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  • @Jesslovely1992
    @Jesslovely1992Ай бұрын

    It might sound weird, but watching you cry over how happy you are with your life with your husband and children makes me so happy. I used to watch you cry over heartbreak and not being able to get pregnant and wishing so badly to have this life. You made it Trisha. Congratulations girl. I am so happy for you.

  • @amberevol

    @amberevol

    Ай бұрын

    right! I wish I could give her a hug 😭❤️

  • @user-ox7xy8ng6r

    @user-ox7xy8ng6r

    Ай бұрын

    Yes I remember all the crap you went thru it is all worth it now isn't it. Proud of you Trish. I remember when you use to sit in front of your little chair at you tiny apartment with your stripper pole lol showing us your clothes and make up hauls. You have came along way baby. Proud of you little mama.

  • @watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691

    @watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691

    Ай бұрын

    She's so very gratefu for her whole life & family. She deserves it all. Wow! Most people have a hard time being grateful. Probably bc of stresses of work & just life too.

  • @heatherhicks903

    @heatherhicks903

    Ай бұрын

    I love you Trish your such a great momma I’ve been watching you since day one girl your such a wonderful wife and all your dreams came true I’m so happy for you Moses is a wonderful husband and father love you guys ❤️

  • @jamie505

    @jamie505

    Ай бұрын

    Right?! So mind blowing when you’ve been a long time follower. She achieved everything she wanted to and I remember seeing hate comments saying thank god she doesn’t have kids and just seeing her now is amazing. She proved those people wrong. Such a loving mom and a great wife.

  • @CymbaletteJaneMS
    @CymbaletteJaneMSАй бұрын

    "50 more years together isn't enough" Aww Trisha ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @BAN87612

    @BAN87612

    Ай бұрын

    I know, that got me too! Your comment is the only one I saw about it though. ❤

  • @trishah2145

    @trishah2145

    Ай бұрын

    It brought me to tears 😢❤❤❤❤ ugh I’m so happy for Trish and her beautiful family

  • @novineux1246

    @novineux1246

    Ай бұрын

    where did she say that?

  • @angelamanalo9414

    @angelamanalo9414

    Ай бұрын

    23:03 ❤

  • @emilykaelin9947
    @emilykaelin9947Ай бұрын

    Not literally Malibu doing fake dishes on one side of the sink and Trish doing real dishes on the other. That is so cute. I'm going to die

  • @terminator2girl

    @terminator2girl

    Ай бұрын

    Please dont die you have so much to live for

  • @kelligirl1210

    @kelligirl1210

    Ай бұрын

    She’s going to be the best big sister 💞

  • @moderator7169

    @moderator7169

    Ай бұрын

    It's a bruise. From a needle. It's not that deep😊

  • @JustJenn1982-zp6qh

    @JustJenn1982-zp6qh

    Ай бұрын

    Literally the cutest little Mommy/Daughter duo ❤

  • @susie9010
    @susie9010Ай бұрын

    You are a wonderful mother and I can relate to this so much! My daughter just turned 13 and my suggestion to you is live in the moment because you can't plan for tomorrow. One thing I will say is not to mention weight around your daughters ever. Don't call yourself fat or skinny and don't say that you can't eat something, etc... girls are so prone to eating disorders! I have taught my daughter from a young age to love everyone no matter their weight, the way they look, etc.... and that everyone needs a friend. I can say that she has turned out to be a beautiful little human and loves everyone! You are awesome Trish .... I love this era!

  • @Kenzi24

    @Kenzi24

    Ай бұрын

    Great advice!!!

  • @mangotango2399

    @mangotango2399

    Ай бұрын

    omg this!! my mom commented on her “small boobs” my entire life. my grandma has DDs, my mom has Bs, & I literally can’t even fill a bra, I’m an AA. boys at school said things & the media talked about breast sizes a lot but that compounded with my moms comments on herself & made me believe it internally so hard. personal comments indeed do rub off on kiddos!! 🩷🩷 practice the things you want them to believe!!

  • @whatever-gm6tm

    @whatever-gm6tm

    Ай бұрын

    My seven year old starting having body dysmorphia from seeing eugenia cooney

  • @kelligirl1210

    @kelligirl1210

    Ай бұрын

    @@whatever-gm6tmhow did she see Eugenia Cooney at 7 years old enough to make an impact on her?

  • @vanessakleinart
    @vanessakleinartАй бұрын

    i think it’s cute how trish asks where people like the signatures :”) you can just tell she rlly values the patrons

  • @aaliyahparker7548

    @aaliyahparker7548

    Ай бұрын

    my favorite thing. she is so sweet🎀

  • @kevinprudente

    @kevinprudente

    Ай бұрын

    beep

  • @kevinprudente

    @kevinprudente

    Ай бұрын

    Li Hu

  • @omfgkk

    @omfgkk

    Ай бұрын

    She could scribble on It and I would still love It🤣❤️

  • @mangotango2399

    @mangotango2399

    Ай бұрын

    she truly loves her fans which feels so rare these days!!

  • @slackjaw2643
    @slackjaw2643Ай бұрын

    Elvis was born the same day Priscilla was born!!!!! Omg!!!!!!

  • @mollie86805

    @mollie86805

    Ай бұрын

    I thought she gave birth on the 31st not the 24th...??

  • @zs.small522

    @zs.small522

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@mollie86805 she gave birth on the 24th! she confirmed it on her podcast :)

  • @scarlettefraley2021

    @scarlettefraley2021

    Ай бұрын

    @@mollie86805nope! her scheduled c-section was for the 24th💕

  • @firecrystal13

    @firecrystal13

    Ай бұрын

    That’s so cool !

  • @emizawn

    @emizawn

    Ай бұрын

    @@mollie86805no elvis was born the 24th

  • @sammyt3465
    @sammyt3465Ай бұрын

    Trish crying about how happy she is that she has Moses and this life made me tear up I’m so happy for you Trish🩷🩷🩷

  • @cboven18
    @cboven18Ай бұрын

    Girl , you're making me tear up 😢the love who have for Moses. He's a wonderful guy who is blessed by 3 ladies. Im beyond happy for you. i have been a subscriber for 16 years, and you have grown so much and have changed for the better . God bless you all .

  • @rubir1197

    @rubir1197

    Ай бұрын

    Same I watched her literally manifest this life she's always wanted. I'm in tears

  • @laurabull7096

    @laurabull7096

    Ай бұрын

    Moses and Trisha are so blessed to have found each other and have their beautiful girls. It is the most inspiring story arch to date 🥹💖

  • @alexusk97

    @alexusk97

    Ай бұрын

    I'm so curious on what his parents were like. He's such an amazing guy. Setting such a good example for his little girls , they won't accept less than they deserve. ❤

  • @wendyfan8071

    @wendyfan8071

    Ай бұрын

    ​@rubir1197 right??!😊

  • @Lynnee808
    @Lynnee808Ай бұрын

    I don’t think I’ll ever get tired of you talking about how grateful you are for your husband and babies🥺 I love how appreciative you are, you are so deserving of this love Trish 🤍

  • @mccartney6404
    @mccartney6404Ай бұрын

    I always encourage new moms to stay off of tik tok. There are so many people who use fear and tragedy to drive clicks and it’s disgusting. We aren’t meant to know everyone’s misfortune. It zaps so much joy from our lives. Sometimes it can be helpful for info I suppose, but the amount of misinformation or anomalies is HUGE. Being a mom and doing it right is hard but the best thing there is :) Being home with your child is something you will never regret.

  • @mangotango2399

    @mangotango2399

    Ай бұрын

    wow, beautiful words & amazing advice here. I’m not even a mom & I needed this. 🩷 thank you!

  • @mccartney6404

    @mccartney6404

    Ай бұрын

    @@mangotango2399 it’s sometimes so easy to get sucked into the vortex but our human brains are just not wired to take on as much as we do. It’s no wonder so many of us are anxious and exhausted all the time. It’s so good to stay focused on who and what really matters and give them attention and only then when you have time left over, spend it on strangers online. And I mean that in a nice way. Ha!

  • @pinkerdroit

    @pinkerdroit

    18 күн бұрын

    🎯💯🎯 Truth.

  • @Jlynnlynn
    @JlynnlynnАй бұрын

    The belly wrap/brace can help so much with back pain. Once you put it on stick your hand down it and underwear to your lower belly and gently pull the skin,fat,everything upward just a bit and omg it feels so supportive ahhhh

  • @Divineethereality
    @DivineetherealityАй бұрын

    So happy for you guys!

  • @joybrown8488
    @joybrown8488Ай бұрын

    I know people have made fun of Moses for the way he loves you, but the Bible says the husband should love their wife like Christ loves the church, laying their life down for her. He is that for you and your family! I’m am so glad to see you blessed.

  • @rm665

    @rm665

    Ай бұрын

    moses isnt christian

  • @myahmazal

    @myahmazal

    Ай бұрын

    He’s jewish

  • @MM-ik2du

    @MM-ik2du

    Ай бұрын

    Idk who makes fun of him for loving Trisha but go off

  • @Rebbyoski

    @Rebbyoski

    Ай бұрын

    @@MM-ik2duright I’ve never seen any comments suggesting that before. That’s crazy

  • @justinarcher5699

    @justinarcher5699

    Ай бұрын

    @@rm665and? This still applies?

  • @xoamnii
    @xoamniiАй бұрын

    TRISHA!!! you think you hair is frizzy but you’re actually a curly girl mama, stop brushing your hair straight to dry !

  • @amberevol

    @amberevol

    Ай бұрын

    I bet she looks gorgeous w her natural curls too!!

  • @user-se4vi8do1w

    @user-se4vi8do1w

    Ай бұрын

    Yes! You need products to support this, probably moisture products.

  • @heygladysmejia

    @heygladysmejia

    Ай бұрын

    Trish Rizos Curls curl crème and sea salt spray is amazing!!

  • @LosezDAUGHTER

    @LosezDAUGHTER

    Ай бұрын

    Omg right that’s why its so thick

  • @user-se4vi8do1w

    @user-se4vi8do1w

    Ай бұрын

    @@heygladysmejia love it!

  • @gunitaz3842
    @gunitaz3842Ай бұрын

    god her voice is so chill and I know it's probably because she just gave birth but she seems actually happy and overwhelmed with joy right now. none of that fake voice she used to do. she's just so proud of herself and we can all tell

  • @annikadudley
    @annikadudleyАй бұрын

    from crying on the kitchen floor to happy tears cuddling with elvis

  • @rachelcookson3492
    @rachelcookson3492Ай бұрын

    As a mom of two, here’s a little tip; include Malibu with the baby, like if you are changing her diaper…ask Malibu to get the diaper etc. it will help her feel included.

  • @xgracexmollyxelizax
    @xgracexmollyxelizaxАй бұрын

    my sister and i are 3 years apart and when i was little i always wanted a little sibling but now that we’re adults i am soooo grateful my parents just had us two. it’s like having your built in bestie!

  • @ariker00
    @ariker00Ай бұрын

    7:56 "you have your body back.. but what does that mean?" is so real i'm 3 weeks postpartum and it's been crazy between hormones and and everything else, thank you for this ❤

  • @MadisonWestfield

    @MadisonWestfield

    Ай бұрын

    I feel the same! I am almost 8’weeks PP. Take it day by day.

  • @tinaroberts135

    @tinaroberts135

    Ай бұрын

    Girl I’m 3 weeks post partum too! IN THE THICK OF IT

  • @sophiamarie3558
    @sophiamarie3558Ай бұрын

    I am someone who babysits lots of kids and it’s very very common for parents to hang around the house while I’m babysitting at the beginning to make sure they like me and how I act with their kids. If a childcare worker is being weird about you watching them that’s a big red flag. If you’re really worried about it you can get cameras too and make it clear that you’re always watching even when you’re not around. I can see how it’s stressful but any good childcare provider will put your mind at ease when you see them interact with your kids. You got this Trisha and you know what’s right for your family!!

  • @Kiracuddlepanda
    @KiracuddlepandaАй бұрын

    Getting induced in 14 days with my first baby and I’m terrified! So happy yours went smoothly and you are both healthy and thriving. 💕

  • @mayaaathemewer

    @mayaaathemewer

    Ай бұрын

    good luck girly, you are going to do amazing 💕💕

  • @Daedgnivildlo

    @Daedgnivildlo

    Ай бұрын

    You're going to do great! Had my first 9 months ago, and was terrified. The epidural is a God sent 🙏😂

  • @jac884

    @jac884

    Ай бұрын

    You are stronger than you think, your body is made for this. I had an elective induction one year ago. My delivery/labor was textbook perfect. Buckle up bc you’re about to completely change. The minute you hold your baby you are changed forever, in the best way possible.

  • @BAN87612

    @BAN87612

    Ай бұрын

    Congratulations! You will do great momma! ❤

  • @caitiecatcreates

    @caitiecatcreates

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck! And remember that no matter if you get to labor naturally or it ends in c-section, you're still going to be an amazing mother! Sometimes things can happen and you may need a c section (you may not) and just understand that sometimes our bodies don't always react how we think they will with birth. People never tell you to prepare for everything. I wish someone would have told me, so I'm telling you! You're going to do great! Congratulations by the way.

  • @alishasmith4358
    @alishasmith4358Ай бұрын

    I've had three c-sections and I have never had anything like that from my epidurals. That's crazy how it looks on your back. That is seriously some of the worst pain I've ever felt was having the epidural. They had to restick me multiple times and it was painful. Not forget the burning sensation in your back. And then they tell you not to tense up which really annoys me because it's hard not to tense up when a needle is going through your back and it's burning. You are stunning after having a baby. I always looked like a hot mess and I still look that way. I had my last baby which was a girl, back in September and I now have two boys and a girl. I never thought I would have a daughter and finally, she came. Both of your children are stunning and honestly, I love their names. I love unique and different names. That's what I was looking for when naming my children. Congratulations to you and Moses.

  • @RhianAutumn

    @RhianAutumn

    Ай бұрын

    Yes I’ve had two and neither had that happen! Hopefully there’s no leak. It’d be so painful

  • @alishasmith4358

    @alishasmith4358

    Ай бұрын

    @@RhianAutumn it blows my mind how she is just up and about because her back looks like it would be very painful to even lay on.

  • @Julescoming

    @Julescoming

    Ай бұрын

    I had a bruise like that after my epidural - I think it depends a lot on how you’re laying during birth

  • @Lady_Gandalf

    @Lady_Gandalf

    Ай бұрын

    I've had two and it looked like that. If they have to rethread it then it bruises and it can leak or pool the medication. I still get ghost pains months later

  • @stephaniemansoor2803

    @stephaniemansoor2803

    Ай бұрын

    @@alishasmith4358 and to be home 28 hours after a c section and be so good moving around!😮 I had 2 sections, 4 kids and I couldn’t do that she’s superhuman

  • @meganb1282
    @meganb1282Ай бұрын

    Oh the hormonal shifts after delivery. 🥺 i remember those. Being so happy, but so sad... overwhelmed with emotions. It's a rollercoaster. It took probably 2 months to get through that rough part and adjust. Finding a routine helped, and actually a therapist helped me realize my up and down emotiona were OK!! It's a huge event my body went through, and adjusting to a new human is tough. I felt so normal after that.. because i saw my friends who seemed so perfect. Truth is, they just hid it better than i did.

  • @pippasouthern8760
    @pippasouthern8760Ай бұрын

    Don’t rush back into work Trisha we completely understand if you need time off xxx

  • @haleywillingham1876
    @haleywillingham1876Ай бұрын

    As a fellow mom I also have tremendous fears of leaving my kids with a sitter or daycare. I have two girls that are 3 and 6! Your feelings are totally normal and valid! I have severe anxiety and paranoia and the only people I even 100% completely trust to watch my girls are their dad and my mom. I always fear the worst. Me and my fiance never even get to go out and do date nights or anything together because I’m just too scared of letting someone babysit them. Even with my mom I just feel like a burden asking her to watch them. On the rare occasion that I do go out I worry about my kids the entire time. Sorry for the venting and long-winded comment but I just wanted you to know that you’re not alone and you are a great mother and the girls are lucky to have you!

  • @krisdawnsimpson-voss181
    @krisdawnsimpson-voss181Ай бұрын

    Trisha you aren’t a “poster child” for anything you are an INSPIRATION. I am 25. I have gone through so much. I see so much of myself in you. And truly you inspire me. And make me feel like maybe it is possible to eventually find love and eventually have children. I love how much you have grown and how you’ve become this stellar woman.

  • @serenagilbert1483

    @serenagilbert1483

    Ай бұрын

    this!!! it makes me so sad she thought those tik toks had that negative "if trisha can anyone can" connotation like she was saying!! She literally is an inspiration and beacon of hope for all of us who are struggling with depression/mental health and feeling like there's no light at the end of the tunnel sometimes

  • @faeylathistledown
    @faeylathistledownАй бұрын

    Elvis looking up at her mommy after getting kisses from Trish is making me hold back sobbing, but HAPPY SOBBING!

  • @emmabfar
    @emmabfarАй бұрын

    You don't HAVE to trust people with your kids!!! Trust your intuition. I'm with my children 24/7 almost & almost 5 years in. I will be homeschooling my kids as well, but my kids are SOOO SOCIAL.

  • @haleywhitten1947

    @haleywhitten1947

    Ай бұрын

    It’s amazing that we have such great options like schooling co ops, and activities like play groups and sports or classes 🩷 homeschool kids are actually in my opinion more pure and kind because they are subject to so much BS by other kids. They’re polite and well adjusted because they get to enjoy the WORLD vs just these mean kids and school setting. You’re doing an amazing thing and I intend on homeschooling my children when and if I have them one day 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @haleywhitten1947

    @haleywhitten1947

    Ай бұрын

    ARENT subject to BS **** sorry

  • @emmabfar

    @emmabfar

    Ай бұрын

    @@haleywhitten1947 homeschool kids are statistically rated higher in many different ways

  • @lees_box
    @lees_boxАй бұрын

    Hey Trisha, I'm not sure if you've ever been really normally cuddly with Malibu on a day-to-day basis, but it crossed my mind while watching this video while I was thinking on how she may be processing the new baby, that she will be seeing lots of cuddles (what she translates as cuddles) between you and the new baby, so to try to minimize any type of low-lying developing internalized resentment, maybe make sure to give her a few cuddles of her own while Daddy holds the baby, you maybe are anyway, but thought I would mention it to be on the safe side. Cuddles with her Mommy at this early point in time will reduce the chance of any resentment that the new baby is getting lots of cuddles from you and make her feel more secure and balanced when she gets body contact with Mommy too. It's not just attention from you she needs, she's seeing cuddles to a new person, this is new to her, hopefully she gets some from Mommy too while Daddy takes Elvis and lets the both of you hug each other with no baby, and Malibu gets you all to herself in a way she really understands at her age. It's really important for the future Malibu that she doesn't feel left out, and physical contact between you and Elvis is something she is seeing loads of right now, so all I'm saying is a bunch of cuddles for her on her own with no baby there should do the trick. (Sorry really long winded here but I wanted to make sure I got the point across properly.) Really happy for the 4 of you, you deserve it. Hugs. Lee.

  • @alishaprice8760

    @alishaprice8760

    Ай бұрын

    or have malibu cuddle on your other side! when elvis is a month or so malibu can lay down with her

  • @lees_box

    @lees_box

    Ай бұрын

    @@alishaprice8760 I know what you mean, but I think Malibu really needs to feel she has the same treatment as her sister which is cuddles ***just for her*** from her mother like she sees her new sister getting right now. I'm thinking of it like I'm under 2 years old and can't process and reason like an adult. The last thing anyone wants is her resenting her sister into the future because of some unconscious thing she felt when she was 1.5 years old and over-reacting at what she thought was happening. Even a cuddle of her own here and there would probably go toward defusing anything like that.

  • @ahearttoascend

    @ahearttoascend

    Ай бұрын

    Trish understands what to do. She's a super amazing mom.💜

  • @operachicken869
    @operachicken869Ай бұрын

    My friends name is Elvis. She WAS the only girl named Elvis that I knew. Such epic names for both your babies! Trish, I love your journey. You are finally getting all that you deserve. Praise God!! I had my last baby (completely unplanned and the blessing of my life ) at 40! She is 18months now. :) Loved being pregnant with you and Malibu. Anywho, lay down flat (if you can) and wrap the binder as tight as you can get it. ;) Love you girl!

  • @misskitty1977

    @misskitty1977

    Ай бұрын

    I always loved the name Delta Dawn as well ♥️ How cool if Trisha and Moses hired a photographer in Memphis after the baby is a few months old and they did a photoshoor outside the gates of Graceland? They could stay at the Graceland hotel as well

  • @CarissaK3709
    @CarissaK3709Ай бұрын

    Trish, sweetness 🫶🏼 I’m so proud of you. Motherhood looks so damn gorgeous on you! Please stop worrying about all the things because before you know it the stress of being a mama is gone, the sounds will be silent, your body will be all yours again and you will long for most of these moments back. You DONT have to love or even like every part, but you do need to love & respect yourself through all of it. You are in your own life journey as we all are so please don’t succumb to the LA pressures. You never thought you’d have ONE baby and here you are with two and the most incredible man! YOU EARNED ALL OF THIS! Sit with that! Everything is different because your life is a miracle. You have been THROUGH it in life. You are now out of it and on the other side. Keep being amazing and being unapologetically YOU! Thank you for sharing and never apologize for crying 🫶🏼💛 Congratulations again to your new beautiful family of 4!

  • @Princessxtulip
    @PrincessxtulipАй бұрын

    Ngl i really enjoy that Trisha talks to Malibu like a Human Child and not baby talk or minimize what shes trying to convey even if its complex

  • @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz

    @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz

    Ай бұрын

    You need help. She’s a baby child? Tf you talking about?

  • @BrionyAlanaMillard

    @BrionyAlanaMillard

    Ай бұрын

    @@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gzwhy does she need help? She’s basically saying that she likes that she speaks to her on a level that isn’t patronising ect..

  • @stackblack2616

    @stackblack2616

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gzBelieve it or not treating your children like humans and not property is good for them, and yeah you can baby talk as long as it's not patronizing. Hope this helps booboo.

  • @blanca.weigel
    @blanca.weigelАй бұрын

    I was the same about leaving my kids with anyone, even family. Then I had to have spinal surgery and had no choice but I was on eggshells while I was in hospital for 3 days. But now that I’m a disabled single mum I have no choice but I was really fortunate to find incredible ladies.

  • @pnknplays
    @pnknplaysАй бұрын

    I totally understand the bullying anxieties! It’s a reason I’m struggling with deciding to have kids. But now, you are so lucky! Because Malibu and Elvis have best friends in each other for the rest of their lives! Even when you and Moses aren’t around, they’ll have each other to turn to, whether they go through problems at school or later in life, they always have each other. ❤

  • @watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691

    @watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691

    Ай бұрын

    Bullying is just about jealousy. People see something so good in you that they think they don't have or ever will have. But when you did the work tone a better person. It's so horrible for someone to come around in one day & try & tear it all down. It's not ok & I am against bullying in any way shape or form.we as a society tolerate it & we really shouldn't.

  • @a13x626
    @a13x626Ай бұрын

    I like the signature in the corner!! The picture is soooo pretty❤️❤️

  • @ForgiatoMami

    @ForgiatoMami

    Ай бұрын

    def corner looks best agreed

  • @jennifergray1619

    @jennifergray1619

    Ай бұрын

    Same!! Corner is my favorite

  • @melinatrejo2450
    @melinatrejo2450Ай бұрын

    I saw something about "letting go of the idea of trust" because we are all flawed human beings, there won't be one person who constantly meets your needs and won't make any mistakes in your life. It is more about "who are the people you feel comfortable with" people who make you feel safe, etc.

  • @LosezDAUGHTER

    @LosezDAUGHTER

    Ай бұрын

    Wow when a comment changes your life

  • @SusieColmenero
    @SusieColmeneroАй бұрын

    Yes mija! Wear the binder. I had my bby boy (premature) in March (you and I were due date twins❤) and I didn’t wear mine because I was back and forth to NICU and my other babies, now my back and belly feel so sore STILL! With my last baby I wore it religiously and healed quicker and less painful in the long run. I’m so happy for your little family ❤

  • @haleywhitten1947
    @haleywhitten1947Ай бұрын

    Ooh show ideas: little bear, Franklin, bear in the big blue house, Winnie the Pooh, dragon tales. The old school shows and movies are great because they aren’t overstimulating in a bad way. They’re interactive and calm

  • @TheAneleH
    @TheAneleHАй бұрын

    Dear Trish, feeling like it's been forever since I started following your life journey. From sitting down in your old apt showing us your hello hitty collection, to you going through rough time a few years ago to this.. It also feels like it was a second. I'm typing this in a way to describe how time really is relative and it all seems long and sometimes hard, but when you see some positive results, it can be so fulfilling and quick. Seeing your happy tears and how much you adore and appreciate your husband is beyond beautiful. You always had so much love to offer. You were always so loving but that love wouldn't come back. And now you're getting it back and you probably feel so overwhelmed which is expected. All I want to say is that I'm so proud of you. Not because you created family (which I really admire), but because you never gave up on searching your true meaning of love and happiness. When you said you want to keep Malibu innocent and pure and kind... life will throw many things at you, like it did on you, but you should see yourself from our eyes. You are pure and kind even tho going through so much! So I doubt Malibu and Elvis will ever loose their kindness. We are all trying to protect our inner child and we continue to do that through the rest of our lives. And I'm sure your girls will to, with the help of their amazing parents. Moses is such a loving, kind, pure soul. You are too. You together will raise your kids to be better version of yourselves. I understand your fear, but looking and hearing both of you, your kids will grow up to be kind and loving. I sincerely hope I get what you have. Yours truly, Helena

  • @TheAneleH

    @TheAneleH

    Ай бұрын

    "blndsundoll4mj +TheHelenaPatek well said, love. it DOES get scary. it's why i've refrained from posting too many trolling videos. not worth it. it was my creative outlet combining both my passions and fears and i think it turned into an interesting piece. this was so well written and i appreciate you taking the time to do so. sending you lots of love and light" This was your answer on one of my comments 10 years ago. I still remember it like it was yesterday. Crazy!

  • @daniellerodgers6493
    @daniellerodgers6493Ай бұрын

    I feel like Elvis really brought out your “loving mother” side even more! ❤

  • @MonaeGloTelevision
    @MonaeGloTelevisionАй бұрын

    I love the way you speak about Moses. You are all so blessed!

  • @franff6176
    @franff6176Ай бұрын

    So happy for you. From crying in rhe kitchen to healing with yr family. That young grrrl from IL w stars in her eyes became that Mom with so much love in her heart. Wishing you all the best.

  • @lauragamello560
    @lauragamello560Ай бұрын

    I just want to add as well. Day three for me was the worst ever. I went through day three an emotional wreck. I mean I know people go through things for a long time after that but for me, it was day three and four that hit the hardest. Hormones! I got through those and then it started to get better. I just wanted to put that out there. I have had four children. The first was natural, the second was twins by C-section, and the fourth was natural. I still had those 3 to 4 days of total wondering what the fuck I was doing, and it passed. I hope it does for you because I know for some it doesn’t. I just wanted to tell you that. Congratulations on your new baby girl. She’s beautiful and your family is beautiful. Enjoy everything!

  • @EmmaAus
    @EmmaAusАй бұрын

    *THINGS TO WATCH IDEAS* for Malibu with you guys - *Studio Ghibli* - English dubbed obviously - Great for kids/adults alike - Feel good, entertaining, with good messages etc. Plus great cosplay ideas etc. Start with *'Howls Moving Castle' or Laputa - Castle in the Sky* ❤ Vegetales, sesame street, Playschool, Winnie the Poo, Rupert Bear etc for Malibu, but they're not as great for us adults lol - *Studio Ghibli* is more so stuff you'd both like ❤ (I really would try Bluey too, I know you're hesitant, but its great) - Or look up age appropriate mermade shows... Her wanting to be a little water baby would fill Moses' heart even more :-p Congrats so much on Elvis!! So nice you're having such present time together as a family ❤🌻🌈☀️

  • @LosezDAUGHTER

    @LosezDAUGHTER

    Ай бұрын

    Does anyone know if they actually watch the Barbie movies ? Lol

  • @sanazlol7433

    @sanazlol7433

    29 күн бұрын

    Adding on to the studio Ghibli recs, I watched Kiki’s delivery service as a kid and absolutely fell in love with it. I still watch or put it in the background every once in a while and get reminded of just how amazing it truly is.

  • @celinebellon5259

    @celinebellon5259

    26 күн бұрын

    I showed my son all these movies when he was little and he still loves them now at 15.i love studio Ghibli

  • @TamARaPOrtEr1
    @TamARaPOrtEr1Ай бұрын

    Thank you for being so open!! I'm expecting my first baby and super excited!!!! Im thankful you're sharing because I want to know what to kind of expect after giving birth ❤

  • @Ohsheisfire2012
    @Ohsheisfire2012Ай бұрын

    Congratulations Trisha!! Being a mother is definitely your calling, such a beautiful family 🫶🏼

  • @vannah0411
    @vannah0411Ай бұрын

    Trish I am so amazed at the utterly phenomenal mom you have transitioned into being. Your experience with Malibu’s newborn time is so relatable to so many out there and the way you have committed to a different experience for yourself and your family this time around is so beautiful. Thank you for showing the struggles of life, love, and motherhood. Your evolution has been one we are all so so privileged to have seen first hand. I LOVE this phase of life for you! Congrats on baby Elvis🩷

  • @hazelwormwood
    @hazelwormwoodАй бұрын

    Aww Trish! I'm crying along with you and don't even have hormones to blame 😂 I totally understand the heartbreak of knowing you are so lucky, and the awareness and worry that things could change and stuff. It's so hard to be in the moment when your mind is full of worry and what ifs. Keep meditating and try to enjoy the happiness!! You deserve it!

  • @kyliesloan6804
    @kyliesloan6804Ай бұрын

    Crying with Trisha as she talks about mose & their love. It’s so sweet !!!

  • @rennierad
    @rennieradАй бұрын

    It's hard to believe you're a mother of two daughters. You've come a long way beautiful. Congratulations! ❤💕🌹

  • @user-lv9ff8ro1q

    @user-lv9ff8ro1q

    Ай бұрын

    I know she shouldn't be.There should be a law on getting your mental health checked before destroying another life.

  • @rennierad

    @rennierad

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-lv9ff8ro1q I know she shouldn't be. What the fu*k am I supposed to do with that? There should be a law before a dingbat comes on KZread and leaves such a gross disgusting message. I banish you from my world. BLOCK!

  • @maylynnemacmillan3262

    @maylynnemacmillan3262

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-lv9ff8ro1q what's wrong with you and Trish ihas changed and wtf destioying another life as you can see you a good mom and have you been hiding under a rock her first daughter is doing fine and you are nothing but a hater you no nothing about the person she is today so grow back under the rock you came from she's not destroying anything

  • @Fuchsiafaefantasy

    @Fuchsiafaefantasy

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-lv9ff8ro1qmaking an anonymous channel just to comment on all her videos is CRAZY. I can literally see all your comments when i click on your profile. Thats pathetic. Plus you're putting money in her pocket.

  • @ellereid6708

    @ellereid6708

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-lv9ff8ro1qgo sell some more pampered chef queen

  • @alyssam5529
    @alyssam5529Ай бұрын

    one thing to remember about caregivers and all that is that it’s also super important for kids to learn how to behave around adults that are not their parents. it helps with social cues, manners, and all of that!

  • @MiaSonoma
    @MiaSonomaАй бұрын

    Get DVDs of old tv shows that are sweet and harmless, have good morals and don't flash images that damage their innocents. Andy Griffith Show, Brady Bunch, Happy Days. Just happy to be alive stuff without drama - babies don't need emotional manipulation visually or audibly. And it's fun to watch the stuff we did in reruns after school lol. Just keep it sweet, u will sleep better too. Mazel tov on the new baby 😘

  • @BAN87612

    @BAN87612

    Ай бұрын

    The I Love Lucy show was awesome too! I love the DVD collection of this show and watch it all the time. So wholesome and funny as well. Nothing complicated, just innocent fun! Love your comment! ❤

  • @Nakushita1215
    @Nakushita1215Ай бұрын

    Thank so you much for such a real look into your life, feels like just chatting with a sister while you were getting ready post shower

  • @KristenSwain-ye7mb
    @KristenSwain-ye7mbАй бұрын

    You are going to be crying out of the blue for a while. It's awesome that you are being cautious about baby blues, but don't forget to give yourself some grace. Your hormones are going to be all over the place for a few months. Your body just did something miraculous. 💜🙏💜

  • @someoneanyone365
    @someoneanyone365Ай бұрын

    I’m not a crier. Sweet Trish, your last 2 videos had me bawling 😭 After watching you for almost 2 decades, I can not express how deeply happy and proud I am of you💕 your story is so beautiful, we love you and your growing family Trish🥰🌈

  • @tinaroberts135
    @tinaroberts135Ай бұрын

    Girl our babies are a week apart. We are in the thick of it. I’m feeling everything you do.

  • @suomynonaanonymous
    @suomynonaanonymousАй бұрын

    I just lovee these vlogs its like talking to a friend ! Elvis is sooooo cute!

  • @leilanihenry8645
    @leilanihenry8645Ай бұрын

    Omg I absolutely love!! Elvis is so so so adorable😭💕 I remember when my baby was born last year in December me and her were watching your podcast together now she is almost 6 months the newborn snuggles are literally the best I miss them so much😔 but I totally know what u mean by in the hospital it just feels good to be home. I remember the feeling I had when I came home I was like “ why didn’t I just say I wanted to come sooner” but as a new mom I was low key scared to go home with her lol but a huggggeee congratulations!!!🎉🎉 giving you guys so much love ❤❤

  • @rebeccaroark6800
    @rebeccaroark6800Ай бұрын

    This felt so REAL!! I love you Trisha for being so open and real!❤

  • @bobobush420
    @bobobush420Ай бұрын

    ur smile at the end is absolutely everything 😭 what a beautiful way to end this video. you had me sobbing when you were talking about moses. WELCOME BABY ELVIS!!

  • @Heather12878
    @Heather12878Ай бұрын

    Definitely making me tear up! Thanks so much for sharing this journey and being vulnerable with your followers. I’m glad you’re taking time to spend with family and away from social media. I’m glad though that you are sharing all sides of what pregnancy and birth is like. I’m childless and I hope to one day have children but it definitely seems like a scary process lol so watching you sharing this just helps to normalize how women can experience different pregnancies and postpartum. Don’t change Trisha we love you for you!!!!

  • @chaylihowell8092
    @chaylihowell8092Ай бұрын

    trisha you’re making me cryyy with the “these are the days” part. i’m glad elvis made it ok and y’all are doing great 🩷

  • @jessicao.8028
    @jessicao.8028Ай бұрын

    You are such a beautiful mother, Trisha. This season of life is amazing to watch. Thank you for allowing us to be apart of your family’s lives!!

  • @Baconbits888
    @Baconbits888Ай бұрын

    You're glowing Trisha✨️

  • @jeannabeckman7424
    @jeannabeckman7424Ай бұрын

    Hell yeah and almost one hour long video tbh I've been letting her podcast episodes pile up bec I get bored without watching her 😂💜

  • @stormk.9355
    @stormk.9355Ай бұрын

    if you get a babysitter (daycare, school, etc) that the kids love, to them it just feels like a playdate and the time goes by so fast for them 43:00

  • @pyao

    @pyao

    Ай бұрын

    I was super clingy to my mom but when I made a couple friends at school I was so relieved and learned a lot by socializing outside of the family in a protected space, big agree

  • @theblackschaos
    @theblackschaosАй бұрын

    Trish you’re doing amazing! You’re literally superwomen, mom, wife! You just had major surgery!!! Your family is precious! ❤

  • @HeatherBDentureDiVa
    @HeatherBDentureDiVaАй бұрын

    I had two emergency c sections bc I can't dilate and man is it hard to heal from. But no one ever spoke about postpartum am I actually had kids with was like suck it up your fine. I'm 38 and my sons are 18 & 14. So it was hard to go through alone but did pushed myself got back to my original body quickly bc I was the only one who actually worked so hard to go back early. I wish I had support and I'm glad men see how hard it is and show care and there is way more support now for women then when I had kids

  • @peterpumpkin7745
    @peterpumpkin7745Ай бұрын

    This is literally making me crazy of happiness. Love seeing Trishas journey continue!

  • @margaridavale7
    @margaridavale7Ай бұрын

    Im so happy for you! Wish you all the best 🤍

  • @AliHamel
    @AliHamelАй бұрын

    Love this, and you, so much. Due in September with #3, my other two are 11 and 14…. Wild. But have loved watching you in this journey while I’ve been going through it too, a bit behind. Your vulnerability is always so refreshing and inspiring. Xoxoxo

  • @alexismp3087
    @alexismp3087Ай бұрын

    The same thing happened to me with my spinal in my second c section, they put it in the wrong spot and had to do it again and I still have pain, definitely be vocal if it continues to hurt. Congratulations and welcome to the world baby Elvis!!

  • @emilykarson4382
    @emilykarson4382Ай бұрын

    You’re such a good mom! I look up to you so much!!!!!! 🤍

  • @glaciergang
    @glaciergangАй бұрын

    you can already tell how much Elvis loves her mommy omg

  • @beth1627
    @beth1627Ай бұрын

    Nice video! Elvis and Malibu are so cute. My cousin had a rule that always made so much sense to me. She never left her kids with anyone except immediate family before they could talk and tell her if something bad had happened. I followed this with my daughter and thought it was great advice.

  • @dahliathebarista03
    @dahliathebarista03Ай бұрын

    The way she is absolutely glowing. She is beyond gorgeous and you can tell she is happy and grateful.

  • @lordemmavoldemort
    @lordemmavoldemortАй бұрын

    congrats trish!!! i’ve never been happier for someone ❤

  • @jordeebair
    @jordeebairАй бұрын

    Watching you grow and become a wonderful mom and find the love you always wanted is magical

  • @christinegallagi4234
    @christinegallagi4234Ай бұрын

    You're a strong mama!!!!! I just gave birth on Friday and the post partum experience is so amazing and scary. It definitely is so important to have support from family. I'm trying to tell myself it's okay to have help!

  • @jjaannae
    @jjaannaeАй бұрын

    You’re blessed. I’m insanely happy for you. Being able to see your journey Trish brings me joy. God knew what he was doing. Love you

  • @ashlielenhoff3624
    @ashlielenhoff3624Ай бұрын

    I'm so happy for you Trish. You found your life partner and you have your family.

  • @lulushondast.
    @lulushondast.Ай бұрын

    Happy to see that you and the baby made it through again. I would love to hear the story time.

  • @harrietgrib
    @harrietgribАй бұрын

    Trisha: are you helping mummy??? 😍🥲❤️ Malibu: 😐😐😐

  • @PatrickkSteele
    @PatrickkSteeleАй бұрын

    Baby Elvis was born the same day as Priscilla Presley!!

  • @bnnyjay

    @bnnyjay

    Ай бұрын

    i knoww i was like wow her name elvis and shes a gemini like priscilla😭 icon

  • @Annanicholek7
    @Annanicholek7Ай бұрын

    I’m sooooooooooooooo happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Literally I am stunned by your growth and I am very proud of you!!!!!!!! Been watching since I’ve been 14! 13 years ago!

  • @tri-kit
    @tri-kitАй бұрын

    Hey Trisha!!! I'm 20, I live in Sacramento, and I currently work as a part time nanny for a family of 2 girls! Their mom works from home as well, so if I ever need help or the kids want a hug from thier mama, it's no trouble for them to communicate. I think when I started, I had so much fear over messing up or making a mistake that could loose the trust of my employers, but overtime, I came to love and care for their children in an inexplicable capacity and would protect them before myself in any situation. It can be hard at first finding the right person, and I completely understand your reservations, but I have hope that you can find the perfect person for you and your girls who will love them just as much as they deserve❤❤❤❤

  • @mrs.tomcollins2424
    @mrs.tomcollins2424Ай бұрын

    I’m literally halfway through this beautiful vlog, bawling. I’m so happy for you Trish. Your love for Moses and Malibu and now Elvis, it’s so special and evident, it shines. Thank you for sharing with us, such special Memories ❤

  • @AustinBrie
    @AustinBrieАй бұрын

    I wanna see Trisha try a curly hair routine! I bet her natural hair texture would look so good on her!

  • @WaterBottleBlues10127
    @WaterBottleBlues10127Ай бұрын

    Gracie’s Corner on KZread is a fun interactive channel for kids. They learn about numbers and letters etc. Highly recommended.

  • @heatherette2008
    @heatherette2008Ай бұрын

    I am so glad you have Moses to support you, Trish. Your body has done so much the past 10 months, just remember this time is for your body to heal & recover. That's physically, emotionally all the -lly's there are! Take your showers, eat your food, drink your water (we know you're good about that) and try to just be gentle with yourself as the whole family adjusts from going from a family of 3 to a family of 4. Congratulations! All the things you dreamed of on the kitchen floor came true for you 💖💖💖💖

  • @Kaynature
    @KaynatureАй бұрын

    Trisha holding elvis was sooo adorable at 17:34 wasso cute!!

  • @isabelmiller-martin2848
    @isabelmiller-martin2848Ай бұрын

    I had my baby May 2nd vag birth and yess the patience I didn’t realize I would need waiting for my body to heal!!! My vag still has pain and my hips are tight. I worked out during my pregnancy but it became hard. The pressure I feel down there working out now is crazy. We truly need to be more informed about the post partum body healing. It’s such a huge thing bc not only are you healing but you’re trying to take care of a whole new life. The combo is the hardest I’ve ever experienced and I’ve done some hard stuff before

  • @user-se4vi8do1w

    @user-se4vi8do1w

    Ай бұрын

    I remember watching how there are people who help women heal post-partum in Asia, using traditional methods and it seemed so amazing! I wish we had that in western world more often.

  • @sdl5731
    @sdl5731Ай бұрын

    I wouldn’t use a sitter or daycare unless necessary.

  • @jackjekyll1186
    @jackjekyll1186Ай бұрын

    Congrats mama! Yall are a beautiful family. You’re so strong! I’m so happy for you. *OG fan here* also the darker hair looks so good on you

  • @hanahburen4062
    @hanahburen4062Ай бұрын

    I think this is my all time favorite video of yours. Something about it just so comforting and reassuring. Never stop being raw & real Trish!!

  • @abcxyz8787
    @abcxyz8787Ай бұрын

    I hope that Moses finds time to be with Elvis and form with her the same strong connection he formed with Malibu. I know it's hard because he also has to be a lot with Malibu who must have a hard time realizing that she has to share her parents' attention and love now with Elvis, so I guess she really needs Moses now, but I hope Moses manages to give enough time and love to Elvis as well.

  • @westcoastorbust2462

    @westcoastorbust2462

    Ай бұрын

    He will. They can switch babies often.

  • @maddieluu2277
    @maddieluu2277Ай бұрын

    I’m soooo happy for her ❤

  • @907Tia
    @907TiaАй бұрын

    Omg yes!! Way more confident and less anxiety with my second as well. More able to enjoy the newborn stage the second time around.

  • @lauragamello560
    @lauragamello560Ай бұрын

    Omg. You made me cry. I had the baby blues at about day three or four with all four of my kids. Baby girl is beautiful and so is the rest of your family. Give yourself time and enjoy. And you know what? Certain days you might not. You might feel sad but that’s all part of your hormones adjusting and what not. It’s so new into the whole thing. You will settle, hormones will settle, and everything will be good. Keep up the good work mama.

  • @brenda4085
    @brenda4085Ай бұрын

    I have a really stupid question? Why would someone want pictures of Trisha? No less ones of her pregnant. I don't get it I guess.