#1 Con For Being A Handsome Man

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  • @AustinDunhamVlogs
    @AustinDunhamVlogs11 ай бұрын

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  • @gray3182

    @gray3182

    11 ай бұрын

    Nice Deflection ninja 😂

  • @blackcoder5449

    @blackcoder5449

    9 ай бұрын

    Bro if you disagree with women they will think you’re gay you can’t escape it homie

  • @leoneltorres4442

    @leoneltorres4442

    9 ай бұрын

    YOU'RE A VERY HANDSOME MAN 😘

  • @michaeldavis6993

    @michaeldavis6993

    8 ай бұрын

    I thought everyone cared about their appearance and was working on it. The depth of my misconception is severe.

  • @toproforugames8937

    @toproforugames8937

    5 ай бұрын

    no not if you smile and dask ouit a girl

  • @tlungu962
    @tlungu96211 ай бұрын

    For me, the #1 con is women always thinking u are a player even when u tryna be serious w/em. So annoying 🙄

  • @JEMANF

    @JEMANF

    11 ай бұрын

    Straight facts

  • @commiezombie2477

    @commiezombie2477

    11 ай бұрын

    That's not annoying. That's a plus.

  • @DezTheStar2

    @DezTheStar2

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@commiezombie2477ikr

  • @Bryte_101

    @Bryte_101

    11 ай бұрын

    story of my life, women have trust issues when it comes to attractive men

  • @commiezombie2477

    @commiezombie2477

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Bryte_101 If she's a little jealous it's a turn on, but when she over the top jealous that shit is stressful.

  • @marcarchangel6199
    @marcarchangel619911 ай бұрын

    No cap, I had multiple guys telling me that taking care of yourself properly is a feminine trait lol

  • @nick.charaz9661

    @nick.charaz9661

    11 ай бұрын

    Ik they musty

  • @25-8

    @25-8

    11 ай бұрын

    They are jealous of you that's why

  • @qasimimtiaz9668

    @qasimimtiaz9668

    11 ай бұрын

    caring about too much about how you look is feminine

  • @bruce4563

    @bruce4563

    11 ай бұрын

    @@qasimimtiaz9668fair enough, but cleaning up nicely makes you look good and when u look good you feel good.

  • @vitu.biz_

    @vitu.biz_

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@qasimimtiaz9668what?

  • @jaydonadams1087
    @jaydonadams108710 ай бұрын

    i swear i can see the amount of confidence in this guys eyes

  • @TheRealNiko

    @TheRealNiko

    10 ай бұрын

    You mean the wrird lighting or contwcts or some shit?

  • @jaydonadams1087

    @jaydonadams1087

    10 ай бұрын

    @@TheRealNiko yeahh that

  • @noelnoni7310

    @noelnoni7310

    5 ай бұрын

    @@jaydonadams1087you’re just gay bro

  • @truegrit2011
    @truegrit201111 ай бұрын

    Its called, jealousy. Most men don't have the discipline to do what it takes to keep their bodies in shape and take care of themselves in general, so instead of getting off their asses and putting forth the effort, it's much easier for them to label you. It reinforces their lack of motivation. They lie to themselves and say I'm a real man because I look like 💩 and I don't care about my big belly and the way I dress. Meanwhile they want all the hot girls that look good and take care of themselves. And that works both ways with women as well who don't take care of themselves. If you're attracted to hot in shape men or women, you need to be in shape as well. That's just the reality of the situation.

  • @anthonycraig274

    @anthonycraig274

    5 ай бұрын

    Question is, how many unkept gay guys do you know? What is the percentage of women who looks after their appearance. Over grooming yourself is a feminine trait. It’s that simple.

  • @smartwater598

    @smartwater598

    4 ай бұрын

    You described every white men and indian boys who call kpop and handsome korean man gay

  • @truegrit2011

    @truegrit2011

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@smartwater598Can you please rephrase that? I'm not clear on what you're saying.

  • @smartwater598

    @smartwater598

    4 ай бұрын

    @@truegrit2011 many white men and indian men when they see Handsome pretty boys like korean kpop idols they call them gay and feminine

  • @GorgeousHotRat

    @GorgeousHotRat

    3 ай бұрын

    Nah it gay

  • @celistan6942
    @celistan694211 ай бұрын

    ‘Con of being a handsome man’ lmao he deadass suffering from success

  • @Osuwada

    @Osuwada

    11 ай бұрын

    It's a con if Women think you gay then they won't approach

  • @_ghost96

    @_ghost96

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Osuwadaor they think you got 349573 girls already in your phone when a nigga really just wants 1🤣🤣

  • @Meta_Meech

    @Meta_Meech

    10 ай бұрын

    Or being sexually harassed and assaulted by women you DONT find attractive and nobody at work does anything about it even though you reported it

  • @remekbrat

    @remekbrat

    8 ай бұрын

    This dude is a narcissist but he is a smart guy with knowledge just a total narc tho.

  • @steelymanfan7276

    @steelymanfan7276

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@remekbrathe's a narc but for some reason I don't feel intimidated or anything by him

  • @dhmtube4454
    @dhmtube445411 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 being handsome gets you hated by both teams 🥴😂

  • @HarshdeepSinghSingh-ii1ts

    @HarshdeepSinghSingh-ii1ts

    10 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @qiqiking9999

    @qiqiking9999

    10 ай бұрын

    True

  • @nealadams5696

    @nealadams5696

    10 ай бұрын

    Yeah exactly

  • @jamaludin5887

    @jamaludin5887

    10 ай бұрын

    No it’s not being handsome that’s good it’s the excessive grooming of image that is not attractive

  • @jamaludin5887

    @jamaludin5887

    10 ай бұрын

    @hishenmathurin2844 wait what are u Even saying At this point loser i said Excessive Grooming looks Gay get it thru your thick skull

  • @ShimaTristan22
    @ShimaTristan2211 ай бұрын

    Broooooooooooh this is too true. A gay brotha actually cold approached me, coz I look good. I had no idea how to feel about that except disrespected🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂🤣💀

  • @brycemorgan6708

    @brycemorgan6708

    6 ай бұрын

    No cap I was rushing fraternities at the University of Missouri I got signed with one. I dropped, waited till the next semester and rushed again. We went to this bar, called the social house, and because I was dressed up nicer than everybody else because I care about how I look. I had an Asian gay dude pursuing me all night, and honestly was the worst feeling I’ve ever ever had and I kind of understand how women feel when a creep pursues them now it’s not fun

  • @therealjackieheezy

    @therealjackieheezy

    5 ай бұрын

    it’s actually probably cuz you look gay tho

  • @mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940

    @mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940

    5 ай бұрын

    @@brycemorgan6708imagine having this happen all the time 🤢

  • @DrSTAHP
    @DrSTAHP5 ай бұрын

    People having this mindset is actually a very good thing. Think about it, more men taking care of themselves = more competition. By keeping them think the way they do, men who actually take care of their flaws gain a huge advantage.

  • @DeerayYoDaddy
    @DeerayYoDaddy11 ай бұрын

    Immense jealousy from other men . They always think they girl wants you.

  • @neymar.senior

    @neymar.senior

    11 ай бұрын

    This

  • @dorianlogan449

    @dorianlogan449

    11 ай бұрын

    Same, I passed out my Book mark to this girl who happens to have a insecure boyfriend who got mad and called my number😂

  • @Dafaq

    @Dafaq

    10 ай бұрын

    That's why u play hard to get

  • @BQ900

    @BQ900

    10 ай бұрын

    That’s the deal! Some of my married friends would 100% leave their husbands if my husband would give them the time of day. He just has an issue with how they dress and act.

  • @Changemymind1

    @Changemymind1

    7 ай бұрын

    No lol

  • @SAGEEDITZ24
    @SAGEEDITZ2411 ай бұрын

    The #1 Con for being a handsome man, is that gay men try to hit you up a lot.

  • @Thepoloman83

    @Thepoloman83

    11 ай бұрын

    This happens to a lot of guys. I think we all can attest to that.

  • @Ideadlift1234plates

    @Ideadlift1234plates

    11 ай бұрын

    I think this is also dependent on how prevalent the whole alphabet mafia is in your country.

  • @adivaswinea5890

    @adivaswinea5890

    11 ай бұрын

    My husband hates this. Big reason why he can't stand being around gay men. Gay women he's cool with buy gay men is a no for him

  • @Thepoloman83

    @Thepoloman83

    11 ай бұрын

    @@adivaswinea5890 that's because gay women like women. Gay guys like guys, so of course they're going to be attracted to and hit on your husband. Can't blame them for going after what they like. It is what is.

  • @IkesPimpHand

    @IkesPimpHand

    11 ай бұрын

    got molested,harassed amd stalked by gay men... I now onow they don't respect ANY boundaries.

  • @suleimanmalocanstveni2342
    @suleimanmalocanstveni23428 ай бұрын

    "Otherwise, I'll keep all the ladies to myself"💀

  • @whitneywilliams317
    @whitneywilliams3179 ай бұрын

    Depends. If you're handsome and don't sleep around, people will assume you're gay as well. I didn't sleep many women and sexuality was questioned many times, I always say I'm not like most guys, I don't have sex with any girl I see🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @offdalove

    @offdalove

    8 ай бұрын

    type shit 🗽

  • @kloklowewe4874

    @kloklowewe4874

    6 ай бұрын

    ”Im not like other guys”🤓

  • @Ban00

    @Ban00

    6 ай бұрын

    And your name is Whitney? I call bs

  • @whitneywilliams317

    @whitneywilliams317

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Ban00 you can bs all you please lol. Whitney Mercilus, Whitney Smith, Whitney North Seymour Sr and Whitney North Seymour Jr, Whitney Anderson, Whitney Johnson, these were all men. Congratulations 👏🏾, you don't have to BS on it anymore. Oh I forgot Whitney Young Sr and Whitney YoungJr. 😂. Whitney Houston got everyone fkd up thinking it's a girl name because of popularity. Lol

  • @KingLike8

    @KingLike8

    5 ай бұрын

    You feel me !!

  • @Musclemanjonah
    @Musclemanjonah11 ай бұрын

    I feel like when females call me gay based of my looks essentially it’s kinda like saying you think i look too good for you which also show’s insecurity

  • @Vinay-yy1yp

    @Vinay-yy1yp

    11 ай бұрын

    yo G I checked your page and your jacked why would women say that?

  • @Musclemanjonah

    @Musclemanjonah

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Vinay-yy1yp because I don’t be giving them any attention 🤣🤣 they assume that I must not like women if I don’t like them

  • @Vinay-yy1yp

    @Vinay-yy1yp

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Musclemanjonah You said they called you gay based off of your looks tho lmao I was just surprised as you look huge

  • @moneymakinmitch8130

    @moneymakinmitch8130

    11 ай бұрын

    Females call you gay fr ? 😂 that actually says a lot about them

  • @cryptocsguy9282

    @cryptocsguy9282

    11 ай бұрын

    @Musclemanjonah I agree , also please upload more vids , subed

  • @pinheadlarry3992
    @pinheadlarry399211 ай бұрын

    My #1 con is women being interested in me until i tell them i like them or tell them i've developed feelings. It's like women see you as some sort of object for a challenge and then once you like them they lose all interest and don't invest in you anymore.

  • @tegathemenace

    @tegathemenace

    11 ай бұрын

    Fun trick: stop telling them. Act aloof and go about your business as usual. With time they'll pop in the "what are we" question. The rest is in your hands. Just never be in a rush to get in a relationship, that's feminine.

  • @ch1bob

    @ch1bob

    11 ай бұрын

    @@tegathemenace dont tell them even when in a relationship?

  • @Shaddyraddy92

    @Shaddyraddy92

    11 ай бұрын

    True. Playing hard to get works😅

  • @LuisRodriguez-xg1sh

    @LuisRodriguez-xg1sh

    11 ай бұрын

    Well don't tell them dummy, just escalate things naturally, when you kiss it will be obvious to her you like her.

  • @nguyenbriton4263

    @nguyenbriton4263

    9 ай бұрын

    You should tell them that only when you first meet. If you act like friend at first, they gonna treat you like friend. Then wjen you say you like them they not gonna like you back....

  • @jongxina3595
    @jongxina35958 ай бұрын

    Another problem is sometimes women just keep touching me in public places! It is so creepy and they are strangers too!

  • @zidane8452

    @zidane8452

    4 ай бұрын

    "It is so creepy" sounds like a man who's afraid of women and get none

  • @mugenryukyu199
    @mugenryukyu19911 ай бұрын

    The story of my life. I had men & women calling me gay because im attractive since i was in HS. Used to make me feel bad but now idgaf i can have any woman i want

  • @TREY_CHAMBERS_95

    @TREY_CHAMBERS_95

    7 ай бұрын

    @mugenryukyu199 if you can have any women you want you must be ugly because most black females strongly hate handsome black men and Im speaking for my experience

  • @JayPrinceReacts
    @JayPrinceReacts11 ай бұрын

    Alright so all of sudden we all in the comments some handsome muhfuggas 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I ain’t mad at it

  • @samtonnude941

    @samtonnude941

    10 ай бұрын

    There's a lot of good looking people nowadays out there but Austin is supermodel level.

  • @samtonnude941

    @samtonnude941

    10 ай бұрын

    Austin supermodel looks are rare, in the 10% of looks.

  • @williamhughey6875
    @williamhughey68757 ай бұрын

    SOCIETY AND WOMEN PLAY DOWN THE IMPORTANCE OF MENS GOOD LOOKS AND DO NOT COMPLIMENT MEN. WOMEN DO NOT WANT MEN TO KNOW THEIR WORTH AND SEX APPEAL. YOU REALLY NAILED THIS ONE MY BROTHER!!!!!!!

  • @N4divers
    @N4divers11 ай бұрын

    Ironically another con is when you turn down women they'll call you gay and I think that is a coping mechanism as well. I had a girl friend that I had turned down for sex years prior actually tell my then girlfriend that she thought I was gay. It put a dent in our relationship because then my girlfriend was upset with her and then came at me.

  • @VivaLaFamous
    @VivaLaFamous11 ай бұрын

    Bro FACTS!!! & from reading the comments I can see that a lot of y’all brothers can relate. DUSTY ASS B****** & DUSTY ASS N***** are quick to call someone gay. It’s nothing but insecurities and confidence issues.

  • @nostalgicbliss5547

    @nostalgicbliss5547

    11 ай бұрын

    Or just laziness and a lack of self respect for not taking care of themselves

  • @carlosmorris4510

    @carlosmorris4510

    7 ай бұрын

    What?!... You gay A$$...!! 🤯 Just kidding - lol! 😅

  • @Gabriel-to5gd

    @Gabriel-to5gd

    6 ай бұрын

    Yo calm yo gay ass down

  • @handsomeX

    @handsomeX

    6 ай бұрын

    Facts bro 💯 🎯

  • @johnnyhandsome3424
    @johnnyhandsome342411 ай бұрын

    There’s a difference between being metrosexual and being handsome. I don’t think anyone asks Chris Hemsworth if he swings for the other team. He looks handsome AND masculine. You might be missing the masculine vibe so you start looking suspect.

  • @tyronethesungod4606

    @tyronethesungod4606

    11 ай бұрын

    This is what I said it your mannerism that make people think you gay brah not your physicality . Their nowaya woman looking at a broad shouldered Tyrone with height and say he’s a fruit lol.

  • @Sumoboi1

    @Sumoboi1

    11 ай бұрын

    yeah hes coping hard

  • @tbjb009

    @tbjb009

    11 ай бұрын

    Thats the answer i was looking for!!!

  • @brudderstyles3479

    @brudderstyles3479

    11 ай бұрын

    Well his style is a little suspect, and mindset is superficial

  • @kwameadu0075

    @kwameadu0075

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!!! I said the same thing in my comment.

  • @LowkeySnappin
    @LowkeySnappin9 ай бұрын

    It’s crazy how people thing handsome men don’t have struggles 💯

  • @ramsesrhodes6241
    @ramsesrhodes62416 ай бұрын

    I hate the attention, and because I’m an introvert when people see they want to be friend and talk too much, they also touch me a lot

  • @JoseGarcia-lf4gx
    @JoseGarcia-lf4gx11 ай бұрын

    bro what !!! facts af !!! i care about how i look always. i groom , brush my teeth. clean up my eye brows from time to time. i dress good and men be hating on me bro. like damn. sorry i make you insecure , you just mad cuz yo chick looking at me

  • @avalencia67

    @avalencia67

    11 ай бұрын

    I agree! The same guys that try to make fun of a guy for taking care of himself, dressing nice and thinking “he’s gay” are the same ones paying for an OF subscription because the “gay ones” are the ones actually pulling in the hot girls that those other guys wish they had, but won’t put in the work to look good & pull her

  • @lilmanq7746

    @lilmanq7746

    11 ай бұрын

    Why do u feel the need to do all that shit? U think Spartans back in the day would clean their eyebrows from Time to time?

  • @JoseGarcia-lf4gx

    @JoseGarcia-lf4gx

    11 ай бұрын

    @@avalencia67 exactly bro. like fuck all that . men make fun of me to make themselves feel better. and mind you im only 5’6 and im slaying these girls

  • @Thatdude-tp7xs

    @Thatdude-tp7xs

    11 ай бұрын

    You shouldnt be doing your eyebrows unless you have a unibrow everything else is on point

  • @big8foe440

    @big8foe440

    11 ай бұрын

    Or the chick THEY want is looking at YOU. Then they'll try to openly disrespect you. THATS WHEN YOU GOTTA BURN THAT ASS 🤣🤣🤣

  • @christopherdaniels1825
    @christopherdaniels182511 ай бұрын

    Women know you are out of their reach. So they try to shame you. Men know they are not even in the same league to compete.

  • @stevendalloesingh1214

    @stevendalloesingh1214

    11 ай бұрын

    This is true!

  • @yasmino6387

    @yasmino6387

    10 ай бұрын

    Umm, no. People are just stating what they see.

  • @desolate1907

    @desolate1907

    10 ай бұрын

    True

  • @desolate1907

    @desolate1907

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@yasmino6387No, he's right

  • @LowkeySnappin

    @LowkeySnappin

    9 ай бұрын

    Real

  • @Am13x154
    @Am13x15411 ай бұрын

    Dress in Nike tracksuits ain’t no one thinking your gay

  • @paragkadam2169
    @paragkadam21699 ай бұрын

    Some women do that because they can't match his aesthetics and try to bring them down

  • @JoeMacStevens
    @JoeMacStevens11 ай бұрын

    I really needed to hear this. Thanks my brother. 👊🏾

  • @inverso-reverso8612

    @inverso-reverso8612

    7 ай бұрын

    @@paulwilliams90dark web

  • @MAKSlU

    @MAKSlU

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@paulwilliams90botted subs thst he lost probably

  • @Luke-kc9li
    @Luke-kc9li11 ай бұрын

    You can be handsome without looking gay. It’s probably the earrings and the way you dress that makes people assume you’re gay

  • @kwameadu0075

    @kwameadu0075

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!! I said the same thing

  • @sifisosteven

    @sifisosteven

    9 ай бұрын

    That's a lie. It's all about jealous.

  • @jayservices9692

    @jayservices9692

    7 ай бұрын

    Nah it’s just the earrings. This guy has some dope ass outfits respectfully.

  • @vicljr8533

    @vicljr8533

    7 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @belak1551
    @belak15519 ай бұрын

    It’s the same way that being seen as “smart” or “Intelligent” makes you not “cool.” Disregard the masses. They’re headed towards their own end.

  • @jagpalsidhu4798
    @jagpalsidhu47987 ай бұрын

    Facts man. So many girls including exes would say this sorta stuff to shit test me.

  • @cryptocsguy9282
    @cryptocsguy928211 ай бұрын

    Everything he's saying here is absolutely 1000% true. Just go to any store and look how many skincare products there are aimed at women vs how many are aimed at men. As for those women who think a guy is gay for taking care of his looks , I've noticed that some are very insecure because a good looking guy might look better than them by doing all their grooming routines minus makeup , nails , heels and dresses/skirts

  • @Changemymind1

    @Changemymind1

    7 ай бұрын

    Because that's what GIRLs do 😂

  • @jayservices9692

    @jayservices9692

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Changemymind1nah that’s what attractive people that put effort into their appearance do. You can be masculine and care about your look. To some women caring about your looks makes you more attractive.

  • @TheOriginalBillyYO
    @TheOriginalBillyYO11 ай бұрын

    It’s annoying when I actually like a chick and she tells me it seems like all I wanna do is fk…. Yea great

  • @ch1bob

    @ch1bob

    11 ай бұрын

    !! always

  • @bradley5973
    @bradley59739 ай бұрын

    Im 6'8 and ripped and dress well and have charisma , Women always tell me "do you say that to all the women " 🤣😂Women seem to get defensive with me and think i just wanna hit it , i mean i do but if shes cool and not a headache we can date

  • @greatslavia9662

    @greatslavia9662

    8 ай бұрын

    Bro it's just a shit test,they be testing you to see if you pass based on your reaction,just be chill and joke about it like "Yeah I do but only to the pretty ones" or something like that

  • @brennanlettucetomato
    @brennanlettucetomato7 ай бұрын

    Relatable, happens pretty often.

  • @brickblobima1585
    @brickblobima158511 ай бұрын

    This society is honestly full of insecure people genuinely

  • @TowerofAboveandBelow

    @TowerofAboveandBelow

    8 ай бұрын

    Extremely. Walk into a room and half the people there feel threatened by you in some way.

  • @handsomeX

    @handsomeX

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@TowerofAboveandBelow💯🎯

  • @rogerbennett9598
    @rogerbennett959811 ай бұрын

    Well I’m older than you guys back in the day they called us metrosexuals 😂

  • @johnhernandez1235

    @johnhernandez1235

    11 ай бұрын

    Not too long ago lol

  • @leoneltorres4442

    @leoneltorres4442

    11 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tcggggg

    @tcggggg

    11 ай бұрын

    I just searched that term up. Damn, thats literally the standard now

  • @kamilmusalat

    @kamilmusalat

    11 ай бұрын

    I remember that lol either gay or metro , so nothing really has changed

  • @precieux6303

    @precieux6303

    11 ай бұрын

    "METROOO"

  • @aaronyeager6778
    @aaronyeager677811 ай бұрын

    As a handsome man. I agree with this. This has happened to me once with these girls I used to work with they asked me that question & when I asked why they said it’s because my appearance & I never hit on them. Mainly because those girls were not cute lol

  • @njpme

    @njpme

    8 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @CardinalsFanBoy
    @CardinalsFanBoy10 ай бұрын

    Max respect bro! I could never maintain a clean cut beard like that! Homie got me feeling gay! I'm just trying to look nice! 😂

  • @ironyouth3384
    @ironyouth33845 ай бұрын

    I’ve had other dudes tell me that getting my hair cut every two weeks and wearing cologne is feminine energy. The copium is real with these mediocre fools.

  • @zohebpasha96
    @zohebpasha9611 ай бұрын

    I'm proud of my friends that look after themselves.

  • @user-cg5ev6mg2d
    @user-cg5ev6mg2d11 ай бұрын

    Since Junior high,now I'm 55, nothing changed.....

  • @user-pl9wu1xy3m

    @user-pl9wu1xy3m

    8 ай бұрын

    Are you Gay though?

  • @user-cg5ev6mg2d

    @user-cg5ev6mg2d

    8 ай бұрын

    @@user-pl9wu1xy3m no I Am not Gay,

  • @rond5379
    @rond53799 ай бұрын

    They also use this tactic when it comes to mental masculinity. When a man has standards, goals and boundaries, women in particular, like to call them gay because they can't have their way.😅

  • @offdalove

    @offdalove

    8 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @complexsoulthegreat
    @complexsoulthegreat7 ай бұрын

    It’s more women who think this than men. Most men can tell a gay man from a straight man from his body language down to the way he talks, walks, and gestures. If he’s dressing unusually over the top then yes one might suspect he’s gay but that can be debunked very quickly from a man just by watching dudes movements and interactions. All of this can be deciphered by a man in under 60 seconds from being around a dude. I think most women are too surface-level thinking to catch some of these things. That's why you'll have women in relationships with gay men and never know. Most dudes can spot a gay dude on sight and it ain't what he's wearing 90% of the time it's his subtle behavior and undertones. Nonetheless, great content keep doing the work. Peace to you brotha.

  • @youdontknowme2675
    @youdontknowme267511 ай бұрын

    I stay on my appearance and grooming etc. nobody has ever said I’m gay or whatever women love it. It’s probably some guys mannerisms and them tight ass clothes they wear that make them think that way

  • @MGBlue323

    @MGBlue323

    10 ай бұрын

    I agree the masculinity is somehow not really there.

  • @stayfresh06

    @stayfresh06

    9 ай бұрын

    Definitely the tight ass clothes

  • @thezone193
    @thezone19311 ай бұрын

    I've had the same thing happen to me. I'm known at my workplace for getting my haircut everyday, always smelling great, grooming eyebrows and taking care of my skin, etc. Numerous times people have told me others have asked behind my back if I'm gay or bi. I'm don't rate myself that highly either, but it's always an interesting phenomenon.

  • @Lavir391

    @Lavir391

    11 ай бұрын

    Haircut everyday they probably think you’re stupid

  • @user-yo6ri4oz7q
    @user-yo6ri4oz7q7 ай бұрын

    Taking care of yourself makes you even attractive to the gay culture. No cap

  • @neverdeadjustasleep7
    @neverdeadjustasleep710 ай бұрын

    I had a fling that once told me years ago (when I was starting my self-improvement phase), “It’s not gay to wanna look good and take care of yourself”.

  • @Fuil422
    @Fuil42211 ай бұрын

    Bro I take care of myself and people in school assume I’m gay like bruh 💀

  • @moneymakinmitch8130

    @moneymakinmitch8130

    11 ай бұрын

    prove them wrong, take all their women

  • @michealdominic7788

    @michealdominic7788

    11 ай бұрын

    @@moneymakinmitch8130W ass advice damn 🤝

  • @lu1zh16

    @lu1zh16

    8 ай бұрын

    U can still be gay with woman

  • @trafficmanmedia
    @trafficmanmedia11 ай бұрын

    I used to be super diligent about my grooming and fashion. I caught the vibe that people thought I was gay so I toned it down but this is the sign I needed to bump it back up YESSIR

  • @StarsAreBright
    @StarsAreBright10 ай бұрын

    Bro I'm the ugliest guy on the planet and people STILL call me gay even tho I LITERALLY HAVE A GF AND I'M UGLY 💀💀

  • @SwagMan-40.000

    @SwagMan-40.000

    8 ай бұрын

    lol

  • @lunistylz587

    @lunistylz587

    4 ай бұрын

    Your not ugly if you have a girlfriend unless your betabuxxing

  • @StarsAreBright

    @StarsAreBright

    4 ай бұрын

    @lunistylz587 my gf loves me for my personality and ik she lies when she says I'm beautiful inside and out when I know my outside beauty doesn't exist

  • @LowkeySnappin
    @LowkeySnappin9 ай бұрын

    Yooooo this is tooo real I walk around with a mean mug because of it I still get hella Hoes With a mean mug 😂😂😂

  • @LiamGray-yf4yu

    @LiamGray-yf4yu

    8 ай бұрын

    Why don’t I believe you 🤔

  • @jaydenjones2608
    @jaydenjones260811 ай бұрын

    HAD GIRLS AT WORK THOUGHT I WAS GAY BCZ I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF AND DRESS NICELY AND DON'T TRY TO TALK TO ANY OF THEM.

  • @fedfed96

    @fedfed96

    11 ай бұрын

    Always happens. It's the 'no talking' part, that hits the most tho

  • @JK-nj3bt

    @JK-nj3bt

    11 ай бұрын

    @@fedfed96 only if i knew what to say...

  • @Smartwurk

    @Smartwurk

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@JK-nj3btjust say whats up they will do the rest .

  • @JK-nj3bt

    @JK-nj3bt

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Smartwurk that's a lame line

  • @Smartwurk

    @Smartwurk

    11 ай бұрын

    @@JK-nj3bt if your really handsome that's all you need . *Kichow*

  • @Tjay343__.
    @Tjay343__.11 ай бұрын

    A few women at my new job thought I was gay bc I always dress formally ,wear jewelry and no baggy clothes and groom myself properly and wear cologne 😂

  • @Ziggyhere57

    @Ziggyhere57

    11 ай бұрын

    They want pookie over chad type damn if it ain't pookie it y'all 😂

  • @lehlohonolomaimela8584

    @lehlohonolomaimela8584

    11 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @gregpettis1113

    @gregpettis1113

    10 ай бұрын

    So your coworkers want someone who smell like dookie 😅

  • @mbusombuso9119
    @mbusombuso911911 ай бұрын

    Otherwise I'll keep all the ladies to myself was brutal💀

  • @Blue_ocean66
    @Blue_ocean667 ай бұрын

    They think you are gay because of the lustful look in your eyes when you get around male models. Body language and non verbal communication is very difficult to hide.

  • @coldtaurus
    @coldtaurus11 ай бұрын

    this is suprisingly true even tho im not all that people still think im gay asf

  • @eb2708

    @eb2708

    11 ай бұрын

    Dawg maybe u just act gay asf

  • @p3aoh161
    @p3aoh16111 ай бұрын

    Facts I hear this 24/7

  • @drajackson5131
    @drajackson513111 ай бұрын

    He ain’t lying at all but when someone looks beat down or unkept it’s all good and gravy for most ppl

  • @jamesleckie1000
    @jamesleckie10008 ай бұрын

    Literally get this all the time

  • @ryancallaghan9782
    @ryancallaghan978211 ай бұрын

    Bro what is up with all these gay posts lately??

  • @veenavyas703
    @veenavyas7038 ай бұрын

    My #1 con is that women will stare at you all the time like creeps and its annoying

  • @dillonstowe7317
    @dillonstowe73178 ай бұрын

    Facts, People always be saying I am gay just because I take care of my skin and style

  • @Dropdead810
    @Dropdead8108 ай бұрын

    This is absolute facts. Lots of men walk around like dirt balls and they claim it’s more masculine. lol. Hilarious

  • @dakotahall5634
    @dakotahall56348 ай бұрын

    That’s so factual like I take care of myself and my ex’s whole family thought I was “a bit fruity”😐😐

  • @ThePrincekid
    @ThePrincekid11 ай бұрын

    Yup, I had a lady ask another guy if I was gay all Bacause I'm well grown, I have muscles and I wear fitted clothing

  • @yasmino6387

    @yasmino6387

    10 ай бұрын

    Its the fitted cloths.

  • @xxxultranoobshadowmasterxxx
    @xxxultranoobshadowmasterxxx8 ай бұрын

    "This is the #1 con to being a man, people will think you're gay, so that's why you shouldn't be afraid to put effort into your appearance"

  • @ikesidea
    @ikesidea10 ай бұрын

    Suffering from success

  • @luxnetic3590
    @luxnetic359011 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 that beginning was funny af

  • @Fixed4Philly
    @Fixed4Philly11 ай бұрын

    I’m fine with it. Bc then men don’t feel like they have to compete against me, leaving me alone and/or giving me non competitive attention, often to women. The women then look at me more closely trying to figure out if I am or not. Once she realizes I’m not, she’s still been giving me lots of her attention. Then lots of times starts liking me. Then from that point it’s my situation to fuck up lol.

  • @johnxywu
    @johnxywu11 ай бұрын

    True…… this one hit HARD I’ve been assuming to be gay since high school just because I’ve taken extra steps towards my overall appearance

  • @ATLDASH
    @ATLDASH5 ай бұрын

    Facts bruh🔥❤️‍🔥💯I swear to god. The older I get, the less I give af. Dope content btw. Keep grinding.

  • @Ali_Saracen
    @Ali_Saracen11 ай бұрын

    That's actually completly true

  • @BenVattes
    @BenVattes11 ай бұрын

    Women do it more. It’s like they use it to test your masculinity.

  • @TowerofAboveandBelow

    @TowerofAboveandBelow

    8 ай бұрын

    Men do it more. They pretty much all feel threatened by it. Especially after seeing women noticing you, socializing with you.

  • @jayservices9692

    @jayservices9692

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah not just that they also do it to try to get you to discourage you from looking so good since they like you and don’t want other women trying to get you as well.

  • @sproles88
    @sproles8810 ай бұрын

    Its your style and how tightly fitted you wear your clothes. Wear more black and neutral colors then find shirts that are tight in the chest and shoulders but loose in the stomach area and dont wear skin tight pants find some that are fitted in the thigh but sort of lose near the calves

  • @ivyzgamingmagicchess3478
    @ivyzgamingmagicchess34787 ай бұрын

    actually its harder to get serious relationships compare to a 3 in my experience. woman always question my loyalty its hard to keep on validating them tho

  • @eleazar_medellin
    @eleazar_medellin11 ай бұрын

    Only men call another man gay that isn't gay because they don't want to imagine that guy running through their lady.

  • @johnpanny869
    @johnpanny86911 ай бұрын

    Bro facts

  • @TreaJaylen
    @TreaJaylen10 ай бұрын

    I’ve honestly gotten this a fair amount, which I never understood.

  • @codiwebb6145
    @codiwebb61459 ай бұрын

    Lol… true too. Gosh, my buddy has a wife and some kids. He looks half gay and I’m just like fuck, people probably think we’re lovers. But I wouldn’t roll with anyone else. Good stuff bro,

  • @AJVP_07
    @AJVP_0710 ай бұрын

    Bros got a godly jawline 💪🏼

  • @Madcomplex
    @Madcomplex8 ай бұрын

    This is true. It happened to me in high school. Girl in choir thought I was gay because I was very good at talking with people, had the Justin Bieber cut (2010s), and I just acted hot and cold. I laughed and told her I wasn't gay. We got into the serious talk (NSFW), and she gave me the puppy dog eyes soon after. Needless to say, the after-school special left me breathless. Didn't stop there. When I got to school the next day, it turned out she told all the females in choir class, they told their friends, after school practice I realized every single female was staring at me with the puppy dog eyes. I had a "busy" junior year.

  • @offdalove

    @offdalove

    8 ай бұрын

    Damn that crazy G same shit basically happened to me 😂

  • @Madcomplex

    @Madcomplex

    8 ай бұрын

    @@offdalove Vatos Locos for life

  • @greatslavia9662

    @greatslavia9662

    8 ай бұрын

    Damn bro W

  • @eulehund99

    @eulehund99

    8 ай бұрын

    It was believable till the first paragraph. I don't know chief but I have doubts about the rest. If it's true, big W. If not, eh whatever.

  • @Madcomplex

    @Madcomplex

    8 ай бұрын

    @eulehund99 Its ok if you don't believe me. Not every day you get to be the "he's just a friend" guy.

  • @our_universe_16
    @our_universe_166 ай бұрын

    There is a difference between being gay and taking care of yourself ✌️

  • @xvuniverze
    @xvuniverze7 ай бұрын

    Some man just be jealous of what a boy becoming a top 1% man can look like, so they just call you gay to try and stop the streak we all be making as men. If you are reading this, never stop improving yourself.

  • @alfredopasta8642
    @alfredopasta864211 ай бұрын

    Yup back in school when money and status didn’t matter ohh boiii I remember a girl even telling me I can’t go out with you cause you’re too handsome. Yea well 10 years later no money no status damn even my hair fall out but who cares…. Fellow males master your mind before bothering with your appearance 💪🏼👌🏼

  • @gregpettis1113

    @gregpettis1113

    10 ай бұрын

    Too handsome? That doesn't make sense

  • @samtonnude941

    @samtonnude941

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@gregpettis1113It does, it makes the girl have low self esteem if you way more attractive than she perceives herself to be.she deems herself as unworthy

  • @greenmanvr7125
    @greenmanvr71258 ай бұрын

    Bro this is so true

  • @flexx7611
    @flexx76116 ай бұрын

    Telling people you are gay without telling people you are gay.

  • @brandnew9834
    @brandnew98345 ай бұрын

    Facts. Either that or they assume you think that you’re better than everyone.

  • @aryavart296
    @aryavart2968 ай бұрын

    We also call these narcissism shorts

  • @okayguy951

    @okayguy951

    7 ай бұрын

    Cope

  • @malakai7087
    @malakai708711 ай бұрын

    Bruh I'm 17 and started taking care of myself early and these girls in my class thought I was gay 💀

  • @Bryte_101

    @Bryte_101

    11 ай бұрын

    brutality💀

  • @andywangatshifhango4204
    @andywangatshifhango42046 ай бұрын

    Damn, no wonder some of my female friends thought I was gay🗿

  • @snipe4768
    @snipe476810 ай бұрын

    Bro got called gay on COD and made this video

  • @tbjb009
    @tbjb00911 ай бұрын

    Bruh, people will only think youre gay only if you give off them vibes. I take extreme care of myself and have been told i am handsome by women of all cultures and not once i been told i give off gay vibes, maybe you just arent masculine enough and focus too much on your looks.... So if people think you're gay, well youre probably "quacking" pretty loud Daffy 😂 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @geekiepooh808

    @geekiepooh808

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah. Its that pretty/timid look that people think you're not capable to display aggression or get down and dirty.

  • @kwameadu0075

    @kwameadu0075

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!! There are plenty of men that women consider extremely handsome that they would never peg as gay.

  • @BihFaca11
    @BihFaca1111 ай бұрын

    I work in a pharmaceutical industry, we produce contact lenses. I work with people from 40 + ethnicities, women especially older women often asking me where is my girlfriend. When will i get married, oh you smell good. "He has a lot of girlfriends, he a player" Guys refer to me as "what's up player" " You the man" Now i just embrace it and go along with it, even tho i don't talk about my personal life i just say someone gotta be a player.

  • @tegathemenace

    @tegathemenace

    11 ай бұрын

    I also go along with it, no imposter syndrome in this side.😂🤙

  • @bitcoins4489

    @bitcoins4489

    11 ай бұрын

    Same situation bro 😂

  • @BrentFXvideos
    @BrentFXvideos10 ай бұрын

    I agree. When I go out looking put together guys hit on me and think I'm gay lol. But it also makes more women talk to me.

  • @jflhr
    @jflhr11 ай бұрын

    Hahaha damn when you brought the "gay" thing it cracked me up😂 that happened to me not long ago. In my job a guy asked me if I was gay and he told me that a few people though I was gay because I was always clean, well groomed, and because of my style( wearing well fitted clothes) and always wearing fragrance. Even a girls were part of those few that though it.

  • @arifsheikh3159
    @arifsheikh315911 ай бұрын

    That's true and it's pure jealousy 🐱

  • @25-8
    @25-811 ай бұрын

    Ong bro tired of this con it sucks more especially when u are a introvert minding your own business and ppl don't leave u alone smdh girls be expecting u to chase and dudes don't start coming up to u or hating u

  • @stevendalloesingh1214

    @stevendalloesingh1214

    11 ай бұрын

    The eye contact from women expecting me to chase, bro! Its insane!

  • @25-8

    @25-8

    11 ай бұрын

    @@stevendalloesingh1214 man I'm flattered but same time they put u in position to be making a fool in front of everyon b 😂

  • @stevendalloesingh1214

    @stevendalloesingh1214

    11 ай бұрын

    @@25-8 you took the words right out of my mouth. I've had some terrible crashes when I approached first. I love women, but it's in their DNA to shit test us as soon as possible. Hehe

  • @veenavyas703

    @veenavyas703

    8 ай бұрын

    @@25-8 bro it's so much true, a really beautiful girl in my class always stares at me and asks her friends to see if I stare back at her or not Once I heard from one of her friends “he isn't seeing you ” I saw many girls change their path and trying to be around me expecting me to approach them and I just don't give a fuck and leave😭😂

  • @ZEditz431
    @ZEditz4318 ай бұрын

    Bro is the most straight person i've seen in my life 🗿🍷