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10 BEST Questions to Start a Conversation with a BEAUTIFUL Woman! (That DON'T SUCK)

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Do you like turtles? I like turtles. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness, and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM iamalpham.com/ AaronMarino ht... & Pedro peteandpedro.com/ Tiege Hanley www.tiege.com/and ENEMY https... the ability to start conversations is a super power. And if you can do it with a spicy senorita, even better! Practice on people who you are not trying to impress; simply engage people to practice, because the more you practice, the easier it's going to be. It will end up free flowing.
EASY WAYS TO START CONVERSATIONS
1. Ask for a restaurant recommendation -- this question is low pressure and an easy way to get the conversation started. You'll get a question back, and it's an amazing way to learn about the person.
2. Ask if they've been here/there before and what they recommend -- the person can give their opinion, and you can follow-up with other questions.
3. Ask about the location (are you from around here, did you grow up around here, do you live here) -- then you can ask follow-up questions which lets them go deep about the area.
4. At an event or party, ask how they know the host or another attendee -- easy and low pressure.
5. Ask if they are glad that it's Friday -- direct and follow-up questions flow easily.
6. Ask about their music -- music is an easy way to connect to someone.
7. Ask what's on the agenda today/weekend -- the word 'agenda' quirky, playful, and fun.
8. Ask what their story is -- you will see them smile as it's playful. And the cool thing is they'll take it to wherever they want to go.
9. Give someone a compliment (what they are wearing or doing but nothing about them physically) -- instantly this person will like you more and also make them feel better about themselves.
10. Ask if you know each other, met before, or know you from -- it's the perfect time to introduce yourself and ask them their name.
DEEPER QUESTIONS
++ Ask what is their best quality or trait -- you can then follow-up what is their worst quality or trait. They'll get talking about themselves.
++ Ask who they respect the most -- this person could be someone they know personally or even someone famous.
++ Ask if they had unlimited money, what would they do with it.
++ Ask what is the best gift they have ever received -- the answer will give a sneak peek into their past, and it's about connecting with a positive emotion.
++ Ask what is their most amazing accomplishment or most proud of achieving -- you can find out what they value and what they've accomplished.

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  • @alpham
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  • @jameskegley4006

    @jameskegley4006

    3 жыл бұрын

    No

  • @Astro_Kashi

    @Astro_Kashi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Now that is the kind of video I need.Thanks

  • @HorrorWorldx

    @HorrorWorldx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Airpods > Raycons

  • @savagegang611

    @savagegang611

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your money hungry

  • @rickyjohnson1342

    @rickyjohnson1342

    3 жыл бұрын

    Covid hit texting is new way of life tell us how to be the best at that

  • @piercingdeceit4206
    @piercingdeceit42063 жыл бұрын

    Pro tip: Don't start a conversation. Just slip that spicy senorita a Pete & Pedro discount code

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    That is a fact

  • @wegotbrent
    @wegotbrent3 жыл бұрын

    You: "Hey are those raycons?" Her: "I have a boyfriend"

  • @sourishlr2744

    @sourishlr2744

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣

  • @mrsae2

    @mrsae2

    3 жыл бұрын

    You: is he Ray J

  • @justaconcrete4789

    @justaconcrete4789

    3 жыл бұрын

    Rip this video

  • @crazyhercules9442

    @crazyhercules9442

    3 жыл бұрын

    “Does HE have a pair of raycons??”

  • @HorrorWorldx

    @HorrorWorldx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn

  • @mohammadfarazkhan4038
    @mohammadfarazkhan40383 жыл бұрын

    He's back with his original Alpha topics😎😎😎😎

  • @prithvisaklani2994

    @prithvisaklani2994

    3 жыл бұрын

    I felt that

  • @XX-ld7hw

    @XX-ld7hw

    3 жыл бұрын

    We all knew he wasn't going anywhere

  • @quinnmallory9025

    @quinnmallory9025

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes! life advice from a gremlin! better write write some notes!!!! but idk he’s kinda embarrassing… an alpha but not Sigma? ew. none of us women want you 🤢 so weak 😭🤮🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @quinnmallory9025

    @quinnmallory9025

    3 жыл бұрын

    if u can’t tell btw i’m making fun of u

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah he is

  • @holycrapitsjake_
    @holycrapitsjake_3 жыл бұрын

    Me: "hey are you from around here?" Her: "yes" Me: "oh...cool." awkward silence

  • @hakonv8642

    @hakonv8642

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dead lol

  • @bm-bilalkhan7901

    @bm-bilalkhan7901

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @jacdaniels4039

    @jacdaniels4039

    3 жыл бұрын

    *FATALITY*

  • @jnetwork3232

    @jnetwork3232

    3 жыл бұрын

    FINISH HIM

  • @drpython2729

    @drpython2729

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fishie Him

  • @neodaltiair8624
    @neodaltiair86243 жыл бұрын

    Notice how it’s all simple conversation, no flashy goofy pickup artist tricks.

  • @HorrorWorldx

    @HorrorWorldx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @akhtars9602

    @akhtars9602

    3 жыл бұрын

    Alpha suggest things so near to reality✅

  • @georgeross4384
    @georgeross43843 жыл бұрын

    I know a guy that would go up to a girl that is clearly younger than him, at least 10 years younger. He would say "don't I know you from somewhere". Then he would look at her and say "oh yeah we went to high school together" and she would look at him like I don't think so. Then he would say "you probably don't remember me, you were a cool senior when I was only a dorky freshman". This would always get her to laugh and the conversation was started. I saw him do it at least 4-5 times.

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Okay 😊

  • @AumariUniversity
    @AumariUniversity3 жыл бұрын

    Honestly I think my conversation skills portray me as friendly and "just a friend" so this video might be helpful

  • @sanjayraju988
    @sanjayraju9883 жыл бұрын

    Me: “So what’s on the agenda today?” Her: “Who are you and why are you talking to me!?”

  • @artemtsarevskiy2785

    @artemtsarevskiy2785

    3 жыл бұрын

    **pulls out agent identification card**

  • @martinwakefield8138

    @martinwakefield8138

    3 жыл бұрын

    truth

  • @albertoacevedo9513
    @albertoacevedo95133 жыл бұрын

    Best convo starter: Hey... I’ve been trying to reach you about your cars extended warranty.

  • @AlexGoldie
    @AlexGoldie3 жыл бұрын

    Weddings are always difficult. Great points! I’ve recently done a video on how to deal with SOCIAL ANXIETY which will compliment these openers great.

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes they are

  • @greysea4841
    @greysea48413 жыл бұрын

    Me: hey you know of any good restaurants around here? Her: I don’t eat

  • @sebisman
    @sebisman3 жыл бұрын

    I know this is aimed to talk to girls, but as an introvert having trouble talking to people, I think this is good advice to just start reaching people overall. Thanks a lot man!

  • @yoelicon7283

    @yoelicon7283

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wishing You The Best Outcome Goodluck!!

  • @sgsbhinder

    @sgsbhinder

    2 жыл бұрын

    so how did it went

  • @sebisman

    @sebisman

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sgsbhinder It's been good!

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    So who did it wint ?

  • @sebisman

    @sebisman

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TravisAndrews-lb1kk It's been good so far

  • @emeka_samuel
    @emeka_samuel3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot alpha Finally I can reduce boring convos and know who really is intuitive among the ladies in my circle ⭕️

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Same her bro

  • @gauravtrital7020
    @gauravtrital70203 жыл бұрын

    What a timing!! I JUST NEEDED THIS!! MY MAN READS MIND!!

  • @lamechjacob1277

    @lamechjacob1277

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @ujjwalsingh8502

    @ujjwalsingh8502

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @tbonemerndez2169
    @tbonemerndez21693 жыл бұрын

    The way alpha brought in the raycons sponsor ...absolutely phenomenal 😂😂🔥

  • @TheAspiring
    @TheAspiring3 жыл бұрын

    Been watching you for years, always a good day when you upload :)

  • @lucaszavaluentie4855
    @lucaszavaluentie48553 жыл бұрын

    Yo Alpha, I am ready to kick the days you know what, and try these new lines. Thank you!

  • @amgdeg4897
    @amgdeg48973 жыл бұрын

    this video is actually amazing , especially for us with little to no social skills , I really wish he would make more videos like this , not like his other videos are bad but its just this one is the top of the top because how I think , it doesn't matter if you are the most interesting person in the world , if you don't know how to start / keep a conversation going people are going to assume you are boring and we don't want that

  • @Ronin-kk4bt

    @Ronin-kk4bt

    3 жыл бұрын

    One thing that has helped me is the question doesn’t have to be too specific just ask questions that you actually want to know. By doing that you will be more comfortable and it won’t be forced then the rest is just listening to their other person and giving your thoughts on what they’re saying. Don’t worry about running out of things to say just talk and if you don’t have any more just end it and maybe get the persons number so you can talk some more.

  • @amgdeg4897

    @amgdeg4897

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Ronin-kk4bt thanks , I usually run out of things to say , or have something to say but don't know how to bring it up from the current conversation that is going nowhere

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope he does?

  • @Anime.Reality
    @Anime.Reality3 жыл бұрын

    Just in time I needed this. And after alpha releasing 10 videos after he apologized. Those videos were legend and just what I needed

  • @mikedoyle7300
    @mikedoyle73003 жыл бұрын

    This guy is great. It's hilarious how he shamelessly plugs the merchandise. Makes me laugh.

  • @gabrielharris65
    @gabrielharris653 жыл бұрын

    One of the best videos I have seen! Plus the way u put that Raycon promotion was just awesome!

  • @ohblackwater
    @ohblackwater2 жыл бұрын

    Practice with people who don't matter...that's a gold statement. So true.

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah

  • @paranoidreggie53
    @paranoidreggie533 жыл бұрын

    for me I play dumb to start a conversation, because how they respond will tell you a lot about their character, and knowing their answer before they even say it, It's almost like talking to yourself, but that's just me.

  • @Josh-qw3ew
    @Josh-qw3ew3 жыл бұрын

    In our most connected time it really goes to show how much we’ve fallen off socially that there’s videos on how to start conversation with people

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes it does

  • @enginesexplained24
    @enginesexplained243 жыл бұрын

    He's back!♥️

  • @rickoconnell3645
    @rickoconnell36453 жыл бұрын

    Alpha M giving me life advice is like playing gta with cheat codes. Keep it up brotha!

  • @user-gb8kg9cf7n
    @user-gb8kg9cf7n3 жыл бұрын

    I am impressed, i didnt even see that sponser coming. Keep it up Alpha.

  • @CRYPTIX561
    @CRYPTIX5613 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Aaron! I’ve been meaning to pose this question for a video topic but you but me to it! Well played.

  • @srinivasrohit119
    @srinivasrohit1193 жыл бұрын

    Right video at the right time! Thanks Alpha❤️

  • @ocho8402
    @ocho84023 жыл бұрын

    Talk about great timing lmao ! I Needed this one .

  • @charlesrinehart9782
    @charlesrinehart97823 жыл бұрын

    Just don’t use the “I’m not from around here” if you are actually from there. They’ll call you on your lie later 🤣

  • @MometTheGreat
    @MometTheGreat3 жыл бұрын

    Most people don't wnat to talk anymore, especially woman. Do not overinvest into conversation into people who have no interest.

  • @Ronin-kk4bt

    @Ronin-kk4bt

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with that to some degree you kinda of have to read the room if you know that shes a low interest girl best to move on to the next one. But sometimes it’s best to at least talk to a few of them to find out if they at least click with you

  • @mr.sherwolff9921
    @mr.sherwolff99213 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant video alpha 👏 we needed this.

  • @sptsuna
    @sptsuna3 жыл бұрын

    Man I needed this video so bad thanks Alpha M 🙏 love the new content keep up the good work 👍

  • @beadsofjupiter6263
    @beadsofjupiter62633 жыл бұрын

    Not sure how to thank alpha. Two years ago I had low self esteem, no confidence, and an ugly outlook on life. After watching alpha, Jim Rohn, Tony Robbins, and Les brown I changed my life around(360). Everything happens for a reason and alpha played a part in my life change. I found my twin flame a few weeks ago and I know if I wouldn’t have watched alpha m, I wouldn’t of been able to be myself. I may of used a few tricks alpha has taught but it’s all about confidence. I will Never be able to thank alpha enough! Confidence, confidence, confidence!!!

  • @smidy
    @smidy3 жыл бұрын

    doesn't matter what question you pick, just make sure you have an answer to that same question for when they throw it back at you

  • @191.
    @191.3 жыл бұрын

    1:00 "You wanna know what I like to eat?" HAHAHA 😆 GOOD ONE!

  • @kamalkr2756
    @kamalkr27563 жыл бұрын

    i have been watching your videos for a long time now and its nice to see that you are back on track . ;)

  • @rudolf_1074
    @rudolf_10743 жыл бұрын

    ALPHA is back with Awesome Vid!!

  • @suranakshay
    @suranakshay3 жыл бұрын

    Me in real life: Have you ever had a dream where u do u I do u u could do u want u to u would you could do anything…

  • @iwant007
    @iwant0073 жыл бұрын

    One of the best videos you've ever made finally, just wish it didn't have a sponsor, 3 of 5 are good

  • @JamesMovingTarget
    @JamesMovingTarget3 жыл бұрын

    This is actually super useful, keep it up !

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes it is

  • @danielm3006
    @danielm3006 Жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah brotha love the energy 👍🔥🔥

  • @nikhilhandique100
    @nikhilhandique1003 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video alpha

  • @samuelgalbreath445
    @samuelgalbreath4453 жыл бұрын

    "Hey excuse me theirs something wrong with my phone.....it dissent have your number in it" its crazy how this has actually worked for me

  • @geshanrajaguru2659
    @geshanrajaguru26593 жыл бұрын

    Never stop posting Alpha 🍁🎈

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech3 жыл бұрын

    These are great conversation ideas in general. Wow!

  • @namanchoudhary633
    @namanchoudhary6333 жыл бұрын

    Someone was posting a video THE END I'm stopping, and here you're agin!

  • @giovannisanchez869
    @giovannisanchez8693 жыл бұрын

    I swear alpha reads my mind. Love your vids btw

  • @trevoranderson9511
    @trevoranderson9511 Жыл бұрын

    Love his energy it gives me confidence and hype

  • @sergejban2024
    @sergejban20243 жыл бұрын

    Can you do more of this and like sliding in DMs and small talk with women and how to transition it in to deeper talk,btw love your vids been watching them for 5 years now they changed me 💪

  • @simon-di7xt
    @simon-di7xt3 жыл бұрын

    3:38 just a normal thing on every alpha m videos and i loved it

  • @mais3181
    @mais31813 жыл бұрын

    Man, god bless you, its just what i was looking for

  • @edwincabrera6768
    @edwincabrera67683 жыл бұрын

    Another great video alpha!

  • @williamlamboy8386
    @williamlamboy83863 жыл бұрын

    Hey Aaron! Would you consider doing Alpha M Project videos again? I absolutely LOVED it!

  • @PrestonLions3
    @PrestonLions33 жыл бұрын

    other great conversation starters is ask a girl a Question if she takes any Tiege Hanley, if she does she is she is one of subscribers from Alpha M

  • @keljerel
    @keljerel3 жыл бұрын

    Guys, it’s all about PRACTICE. How do you get better at doing something? By doing it over and over again. Like he said practice on people you have no intentions of dating. That’s how you get better!

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    I have ben practicen talking to girls at my work

  • @mellymelshaves
    @mellymelshaves3 жыл бұрын

    5th! Watching from Beautiful Pensacola, Florida! Have a great weekend my brother!!

  • @chriswinnin
    @chriswinnin3 жыл бұрын

    I am so happy you are back to presenting helpful videos. Thank you Alpha :)

  • @faithscott696

    @faithscott696

    Жыл бұрын

    Beta

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Beta

  • @tippy195
    @tippy1953 жыл бұрын

    Great tips Alpha!!!

  • @jimcoady9981
    @jimcoady99813 жыл бұрын

    Me: I really like your Raycons. Her: Thanks I just got them done.

  • @Peteristrate
    @Peteristrate3 жыл бұрын

    The "do I know you from somewhere" question definitely doesn't work and comes across as creepy. Usually, you get a reply as "Nooooo!!!!!?" while they step back, frown and look at you head to toe, then turn around whispering "creep!" :)) But the other questions are good, indeed, except the "what you're listening to"(unless you're in a gym).

  • @rajalstudent1436
    @rajalstudent14363 жыл бұрын

    Loved it Alpha ❤️

  • @markbrownthebrownfamily8883
    @markbrownthebrownfamily88833 жыл бұрын

    Aaron never left, and I live Aaron. Thank you Aaron for Teige Hanley and Pete And Pedro wow I love your products. Also love your bracelets at Enemy. 👍👍👍👍✌️👊 you and your companies are smashing it👊👊

  • @zak9364
    @zak93643 жыл бұрын

    This is a great video kinda exactly what I needed lol

  • @rowanfrady5649
    @rowanfrady56493 жыл бұрын

    I would maybe disagree about the compliment. Even avoiding the more sleazy ones, delivery is important.

  • @ricardosavva5675
    @ricardosavva56753 жыл бұрын

    Welcome back pal 🙏

  • @originalfarzi2337
    @originalfarzi23373 жыл бұрын

    We really needed this 😂😂

  • @arslaan9009
    @arslaan90093 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so very much alpha!

  • @rufertsoncheever
    @rufertsoncheever2 жыл бұрын

    This guy is the best sales talker I've ever heard

  • @cjabueg6371
    @cjabueg63713 жыл бұрын

    Everyone's cool uncle posted a video again so I must watch

  • @funkyiron3482
    @funkyiron34823 жыл бұрын

    Hey Aaron,I love your videos and could you please make a video on how to control nightfall and please share your experience if you ever experienced it,please it's a humble request 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @gavynstarr
    @gavynstarr3 жыл бұрын

    Alpha M you savage🙏🏻

  • @youssefhegy
    @youssefhegy3 жыл бұрын

    Alpha the conversation master

  • @danielgadzhev7879
    @danielgadzhev78793 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video!Very useful.Man i thing your amazing!

  • @JoanAlvarez-Coaching
    @JoanAlvarez-Coaching3 жыл бұрын

    He's BACK!!!!!!!!

  • @daylightjungle3070
    @daylightjungle30703 жыл бұрын

    Good idea

  • @shivamsahota4668
    @shivamsahota46683 жыл бұрын

    Im will follow your previous advise. Start your broming game. That think is killer. People should come to talk with you . That is alpha Style !!!!

  • @christian140
    @christian1403 жыл бұрын

    Hey alpha awesome video

  • @adilahmed5280
    @adilahmed52803 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much uncle for this video 😉

  • @husseinkato320
    @husseinkato3203 жыл бұрын

    Yoo thanks Alpha

  • @AlanElChato
    @AlanElChato3 жыл бұрын

    Tips that I might never use hahaha But I just enjoy hearing ya!

  • @dineshvarma9045
    @dineshvarma90453 жыл бұрын

    Amazing man

  • @captainx5379
    @captainx53793 жыл бұрын

    Do a live QnA dude 💯❤🎇

  • @graham1188
    @graham11883 жыл бұрын

    Ask her if she wants to get a puppy with you, it starts the conversation, it makes her laugh, and of course she wants to get a puppy

  • @palestineadesanaya7231
    @palestineadesanaya72313 жыл бұрын

    Me: So what's your story She: Do I look like a poet to you??

  • @minuszan
    @minuszan3 жыл бұрын

    Me, a girl,watching this: Ah yes the perfect video for me

  • @harshitpratik
    @harshitpratik3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot Alpha.

  • @bykez4rhil
    @bykez4rhil3 жыл бұрын

    I like how most of these don't work in small towns where you know everybody and we all go to the same places.

  • @ScottN18
    @ScottN183 жыл бұрын

    I need this for tonight

  • @dhananjaykulkarni1674
    @dhananjaykulkarni16743 жыл бұрын

    Alpha u r amazing ❤️.... Try to add subtitles 👍

  • @rushabhsolankkii
    @rushabhsolankkii3 жыл бұрын

    The compliment shit really works great!!

  • @user-to5tk2zt6h
    @user-to5tk2zt6h3 жыл бұрын

    I need to write these down lol

  • @user-tk6qo1sd2z
    @user-tk6qo1sd2z3 жыл бұрын

    Hey alpha love you're videos and just a quick question is teige Hanley good for teen too?

  • @DanteLikesRock
    @DanteLikesRock3 жыл бұрын

    Alphas the type of guy to jam loud music while making business deals on the phone

  • @waldo3448
    @waldo34483 жыл бұрын

    modern dating is like job interview, make sure to bring your lawyer with you

  • @dylankeighran7463
    @dylankeighran74633 жыл бұрын

    Hey alpha, I’m going on my first date ever next week and was wondering if we could get a “what to do on a first date” video thanks in advance

  • @saulgoodman4451
    @saulgoodman44513 жыл бұрын

    I thought this was a video from a year ago for the first half of the video 😂 glad you changing up the content back to the original stuff. You think a “what to do a mad not to do in a first date” would be a good video?

  • @user-wn9wv2hp4g
    @user-wn9wv2hp4g3 жыл бұрын

    Hats off bro .💜