucio6695
    @cecilliorelucio66953 жыл бұрын

    Yes I am interested about current event answers.

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see you watching to the very end! 👀 noted - Comments of specific requests like this help me prioritize what video topics to make! Very helpful, thank you

  • @princesscrystal7351
    @princesscrystal73513 жыл бұрын

    Nice.

  • @maddysworld5093
    @maddysworld50933 жыл бұрын

    Thanks ❤

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome love

  • @dorisedward5670
    @dorisedward56702 жыл бұрын

    Wow,I love u crystal.. 😘😘

  • @alizsarina4134
    @alizsarina41343 жыл бұрын

    It's really greaat❤❤

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you dear! Good luck today or tomorrow in your first pageant!

  • @veveygwaynelaylo
    @veveygwaynelaylo2 жыл бұрын

    current events pls 😊

  • @haru_uuuuuu
    @haru_uuuuuu5 ай бұрын

    im an escort of our section and representive of our section for the pageant 😭 i dont know if i can asnwer the questions in english since english is not my first language

  • @trustyourself-ashleyching3646
    @trustyourself-ashleyching36463 жыл бұрын

    Aww, nice!

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😍

  • @gogobebe1887
    @gogobebe18876 ай бұрын

    Do we have to dance or sing in a pageant audition? Like to show our personality? Plz answer me🥺

  • @pratibhakendre5402
    @pratibhakendre54023 жыл бұрын

    Hello ma'am I appreciate your work As you are helping pageant aspirant like me Thank you so much ❤️ Can you please make video on how to improve communication skills

  • @paridhisitlani1521
    @paridhisitlani15213 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful video ma'am...😊 Lots of love from India 😘

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Paridhi ☺️☺️

  • @vyshuvaishali6505
    @vyshuvaishali6505 Жыл бұрын

    WHY DO YOU THINK THAT PEOPLE HAVE A NEGATIVE IMAGE OF PAGEANTRY? Can you pls do a video on this topic

  • @chantebotha_
    @chantebotha_2 жыл бұрын

    Please can you help me with a speech for yhr miss southa africa pageant🙏🏼 entry speech

  • @rhomielyngarciavlog6740
    @rhomielyngarciavlog67402 жыл бұрын

    I ask why do you think you deserve the crown tonight??

  • @Pr_creationn
    @Pr_creationn3 жыл бұрын

    Thank u

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Welcome :)

  • @Pr_creationn

    @Pr_creationn

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CrystalClues in nepal in the beauty pageant there is nepotism in male categorise 😥😥😥

  • @SandraMnguni-nt5ye
    @SandraMnguni-nt5ye Жыл бұрын

    These question are hard😢😮

  • @Bontle_nd
    @Bontle_nd3 ай бұрын

    I want to enter miss teen but I've never been in any pageant competition.do you think I stand a chance

  • @mariacamilla7933

    @mariacamilla7933

    2 ай бұрын

    I’m in the same position hahaha do you have a mentor?

  • @sowakh8026
    @sowakh80262 жыл бұрын

    Really loved it❤

  • @user-tf7dc3jv1m
    @user-tf7dc3jv1m10 ай бұрын

    I can Literally answer any questions in pageantry but the nervousness that i feel makes me forget the words that i need to say in short Mental block

  • @Funny12-m3j
    @Funny12-m3j4 ай бұрын

    Ma'am I need your help right now. The question is what is your current state of gender equality and what can be done to improve it? Give me answer in simple way

  • @Funny12-m3j

    @Funny12-m3j

    4 ай бұрын

    Please ma'am

  • @drsunitaarora9946
    @drsunitaarora99463 жыл бұрын

    hi crystal , may I request for a favour for me by telling more sample question ☺

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Sunita, ahh thank you for the input! I have been meaning to put a new video but I started a new job and it’s been a real struggle to do vids with my schedule now 🙃 That being said, here are some others you can practice with and that are more current events related! 1) how would you rate your country‘s handling of the coronavirus pandemic? 2) if you could wave a magic wand and make anything happen right now what would that be? 3) what dream sponsor would you bring on to support this pageant organization?

  • @thementalhealthpodcast2
    @thementalhealthpodcast23 жыл бұрын

    I am crystal 🥺

  • @vadb5387
    @vadb53872 жыл бұрын

    current events plssss

  • @qlth3620
    @qlth36204 жыл бұрын

    Very useful video for the youth.

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks QL! :)

  • @udosinachiokoye5203
    @udosinachiokoye52033 жыл бұрын

    I'm interested but its in world news please

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s a really good idea! I’ll add global current events to my list :)

  • @sephoramabasa8179
    @sephoramabasa81793 жыл бұрын

    Why is she that beautiful

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    MAKEUP 😝

  • @simtholukhozi9584
    @simtholukhozi9584 Жыл бұрын

    " . "

  • @SoLuVaBle299
    @SoLuVaBle299 Жыл бұрын

    Curious question for all the ladies who compete in pageants from a chick who’s never stepped foot on a beauty stage: why do you compete? It seems like y’all go through a lot to be the best but I don’t really hear anything about what y’all get out of all this other than a title and maybe money? There are no pageant judges here so feel free to be as honest as you want 😅

  • @Timetravel1111
    @Timetravel11113 жыл бұрын

    🍟;)

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah + 🍔 yum yummm

  • @blythsmarchives8559
    @blythsmarchives85593 жыл бұрын

    Can you be my mentor?

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Hann! I started this channel to create a place of learning and mentorship. Thanks for being a part of this community 💕

  • @virreston2722
    @virreston27223 жыл бұрын

    Hello, how you answer this as beauty queen If you have one million pesos to spend in a day, how will you spend it? Why? If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go? Why? If you could go back in time, what year would you travel to? Why?

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is such an open ended question…there are many ways to go about it. But I personally would answer with something about investing it (property, stock market, funding companies, etc) so that in ten years I’ll have 2 million ;) As for where to travel, I would say Mars…so I know whether to invest in Elon Musk 😂

  • @tithisurti258
    @tithisurti2583 жыл бұрын

    Cute as a button every single one of you ......

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aw that’s so adorable ☺️ love the phrase “cute as a button”

  • @princessroxysilverdreams5597
    @princessroxysilverdreams55973 жыл бұрын

    I think I'm in love with you. I have such a question. Is there something you are missing or something you had but you lost it and now you miss it? I thought for a long time about what I miss and I need and I think that I finally discovered it. I'm not sure but I feel in my heart that I could have a love relationship but only a relationship with the girl. I love girls the most and I think that's what I miss. I've been dreaming a lot about my dream girl. She is super postive and cute and so lovly and she needs someone who can protect her and love her and here I am. I've dreamed about her lots of times and If I had a relationship, it would be just this. I would like to protect my girlfriend from the threat as soon as it comes but I would also like make her happy, have a romantic bath together, dinner, shower, shopping. We are happy and smiling girls but when something bad happens, I want to protect her and then maybe I would propose to her on the beach at sunset and then get married. I think I want that kind of life. And you? What do you need? 💋💋💋💋. For you.

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so sweet, I love the vision you’ve created and thought out for yourself. Visualization is super important in ✨manifesting✨ your dreams. I wants had a pageant coach told me to turn all about what it felt every time I want to patch it… The feeling of the lights on my face, the smell of hairspray and dust onstage, the sound of audience applause, and my friends and family cheering with their paper cut-out posters in the far balcony... I think the same techniques can be applied in manifesting your soulmate too. Have you read the book The Secret? It was pretty popular a few years back and that is the central corner of the book. To make room in your life for the things that you want, and to expect it. All human beings deserve happiness and as you grow and have new experiences, trust what you like and who you like. You are also never alone so I’m sure there is a girl out there who is dreaming of you… Now you just have to find her 🔍🔎🔍🔎 For me, I have been undergoing a lot of change in my 20s. Earlier even just a few years ago, I was struggling with needing a lot of external validation and I definitely did not have the confidence and self awareness that I do now to even consider starting a KZread channel. One thing I struggled with in particular was the youth-worshipping culture perpetuated by pageants and mainstream society. When the Miss America program tells you that at 24, you are officially old to be considered the ideal American woman, it really made me fear getting older and aging. But then I hit 25 and it occurred to me that I was not going to let an organization’s rules dictate my self-image. Therefore slowly, combined with life maturity and experiences, I began to let go of the fear that I was losing my youth and started moving into a mode of prioritizing myself and what I saw in myself v what others saw in me. It was really hard at first because I naturally have a performer personality (I’m a classic Leo ♌️ ha!) and I am a total people-pleaser at my core. It led to a lot of emotional roller coasters because one second I was as high as a kite on positive comments left by Internet strangers, and the next moment a mean troll would have me in absolute tears. But I started asking really important questions: How do I build a life around love for others, love for myself, and that brings me fulfillment and joy so that I can be a mirror of those values every waking day of my life? What do I need to do before I have children, if I have children, that makes me feel like a whole human being so that I can be the best mother possible? What gifts have I been given that I ought to share with others? How can I best serve and help people? Who even are these people and how do I reach them, with asking nothing in return? But I feel so liberated now being away from the inner pageant world through COVID. I miss the people and the events of course, but it has forced me to reflect on what I need to do to sleep well at night, on a grander scheme :)

  • @princessroxysilverdreams5597

    @princessroxysilverdreams5597

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CrystalClues You are so lovly and wonderful person. We both can deal with any problem. I believe it. I never heard about that book but I will be interesting in it with pleasure.

  • @xsimplyellex
    @xsimplyellex3 жыл бұрын

    help me i'm shy af :(((

  • @CrystalClues

    @CrystalClues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Over time you will gain confidence. Put yourself out there girl!

  • @sarahjimison6200
    @sarahjimison62006 ай бұрын

    I believe that Jesus is the Son of God.

  • @ivanmosquera6148
    @ivanmosquera61482 жыл бұрын

    really? Very basic and poorly answers. No wonder why she never won

  • @Oak7565

    @Oak7565

    Жыл бұрын

    She's won a state pageant and a cultural pageant prior to that. These are all sample answers like she said in the video Please don't be rude

  • @princessroxyvincenzo9880
    @princessroxyvincenzo98803 жыл бұрын

    Nice.

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